In this episode of Trust Us: Estate Planning Wisdom , Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Charles Max McCauley walk through the essential first steps after the loss of a spouse. From handling funeral arrangements to locating assets, understanding Social Security benefits, and navigating probate, the hosts provide practical, compassionate guidance for surviving spouses. This episode emphasizes what truly matters in those early days—taking time to grieve, seeking trusted professional help, and k...
May 20, 2026•24 min•Ep. 13
How Much Estate Information Should You Share with Your Kids? In this episode of “Trust Us: Estate Planning Wisdom,” Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Max McCauley explore one of the most common client questions: How much should parents tell their children about their estate plan? They break the issue into three levels—essentials, structure, and numbers—and discuss what to share, when to share it, and why timing and maturity matter. From identifying key documents to understanding trust struct...
Feb 24, 2026•19 min•Ep. 12
In this episode of 'Trust Us,' Danielle Friedman, Max McCauley, and Herb Fineburg discuss a complex estate planning scenario from a recent article. A father of three sons, two from his first marriage and one from a later relationship, grapples with the decision of whether to divide his estate equally among his children despite differences in their financial situations. The conversation delves into the potential problems with unequal distribution, the complexities of pot trusts, and the use of di...
Nov 18, 2025•20 min•Ep. 11
In this episode of Trust Us , Danielle Friedman , Max McCauley , and Herb Fineburg discuss the recent changes brought by the One Big Beautiful Bill Act, which raised the estate tax exemption level starting January 1, 2026. Despite the increased exemption, the hosts recommend continuing with estate planning and gifting during a person's lifetime due to potential future changes in the law and state inheritance taxes. They emphasize the advantages of lifetime gifting to irrevocable trusts, the impo...
Aug 29, 2025•13 min•Ep. 10
In this episode of 'Trust Us,' Danielle Friedman, Max McCauley, and Herb Fineburg discuss the critical aspects of selecting a trustee. They cover common client questions, including who should be named as a trustee, the benefits and drawbacks of having a corporate versus an individual trustee, and the specific limitations and responsibilities of beneficiary trustees. The discussion also delves into scenarios where independent trustees may be beneficial, trustee compensation, and the process for n...
Jul 14, 2025•23 min•Ep. 9
In this episode of Trust Us, Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Max McCauley tackle the pitfalls of common estate planning advice, highlighting the risks of adding children to bank accounts or deeds purely for convenience. They discuss the adverse tax implications, potential family conflicts, and legal issues that can arise from such actions. The hosts emphasize the importance of consulting with informed professionals and suggest alternative methods, such as living trusts, beneficiary designa...
Feb 18, 2025•15 min•Ep. 8
In this episode of Trust Us, Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Max McCauley discuss the significant changes anticipated with the sunset of the Federal Estate Tax Exemption. They explain what the exemption is, how it impacts estates, and the strategic planning necessary to navigate potential changes post-2025. Topics include essential planning techniques, potential legislative changes, and advice on how to prepare for the uncertainties. Introduction to Federal Estate Tax Exemption (0:46) Curr...
Dec 27, 2024•14 min•Ep. 7
In this episode of the Trust Us podcast, hosts Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Charles "Max" McCauley III dive into the complex world of intestacy—the laws that govern the distribution of assets when someone passes away without a will. From common misconceptions about how assets pass to surviving spouses and children, to the unexpected complications of business succession and guardianship of minors, this episode unpacks the consequences of intestacy. Learn why not having a will can lead to...
Nov 18, 2024•25 min•Ep. 6
In this episode of "Trust Us: Estate Planning Wisdom," hosts Danielle Friedman, Herb Feinberg, and Charles Max McCauley, along with special guest Joe Armstrong, delve into the critical comparison between trusts and prenuptial agreements in protecting family assets. The hosts explore why trusts can be a stronger and more flexible alternative to prenuptial agreements, especially when planning for high-net-worth individuals and their children's marriages. They discuss how properly structured trusts...
Sep 25, 2024•28 min•Ep. 5
In Episode 4, through a compelling case study, hosts Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Charles "Max" McCauley III explore the vital role of irrevocable trusts when gifting closely held family business interests for the benefit of children. A client gifted a mere 1.5% stake in his company to each of his three children without using irrevocable trusts, aiming to save on costs. When one child faced divorce unexpectedly, the divorce proceedings centered around this small 1.5% stake in the family...
Jun 12, 2024•11 min•Ep. 4
In Episode 3: "Transcript: How Long Should a Trust Last?" hosts Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Charles "Max" McCauley III delve into the considerations and implications of establishing trusts, particularly regarding their duration. The discussion revolves around scenarios where trusts terminate at a specific age, leading to unintended consequences such as divorce settlements affecting trust assets. The hosts emphasize the importance of crafting trusts that endure for the beneficiary's lif...
May 13, 2024•20 min•Ep. 3
In Episode 2, "Passing Your Wealth to Your Children: How to Ensure Your Children Benefit from Your Hard Work," hosts Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Charles "Max" McCauley III, the complexities of estate planning through a poignant case study. Explore the repercussions of neglecting trusts in a $24 million estate, revealing how the absence of this vital component led to unintended consequences. Gain insights into the benefits of trusts, debunk common misconceptions, and discover the import...
Mar 12, 2024•9 min•Ep. 2
In Episode 1 of "Trust Us: Estate Planning Wisdom," hosts Danielle Friedman, Herb Fineburg, and Charles “Max” McCauley III focus on preserving trust funds for couples. They explore a case where parents established an irrevocable trust for their son, who now wishes to buy a home for his family with the trust's $450,000 in assets. The hosts discuss options, favoring the trust buying the house to ensure asset protection. They also consider the trust lending money to the couple, cautioning against m...
Feb 23, 2024•6 min•Ep. 1
