Since the motivation behind this podcast is to chronicle the relationship that I have with my mother and share in the frustrations and pain women go through from being unmothered, I thought I should update you on where we are. My mother and I have a long way to go but we are more communicative than ever before. She texts daily and I respond. That may not seem like much to some people but it is huge to me. In this episode, i share some of the things that have been going on with us, specifically t...
Sep 24, 2019•11 min•Season 1Ep. 18
This week’s episode discusses 3 reasons it’s okay to take a break if you’re not feeling inspired. We all experience times in which creativity doesn’t flow. Sometimes we’re just flat out unmotivated. Other times we are emotionally drained and physically spent and need a mental health day. Or five. No worries. Take the time you need and get back on track when you can. IG: @unmotheredandunbothered | @PreciousDetina | FG Group: The Unmothered abs Unbothered Group. Main background track produced by @...
Sep 15, 2019•15 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Does YOUR fear hold your CHILDREN back? Are they insecure about things you pointed out? Are they afraid to share things with you because they fear you may shoot them down? Parents often have the best intentions for their kids but do not realize that they may be projecting their own fears onto their children. On this episode of Unmothered + Unbothered, Precious Detina discusses this touchy subject and briefly talks about some of the things she sees as an educator. Main background track, Cold Mayb...
Aug 28, 2019•20 min•Season 1Ep. 16
The title is self explanatory. Have a great week!
Aug 12, 2019•7 min•Season 1Ep. 15
Precious Detina calls out people that want you to waddle in your mistakes and encourages you not to fall for it! Admit the mistake, apologize and move on. Outro music produced by @akilpratt on IG IG: Unmotheredandunbothered FB Group: The Unmothered and Unbothered Group Email: Unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com
Aug 11, 2019•9 min•Season 1Ep. 14
This episode hit very close to home as Precious takes a brief look at honesty and whether people use it as an excuse to be rude and hurtful. She also explains a surefire way to determine the difference.
Aug 10, 2019•7 min•Season 1Ep. 13
In this episode, Precious explains how wrong people are about her upon first interaction. She takes responsibility for the misconception but is unsure how to change it.
Aug 09, 2019•7 min•Season 1Ep. 12
My sis, Ginger or GeminiFlyii to most, has challenged me to release a 5 minute podcast for 5 days straight. CHALLENGE ACCEPTED! Being that my podcast is so specific in nature, I’ve decided to use these 5 minute episodes to share more about myself. This is the perfect way to engage a more diverse audience and allow a deeper dive into who Precious Detina really is! I’m going to start with the question I get the most! This will be interesting! Intro and Outro Produced by Akil Pratt. Follow him @aki...
Aug 07, 2019•11 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Follow along as Precious Detina tells the story of a friend who refuses to allow her mother-in-law to be the mother she never had. In this episode, Precious explains how it feels to experience a Mother-daughter relationship, even if it is not with your biological mother and what you could potentially miss out on if you fight it. She even dared to say that her friend NEEDED her MIL’s relationship whether she realized it or not. Although she is being a little pushy, her MIL’s heart is in the right...
Jul 19, 2019•15 min•Season 1Ep. 10
On this week’s episode, we discuss trauma triggers. Host, Precious Detina, tells us a funny yet relevant story about her own experience with a trauma trigger. It’s funny now but was a terrifying experience that left her wondering if she was overreacting or had she been triggered. Hit that play button to find out.
Jul 06, 2019•34 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Precious Detina is ready to tell her story. All of it. In order to do so, she will have to have some very uncomfortable conversations with those that may be a part of her story. In this episode, she explains that telling your truth does not betray others. Hiding or omitting your truth is not an option when seeking to be free. Your truth is your story and it never changes. Click the link to listen to her interview on the To Emerge Podcast, where she explains how she ended up on a Greyhound bus fr...
Jun 24, 2019•31 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Just because I'm carrying it doesn't mean its not heavy. Let that sink in. In this episode, Precious discusses the importance of not being presumptuous in assuming that people are okay. Just because people don't LOOK like they are carrying a heavy load does not mean they are not. Some people are barely making it: dragging their loads, switching hands, slinging it across their backs...but they are making it. Them being able to thrive does not minimize your wrongdoing in their lives. We must all a...
Jun 04, 2019•12 min•Season 1Ep. 7
This episode is a long time coming! SHE'S STILL YOUR MOTHER is a very damaging, dismissive and judgmental statement that so many are guilty of using. Most people do not mean much by it and simply say it because it seems like the right thing to say, while others truly believe that one should stick by their mother's side regardless of what she's done. This episode points out 3 things that everyone should know about this statement. Please listen with an open heart and mind so that true understandin...
Jun 04, 2019•27 min•Season 1Ep. 6
In this encouraging episode, Precious Detina speaks life into women that may feel they are less than, inadequate, or not worthy of the same blessings and benefits reaped upon women who were raised with their mothers. She implores them to know their worth and walk confidently into any room or situation they find themselves in because THEY BELONG THERE! IG: UnmotheredandUnbothered FB: Unmothered and Unbothered Apple | Google | Spotify Search: Unmothered + Unbothered
May 27, 2019•20 min•Season 1Ep. 5
This impromptu episode is all about showing love to great mothers. Precious had something on her heart and she wanted to share it with the wonderful mothers out there! Let us be the first to say -- Happy Mother's Day! IG: UnmotheredandUnbothered FB:Unmothered and Unbothered Apple | Google | Stitcher | Spotify Or Search: Unmothered + Unbothered on all platforms
May 09, 2019•16 min•Season 1Ep. 4
faux /fō/ adjective not genuine; fake or false In this episode, Precious discusses the 5 steps or processes she has gone through and is currently going through on the journey to forgiving her absent mother. There once was a time in which she thought she had forgiven her mother, however, she realized over the years that she still harbored ill feelings towards her. Her forgiveness had not been genuine. It was faux. Its time to get real! Intro and Outro Voice over: Selah11 via Fiverr.com Intro trac...
Apr 29, 2019•27 min•Season 1Ep. 3
This is a teaser for episode 2 Faux Forgiveness, where I describe the very moment I knew I had to forgive my mother or turn into a monster. Keep Up With Me: Facebook and Instagram - Unmothered and Unbothered | Podcast Platforms: Unmothered + Unbothered
Apr 28, 2019•12 min•Season 1Ep. 2
This inaugural episode is the first in a four part series that will Dare You to Strip and force you to be your authentic self. If you want to move from being emotionally depleted to being full of joy and contentment, GET NAKED! Expose yourself so you don’t have to worry about someone doing it for you. Keep Up With Me: Facebook and Instagram - Unmothered and Unbothered | Podcast Platforms: Unmothered + Unbothered
Apr 16, 2019•27 min•Season 1Ep. 1
In this trailer, Precious gives a brief explanation for why she feels its necessary to create a space for the unmothered women of the world and what she hopes to accomplish with the podcast. By committing to being transparent and taking the mask off, she hopes to build a community of women that will support one another and become a safe haven for so many that have nowhere to unmask. It's time to heal, forgive and thrive!
Apr 07, 2019•14 min
