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Tried and Tested Podcast

This podcast details the accounts of my friends and I's dating experience in young adult hood. We are going to go into detail about what we've learned so you can learn from our mistakes and also from our wisdom and knowledge we have received. With Millennial Dating we experience so much because you have the Highs, the lows, the confusion, the delusions and psychosis, the I know it all attitude, the love, more confusion, and the fun we have experienced in our late 20's and early 30s. I will visit questions we all may have and give advice or ask for advice. Tune in and share with all your friends! If there is one thing all of us young people are dealing with, its RELATIONSHIPS

Episodes

Church Engagements (Proposals) S7- Ep 9

In light of the recent concerns of people getting engaged in churches I wanted to share my thoughts, opinions, and concerns with a church proposal and those opposed to it. I gave my factual evidence on what the issues were and were not. Do you feel there are issues with people get proposed to in church and what do you think a better place to do this is? Let me know what you think. Email: TraceySarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficia...

Mar 16, 202320 minSeason 7Ep. 9

Insecurities Affecting Dating- S7 - Ep 8

In this episode my guest Denise and I talk about the insecurities we all have within our lives but the effects it can have on dating relationships. We discuss where some of these insecurities stem from and how to resolve internal issues. Have insecurities caused an issue in a relationship for you? Let me know. Email: TraceySarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Feb 22, 202324 minSeason 7Ep. 8

Loneliness- S7- Ep 7

On this solo episode I rant a little bit about the issue of loneliness effecting peoples actions and abilities to make the right choices when choosing friendships and partnerships. I believe this is the reason many people are in the wrong situations because they would rather settle and feel semi comfortable than to be alone and patient. Do you struggle with this? Let me know. Email: TraceySarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtrac...

Feb 21, 202312 minSeason 7Ep. 7

Kingdom Dating- S7- Ep 6

My guest Tia and I talked about what it means to kingdom date. We gave our opinions on what it looks like and the benefits it gives us. Most of us are you to dating a particular way our whole lives and then things must change when we truly come to Christ. Take a listen to this episode and let me know your thoughts! Email: TraceySarpong@gmail.com Instagram: TheofficialTraceySarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Feb 21, 202336 minSeason 7Ep. 6

Women Pursuing Men & the Issues With It- S7- Ep 5

On this episode My Guest Amanda and I discuss what happens when women take the lead in starting relationships with men. The pursuit seems to be something that happens a lot more these days because the number of available heterosexual men are limited. We give our opinions and thoughts on women being the ones to make the bold move to solidify a relationship through applying pressure and making a man notice them. This episode is quite interesting. Let me know what you think after you take a listen....

Feb 17, 202319 minSeason 7Ep. 5

Struggles & Emotions of Being a Man in a Relationship- S7- Ep 4

My guest and I talk about the struggles and emotional toil men go through while in the dating stages or a relationship. I often hear men talk about how much they go through without actually saying what is happening or what they go through. I've seen many men who seem like a block of wood in certain areas of their relationship so I asked my guest a little about how he felt as a man dating. Take a listen and get in contact with me and let me know what you think. Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com...

Feb 14, 202323 minSeason 7Ep. 4

What If His Mom Doesn't Like Me? S7- Ep 3

Dating in this day and age can be considered difficult for some of us and that’s only half the battle. When it comes to family, friends, especially parents liking your choice of partner that can be even more daunting. My Guest Joy and I discuss a little about if a man’s mother may not like You in the dating stages and how it can be handled. Tune in and let me know your thoughts! Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialt...

Feb 08, 202318 minSeason 7Ep. 3

Therapy 101 Before Dating- S7- Ep 2

On this episode my guest Tia and I talk about the importance of getting yourself together before dating. We talk about the need for some people to get a therapist before and between relationships if needed to be able to be your best self in relationships. We also discussed some issues that arise when damaged people continue to date. This episode is very insightful and gives people some things to ponder on before entering a relationship. Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtracey...

Feb 07, 202327 minSeason 7Ep. 2

Walls too High in Dating- S7- Ep 1

Often times in dating things start off great and then a wall is hit. Different relationships and our upbringing allows our defense mechanisms to flare up when we run into situations we didn't deal with and heal from in the past. My guest Princess and I discuss the issues high walls cause in breaking down relationships before they begin. Have you ever experienced an issue with someone not letting you in completely? Take a listen and see how we navigate this topic. Email: Traceysarpong@gmail....

Feb 05, 202331 minSeason 7Ep. 1

Sick of Being Single- S6- Ep 15

There are a multitude of men and women who are single and unhappy about it. My guest Grace and I talk about why this is a common theme amongst people today. Being single seems like its a simple problem and in some cases it is but as we discussed there are more layers to this issue. Are you sick of being single? Let me know why and how I can help. Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Feb 05, 202327 minSeason 6Ep. 15

Trying to Make Non Existent Relationships Work - S6- Ep -14

In this episode my guest and I discuss what non existent relationships are and how people get into these sort of situations. Whether it is a couple that has broken up and one person wants to make it work, or a talking phase that never really took off, or someone being interested in a person who isn't interested back. We laughed and chatted about miscommunication and how important it is in all relationships. Take a listen to the episode and see how we navigate the murky waters of confusion i...

Feb 02, 202317 minSeason 6Ep. 14

First Dates are Like Auditions- S6 -Ep 13

This episode I talk about the importance of a first date because it can make it break the start of a relationship. A lot of things can be missed by phone calls but especially by text messages which is what a lot of people use to communicate these days. First dates and first impressions can really shape the way the person views you. Have you had a bad first date that turned into a great relationship ? Let me know Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show ...

Jan 31, 202312 minSeason 6Ep. 13

Heart Broken and Single - S6- Ep 12

Have you ever been single but been heart broken or hurt after dealing with someone? A lot of people are going and growing through situationships that have wasted their time and emotions. This episode I just talk about some of the reasons so many of us have experienced this in relationships. Email: traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 30, 202314 minSeason 6Ep. 12

Time Wasters- S6 - Ep 11

Have you ever been a victim of getting your time wasted? Have you ever wasted someone else’s time. What was the reason behind it? In this episode I talk a bit about the issue with wasting a persons time and the possible why behind it. Send me and email or a DM and let me know if this has happened to you. Enjoy the episode Email: traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 27, 202312 minSeason 6Ep. 11

Rules Of Dating (Part 1) - S6- Ep 10

Have you ever wondered what the rules of dating actually are? I figured that they are different for everyone depending on life experiences and age groups. I listed some things I believe were appropriate guidelines for a person that is just dating someone. Feel free to add to the list ! Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 26, 202311 minSeason 6Ep. 10

Is Breaking Up Hard- S6 - Ep 9

Is the act of breaking up that hard. I speak on what the issue is with being upfront and honest with someone you no longer want to date or deal with on a level above just being friends. It seems there are so many terms for the action to break up when it can all be so simple. Do you have issues breaking up? Let me know Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 25, 202310 minSeason 6Ep. 9

Do You Think You Will Find Mr/Ms Right? S6- Ep 8

This episode I discuss briefly if people truly believe they will find the person that is made for them. I have heard a lot of people who seem don’t believe the right person is out there for them based on the current dating pool. Let me know your thoughts. Email: traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 25, 202313 minSeason 6Ep. 8

Friends Vs Possessions - S6 -Ep 7

Friendship is a state of mutual trust and support between allied people. Is there a line that is crossed within friendships that take things to far. Have you seen circumstance where people treat friends as possessions and depend heavily on them. Is this as sign of personal insecurity ? Let me know if you have experienced this or your thoughts on this. Email: traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 25, 202312 minSeason 6Ep. 7

Should You Buy Him Food? S6- Ep 6

On this Episode I talk about a real life scenario I came across online where a man asked the woman he was dating to buy him some food and that caused the end of their relationship. It surprised me but I gave details on what could have possibly happened behind the scenes. If you have any topic suggestions let me know. Send me an email or a dm. If you want to be a guest also let me know. Email: traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theof...

Jan 24, 202313 minSeason 6Ep. 6

He's Not Interested/Not Serious Early On S6- Ep 5

In this episode my guest Portia and I converse about the ways to tell that a man may not be too interested in a female early on. We navigate some ways to tell that a relationship may not be growing in a positive way. In this dating age a lot of times women may have a hard time differentiating the interest and intentionality of a man. Have you ever been in a situation where you are lost of confused about where you stand with a man? Take a Listen and Let me know what you think? Send me an email to...

Jan 20, 202320 minSeason 6Ep. 5

My Husband Has Another Child - S6- Ep 4

This episode asks for advice for a sticky situation regarding a child that came from infidelity. When you are married the stakes are different and since I am not married I am not sure what to say or do? Take a listen and let me know what you would do in this situation. Contact me with any questions you may need advice on: Email- traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 13, 202311 minSeason 6Ep. 4

Can You Handle Heart Break- S6- Ep 3

Why do men and women deal with heart break and heart ache differently? Have you dealt with a heart break or supported someone who was going through one? On this episode I dive a little into what I’ve notice about how we as people deal with the painful end of a relationship. Let me know your thoughts and connect with me via email or Instagram. Email: traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 10, 202314 minSeason 6Ep. 3

Are You Really Ready- S 6 -Ep 2

This episode I discuss if I truly believe that when the right man comes along if I have truly worked on myself the right way and if I would be prepared for a relationship that will work out. Random thoughts as I gear up for this new season. Send me a message with your thoughts: Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 08, 202312 minSeason 6Ep. 2

Is He The Prize - S6- Ep 1

With all the dating stories I have been hearing lately the most unsettling one at the moment is if the men are now the prize?! Have any of you heard this and is this something you agree with? Take a listen and let me know what you think. Send me a message with your thoughts: Email: Traceysarpong@gmail.com Instagram: Theofficialtraceysarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jan 03, 202312 minSeason 6Ep. 1

Mismatched Dating Situations - S5 Episode 7

Have you ever seen couples that just don’t go together. Something is off whether it’s looks or finances or career choice. In this episode my guest and I discuss the effects of dating people you are are not equally yoked with. Tune in and Enjoy Follow Trae and Connect With Trae Instagram- @theofficialtraceysarpong Facebook- Tracey Sarpong Youtube- Tracey Sarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Oct 20, 202040 minSeason 5Ep. 7

Almost There but Never There Relationships- S5 Episode 6

My guest and I discuss relationships that we have all been apart of that never come to fruition and why we think it’s such an common occurrence in dating in this day and age. Please tune in and enjoy! Follow Trae and Connect With Trae Instagram- @theofficialtraceysarpong Facebook- Tracey Sarpong Youtube- Tracey Sarpong Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Aug 13, 202029 minSeason 5Ep. 6

Can You Rely On a Man Who Isn’t Yours? S5 Episode 5

When it comes to a non committed relationship what rights do you have? What can you expect from them and can you call them when you are in a time of need? My guest and I clarify what we think is acceptable and unacceptable for these types of relationships. Follow Trae and Connect With Trae Instagram- @theofficialtraceysarpong Facebook- Tracey Sarpong Youtube- Tracey Sarpong Email- Traceysarpong@gmail.com Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jul 21, 202021 minSeason 5Ep. 5

Self Prep Before the Vows (Female Edition) - S5 Episode 4

My guest and I discuss what we do as woman to continue building ourselves up and what other women can do as we prepare ourselves before the married life. Tune in and enjoy! Follow Trae and Connect With Trae Instagram- @theofficialtraceysarpong Facebook- Tracey Sarpong Youtube- Tracey Sarpong Email- Traceysarpong@gmail.com Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtraceysarpong...

Jul 17, 202044 minSeason 5Ep. 4

In Gods Time - S5 Episode 3

I have often heard the phrase in Gods Time when it comes to situations that aren’t moving and are stagnant in people’s lives. My Guest and I discuss what we think this phrase really means and give people logical ways to move in this season of their life and stop wasting time! Listen and enjoy! Follow Trae and Connect With Trae Instagram- @theofficialtraceysarpong Facebook- Tracey Sarpong Youtube- Tracey Sarpong Email- Traceysarpong@gmail.com Support the show https://instagram.com/theofficialtrac...

Jul 15, 202034 minSeason 5Ep. 3

Bad Relationships w/ Parents Affecting Your Dating Life- S5 Episode 2

Mommy and daddy issues is a phrase we have all heard but do you think it could actually affect the way your dating life as an adult could be? My guest and I y’all a lot our not so perfect relationships with the parentals and how it may or may not have affected the way we have dated as young women. Tune in for our convo and enjoy. Follow Trae and Connect With Trae Instagram- @theofficialtraceysarpong Facebook- Tracey Sarpong Youtube- Tracey Sarpong Email- Traceysarpong@gmail.com Support the show ...

Jun 29, 202027 minSeason 5Ep. 2