Have you been feeling disconnected from your Twin Flame? Even though you might be working through your journey by aligning your soul and balancing your fear-based energy, it can be hard to not crave the physical form of your Twin Flame. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses the phenomenon of demystifying your Twin Flame. It is important to remember that it is your fear-based energy that drives the addiction to the physical form of your Twin Flame. And at times, this addiction can feel so ...
Nov 11, 2022•12 min•Season 4Ep. 4
When anyone sets out on their Twin Flame journey, they are eager to know everything they can about their Twin Flame. And while this is a normal way to begin, Elle reminds listeners that it is actually our fear-based energy driving our motives to control everything. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari answers the question, what does it mean when someone says, “your soul knows everything?” It is almost human instinct to believe that your mind can control every aspect of your life. And while you can...
Nov 04, 2022•14 min•Season 4Ep. 3
As we know from previous episodes, it’s important to align closer to your soul and be out of your mind. But to be with your Twin Flame physically, you must do one more thing. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari explains why it is necessary to balance your energy. As Elle explains, fear-based energy controls our minds to determine whatever our Twin Flames are thinking, feeling, or doing as good or bad. And when we do this, we judge our thoughts as good or bad and it will ultimately determine how w...
Oct 28, 2022•15 min•Season 4Ep. 2
“That's what I mean by shifting into alignment with our soul. We do it on an energetic level by transmuting the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies of our soul into the love based energy of our soul from other dimensions. Taking that fear based component, polarized component, duality component out of it,” explains host Elle Hari, founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®, international bestselling author, ascension alchemist, teacher, and coach. In the season four opener, Elle shares t...
Oct 21, 2022•16 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Do you ever worry that a past life or karma is disrupting the relationship between you and your Twin Flame? Contrary to popular belief, things like this actually have nothing to do with your journey at all. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari explains why past lives and karma have no effect on the Twin Flame journey. According to Elle, when we focus on our past lives we are focusing on the past—where our fear-based energy largely resides. Since the Twin Flame journey is centered around ridding ou...
May 06, 2022•14 min•Ep. 25
Will you ever let go of this heartbreak? In today’s episode, Elle explains the difference between normal heartbreak and Twin Flame repulsion. The main difference between regular heartbreak and the pain you experience from your Twin Flame is that with time, you will get over a regular heartbreak. Since normal heartbreaks are caused by the thoughts in the mind, it is possible to truly overcome it. However, because your Twin Flame is the same soul, you can never get over them. The reason it feels s...
Apr 29, 2022•13 min•Ep. 24
According to host Elle Hari, anytime your Twin Flame journey isn’t appealing to you it is because you are self-sabotaging. In today’s episode, Elle discusses the phenomenon of self-sabotage and how to prevent it. While it sometimes may feel like your Twin Flame is in charge, the only person that plays any role in how you feel is you. Whenever your Twin Flame is pulling away from you, Elle explains it's because they are responding to your fear-based push energy. So in reality, to get your Twin Fl...
Apr 22, 2022•15 min•Ep. 23
Whether you’ve known your Twin Flame your entire life, or you just met them a few weeks ago, every Twin Flame story is unique. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses how your Twin Flame journey might look for you. While everyone’s physical story of how they met their Twin Flame is unique, the reason we all are on this journey is the same- to take our first step towards ascension. And because of this, Elle explains that worrying about your physical experience with your Twin Flame is irrelev...
Apr 15, 2022•11 min•Ep. 22
According to host Elle Hari, Many people want to give up on the Twin Flame journey anytime they feel a sense of anger towards their Twin Flame. In today’s episode, Elle discusses why it is harmful to yourself to place blame on your Twin Flame. Since your Twin Flame is the opposite side of your push-pull energy, their primary role is to reveal the parts of your personality that you are reluctant to accept. And because of this, Elle explains that when you are blaming them for something they did, y...
Apr 08, 2022•15 min•Ep. 21
According to host Elle Hari, if you’re listening to this podcast, you’re likely the push-energy in your Twin Flame relationship. In today's episode, Elle explains subtle ways you are likely feeding your fear-based energy. The further along the journey you are, the harder it gets so it is important to recognize when your fear-based energy is present. According to Elle, the best way to go about this is by shifting your intentions to always be centered on yourself. When you accept that this journey...
Apr 01, 2022•25 min•Ep. 20
While the Twin Flame is a major component of your journey to ascension, it is important to know that you also play a significant role in how things play out. Last week, host Elle Hari discussed the role of the Twin Flame and in today’s episode, she discusses how you impact the Twin Flame journey. According to Elle, if you're listening to this podcast, chances are you are the push-energy in your Twin Flame relationship. While it can often feel like you are the only one putting in any effort, Elle...
Mar 25, 2022•12 min•Ep. 19
For many people, there comes a point along their journey where they feel frustrated. While it can sometimes feel like the Twin Flame isn’t putting in much effort, their job is more important than you might think. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari breaks down the role of the Twin Flame. Because the Twin Flame journey is all about unconditional love, the main role of the Twin Flame is to show you how to love yourself by revealing the truest parts of your soul. According to Elle, every time the Tw...
Mar 18, 2022•13 min•Ep. 18
As humans, we focus a lot of our time and energy searching for someone that will love us the way we want to be loved. While there is such a thing as unconditional love, it isn’t what you probably think it is. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari simply explains the concept of unconditional love and how to receive it from your Twin Flame. According to Elle Hari, unconditional love can only happen once you release yourself and your Twin Flame from any and all conditions. When you place any expectati...
Mar 11, 2022•14 min•Ep. 17
What people desire most from their Twin Flames is their undevoted energy and attention. Because of this desire, people often spend too much time focusing on what the Twin Flame is doing rather than investing in themselves. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses why you need to treat yourself the way you want to be treated by your Twin Flame. According to host Elle Hari, the Twin Flame journey is about self-love, not the Twin Flame. While it is normal to want affection from your Twin Flame,...
Mar 04, 2022•12 min•Ep. 16
Throughout your Twin Flame journey, you will inevitably run into obstacles that prevent you from attaining a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, including death. Even though these hurdles may seem impossible to overcome, they are beneficial to your Twin Flame experience. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses how to handle physical challenges that arise along your journey. According to Elle, obstacles can come in a variety of ways. Whether it be location, age, gender, sexual orient...
Feb 25, 2022•14 min•Ep. 15
When host Elle Hari was rejected by her Twin Flame, it was one of the most painful things she had experienced. While not being accepted by your Twin Flame may feel like the worst thing in the world, Elle explains that it is actually for your benefit. In today’s episode, Elle discusses why being rejected by your Twin Flame is one of the greatest things. According to Elle, when you are blocked by your Twin Flame, it is the universe’s way of providing you the necessary space to focus on what matter...
Feb 18, 2022•15 min•Season 3Ep. 1
As we all know, push-energy is the number one enemy to the Twin Flame journey. While it can sometimes be obvious, host Elle Hari explains that fear has sneaky ways of disrupting our peace. In today’s episode, Elle discusses eight ways your push-energy might be keeping you from your Twin Flame. Just like any energy, the natural inclination of our push-energy is to continue to grow and expand. If we allow this energy to gain too much control, it will continue to push the Twin Flame further and fur...
Dec 31, 2021•23 min•Season 2Ep. 14
When it comes to having a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, you may picture it being a monogamous relationship. While having this kind of relationship with your Twin Flame is possible, host Elle Hari explains that it will look different than what society defines monogamy to be. In today’s episode, Elle clarifies how the concepts of monogamy, boundaries and marriage apply to the Twin Flame journey. Humans are not naturally monogamous creatures; rather, the concept was developed by the h...
Dec 24, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Do you spend a lot of time obsessing over what your Twin Flame is doing, thinking or feeling? According to host Elle Hari, doing this is allowing your push-energy to get in the way of your success. In today’s episode Elle discusses why nothing in the physical world actually means anything. Regardless of what it may feel like, whatever your Twin Flame is doing, thinking or feeling is completely irrelevant because it is all related to the physical world. Everything in the physical world is tempora...
Dec 17, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Do you ever feel isolated from your Twin Flame? While you may not have a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, host Elle Hari explains that it is impossible to be completely detached. In today’s episode, Elle discusses the idea that you and your Twin Flame are never separate. Even though at times you may be unable to touch or see your Twin Flame, Elle explains that your energetic field will always keep you connected. Rather than focusing on physical aspects, it is important to tap into you...
Dec 10, 2021•13 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Do you ever find yourself wishing your relationship with your Twin Flame would be as strong as the love in your favorite romance movie? According to host Elle Hari, this is the biggest misconception everyone has about the Twin Flame journey. In today’s episode, Elle discusses why the Twin Flame journey has nothing to do with romance. According to Elle, the sensationalization of romance in our society actually exists to trigger our fear-based energy. While it is possible to have a romantic connec...
Dec 03, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Do you ever yearn for the relationship you once had with your Twin Flame? According to host Elle Hari, it's not you that wants that relationship, it's your fear-based energy. In today’s episode, Elle explains why you have to redefine your relationship with your Twin Flame in order to have a physical relationship with them. According to Elle, it isn’t the relationship or even your Twin Flame that you really desire; it is the feelings you have associated with the Twin Flame. While it may seem like...
Nov 26, 2021•28 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Throughout the Twin Flame journey, there will be times where you feel down and out. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses how to stop feeling negative, so you can reunite with your Twin Flame. According to Elle, whenever we judge things as good or bad, we are allowing our fear-based energy to be in control. Rather than succumbing to negative energy, Elle suggests figuring out what thought is causing you to feel bad and then changing your perspective. Once you understand that everything is...
Nov 19, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Do you place blame on your Twin Flame for causing you hardships? Or give them praise for bringing you happiness when they are in your life? Even though this is a common response, host Elle Hari explains that believing the Twin Flame can dictate your emotions is giving them too much credit and ultimately damaging to the relationship. As you are navigating the relationship between you and your Twin Flame, it can often feel like they are in control of how you feel. As much as their presence can mak...
Nov 12, 2021•11 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Do you ever feel like you are regressing on your Twin Flame Journey? According to host Elle Hari, even though you may sometimes feel like you’re taking one step forward and two steps back, it is actually impossible to go backward on your journey. Since our minds are controlled by our fear-based, push-pull energy, it is natural to view things as linear, including our Twin Flame journey. But according to Elle, nothing is linear because you are always expanding and growing. While we are learning to...
Nov 05, 2021•17 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Do you constantly yearn to rid yourself of negative thoughts and emotions regarding your Twin Flame? Then it’s time to let go of your fear-based energy once and for all. In today’s episode your host, Elle Hari, discusses how to control your emotions and take back your power. In order to start taking control of your emotions, it is important to understand one basic human truth: only you are responsible for how you feel. Good or bad, Elle explains that nothing outside of yourself can cause you to ...
Oct 29, 2021•17 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be with your Twin Flame once you are finally united? While this is one of the most commonly asked questions Elle receives, she explains that it is rooted in your fear-based energy. On today’s episode, Elle decides to answer this question not to encourage your fear-based energy, but rather to help provide the clarity you need to be with your Twin Flame. According to Elle, the ONLY way to be with your Twin Flame is to come to a state of balance. In t...
Oct 22, 2021•33 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Have you ever attempted to reach your Twin Flame through a psychic reading? If so, host Elle Hari suggests you stop wasting your time. While this tactic may work in most other areas of your life, it won’t reveal your Twin Flame. The purpose of psychic readings is to dig for information that pertains to the physical world. And because the Twin Flame journey is a journey of the soul, Elle says these types of methods won’t ever work and they may even be harmful. When we attach ourselves to physical...
Oct 15, 2021•10 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Do you ever notice symbols of your Twin Flame everywhere you go? According to Host Elle Hari, these are synchronicities, and they are nothing to be feared! Elle explains synchronicities as signs that you and your Twin Flame are on the same wavelength, and they tend to pop up as you progress along your journey. Because your soul is energy and is also your Twin Flame, it is normal for names or objects that resonate with your Twin Flame to become common themes in your life. While most people tend t...
Oct 01, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 13
If the Twin Flame journey is a journey of the soul, then what does physical well-being have to do with the process? According to Host Elle Hari, neglecting your physical health will actually inhibit spiritual progress. The cornerstone of any spiritual awakening is the ability to be present. During the Twin Flame journey, it is necessary to balance fear-based energies by training yourself to be present, even when times are hard. Elle explains that granting yourself permission to not exist in the ...
Sep 24, 2021•30 min•Season 1Ep. 12
