Life keeps us busy, and as we're preparing to head overseas we still get to continue our adventures with children, elders, and friends. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net , you can em...
Aug 16, 2025•26 min•Ep. 439
While George fights with his phone's automated assistant and our household automation system, we are preparing to travel again, this time to London. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net...
Aug 02, 2025•24 min•Ep. 438
Between Child#2, George's aunt, cousin Vinnie, and our lawyer friend, we have been keeping quite busy. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net , you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.co...
Jul 19, 2025•31 min•Ep. 437
While George was wandering himself all over the western US, he encountered a lot of folks who were doing a lot of gendery stuff. From the seemingly-cishet dude at the hardware store in the bay, to the queers at the psychedelic conference, to the cissies at the support group near home, there was much gender to be had. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to...
Jul 05, 2025•28 min•Ep. 436
George's shoulder continues to heal, but now it's Child#2's turn for surgery on a major joint. Even though he recently moved out, we are still his parents and still care and help as we're able. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment!...
Jun 21, 2025•32 min•Ep. 435
As the LGBTQ+ community is increasingly under fire in western society, and trans folks in particular are experiencing a marked increase in legal and social marginalization, we talked a bit about our experiences finding safety in community across time and place, prior to the turn of the millenium. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anony...
Jun 07, 2025•33 min•Ep. 434
Disappointingly, but not unexpectedly, Child#2 has made the decision to find somewhere else to live that does not require him to meet our incredibly stringent expectations for hygiene and participation. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed,...
May 24, 2025•37 min•Ep. 433
As we continue living that sandwich generation life, both Child#2 and George's aunt are taxing our energy and cognitive bandwidth. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net , you can email u...
May 10, 2025•36 min•Ep. 432
George is going on a super queer psychedelic road trip. We discuss how that came about. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net , you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com , and "TransP...
Apr 26, 2025•33 min•Ep. 431
George's shoulder surgery went better than expected, although being an 'old retired guy' everyone wants to talk about injuries and ailments. While he recovers we're preparing for Child#2 to turn 18 and move out, with strongly mixed feelings. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have ...
Apr 12, 2025•28 min•Ep. 430
Cousin Vinnie came to visit, so we sat down and talked about their past two years and Jess' past year on testosterone, comparing to George's initial experiences on T over a decade ago. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can b...
Mar 29, 2025•37 min•Ep. 429
When westerners call the generational status of caring for children and elders simultaneously "Sandwich Generation", Jess thinks that makes it sound like flavorful fillings in an easily handled form, but we have found it to be far from tasty. George especially finds it challenging while also dealing with repeated illness and injuries. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us k...
Mar 15, 2025•29 min•Ep. 428
Winding down our winter of all the freaking travel, we struggled with airports, recalled George's pre-transition man-blindness, and had a grand time at the soon-to-be-discontinued Gallifrey One. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment...
Mar 01, 2025•32 min•Ep. 427
As we both age, George has reached the stage where half his conversations revolve around his injuries and ailments. but he's also maturing into his role as a trans elder in various queer communities and social circles. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion th...
Feb 15, 2025•27 min•Ep. 426
We found more queers to spend time with, together and separately, and George is glad to get back to having more queer community after years of hanging out with straight, cis, middle class parents. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comme...
Feb 01, 2025•28 min•Ep. 425
George finally decided to change endocrinologists, meanwhile his aunt needs more assistance and his shoulder needs surgery. Life continues apace, no matter how much we might want a break. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We ca...
Jan 18, 2025•27 min•Ep. 424
George continued to pursue treatment for his shoulder, while also seeking supports for Child#2 who turns 18 soon, and having holidays with all our kids. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic...
Jan 04, 2025•31 min•Ep. 423
George can't seem to catch a break when it comes to health care, his fistula is healing well but now he has an injured shoulder and the new testosterone prescription is not working as well as the old one. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't liste...
Dec 21, 2024•24 min•Ep. 422
George went back to the surgeon for the outpatient procedure to repair his fistula. That recovery seems to be going smoothly, but now he has injured his arm, which is not recovering anywhere near as well. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't liste...
Dec 07, 2024•27 min•Ep. 421
George is going back to the surgeon for a fistula repair, and the bonus of going to the bay area is seeking new supplements and substances to benefit his mental health. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online a...
Nov 23, 2024•35 min•Ep. 420
In the interest of finding George more queer social time, we went to Folsom Street Fair and Salt Lake City, and yes we have recovered from the whiplash. Then we hosted the queers to help a friend with a construction project. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggest...
Nov 09, 2024•36 min•Ep. 419
One recurring theme in the ten year's we've been in your ears has been the recurring difficulties accessing testosterone. These difficulties are familiar to most trans folks on any form of HRT, and now George has been struggling to also access mental health treatment meds after an insurance snafu. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anon...
Oct 26, 2024•28 min•Ep. 418
When George got to Child#2's IEP meeting, in addition to doing the parenty thing, he also got to be "the dude who shut down the other dude". We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net , you c...
Oct 12, 2024•34 min•Ep. 417
Bob the dog is the only pet we intend to ever own again, but Child #3 wanted help keeping her cat when her other dad wasn't able to keep it anymore. We were willing to help, but only so far. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We...
Sep 28, 2024•32 min•Ep. 416
After bringing Child#2 home from Alaska, getting him back into the routines of daily life, school, and preparations for adulting, have been a challenge. But we went to pride and George found some resources that might help with the adulting part. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you h...
Sep 14, 2024•38 min•Ep. 415
After many months of shortage, George's testosterone prescription has finally begun refilling again. After many months of waiting for his endocrinologist to finish his move to a new practice, he has finally made contact and had an appointment. After many hours on the phone with doctor's offices, with insurance reps, with pension program insurance liaisons, and with patient advocates, can he actually get his T to refill on a regular basis again before his cautiously hoarded stash runs out? We are...
Aug 31, 2024•32 min•Ep. 414
We went back to Alaska to pick up Child#2, and took our own little vacation along the way, stopping in Seattle first. But of course, nothing ever goes to plan around here, so in addition to George having a date and Jess getting to see a friend, we also had to do long-distance parenting and kid-transit troubleshooting. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking t...
Aug 17, 2024•27 min•Ep. 413
Once George and Vinnie got Child#2 to his adult brother's village in Alaska, you would think the challenges would settle down some. You'd be wrong, but they did find queers, so that was better, maybe? We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, c...
Aug 03, 2024•25 min•Ep. 412
Child#2's brother has been half-asking, half-planning, half-assing an attempt at a visit for a long while, so finally George and Cousin Vinnie decided to just make it happen. The efforts to plan and to communicate with said brother and family were mildly challenging and mildly amusing. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey...
Jul 20, 2024•25 min•Ep. 411
George has recruited Cousin Vinnie to help take Child#2 to visit the boy's adult half-brother, while Jess is having lots of social time both with and without George, and we all are having our challenges interacting with the allocishets. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374 . If you have a req...
Jul 06, 2024•39 min•Ep. 410