Zack and Josie welcome first-time guests Ed and Sarah to the podcast for a fun and unexpectedly relatable lifestyle origin story. What began as a promotional opportunity for Sarah—a former Playboy model—quickly turned into something they never saw coming when they unknowingly arrived at a lifestyle resort. After noticing some unusual interactions between guests, a kind older woman finally pulled them aside and explained exactly where they were…and what everyone was doing there. Rather than runni...
Jun 03, 2026•54 min•Ep. 70
Zack and Josie welcome first-time guests Brad and Jenni for a candid and engaging conversation about how their journey into the lifestyle began. What started as Jenni’s private enjoyment of erotica and audiobooks quietly transformed their connection—sparking a level of intimacy Brad couldn’t quite explain until curiosity led him to ask questions. From there, the couple began listening together, eventually discovering podcasts that encouraged deeper conversations—ones they had never had before. T...
May 20, 2026•1 hr•Ep. 69
Drew and Suzie are back for a wide-ranging conversation with Zack and Josie about fantasies—where they come from, how they evolve, and why they don’t always follow logic. Drawing from her experience as an erotica author, Suzie shares how deeply she engages with both her own fantasies and those of others, emphasizing that the most powerful turn-ons often center around connection, comfort, and undeniable chemistry. The group explores how compersion weaves its way into many of their fantasies, and ...
May 06, 2026•54 min•Ep. 68
Zack and Josie are back with Drew and Suzie—and this time, the conversation dives into the dynamics of new vs. repeat play . They kick things off with a bold question: what’s the perfect size? Josie and Suzie quickly find themselves in agreement—and their reasoning sets the tone for a fun, unfiltered conversation. From there, the conversation turns to what really drives desire. Zack says all he needs is mutual attraction, but Josie pushes back, arguing that context, energy, and connection play a...
Apr 22, 2026•57 min•Ep. 67
Zack and Josie are joined once again by Drew and Suzie as they unpack their first Bliss Cruise experience—while also explaining why they’ve come to jokingly refer to their Virgin Voyages trips as “Swinger Light.” From their first Bliss sailing—dubbed The Sexy Sampler Cruise —to comparing the overall vibe, they dive into the differences between the two cruise experiences. They break down everything from cost and crowd to how (and where) people express themselves, both subtly and unapologetically....
Apr 08, 2026•51 min•Ep. 66
Zack and Josie kick off a new chapter of Two Plus Two with a subtle shift in format before welcoming back fan-favorite guest co-hosts Drew and Suzie (formerly known as Luke and Rickie from Episode 41). Together, they dive into their pre–Bliss Cruise adventures in Fort Lauderdale—starting with their first visit to Trapeze and the high-energy hotel meet ‘n greet. From the moment they walk in, they break down what makes Trapeze unique: the electric dance floor, the layout, the vibe, and how the spa...
Mar 25, 2026•49 min•Ep. 65
In this episode, the Two Plus Two crew dives into a topic that can quietly shape the lifestyle experience: close friend groups and the perception of cliques. They start by unpacking what a “clique” really is. Is it intentional exclusivity? Or is it simply comfort, chemistry, and shared history that naturally draw certain people together? The conversation explores whether people inside these tight-knit circles even realize how they’re perceived—and how it feels to be on the outside looking in. Th...
Mar 11, 2026•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 64
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into what a “successful” play experience really means — and why that definition looks different for each of them. They unpack what matters most in play sessions, the changes they’re intentionally making to increase their enjoyment of the lifestyle, and whether build-up enhances the experience or creates unrealistic expectations — or if there’s a sweet spot somewhere in between. The crew explores the idea that fantasy will almost always outshi...
Mar 04, 2026•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 63
Round Three is officially underway — and the confessions are bolder, kinkier, and even more revealing than before. In this latest installment of Sexy Swinger Confessions: Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played , the Two Plus Two crew jumps back into the game that always sparks laughter, honesty, and a few jaw-dropping moments. From golden showers and nipple clamps to role-playing throwbacks and risky public encounters, the hosts break down what’s an enthusiastic yes, a hard no, a curious maybe, and w...
Feb 25, 2026•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 62
This isn’t a replay of past episodes—it’s a deeper look at the conversations that didn’t end when the recording stopped. After hearing how certain topics landed with listeners, the crew reflects on what stirred discomfort, curiosity, and strong reactions—and why those responses matter. Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany unpack listener feedback ranging from opinions about Brad’s penis and uncut men (including one listener’s candid personal experience), to the polarized reactions following their con...
Feb 18, 2026•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 62
Sometimes the healthiest move a couple can make in the lifestyle is to step back. In this episode, the Two Plus Two crew open up about taking breaks—why they happen, how they feel, and what they can reveal about a relationship. Each host shares personal and vulnerable reasons they’ve needed to pause, from forced breaks due to health concerns to intentional step-backs caused by disconnection, burnout, and shifts in intimacy. The discussion centers on the reality that while the lifestyle can be me...
Feb 11, 2026•52 min•Ep. 60
A listener’s message sparks one of the most emotionally loaded conversations we’ve ever had as lifestyle parents. After receiving a text from her adult daughter that read, “I know about you and dad’s extracurricular activities,” we’re forced to confront a question many couples quietly avoid: What happens when your kids know… or might know… about your life? We unpack the initial wave of fear, embarrassment, and panic, but quickly move beyond the shock to something deeper—what it actually means to...
Feb 04, 2026•58 min•Ep. 59
Callie is back—returning guest from our STD episode—for a much-needed deep dive into women’s health in the lifestyle. Joined by Zack, Josie, and Brittany, this conversation tackles the realities many women face but rarely hear clearly explained, especially in non-monogamous spaces. We start by unpacking how women are often forced to crowdsource health advice from friends instead of providers, and why women’s health research has historically been overlooked. From there, Callie shares her professi...
Jan 28, 2026•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 58
In this candid — and hilariously honest — conversation, all four hosts tackle a topic that rarely gets talked about openly: uncircumcised penises. Brad opens up about growing up uncut in a world where it wasn’t common, including the insecurity, teasing, and the unforgettable childhood nickname “Snuffleupagus.” We explore real-world differences between circumcised and uncircumcised penises — sensitivity, oral sex, comfort in underwear, hygiene myths, and the realities of sex and play. Brad shares...
Jan 21, 2026•50 min•Ep. 57
In this episode, Zack and Josie sit down with Roger and Jessica, a lifestyle couple whose journey has taken an unexpected turn — into an exclusive, emotionally connected relationship with another couple. After two years in the lifestyle, what began as group dates evolved into alternating date nights, overnight visits, out-of-state trips, and eventually a shared commitment they now describe as having a “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” Roger and Jessica share how they’ve navigated parenting schedules...
Jan 14, 2026•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 56
As we get older, our bodies, our priorities, and even the way we experience the lifestyle begin to shift. In this episode, all four hosts are back at the table to talk honestly about aging, self-image, and how time changes our perspective on play, connection, and identity. Brad and Josie — both in their 50s — share what it feels like to realize they’re past the halfway point in life, while Brittany reflects on approaching that milestone, and Zack talks about only recently turning 40. Together, w...
Jan 07, 2026•1 hr•Ep. 55
To celebrate our first full year of Two Plus Two, we’re pulling back the curtain and sharing some of our favorite private conversations, outrageous stories, and unforgettable play moments. In this milestone episode, Zack and Josie revisit a fun, sexy, weird, and wonderfully awkward party encounter — and yes, they spill all the dirty details. Your Two Plus Two crew also has some fun shaking up the opener, including outtakes from Brad’s dramatic “sexy vampires” intro. We chat about a single vanill...
Dec 31, 2025•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 54
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sit down to tackle a question nearly every lifestyle couple has wrestled with: how many dates does it really take to get to a “yes”? They talk through what it’s like meeting a couple for the first time—those moments when the chemistry is instant and the energy exchange makes the decision easy, and the more complicated scenarios where one partner is a clear “yes” while the other sits in a frustrating gray area of “neutral.” The hosts unpack what “neutral” really me...
Dec 24, 2025•58 min•Ep. 53
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany are back and gearing up for one of the biggest lifestyle trips of the year: the upcoming Bliss Cruise on Radiance of the Seas this February. From liberation and sexploration to planning, packing, and prepping, this episode dives into everything we’re excited about (and a few things we’re bracing for). We talk about the tighter February timeline, Zack’s ongoing love–hate relationship with Bliss, and what made our second cruise feel completely different from our fir...
Dec 17, 2025•50 min•Ep. 52
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany are back together for a candid and relatable conversation about something nearly every lifestyle couple experiences: the natural ebb and flow of connection, opportunity, and energy in the lifestyle. Some seasons feel packed with parties, meetups, new couples, and constant social obligations. Other times, it seems no one is available, nothing’s happening, and you’re left wondering if the spark moved on without you. And if you’ve ever found yourself comparing your q...
Dec 10, 2025•59 min•Ep. 51
In this episode, hosts Zack, Josie, and Brad sit down with Ferdinand the bull, to explore the real, often-unspoken complexities of being a single male navigating ENM spaces. Ferdinand shares how he first entered the lifestyle at the encouragement of his then-wife, who never chose to participate herself. Now eight years, a divorce, and countless connections later, he finds himself at a crossroads: dating in the vanilla world while weighing whether he can—or should—remain in the lifestyle communit...
Dec 03, 2025•48 min•Ep. 50
In this week’s episode, hosts Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into one of the most universally frustrating parts of the lifestyle: communication… or the lack of it. From last-minute confirmations that never come to couples who keep others dangling “just in case,” the crew unpacks the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways poor communication can waste time, strain friendships, and complicate connections. They explore why it feels so disrespectful when couples make plans but go silent when it’s time...
Nov 26, 2025•56 min•Ep. 49
This week, Zack, Josie, and Brad sit down with Callie — a Physician Assistant who works in the ER and has seen it all — to talk about one of the most important topics in the swinger lifestyle: sexual health. Callie breaks down what everyone in the lifestyle should know about STI prevention, testing, and risk management. She explains how your risk isn’t just about your behavior, but also the behavior of your partners — and why trust, responsibility, and regular testing are essential for keeping e...
Nov 19, 2025•53 min•Ep. 48
This week, the Two Plus Two Crew tackles a playful term with some serious depth — premature evacuation . No, not that kind — we’re talking about those moments when play ends earlier than planned and all the emotions that can come with it. Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany open up about the messy, human side of swinging — from people-pleasing and communication breakdowns to triggers and shame. Josie shares a few personal experiences that highlight how past trauma can resurface in unexpected ways, a...
Nov 12, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 47
This week, Zack, Josie, and Brad welcome Mary — a licensed professional counselor with 13 years in the lifestyle alongside her husband. With a rare mix of professional insight and personal experience, Mary opens up about emotional awareness, connection, and the importance of taking care of yourself — and your relationship — while living the lifestyle . Mary shares her perspective on knowing when it might be time to step back and refocus on your partnership, and how the lifestyle can magnify both...
Nov 05, 2025•59 min•Ep. 46
This week, the Two Plus Two Crew gets real about one of the lifestyle’s biggest questions — can swinging actually make your relationship stronger? Zack and Josie open up about what it was like being in the lifestyle during their previous marriages — how they got into it, where things went wrong, and what they’ve learned since. They share how, through their evolution in the lifestyle together, their marriage has grown through honesty, vulnerability, and countless deep conversations about what tru...
Oct 29, 2025•56 min•Ep. 45
This week, the Two Plus Two Crew is back together, and things are getting deliciously crowded. Brad and Brittany are fully in their element, fresh from a steamy mountain takeover weekend with 16 lifestyle friends and plenty of spicy stories to share. Meanwhile, Zack and Josie open up about a night they didn’t see coming: their first threesome and a group play twist that left their hearts racing and pulses quickening. From Brittany’s shibari fantasy coming to life to the electric thrill of meetin...
Oct 22, 2025•58 min•Ep. 44
This week, the vampires turn down the lights and turn up the honesty. Zack and Josie welcome Stone and Selene, a couple who first stepped into the lifestyle so Selene could explore her attraction to women. What began as a soft spark of curiosity evolved into a full swap journey—complete with steamy firsts, emotional growth, and plenty of delicious self-discovery. Stone opens up about his own inner work—navigating the envy and insecurity that came with watching Selene experience pleasure with ano...
Oct 15, 2025•57 min•Ep. 43
This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the little turn-offs that can make a big difference in the lifestyle. From endless talkers who don’t know when to zip it, to naughty pics that miss the mark, to distracted dates and space-invading flirts, the hosts share their own pet peeves while weighing in on those shared by listeners. Playful, cheeky, and just a touch wicked, this episode proves that sometimes the sexiest sparks come from knowing what not to do. JOIN US in 2026 on the Blis...
Oct 08, 2025•57 min•Ep. 41
This week, the vampires sink their teeth into something a little different. Zack and Josie cozy up with their irresistible friends Luke and Rickie—an erotica author with a wicked imagination and her equally adventurous partner—whom they first met under the sultry moonlight of Desire Riviera Maya. Together, they peel back the velvet curtain on their journey into the lifestyle, from sizzling first encounters to the thrills (and giggles) of bi-comfortable play. No topic is off-limits as the convers...
Oct 01, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 41
