Luckily us lgbt+ folx have some freedom and flexibility when it comes to rules and roles. This conversation is taken from a topic on Ashley Gavin's podcast (check out that episode HERE! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUI4ZR0hioc). Ashley Gavin's episode stars the returning cis straight Caucasian comedian co-host Hannah as well as returning trans Latinx female body builder Angel Flores. Their episode speaks to flirting with their friends, living in separate households from a partner, poly dating...
Jan 06, 2023•32 min
Dance floor Rules? Are LGBTQ+ bar and club spaces different? I talk about my experiences in bars, clubs and festivals. Experiences with dancing. Experiences with socializing and mingling in queer versus straight spaces. I speak to some of the comp het unofficial laws of the land. Overall, consent is key. But after that fact, there appear to be differences. Check out the IG: https://www.instagram.com/tomboyofficialig/ Check out the BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ Check out the PODCAST:...
Jan 05, 2023•1 hr 9 min
(This is actually from the NYE ep end of 2022, the first portion to that topic).
Jan 02, 2023•1 hr 28 min
This topic may be triggering for some. Still based off the convo by the Jubilee YouTube episode.
Dec 31, 2022•1 hr 34 min
(15:00mins in marks the start of the main topic).
Dec 29, 2022•1 hr
Gentrification? Financial warfare?
Dec 28, 2022•48 min
Recalling some early dating experiences.
Dec 27, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Some slight holiday talk and leading into some community situations.
Dec 27, 2022•1 hr 30 min
Cut that short! Well here is a blog link. I may just be writing for some few more days. I need to edit what I write but I don’t really do it. I just want to make it and post it. Likely more to come. “Gay Night In”: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/2022/12/a-gay-night-in.html
Dec 23, 2022•3 min
Things may be a tad slow until 12/26/22 with posts. I’m trying to record when I can.
Dec 22, 2022•15 min
Quick queer dream
Dec 20, 2022•13 min
[Trigger warning- this episode contains topics surrounding body image, eating/ diet, and can potentially be triggering for people with dysphoria]. Gender expression can impact clothing styles. Our bodies based on genetics and sex at time of birth as well as hormones affect how your body naturally distributes for your figure can change. How can you think more positively to more directly keep on track with goals daily? How can you identify the patterns leading to going off track from daily goals? ...
Dec 17, 2022•1 hr 1 min
Talking about caffeine, sleep, vitamins, cannabis and (unrelated) the L Word cast. https://youtu.be/ikiVpMUKhZ8
Dec 17, 2022•28 min
https://transtape.life
Dec 16, 2022•1 hr 1 min
Check out Lexie Peterss. She/they, content creator: linear success, healing journey. Lexie Peters @lexiepeterss Podcast: Peters’s Perspective (trauma, triggers, reaction) https://open.spotify.com/episode/09CvweNb6iTqUtqxFprO3j?si=bP1Sd5xLQDmPsDF-9c95FQ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Lexiepeterss?fbclid=PAAaa5iHV4mAH9KSMClaLvSgGjW457GoUOHw1_eXwxFzR8wLrPJgHFND5gQC0 YouTube vid: https://youtu.be/srgvi5V8bWQ
Dec 15, 2022•53 min
(I forgot to mention I’ve just added an order of Soylent to throw into my daily regimen. I ordered 18 bottles which should last me until Monday 12/26/22). I’m trying to spice up my routines! Boredom is killing my motivation and I’ve seen the light recently, that staying indoors all day doesn’t do too much for me other than saving $. And I’m not that hard pressed for $ that I need to be scrimping so hardcore. So I’m getting out of my cage.
Dec 14, 2022•33 min
Travel & dating as Trans, non-binary, and/or perceived non-Cis. Show notes short hand version: (Queer Trans male, Chinese-American) actor (trained in social work and raised by 2 adoptive mothers) Leo Sheng traveling documentation for a trans person (trans male). Check out their full episode or scrub to Leo’s part: https://youtu.be/mU-rgzhpby0 Expensive process. Government forms: privilege, being perceived as Cis, legal name change, birth certificate changes, (state differences), citizenship ...
Dec 13, 2022•1 hr 24 min
A tired after work journey across LA on a week night! All to meet some gay locals and have a drink and some bomb tacos. Flux!! DJ was good and very chill nice people vibes. Nice wintery patio too.
Dec 12, 2022•55 min
Nuff said!
Dec 11, 2022•11 min
SPOILER ALERT! I’m about to talk about episode details. My opinions to date and the evolution of some characters.
Dec 10, 2022•16 min
I forgot to mention for this one. I also have a basketball, women’s size. And a soccer ball. I have this harness for it (not a Soccer Pal net)but a harness that wraps around the waist and can be used to practice kicks and the elastic attached around the ball returns the ball to avoid having to chase after ball. I also have a karate gi. My friends and I at times did some light sparring in my friend’s livingroom. He has boxing gloves, pads and bag for punching and kicking. And we used to do that l...
Dec 09, 2022•31 min
Nudes, Wiki feet & Security: people should be able to both have fun AND protect themselves. Keep it safe.
Dec 08, 2022•50 min
Complete spoilers! Check out some of the collabs the L Word cast did with multiple LGBTQ+ LA YouTubers! Check out collabs with the following: Ambers Closet- https://youtu.be/hfrn39bmDm0
Dec 07, 2022•41 min
So this is far too long BUT I had the time, found the time, made the time… so wth. My social life has changed so much from pre Rona frolicking to the more recent less frequency but larger hang out times with bigger events. I’m still figuring out my social goals in upcoming days and weeks. It will be exciting to see how all the changes will influence some upcoming social options.
Dec 06, 2022•1 hr 46 min
Yes this is going to be absolutely all over the place. Sometimes I am still learning HOW to talk about certain experiences.
Dec 05, 2022•1 hr 11 min
I forgot to mention! Today in addition to these topics (studying, cleaning, groceries, exercise) I will be having a half day of hourly short meditations, and Monday I will do that the full day. I tend to practice a tad of “structured chaos.” I like to do what I want, when I want. It’s the Leo in me. But I also like routines with some flexibility. I’ll be off Friday and instead of snowboarding I will hike instead. And at the end of the month when I visit San Diego I plan to hike some of the Missi...
Dec 04, 2022•36 min
Looking at the last week: finances, sleep, nutrition, exercise, work, self-care…The usual!!! Planning the next week of where to improve. There may be some fun in the mountains the next 2 Fridays!! Motivation from plans, social media, sports, and queer athletes.
Dec 03, 2022•1 hr 14 min
Absolute spoiler! Just talking about general thoughts.
Dec 03, 2022•44 min
Some organization and planning.
Dec 02, 2022•46 min
I posted to a forum.
Dec 02, 2022•30 min
