Hola Milkers! Que tal!? Vale! It's a Tres Leches solo episode! The dolls are back together—no guests, just vibes. This week, Ian, Johnny, and Juan reflect on post-Pride energy, romantic misfires, healing through hobbies, and why we don’t have to earn joy to feel it. Ian shares a vulnerable moment about getting stood up at 4am (with a $65 Uber receipt to prove it), Johnny reveals how a pottery class cracked open something deeper, and Juan talks about working too much and sleeping too little—even ...
Jul 12, 2025•1 hr 17 min
Hi Milkers!! Happy Pride!!! This week, we’re joined by the one and only Marti Gould Cummings! Not only are they a walking International drag artist institution, they are a political powerhouse, and this year’s 2025 NYC Pride Grand Marshal. Claps for Marti !!! We talk about the full-circle magic of marching in your first Pride at the age of 17… and then leading it 20 years later. Marti opens up about their journey from nightlife icon to political organizer, how drag became a tool for visibility a...
Jun 29, 2025•1 hr 18 min
This week the ultimate comedy duo baby angels Tim Murray and Michael Henry, viral comedians and creators join us to talk about their OUTtv series Wish You Were Queer — The series follows Michael and Tim, who — for the first time — perform stand-up on the road across North America together, with help from executive producer Trixie Mattel. It’s giving road trip, it’s giving dick jokes, it’s giving gay missionary work (but backwards). We cover stand-up horror stories, peacocking through small towns...
Jun 22, 2025•55 min
Hi Milkers! It’s Pride Month, and what better way to kick it off than with New York Times–bestselling bisexual author and podcaster Amanda Montell? Author of Cultish , Wordslut , and The Age of Magical Overthinking —one of the many questions she poses is: Why, despite living in the information age, does life only seem to make less sense? We cover the psychology behind fandom, social media, cults, cognitive biases, crushes (or in Ian’s case, Gods) that live rent-free in your head, why Captain Hoo...
Jun 08, 2025•58 min
Milkers! This week, the boys sit down with the one and only Mario Cantone — aka Anthony Marentino from Sex and the City and And Just Like That — Join us for a wildly candid convo. We talk everything from his role in And Just Like That, his time with Sondheim, his sourdough side hustle, and the divas that raised him. Mario shares with us getting “the call” to come back to the Sex and the City franchise, filming love scenes in his 60s, his DMs post-premiere, and how therapy helps (but won’t fix yo...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 11 min
This week, Ian, Juan, and Johnny are back with a chaotic, hilarious catch-up and a return to their beloved Spilled Milk . Ian’s in his main character era as he steps into rehearsals for Prosperous Fools by Taylor Mac, Johnny spills all about hosting the red carpet for the opening of the Tryst Hotel in Puerto Vallarta (yes, with Julia Fox), and Juan does what he does best — gently drags us toward emotional clarity. We get into the art of ghosting (and why you shouldn’t come crawling back just bec...
May 11, 2025•1 hr 6 min
This week on Tres Leches , join Johnny , Ian , and Juan as they take you on a whirlwind tour of this year’s Coachella —no desert heat required! Juan is a Coachella virgin, but Coachella veterans/mayors Johnny and Ian are ready to share all their insider tips and memorable moments. 🎡 👑 Dive into the vibrant festival vibes as the trio debates the best and worst of Coachella fashion (aging out of flower crowns???), and relive Lady Gaga’s legendary performance through their eyes. What’s on the age...
Apr 28, 2025•1 hr
Mark Indelicato may become the Fourth Leche. He slid right in! Strap in, milkers, because this week on Tres Leches, we’re rolling out the red carpet for a riotous chat with Mark about his 18-year reign in Hollywood, from stealing hearts as Justin Suarez on Ugly Betty to his scene-stealing role as Damien in Hacks Season 4 (which just debuted). Mark has literally been famous for longer than Katy Kerry. What's on the Agenda? 👗 Fashion rants: NO MORE MALE STUNTS ON THE RED CARPET. 👑 Housewives hie...
Apr 13, 2025•1 hr 12 min
The dolls are in LA, the leche is flowing, and your favorite trio is nominated for a GLAAD Award, baby! In this special in-person episode of Tres Leches , Ian, Johnny, and Juan reunite under the Hollywood sign to talk all things travel trauma: baggage claim brawls, first-class curtain scandals, the war on checked luggage, and the audacity of parents asking for seat swaps. Plus, they get White Lotus -level deep dissecting friendship dynamics, Latine identity, and what it really means to be seen. ...
Mar 30, 2025•53 min
Frankie Grande is in the building, and he’s spilling it all! From his Broadway days (Mamma Mia!, Rock of Ages) to Big Brother fame and now stepping into his pop star era, Frankie gets real about finding his sound, getting sober, and embracing his most fearless self. The Tres Leches crew dives into his new single Rhythm of Love, his love for 80s icons like Bowie & George Michael, and the wildest moments from his career. Plus, we get into ghosting on dating apps, surviving the club scene sober...
Mar 16, 2025•1 hr 5 min
Nothing shakes up a friend group like a new boyfriend entering the chat! This week on the GLAAD MEDIA AWARD-NOMINATED Tres Leches podcast, Ian, Johnny, and Juan dive deep into the etiquette, drama, and unspoken rules of welcoming (or side-eyeing) your best friend's new boo. How do you handle it when your ride-or-die suddenly has less time for late-night FaceTimes? What if their partner’s “audition” for the friend group doesn’t exactly earn a callback? And how do you balance being a supportive fr...
Mar 02, 2025•1 hr 13 min
Happy Valentine’s Month, babies! On this episode of the GLAAD MEDIA AWARD NOMINATED TRES LECHES...did we mention we're not nominated for a GLAAD MEDIA AWARD? LOL What says romance like questionable relationship choices, friendship breakups, and debating whether to ask your situationship to be your Valentine? Nothing! This week, Ian, Johnny, and Juan unwrap the tangled web of love, lust, and cheat-ation (yes, we said cheat-ation—don’t ask). Listen in as Ian contemplates hosting a birthday bash wi...
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 1 min
The milk has returned! After a little break (miss us?), the boys are back—and with some big news! Tres Leches is now a GLAAD Media Award-nominated podcast! WEPA!! Huge thanks to GLAAD for the honor. This week, Juan spills on his new beau and his quest for balance, Johnny reflects on career shifts and staying offline, and Ian shares his experience with the LA wildfires and how being in LA has reignited his creativity. Plus, a deep dive into the TikTok blackout, the importance of real-life hobbies...
Feb 02, 2025•1 hr 1 min
The leches love Wicked! Tres Leches is now a GLAAD Media Award-nominated podcast! Fresh from the theater (and still emotional), your hosts dive deep into Jon M. Chu's spectacular film adaptation. From Ariana Grande's masterful take on Glinda to Cynthia Erivo's transformative Elphaba, we're celebrating every magical moment - and yes, we attempt the Defying Gravity battle cry multiple times. Plus, passionate debates about Jonathan Bailey's Fiyero, Michelle Yeoh's scene-stealing Madame Morrible, an...
Dec 01, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Was Martha Stewart born Wicked, or was wickedness thrust upon her? Tres Leches is now a GLAAD Media Award-nominated podcast! The leches dive into Martha's new Netflix documentary and unpack what makes America's first influencer tick (spoiler: it's pure, unfiltered confidence). Juan explains why he admires Martha's knife-specific kitchen rules, while Johnny defends her right to critique anyone's culinary choices. Then, these three Latinos get real about how and why their community voted the way t...
Nov 24, 2024•1 hr 19 min
Recorded before last week's election as a much-needed palette cleanser... The leches serve up three spicy helpings of Spilled Milk advice this week! What do you do when your ex tells you they "lowered their standards" (THE AUDACITY!)? How do you handle mismatched libidos? And should you join a throuple with famous adult film stars when you're not even sure if you're poly? Plus, the trio dives deep into failed talking stages, why you should stop worrying about sharks when you're not even in the w...
Nov 11, 2024•50 min
🎃 Welcome to Tres Leches’ Spooktacular Halloween Special! This week, dive into a bubbling cauldron of laughter and LOL moments as we dissect niche gay Halloween costumes. From meme-inspired ensembles to pop culture phenomena, get ready to giggle at the outrageous and admire the inventive. Juan gets personal, sharing why Halloween and holidays have sometimes been tough the last couple of year. He opens up about not wanting to become a ‘bitter old bitch’, and learning to enjoy life’s pleasures, e...
Oct 30, 2024•57 min
Celebrate one fabulous year with Tres Leches! 🎉 On this special anniversary episode, we dive into a sparkling retrospective of the moments that shaped us—from the iconic Cher vs. Tina debate to the birth of 27PLUS. It’s been a year of blessed friendships, profound reflections on love and loss, and embracing our unabashed gayness, all wrapped in the spirit of the First Wives Club. Join us as we revisit these highlights, fueled by the stories and support you’ve shared. Your messages and encounter...
Oct 25, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Join us on Tres Leches for an episode that’s truly one-of-a-kind! Latino Heritage Month ended yesterday, so we’re featuring two Latinos we’re not so proud of. We delve into the gripping Netflix series ‘Monsters,’ which explores the tumultuous lives of the Menendez brothers. In a bizarre twist of programming, we segue from the dark tale of the Menendez siblings into the colorful and often hilarious tales of our own Latino upbringings. From tales of overprotective mothers to the festive chaos of f...
Oct 16, 2024•1 hr 7 min
Hold on to your gowns, folks—Johnny Sibilly is here, and he’s brought Emmy gold with him! This week on Tres Leches, we’re bursting with joy straight from the 76th Emmy Awards, celebrating ‘Hacks’ as it clinches the top comedy prize. Join us as Johnny spills the tea on what it’s like to be part of TV’s favorite comedy this year. From Liza Colón-Zayas’ historic win to John Leguizamo’s powerful call for better Latino representation, this Emmy night was truly unforgettable. Plus, we’ll dive into Jea...
Sep 19, 2024•58 min
As three gay men who cut our teeth on the romantic revolution at the beginning of this new millennium, we’ve seen our share of love’s evolutions . This week on Tres Leches, we delve into the world of polyamory. We’re tuning into psychotherapist Esther Perel’s fascinating discussion, "The Arc of Love: The Poly Dinner Party," from her acclaimed podcast *Where Should We Begin?* Esther invites poly couples to lay it all out on the table, and we’re here to dissect each moment—from the highs of abunda...
Sep 10, 2024•1 hr 3 min
This week on Tres Leches, we’re celebrating the sensational Jools Lebron, a trans-Latina content creator who has captured our hearts and has the internet’s algorithm in a demure chokehold. An we’ve got something to to say those that tired of the trend! 👊🏾 just you wait, Henry Higgins! You might justifiably be tired of our chats about gay vacations and Fire Island, but bear with us—we’ve got a bit more to share today, all in the pursuit of discussing something truly important. We dive deep into...
Aug 22, 2024•1 hr 24 min
We’re really trying to be demure - but we’re just three brazen broads. This week on Tres Leches, join Juan as he embarks on his first trip of the year to Fire Island, bringing you a special episode straight from this iconic homosexual hotspot. Amidst the sandy shores and summer vibes, Juan engages in a profound exploration of self-discovery, confronting his longstanding reliance on men’s attention as his primary, if not sole, source of self-worth. This isn’t just a vacation; it’s a transformativ...
Aug 15, 2024•1 hr
Today’s episode is completely rotted, a direct reflection of our brains. Our grey matter took a vacation and decided to never come back. …but we kick things off with a heartfelt discussion about grief and recovery from the traumatic events in our lives. How long is too long to dwell in our sorrows, and when is it time to embrace a stiff upper lip? It’s a delicate balance, and we’re unpacking it today. As we wrap up our Olympic watch, we dive into some of the Games’ great moments and tackle the c...
Aug 08, 2024•1 hr 26 min
Strap in for a golden episode of Tres Leches as we dive into the dazzling world of the Olympics, including the awe-inspiring opening ceremony and Celine Dion’s triumphant return to the stage. We’re not just talking about her performance but also the masterful media blitz that heralded her comeback. It’s all about the spectacle, the strategy, and the sparkle! Then, we discuss the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleadrs and their Netflix documentary experience: ‘America’s Sweethearts.’ We’re still not over the ...
Aug 01, 2024•1 hr 32 min
We’re thrilled to be back with you after our quick summer sojourn! In today’s episode of Tres Leches, we’re diving headfirst into a monumental moment in American politics. With Kamala Harris stepping up as the presidential candidate after Joe Biden’s exit from the race, we’re unpacking the seismic shift and what it means for the future. We share our thoughts, hopes, and reflections on this pivotal and potentially wild chapter in American history. And don’t miss out—Johnny breaks down how to prop...
Jul 25, 2024•1 hr 34 min
No, really, we need saving! Because after recording this episode, it’s clear we need help. We’re starting with a brief toast to Broadway’s best at the Tony Awards, then crossing the Atlantic to dive into Ian’s beginnings in the UK, and exploring why he never read “The Outsiders.” Ian isn’t the only British thing we love—we are also head over heels for “Love Island UK” and its American sister show, which just kicked off a new season. Johnny and Juan are on a campaign to get Ian addicted to the is...
Jun 20, 2024•1 hr 26 min
Our witch’s brew is piping hot this week. Ian is practically levitating with excitement over the buzz that Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman might reunite for a “Practical Magic” reboot. Yes, you heard it right. This is Ian’s rapture. He has seen the face of God and it’s this potential cinematic revival. But that’s not all we’ve got stirring in our cauldron. We talk gay etiquette, why you should just say ‘hi’—always. Juan explains why you might want to think twice before claiming you’re ‘nauseous...
Jun 13, 2024•1 hr 30 min
Welcome back, mis amores! Today, we’re throwing out the agenda and just “comiendo mierda” (and yes, while that might translate to eating sh*…, around here, it means talking sh*…). You know when you talk to your best friend about the same thing you’ve talked about 5,676 times but you bring it up again because you’ve found another way to think about the same situation?—yep, that’s our vibe today. What’s on the docket? It’s Pride month, and we’re mixing celebration with a side-eye at all the gay co...
Jun 06, 2024•1 hr 22 min
As the season shifts, emotions are blooming just as much as the flowers around us. Johnny's stepping into a new relationship, while Juan and Ian are single, taking this time to delve deep into what intimacy and romance mean to them at this point in their lives. We're also exploring the nuances of platonic intimacy. Can these non-romantic relationships truly satisfy our yearnings for closeness and connection? For Ian, they might just be the answer. Later in the episode, in our "Spilled Milk" segm...
May 02, 2024•1 hr 13 min
