Episode 46: Worry Bout Yoself!
Pretty self-explanatory. A re-hash of self-care and an added perspective. Gone till December at least so be well and take care of yourselves while I’m away.
Aug 28, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 16
Tossed Salads & Scrambled Eggs
Welcome to Tossed Salads & Scrambled Eggs. Each week will bring a new topic in the realm of love, sexuality, relationships, dating and the like that I will bring my perspective to.
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Episode 45: WAP and the Fun Police
I’ll keep it short and sweet. This week, I discuss the awesomeness that is WAP (aka Wet Ass Pussy) and the stealers of joy called the Fun Police who had all their think pieces about it. ENJOY! DROWN IN IT!!!!!!
Aug 14, 2020•45 min•Season 3Ep. 15
Episode 44: Don't Come In Here With That Bullshit!
In different ways and instances, people will come to you or to a group of people (friends, family, lovers) with some pure tomfoolery. Some foolishness they know they shouldn't be walking in with. In this week's episode, we talk about some of those different things such as threesomes, interracial dating, and ya grandpappy having fiddy-eleven families! Enjoy!
Aug 07, 2020•43 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Episode 43: Settling and Worthiness
Should everyone have a fair opportunity at romantic happiness? Is there a such thing as being worthy of love? Is it too damn hot outside? Should your raggedy ass be wearing a mask if outside? These questions and more all answered, next time on Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs!
Jul 24, 2020•59 min•Season 3Ep. 13
Episode 42: Randomness and Phone Sex
Yeah I wasn't really sure what I wanted to discuss this week so the first half is a mix of different things that were on my mind at the moment and the second half is about the joys of phone sex. Enjoy!
Jul 17, 2020•43 min•Season 3Ep. 12
Episode 41: So You've Decided To Invoke The Opt Out Option to Clappin' Cheeks: What Now?
As much as people as a whole discuss sex and sexuality, we don't often discuss when people decide they do not want to have sex. If we do, it's usually more so in a shaming way. The truth is sometimes for one reason or another, sex just may not be of interest to you. In this episode, we talk about abstinence vs celibacy, some guidance if you are trying to avoid sex if you're only abstaining for a certain period of time, and sexual performance anxiety as the icing on the cake. Enjoy!
Jul 10, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Episode 40: Dating & Sex Vocabulary and the Art of Thirst Trapping
With all the new ways we have to communicate in this day and age that our parents and grandparents may not have access to, it's surprising how people more often use it to avoid direct communication altogether. This week we discuss the newly coined terms people use when it comes to dating that would make our parents' heads spin and the fine art of thirst trapping. Enjoy!!!!
Jul 03, 2020•1 hr 24 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Episode 39: Gender Roles Stuff, Boosie and It's All Good
This week, we over some more gender roles material, some new and some possibly a rehash, how Boosie is a raggedy (which is nothing new) and how it's OK to live and let live. Everything is not for everybody and it doesn't have to be. Hope yall are being safe out there and enjoy this episode!
Jun 26, 2020•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Episode 38: The Big Horny & Life Lessons From A Raggedy Ass Job
Rona has folks (predominantly heterosexual men) acting UP so we go over some basic engagement rules for connecting with the opposite sex. Also, I have a new job after years at the same company and ironically enough, many of the positive life lessons I gained from that time also apply to romantic, sexual, as well as many other types of connections.
May 29, 2020•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Episode 37: Is Love Blind?
So in all the craziness going on in the world, I somehow ended up watching Love is Blind, the Netflix series, and BOY do I have an opinion about this living train wreck. Listen as I sound off about these wild ass folk and just everything I felt was off about the whole shabang.
Mar 27, 2020•1 hr 26 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Episode 36: Bisexuality and Upholding the Patriarchy
This week, we talk about the many nuances of bisexuality. When I say nuances, I am referring to the misinformation out there, the societal double standard, and the commotion in the news in regards to it. I also discuss how men are not the only population that hold up the power structures that keep men with more power as well as uphold areas of what people classify as toxic masculinity.
Mar 13, 2020•56 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Episode 35: Where Dem Dollars at? & Pet Peeves of Sex
Just as often as sex comes up in the conversation of dating, money will also be a never ending conversation. This week's episode has me relating to the different aspects and opinions regarding money's role in dating and even a bit in sex. I end the episode discussing pet peeves in the bedroom.
Mar 06, 2020•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Episode 34: Fuck Dem Kids
This week's episode is in regards to the tiniest of terrors: children. Not so much them directly as more so in regards to the experience of dating through the scope of those who have children from previous relationships and encounters. My experience is limited since I don't have any of my own at present but that certainly doesn't stop me from at least attempting to address the topic from my viewpoint
Feb 28, 2020•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 4
Episode 33: Approaching Women
I was asked how I approach women. After taking a good chuckle, I said honestly I don't necessarily have a go to per se. I think that depending on the environment, your approach is going to be different per the situation. After all, Not every avenue of approach will work in every circumstance. In this week's episode we go over some of the general do's and don't's for a man approaching a woman romantically or even sexually
Feb 21, 2020•59 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Episode 32: Estelle Angelique
This week, we have our first guest from the field of sex work: Miss Estelle Angelique! She is an escort who currently lives right here in Austin who has had many life experiences. Listen in as I interview her and we converse on a number of interesting topics as the conversation flows. Trust me you don't want to miss this one! I am super excited to share this one with you all! Be sure to follow Miss Angelique aka Sweet Throat on social media as well as support her in her work Twitter: _EAngelique...
Feb 14, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Episode 31: Learning Foreign Languages (We as well as óui) & The Year of No
Welcome back to a new season of Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs! Did you miss me? If not, I'm still here anyways. I start off this season with how one may go about transitioning from a mindset of a single person to an individual sharing a relationship with someone. I also go into setting boundaries and the importance of telling these muthafuckas no!
Feb 07, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Episode 30: Hobosexuals and Other Phenomena I Learned as an Adult
As a child, you speak and think like a child. However, when you become an adult, they don't give you a manual or anything. You're just kinda thrust into the world as if you know everything in existence and that you will figure it all out. So many different forms of tomfooloery and jackassery we end up discovering on our own through the roughest teacher there is, experience.
Dec 20, 2019•57 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Episode 29: National Geographic: Clubs, Parties, and Kickbacks
I hope you all had a great Turkey Day with family and/or friends!!!! I decided to have a fun episode this week. I have mostly retired from going out as fa as clubs go. I might attend a party or kickback under the right circumstances but I haven't in quite some time. So many interesting mannerisms, behaviors, and hilarity go on at parties and similar social events and I break it down in only the way that I can!
Nov 29, 2019•1 hr 26 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Episode 28: Lost Arts
Here for you listening pleasure, we discuss some treasures in this world that are free to use, yet heavily underutilized. This week, we will examine aspects of life that are in my eyes "lost arts", or those keys to making life so much better that tend to be ignored or bypassed even though they hold high levels of importance for a better smoother life
Nov 22, 2019•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Episode 27: Infidelity, Sexual Coercion, and Proper Condom Usage
There are more than a few topics in the world that fall under the umbrella of awkward conversations. As a an aspiring therapist, I am big on approaching the elephants in the room. After all, it's not like not discussing them make them disappear. They just sit in the corner waiting for someone to address them. They know someone will eventually have to. This week, we dive into a few of those.
Nov 15, 2019•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Episode 26: Sex Myths
People love making up shit and spreading misinformation. Remember that episode of Moesha when Myles thought he got ol girl pregnant because they slow danced? As we all know, unless they was doin the slow horizontal mambo naked, she's 100% not pregnant! Things like that are the inspiration for this week's episode. This week, I go over a few myths and facts regarding sex
Nov 08, 2019•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Episode 25: Body Image/Body Shaming
Body image is something I believe most of us struggle with at some point in life. How you feel about the body you have and the individual parts you were given to work with is not always pleasant and happy in a world that constantly has opinions about this, that, and all the others in regards to what is or isn't "ok" or "normal" or attractive/sexy/beautiful/handsome/whatever. I give some time specifically for the weight end of body image as well as go over some of the different parts of the body ...
Nov 01, 2019•1 hr 44 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Episode 24: STDs/STIs
It would not be responsible to have open and frank discussions about sexuality if we are not going to talk about the importance of safe sex. In this episode, we discuss the basic facts of STDs/STIs as well the stigma behind this topic and prevention methods. So much information is available yet underutilized and sometimes even used improperly.
Oct 25, 2019•1 hr 27 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Episode 23: Top 5 & How Important Is Sex?
Everybody has those things that ,above all others that may be on the list, are most important when out in these dating streets. That list is also malleable. It changes, shifts around, and evolves depending on your life circumstances, your culture, and you as an individual. This week, I go over some of the traits I believe would be on most peoples' lists as well as what my own personal answer to this would be.
Oct 18, 2019•1 hr 9 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Episode 22: Working Out The Kinks
In this episode, I explore one of my favorite discoveries since embarking on this journey to becoming a couples counselor and sex therapist: an actual created map of human sexuality! I run down as much of the poster as I can, discussing all the many fetishes and kinks on the map as well as define quite a few of them.
Oct 11, 2019•1 hr 13 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Episode 21: Toys R Us
Yes, you do want to grow up and be a different kind of Toys R Us adult (R.I.P. to the real Toys R Us. So many cherished memories!) ! The toys discussed in this episode are definitely not for kinds. Listen as I explore some of the many options we all have when it comes to bring toys into the bedroom or wherever it is you decide to engage in sexual pleasure, bet it solo or with others.
Oct 04, 2019•56 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Episode 20: Dating No No's
In this episode, I discuss some of the different things I've personally learned along the way as well as some things others have experienced that have come to be things that ,if you plan on dating successfully, you probably should avoid doing.
Sep 20, 2019•1 hr 23 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Episode 19: Guilt, Shame, and Embarrassment
This week, we are in the realm of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and how these constructs/concepts relate to general life, relationships of all kinds, as well as sexuality.
Sep 13, 2019•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Episode 18: Entitlement
This week's episode is all about entitlement. That arrogant brash prideful feeling many of us deal with at one point or another that we are due or owed something by virtue of existing or doing the bare minimum. I discuss it in general terms as well as some of the ways it manifests in dating and sex.
Sep 07, 2019•1 hr 25 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Episode 17: Myths, Logistics, and How the Fuck Does This Actually Work Anyway?
This week, it's all about sex! Yes, you read that right! In this episode I discuss sexuality in terms of how little talking directly and out loud we actually do especially if we are talking about sex education. As with all information, when the facts are not talked about often over the course of life due to embarrassment, shame, and guilt around the topic, it becomes easier to spread misinformation as well as myths. I discuss some of these myths as well as share from my own experiences what happ...
Aug 30, 2019•1 hr 27 min•Season 2Ep. 1
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