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this coming. It's it rips my heart apart because I just I can only put myself in her shoes and know how hard this must be for her. You know, that dream of we all have that dream of being in love and then we you know, find a partner and we have the fantasy of the perfect life, and then reality hit. Sometimes it's not what we thought it was going to be. And and today's today, we all got a big cold dose of reality. You know, things don't always turn out the way we planned. And I'm

very sad for her anyway. Alexi has just put out a statement in regards to the articles that have come out. I guess somebody somehow found the filing in the court system. I mean these people. I just don't know how people find I mean, who, who who goes out there digging and looking for these things. I can't even believe it. What what would what would inspire to go dig it around to see who's getting divorced or who's in trouble

or you know, who just got arrested. But I guess there's professionals that do that, and that's I guess how they keep their their you know, their news outlets alive. So this is a statement in response to the articles that are now out all over the internet Instagram about Todd filing for divorce. Alexia has said, I'm shocked and heartbroken that Todd has chosen to dissolve our marriage. I will take comfort in the fact that my friends and family will be by my side, supporting me during this

difficult time. I'm praying for better times ahead. Well, if anyone knows that Alexia will see better times ahead, it's me. I've been through the ringer. I've been through the ringer with her, She's been through the ringer with me. We've been through depths, divorces, marriages, TV shows, canceled TV shows, rebooted TV shows. Now we get to talk about it on our podcasts. If there's anything I know about Alexia,

she's strong, and she's a fighter and resilient. She's been through a lot and she always comes out on the other end shining. And I know that, you know, myself and the whole team at iHeartRadio and I are going to give her her space and when she's ready to talk about it, she will, because Alex is a sharer, and that's why she's on a reality show, because she knows how to share and be open and be raw and be real. You know, as much as I hurt for her and feel my god, oh god, I know

how this feels. I've been left and I've been the one to leave, and I know how hard it is when you if you leave or you're the one that's left, it's hard either way because you know you're hurting someone. And I don't know. I mean, I'm an EmPATH. I don't like to hurt people, and I certainly don't like to be hurt. And you know, I will always be here for her and give her support. You know, our

phones have been blowing up today. Mine's blowing up, you know, I've told people, don't text her, give her some time. You know, she needs to just be alone and figure it out because it's all just so new and so fresh and so shocking. And you know, I'm going to be there for her. I'm always there for her. I was there. You know. We used to work together. She had a magazine at a PR firm. We always worked together.

Then we ended up doing a TV show together. Then we were off the air for a few years, and you know, I was in a relationship of marriage and she was in a marriage. Her husband died and I got divorced. Then we dated and did our girl time and fun time together, and then I met somebody, and she met Todd, and she stayed with Todd, and that guy dumped me, and and then she was there for me when I had to lick my wounds. And now

you know, I was there when herman died. And now you know, I'm remarried, and now she's broken up with Todd. Like our life is just always together in this same circle. We always love each other, we always support each other, and you know, I'm going to be here for her no matter what. And I'm sure every buddy wants to support Alexia right now, because you know you've probably been there too. I'm sure all of us have been heartbroken at one point or another.

into things quite quickly. So when I was about twenty seven, I married my first husband after knowing him. I don't know, after two weeks he's like, I want to marry you. It was this Turkish guy from miss Stambul and he was super cute. He looked like Antonio Benderaz. All my friends said he could call him Antonio. And he was really fun, partied a little too much, way more than me, smoked a lot of cigarettes. I'm not a fan of cigarettes, but you know, I was like. My mother was like, oh,

you're twenty seven. You should just get married already. God, people are going to think something's wrong with you. She's the one that actually pushed me into the marriage. Like I don't really know him. I don't know if I really like him. His legs are super skinny, and she's like, just do it. So I did it and Lauren Behol On my wedding day, she comes into the bedroom like I was on my way to the courthouse. We were just going to go to the courthouse, and I had

like some ripped jeans and some TACKI platforms. It's like nineteen ninety one, one or two. I don't even remember what year it was. And it was actually right around I was April tenth. It was last Wednesday, and my dad calls me and he goes, oh, no, no, don't go to the courthouse. Come to our house. I'm gonna call a justice of the peace. I tell him that I don't have anything to wear. I hadn't planned on doing any of this. And my mother comes down with this

huge diamond and pearl necklace. Because she loved to buy and collect beautiful jewelry. She's like, oh, I've been saving this for your wedding day. I'm like, what are you talking about. You just brought that home a few months ago from the jewelry store. She's like, you better wear it. Are your wedding's going to be cursed? And I said, I'm not wearing it. He's wearing a linen yaeta and I can't wear that crazy necklace. It's going to look stupid. Besides,

we're in our living room at home. She's like, I cursed your wedding, and I curse you, and she locked herself in the bedroom after she told me to marry him. I didn't even see her on my wedding day. She locked herself up. Anyway, I should have known it was doomed because even the cake. His friend at the time went to Publix and bought a cake the cake fell over and split in half on the table, even before the nuptials started, so Mom wasn't there. The cake fell apart.

I don't know why. I was crying like crazy. I was very scared. I was scared. I was nervous. It was the unknown for me. Then he started crying. We were like two stupid kids, two bumbling idiots getting married. Anyway, that lasted not long, maybe about fourteen months. I went to Istanbul. I lived there a bit, and then I started getting nervous because he was very lazy. His family had a lot of money. He was very lazy, and I thought he's not gonna be able to take care

of me, and I can't have children with him. Like how, I'm a Capricorn. I'm very practical. So I was like, maybe I should go home and finish my schooling and then come back. So I said, listen, I want to finish my degree. I was studying to be a school teacher, and then I'll come back. Well, honey, I came back and he moved on, and then I would call him because I was hearing from him. And then one time a woman picked up the phone and was laughing on the other end of the phone and then hung up

on me. I couldn't believe it. I ran out of the bathroom and I was puking. I was so sick to my stomach. I couldn't believe this was happening. So that was the end of that one. I never even was able to reach him again. We had to do a divorce where you you know, you just you put an announcement in the newspaper because he lived in a Muslim country. So we did it like that, and then it was like, you know, it's like when they say, you say, I divorce you a divorce here two times

and then you're divorced. It was like one of those things. So that's how I got divorced the first time. Second time, I get married on the show with this really cute guy that you know had a catering company and he did a lot of the catering for the events at my company. He was always flirting with me, but I ignored him because I was always dating somebody and having a good time and just in attention because I was like, oh,

that's the catering dude. And then he opened a restaurant here and he's like, i'd really like to invite you, and so I decided to go, and sure enough that was the end of that. We stayed together. We ended up getting married, like I don't know, four months later.

That lasted not long, a couple of years. We were just totally mismatched, not you know, I was just totally like in this trajectory of work, work, work, work, work filmed my show, work, work, work filmed my show, and I had no time to be a wife or be good one it that and you know, communication breakdown. I wasn't being very nice to him. One day I came home and he was gone, and there was a letter on the bed and he had packed his stuff. He said, I'm going to France for a while, and you know,

I was shocked. I was like, wow, I can't really just got up and left like that. But I guess I pushed him to it. I was sad, you know. I waited a couple of months, begged him to come back. He came back. It just it wasn't going to work. He liked to go out till three four o'clock in the morning and I would stay home and he wasn't home.

And no one can live like that. You can't have a partner out partying, partying, and you're at home alone wondering were there and they're not even picking up the phone, so that you know that went awry, just like the other one. And then I had a client, a client that I hadn't seen in many years, but whenever I would see him, he would fly in from London. I opened his restaurant. We would talk for hours and hours at a time. He was married at the time, I was married at the time, but we had a very

good chemistry, like a mental chemistry. We connected very very well. And he's like starts. He would write send me an email. No, not an email, he would send me a text every New Year at midnight for five years straight. How are you. I'm thinking of you. I thought, that's really odd. So at the end of those five years, he's like, I'm coming to town. He sends me an email. I said, okay,

good for you. I was dating somebody and he's like, I really want to see him, like I'm busy, and then every day he just chased me, every day, I want to see I want see I want to see him. Finally, I was a little bit on the rocks with the person I was dating, and I decided to go out with him, and sure enough, you know, that was like a thirteen hour date. And then I said, you know, I don't want to see anymore. You don't even live here, and this is no good and I don't want any

more heartbreak in my life. But he hunted me, chased me down, and eventually moved to Miami and we moved in together and lived together for three and a half years, and it was tough. It got really toxic after. Like he was on good behavior the first two years, and that last year and a half just was He would pick fights constantly and there was too much drinking going on, and I was constantly trying to fix things and make it better, and you know, he always made me feel

like everything was my fault. So I was always you know, over pleasing, overcompensating. And you know, one day he's like, I think I need to move out. My daughter's unwell and I need to be with her. And I said, okay, well, you know, move close by. He goes, well, well, you know, we're we're going to still be together, but I'm just going to live here for a little while in an apartment. And I helped him find an apartment. I helped him

pick the furniture. I sent my handyman over and set everything up, and sure enough, he just communication just became less and less and less. And then one day I came home and the rest of his clothes were gone. I'm like, oh my god, everything's gone. Now. It was supposed to be just like a little here and then a little over and at my house, a little clothing and little clothing at his house, and we'll just keep it going from there and you know, get the daughter

situated and then he'd be back home. Oh that that really hit me hard. It hit me hard because it happened right around the same time my dad died, and I was just a broken, broken human being. So I know what these pains are like. And yeah, it's you know, I feel for Alexi. I know how hard all of this is when you're not you know, expecting things. And well, now you know, I spend a lot of time healing myself and praying, and I manifested a really great man.

I'm very happy, and you know, on my wedding anniversary is on Monday, three years and it's the greatest thing that ever happened to me. Like I know, that I'm not just in love with love. I know that this is a love for life this time around. That's all I got to say, Guys,