J&J are back in the studio and it’s Jordana’s birthday eve! Before they jump right in, Jared shares a recent text exchange between him and a woman he dated years ago so Jordana can give her impartial opinion. Next, they read an email questioning why a neighbor gave his info and expressed interest if he never intended for anything to happen. The Awkward Sexual Encounter gets messy. Then, the second emailer is trying to get out of the “family zone” with her best friend’s brother. The episode ends ...
Sep 13, 2023•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 483
This Sunday Special has Jared heated! The episode starts with a “Petty or Prudent?” submission about an ex’s mom asking for her gift back. Then, a listener reaches out about a difficult choice: should she marry her boyfriend who could give her the life she wants, or should she give life a second go with her ex-husband? Jared and Jordana talk through the messy situation, including a message directly to one of the people involved–and it’s not the listener. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit m...
Sep 10, 2023•33 min•Ep. 482
Before solving dating again, J&J are catching up after a short break. Jordana gives the rundown of her week in Italia, and Jared talks about the big star he got to meet after his Netflix debut. The first emailer is debating whether they should use dating business cards to market themselves to potential singles. The Awkward Sexual Encounter gets too hot to handle. Then, the second emailer wonders what say she has in her boyfriend’s lack of involvement in his toddler’s life. The episode ends with ...
Sep 06, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 481
We’re ushering in September with a Sunday Special, and J&J are dubbing fall as the better season to be in the dating game. We know all too well that communication is a core element in dating successfully, and this episode focus on getting lost in translation. They play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about a misplaced passport. Then, a listener questions if she’s been doing dating all wrong after she called out a fizzled dating prospect, and he fired back. If it seems like they both ghosted, who'...
Sep 03, 2023•32 min•Ep. 480
Jared and Jordana are celebrating summer’s end with a Lightning Round episode, but first, Jordana has a surprise for Jared. Still reeling from his special’s Netflix debut, Jared shares his appreciation for the outpouring of support he’s received from all of you. Then, J&J get back to saving dating with a range of topics from sex talks and whether you should be dating at all to long-distance relationships and how to keep cultural differences from impacting your parents’ first impression. Learn mo...
Aug 30, 2023•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 479
Jared and Jordana are back for another Sunday Special, and this week, they’re starting with a round of “Petty or Prudent?” that pissed Jared off the more he thought about it. Next, an emailer asks if she should be worried about the past indiscretions of a guy she’s seeing. Can a cheater be reformed or is she at risk of the same fate? J&J discuss her worries, red flags, and how to address the elephant in the room. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aug 27, 2023•29 min•Ep. 478
J&J are back in the studio and, this week, they’re both on a high! Jordana is fresh off her biggest move to date and Jared is mere hours into his Netflix debut. The first emailer is questioning whether his ghosting habit got him banned from Hinge. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a case of mistaken identity. Then, our second emailer wants to start a family in the next few years, but her boyfriend is a few years younger and unsure of where he's at. Should a mismatch of timelines be an immedi...
Aug 23, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 477
Comedian and actress Sasheer Zamata joins J&J for this Sunday Special. She and Jared both released comedy specials this month, so they trade insights from the comic’s perspective. Then, Sasheer shares elements of her comedy background. Next, they play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about exes’ pics on dating apps, keeping gifts, and returning cards. Guest: Sasheer Zamata, @thesheertruth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aug 20, 2023•40 min•Ep. 476
This week, we’re talking big life moments professionally and personally! Jordana is officially a homeowner and moving into her new house. Meanwhile, Jared is showing up on Netflix streams worldwide. Then, our first email asks about etiquette in couples’ quarrels. Is it a red flag to curse at your SO in the heat of the moment? The Awkward Sexual Encounter will have you wary of nosy neighbors. Next, our second emailer needs clarity on whether she’s really met her match or if the little things are ...
Aug 16, 2023•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 475
This Sunday Special marks the start of a big week for the OKPs! We’re only a couple days away from Jared’s special release on Netflix. Plus, our new game has J&J reflecting what kind of person they become post-breakup. They jump into a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about giving your ex a joke gift. Then, a listener worries that her current situation is setting herself up for heartbreak. Should she call it quits while they're still having fun, or is it possible to avoid catching feelings? J&J disc...
Aug 13, 2023•33 min•Ep. 474
On this week’s episode, Jared and Jordana are clearing the air about age gaps. Is it only weird if the woman is older? After hearing from an “old soul” and another listener worried she’s a cougar-in-training, they share their take on the dating trope. Next, the Awkward Sexual Encounter leads J&J into a debate about intimacy. Then, one listener asks about a setup technique going around her inner circle. The episode ends in a round of “Thirsty or Nah?” about approaching someone at a library, routi...
Aug 09, 2023•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 473
It’s time for another Sunday Special, and Jared and Jordana are jumping right into our first round of “Petty or Prudent?” with a submission about selling your ex’s stuff. If your ex never came back for their belongings, at what point would it be OK to get rid of their stuff? Next, an American listener writes in about her current situation with an Australian SO. Where he’s from, they don’t DTR, but isn't the “talk” necessary to establish whether they're on the same page? J&J discuss what they wou...
Aug 06, 2023•28 min•Ep. 472
J&J are settling into a change of pace, whether it’s walking in the suburbs versus a city, or having to let go of their expectations for this summer. Jordana is moving again, but it’s not the big move, so she has another one coming. Meanwhile, Jared is easing into the last couple weeks before he enters the Netflix realm. Then, one listener had a deal breaker when her potential SO didn’t have her back. Was it too much to ask before they were in a relationship? The Awkward Sexual Encounter ends wi...
Aug 02, 2023•1 hr 25 min•Ep. 471
We’re getting serious about the future in today’s Sunday Special, but first, Jordana’s brother came up with a new game for the pod, “Petty or Prudent?” Then, a listener writes about the financial fear threatening a happy future with his girlfriend. He chose a career path that would afford a comfy life for his future family, while she chose to pursue her passion even though it doesn’t pay well. Will a future together come at his expense? Is it even OK to question this? J&J talk through both sides...
Jul 30, 2023•38 min•Ep. 470
J&J have a lot going on, but they’ll always make time to solve dating! Jared is beaming as we get closer to his upcoming Netflix special, and Jordana is caught in the throes of buying a home. Next, a listener needs help getting over a breakup from a loving relationship that just wouldn’t work. The Awkward Sexual Encounter comes as a shock. Another listener questions whether she’s being too sensitive about her boyfriend’s playful comments. Then, they finish with a round of Thirsty or Nah, present...
Jul 26, 2023•1 hr 31 min•Ep. 469
J&J are joined by Robyn Schall, comedian and host of the “Call Waiting” podcast, to talk about what it’s like to get feedback from your exes. She and Jared go way back to their early days of comedy, and Jordana admits to finding Robyn to be an enigma of positivity. Everyone has a raving review to share about her–even Robyn’s exes! They find out why she decided to call 4 exes on her podcast. Then, they listen in on Robyn’s call to an ex she had no contact with for 7 years. He’s credited with caus...
Jul 23, 2023•37 min•Ep. 468
Jared and Jordana are back with another episode, but first, Jared has big news! Then, J&J give their takes on the trending buzz around Keke Palmer and Jonah Hill’s respective relationships. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a rescue and a tip for a simpler way to dabble with BDSM at home. Next, we hear from a listener who just had another male coworker confess his feelings for her. Is it possible for straight, single men to befriend women without wanting more? The episode ends with a round o...
Jul 19, 2023•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 467
In this Sunday Special, J&J are joined by Dr. Drew, one of reality TV’s favorite experts and dating pioneers. They interview Dr. Drew about his expertise in both relationships and addiction, including how addictive tendencies can manifest in love and sex lives. Why are women more prone to love addiction, and what drives a sex addiction? Plus, Dr. Drew shares his theory on why more young men are dropping interest in dating. The episode ends with Jared, Jordana, and Dr. Drew lending advice to a li...
Jul 16, 2023•59 min•Ep. 466
This week, J&J are talking about how to be happy while single, an awkward first time hookup and how to get back into the dating world when you’ve never really had to be in it. Before diving into emails, Jared gets excited about summertime in NYC before the second half goes by, and Jordana recaps a Fourth of July weekend with the OG Betches. Then, we hear from a new listener that’s started questioning and comparing her single life. If everyone’s wondering why she’s still single, should she be doi...
Jul 12, 2023•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 465
We’re back for a Sunday Special, and J&J can’t believe it’s already July. Jared is waiting for the weather to be good enough to fit his summer vibe, and Jordana has a light month ahead. After talking about being late on the trends, they hop onto the topic of beige flags. Are they a TikTok trend, here to stay or just not necessary? Then, a listener early on in a relationship is concerned that his girlfriend’s constant asks for assurance and compliments are pushing him to be someone he’s not while...
Jul 09, 2023•27 min•Ep. 464
Jared and Jordana are back in the studio after wrapping the U Up? Live tour, and Jordana’s feeling sick. But, marriage is in sickness and in health, so her tale of a trip to the ER with Mike at her side highlights how different we become when one SO is sick and the other is playing caretaker. Then, after a former match's words got back to him, Jared disputes the real reason he unmatched. The first email comes from a listener who noticed past emailers might consider him a major red flag. He’s 37 ...
Jul 05, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 463
It’s time for another Sunday Special, and J&J are joined by sex expert, podcast host and author, Dr. Emily Morse to discuss her new book, “Smart Sex.” While learning more about her new book, Dr. Morse shares the nuances and negotiations of sex, along with how you and your partner can get what you want. Next, Jared and Jordana ask questions sent in by you about mismatched libidos, performance issues and navigating intimate conversations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoi...
Jul 02, 2023•52 min•Ep. 462
Jared and Jordana are back with another episode, and this week’s conversations have everything to do with age, sex and a special message for Nick Viall. Jordana asks Jared what’s his age limit for dating and hookups. Next, our first emailer wants to know if she’s in the wrong for turning down dates once she’s not sexually interested. Could she create a romantic connection and focus on sex later? The Awkward Sexual Encounter inspired a new career for Jared. Then, a new divorcé writes in wondering...
Jun 28, 2023•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 461
J&J kick this Sunday episode off with an update from a fan favorite SOS episode, so you’ll want to listen to “Husband or F*ck Off” from February 19th to get caught up! Our listener lets us know what happened with her dream job and her SO since we last spoke, and it was more than we could have imagined. Next, we get a deal reveal from a listener in Sweden. She hears from a past hookup annually, but he doesn’t make any moves. Does he want to sleep together again, or is this just a running joke wit...
Jun 25, 2023•42 min•Ep. 460
J&J are back in the studio and with summer wedding season in full swing, they’ve got some tips for all the single wedding-goers out there. Jared ended up at the “discards table” last weekend, and he tells us why he wears his discard-badge proudly. Next, we hear from a listener whose long-term boyfriend agreed to get engaged by the end of the year… but not knowing when her ring will come is driving her crazy. How long should you wait for him to finally propose? The Awkward Sexual Encounter is a c...
Jun 21, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 459
This week, J&J are joined by Betches’ favorite stylist (and Jordana’s BFF) Liza Lieberman for the Sunday Special. Before getting into your questions submitted via Instagram, they debate the influences of fashion on dating, and Liza shares lessons learned from her first date outfits worn at the start of her serious relationships. Next, they take on your questions ranging from first date outfits to hatfishing, whether Matchmaker Maria’s “Green Theory” really works and how comfortable you should be...
Jun 18, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 458
The U Up?: With Benefits subscription is getting a glow up! Go to subscribe.betches.com and sign up for the annual subscription before the end of July to lock in the promotional rate. (If you're already subscribed on Spotify, our old platform is getting phased out, so act fast and don't miss an episode!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jun 17, 2023•3 min
This week, J&J are decompressing after spending the past weekend at different weddings. They dish out their views on the perfect reception, Jordana confesses an embarrassing moment she had, and Jared feels the pressures of being a great brother and best man for his brother’s upcoming “I Do's.” Next, a listener writes in wondering how to save her relationship. It’s important to her boyfriend to have a partner that can keep up with his social justice interests, but if her heart isn’t in it, will t...
Jun 14, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 457
Jared and Jordana are back with another Sunday Special, and this week starts with an update from our 5/14 episode! A lawyer crushing on her colleague, but unsure if their differing sexualities, longtime friendship or distance between them would be issues, took their advice and reports back. Next, a listener reaches out with a deal reveal that’s still bothering her a month later. If everything seemed fine and they both want to be in a relationship, does that mean she was the problem? J&J discuss ...
Jun 11, 2023•29 min•Ep. 456
In this week’s episode, J&J are reflecting on how their realities fits into the lives of their loved ones. Jordana realizes her nieces and nephews will eventually learn she’s not “Auntie JoJo” to the public and, during a reunion with his high school lacrosse team, Jared noticed he was the only single, childless alum in attendance. Next, they catch up on new love languages and discuss a Bumble match using pop culture to vet her dates. The Awkward Sexual Encounter is a memory between college sweet...
Jun 07, 2023•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 455
