For Exclusive Access to all content become a Patreon Member www.patreon.com/kylespears What is emotional gaslighting? What are the signs? In what ways does it occur in churches and discipling relationships? Dr. Foluso joins the channel discuss the nuances of gaslighting. She is a licensed psychologist who helps those who are seeking to grow in the their faith and mental health. She has a YouTube channel called Skillset Counseling where she offers teaching and tools for those healing from church ...
Jul 19, 2022•1 hr 4 min
For Exclusive Access to all content become a Patreon Member www.patreon.com/kylespears What is Cancel Culture and why is so rampant? How should Christians approach the issue? Is cancelling people the same as setting healthy boundaries or different? David Jung joins the channel to discuss these questions and many more. One of the biggest issues is that we do not know how to deal with conflict in a healthy manner. David is a conflict-resolution expert who shares his knowledge on conflict and how i...
Jul 05, 2022•1 hr 22 min
Patreon Membership: https://www.patreon.com/kylespears Healing from emotional pain is some of the most challenging work that we face. Jim and Lindsey have not only participated in the journey of Soul Shepherding, but also help lead others through the program. Jim and Lindsey were recently entrusted to facilitate the "Soul Shepherding Institute" in Atlanta. Topics covered: -Spiritual Direction vs Discipleship -What do Christians do when they hit the wall spiritually? -Why are spiritual discipline...
Jun 30, 2022•57 min
Please consider supporting the channel on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/kylespears There have been some recent events that have taken place that I wanted to address. Why did I take the last video down? Why haven't I posted in a month? What do I have planned next? I want to sincerely thank everyone for their support and encouragement during this challenging time.
May 06, 2022•21 min
Please consider supporting the channel on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/kylespears Finding a trauma specialist can be challenging to say the least. Where do we start? What do I look for? How long do I give it? In this video I attempt to provide information that will benefit those who need to see a trauma specialist. 0:00 Intro 2:47 How is trauma different? 5:13 What approaches are helpful with trauma? 7:02 Do I need to see a Christian Counselor? 10:48 What questions should I ask a trauma thera...
Mar 30, 2022•15 min
Please support the channel via Patreon https://www.patreon.com/kylespears Basics of Trauma https://youtu.be/0DohhpIfa14 4 Types of Negative Thoughts https://youtu.be/KEbTto5fAHo What is Ukraine Triggering in You? https://youtu.be/69CPJGEVEQc The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk What Happened to You? by Oprah Winfrey & Bruce Perry Ministers Health Webinar https://www.disciplestoday.org/next-minister-s-health-webinar-sabbath-solitude-and-retreat 0:00 Intro 3:25 History of PTSD 5:05 ...
Mar 15, 2022•23 min
What does the conflict in Ukraine trigger in you? What stress did you already have going into the situation? How have you been dealing with your stress? Please consider supporting the channel with Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/kylespears 0:00 intro 1:53 Pacing 3:29 Window of Tolerance 6:02 Generational vs direct burdens
Mar 04, 2022•9 min
How do we share the gospel in a way that helps people rather than injures them? How will the church need to adapt the way it approaches evangelism? Please consider supporting the ministry https://www.patreon.com/kylespears Daren currently serves as lead evangelist for the Seattle Church of Christ, where he and his wife Karla have served for the last 11 years. Daren has done some post-graduate work at Harding Graduate School of Theology, and will graduate in December with a Master's degree in Mis...
Mar 02, 2022•1 hr 10 min
Dr. G. Steve Kinnard has served as an evangelist and teacher for more than thirty years. He has preached and taught the Bible on every continent. He received his undergraduate degree at Freed-Hardeman College and his Master of Divinity with Languages degree from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary in Wake Forest. He then completed his Doctor of Ministry degree from Drew University. Steve and his wife, Leigh, minister in Rockland County, New York. Steve also serves as Adjunct Professor of B...
Feb 11, 2022•1 hr 11 min
How do we begin to rebuild trust in our churches? There are many issues that churches are facing that weaken the bonds between Christians from politics, racial tension, and the pandemic. If there is a time to examine how to build trust, it is now. Todd joins the channel to discuss importance of trust in and amongst our churches. Todd will help us understand what factors build and erode trust between Christians. He will also help provide context for how trust can be rebuilt for those who have bee...
Feb 11, 2022•48 min
There is a fine line between being protective versus being controlling when it comes to nurturing those who are new to the faith. The need of the hour is maturity in a world of misinformation and social pressures. Fenton joins the channel to discuss the balance between amidst extremes. Fenton is in the full-time ministry leading a church in Georgia and shares insights into how to mature young Christians in a post-modern era.
Feb 11, 2022•1 hr 7 min
Due to the overwhelming response to the interview with Lauren Peterson, I wanted to make sure we were thorough in answering further questions. Dr. Jennifer is one of the greatest resources in discussing intimacy and sexuality. We cover the issue of older singles, grief, cultural considerations, differing standards based on body type, masturbation as a single, the male perspective, and the way leadership has shaped purity culture. She will also be sharing about her recent book release aimed at he...
Jan 04, 2022•1 hr 16 min
Lauren is a counselor who has experience in the ministry and now specializes in helping couples with intimacy and connection. She joins the channel to discuss her perspective on how purity culture has shaped the way marriages experience intimacy. She also addresses how to talk your children about sexuality in a healthy way. Singles/Parents: Redeemed Sexuality by Tim and Dr. Jennifer Konzen https://www.christianbook.com/redeemed-sexuality-christian-singles-students-parents/tim-konzen/978159554351...
Dec 16, 2021•58 min
Sean is Professor of Social Work at King University. He will join the channel to share from his findings regarding burn out and trauma. His research has profound implications for Counselors, Social workers, and Ministers. Check out the link provided for this for this video on Sean's website: seanstjean.com/kylespears
Dec 16, 2021•57 min
Dr. Christopher Habben is a former president of the Association of Marriage and Family Therapists and joins the channel to discuss his perspective on how mental health and faith coincide together. He has a unique perspective as he has formal theological training as well as clinical training in the field of Psychology.
Nov 23, 2021•1 hr 8 min
After graduating from the University of Florida, Jeanie Shaw went into the ministry, helping women learn to apply the Bible to real life. She has taught classes and workshops worldwide on issues such as marriage, parenting, leadership, and spiritual growth. For eight years Jeanie served as a vice president for HOPE Worldwide, working particularly with orphans and the elderly in New England and Europe. Jeanie has written numerous books for adults as well as for children. She has four grown childr...
Nov 18, 2021•1 hr 1 min
Rolan Monje (BD, MMin, DMin) serves as an evangelist and teacher. He is professor of Hebrew and Old Testament at Rocky Mountain School of Ministry and Theology in Colorado and Director of Asia-Pacific Leadership Academy in Manila. Rolan heads an international teaching ministry that has taken him to some 40 countries across 6 continents. He has also written 5 books. His research interests converge on Old Testament theology and languages. He and his wife, Weng, make their home in Manila. They have...
Nov 10, 2021•59 min
Tammy has been working with the Grief Recovery Institute to bring the Grief Recovery Method® to Russian-speaking countries. She also has years of working in the ministry. She is an Advanced Grief Recovery Method® Specialist, certified by the Grief Recovery Institute. She is the author of a devotional book entitled "Mornings in Matthew". She will join the channel to gives us a deeper teaching on grief and recovery.
Nov 10, 2021•1 hr 4 min
How we approach our ministers matters to God as does their calling to lay down their lives for the church. There are many situations that have increased the tension felt by ministers and members. Wade joins the channel to discuss a minister's perspective and how to best approach difficult issues with your minister. Originally from Colorado, Wade is a recent transplant to San Diego where he is serving the Pomerado Region of the San Diego Church of Christ. He was baptized in 1987 off the campus of...
Nov 07, 2021•1 hr 9 min
Diane Langberg is a practicing psychologist whose clinical expertise includes 45 years of working with trauma survivors and clergy. She speaks internationally on topics related to trauma, ministry and the Christian life. Diane will join the channel and answer more advanced aspects of trauma. She will give insight into how spiritual abuse happens on an institutional level.
Oct 19, 2021•1 hr
Cresenda is an author, Counselor, Master NLP Coach, & Time Line Therapy® Master Practitioner. She has experience and expertise in working with trauma and spirituality. Cresenda joins the channel to discuss her recently released book Spiritual Transformation: Emotional Intelligence and Freedom. http://www.cresendajones.com/
Oct 19, 2021•50 min
Ken graduated with his Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2009 following five years of experience at Healthy Families Counseling and Support working with couples to help them gain skills and tools necessary to achieve strong attachment bonds with each other. Ken also has two years at Willowbrook working with kids that have severe behavioral and mental health diagnosis. Ken completed his bachelor’s degree through Mid America Nazarene University in Olathe, KS and his Masters Degree in Marri...
Oct 19, 2021•1 hr 1 min
The BEMA Podcast was launched in 2016, making it accessible to a global audience. He began to develop BEMA Discipleship as a way to share his experience with others. He will join the channel to discuss how biblical ritual functions in scripture helping us to better understand ritual in NT context. We will discuss the concept of legalism and it's impact on today's church.
Oct 19, 2021•1 hr 1 min
Gordon Ferguson has been preaching God's Word since 1970. He is one of the well-known Bible Teacher's in the ICOC. Gordon joins the channel to discuss details from his new book God are we Good? People are struggling to answer fundamental questions about salvation. He answers difficult questions to help equip us better.
Sep 08, 2021•1 hr 19 min
Janus and Melissa Abello both serve as Evangelist and Women's Ministry Leader in Columbia, MO. They have been married nine years and have two children, their angel baby Naomi and Ruth who is two years old. They have been in the ministry for over eleven years. Melissa also works part time as a Licensed Professional Counselor. Janus and Melissa join the show to discuss their journey of grief, infertility, and healing while in the ministry. They share practicals for those grieving and as well how t...
Sep 02, 2021•1 hr 3 min
Robert Carrillo served as CEO of HOPE worldwide for 4 years and now is finishing a Doctorate in Spiritual formation at Fuller Seminary. He is an Evangelist and Teacher with the Los Angeles Church of Christ serving as part of the leadership team and ICOC Teacher's Committee. He will be joining the channel to discuss how the church will need to approach evangelization moving forward.
Aug 24, 2021•1 hr 10 min
Ellen is a faithful Christian woman, wife, and mother. Ellen is also same-sex attracted. While growing up in a Christian home, Ellen and her family had to navigate the nuances of her sexual orientation. Ellen is married to the love of her life, Paul, and together, they also have to navigate the unique realities of her sexual orientation and her past as a lesbian. Ellen has a BA in Interpersonal Communication from East Carolina University and an MA in Counseling from Harding School of Theology. F...
Aug 18, 2021•1 hr 10 min
David Pocta is a Christian Spirituality Scholar, public speaker, and ministry trainer. He spent the first twenty-six years of his career serving in full-time ministry with his wife, Beth, in the International Churches of Christ in the USA and Africa. The Poctas devoted the majority of that time to training ministry leaders and parents about family-based church cultures. David holds a Bachelor's Degree in Civil Engineering, a Master’s Degree in Bible and Ministry, and hopes to finish his PhD in C...
Aug 15, 2021•1 hr 9 min
Jason Alexander, his wife, Justine, and their daughter, Hannah, live in Puyallup, WA, where he serves as a pastor for the South Sound Church of Christ. Jason is an expert in OT Theology and will be providing a deeper teaching on the Sabbath.
Jul 20, 2021•1 hr 14 min
Michael is one of the most recognizable voices regarding race relations in our churches. Michael is an incredible teacher, writer, and speaker. He joins the show to discuss his recent sabbatical and perspective about racial reconciliation.
Jul 13, 2021•1 hr 9 min
