Interacting with religious and cultural info: method even if you don’t subscribe
Interacting with religious and cultural info: method even if you don’t subscribe
Nov 18, 2021•1 hr 43 min
Tomboy Official
Helpful topics where we discuss dating, communication, complexities of relationships, style, social norms, and topics related to allies and LGBTQ+ humans. Want more?
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Substances and Drugs and LGBT Safe Spaces
LGBT spaces are often popular clubs, bars, and party events.
Nov 08, 2021•1 hr 9 min
Dating & Partying Dynamics in the LGBT+ Realm
My perspectives on my social life, how hanging with friends and different events impacts dating for me, and some of my personal perspectives and insights from the past, what’s going on in the present, and my future outlooks. (These are my own personal experiences, so not necessarily saying everybody needs to be the same but this is some stuff that does work for me and other stuff I’ve realized that hasn’t). PAST: since I was raised in a conservative and reserved culture which was also judgmental...
Nov 06, 2021•39 min
Non-binary Intimacy
More topics about expectations from society, and how those not on the binary may experience relationships differently.
Nov 05, 2021•1 hr 10 min
Hetero Normative Standards
The Cis Straight crowd has often placed a lot of expectations as well as stereotypes on those of us who are other. Here we talk about gender expectations, norma we see or experience in friendships, family relations and with dating and partners or even casual hook ups.
Nov 05, 2021•1 hr 13 min
Non-binary and Models
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Oct 12, 2021•47 min
Deepening Relationships: dealing with difficulties
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Sep 20, 2021•1 hr 18 min
Deepening Relationships: Energy and Attunement
Diving into our attunement to our own selves and how this translates , interferes or enhances our relationships with others.
Sep 20, 2021•1 hr 1 min
Deepening Relationships: training your emotions
Emotions often seem to control us. Here we break down the process of how emotions lead to patterns and those patterns can be unhelpful and keep us stuck. We take a look under the microscope and look into the hidden details of how to notice patterns and how to stop them for long enough to implement changes. Whether the relationship is with ourselves, a partner, a friend or family members we can learn to have more control and focus by taking what isn’t working and shifting it into new patterns tha...
Sep 20, 2021•1 hr 18 min
Crushes
Let’s talk about approaching a crush and how to open up about those feelings and what to do with a crush on a friend. About 13 mins in is where the intro ends.
Sep 14, 2021•1 hr
Baby Gays
To the baby gays, newly queer, newly out, newly identified and younger OR even older LGBTQ+ and gender queers out there! Welcome!!! Here I take about 15 mins catching everybody up on my current situations and changes in life and then eventually jump into talking to those who are newly out or newly coming into the realization of the most authentic version of themselves ESPECIALLY if you don’t identify with being a straight cis person then this might appeal to you!
Sep 13, 2021•1 hr 44 min
Dating Life and LGBTQ+ Dynamics
Dating during “El Ron” has become even mor complex. Adding more factors and fears and concerns than before. I talk here about my recent dating experiences and adjustments of getting back out there.
Aug 31, 2021•1 hr
Finances, poverty and Improving
Here I talk about finance, and asexual and gender minority dynamics as well as how the system impacts. I hope the strategies and tips mentioned are helpful! Im not a financial professional and I cannot diagnose or recommend treatment without a supervisor, so the info listed is just for educational purposes and is not a professional recommendation.
Aug 02, 2021•1 hr 58 min
Happy San Diego Pride 2021!
San Diego Pride 2021 was amazing!
Jul 19, 2021•10 min
Dating and Striking Out
Why do we fear rejection? It bruises the ego and touches on insecurities. Do you know what you look for when approaching the unknown? Do you like dating apps, socializing in the wild, letting people while with your buddies or blind dates? Are you even looking for dates? Or just casual flings? So long as the interactions are respectful to self and others, fun, healthy, legal and safe then I say GO FOR IT! Sometimes it can get confusing out there as to what we need or want or are looking for. Let’...
Jul 15, 2021•1 hr 17 min
Dating Life Evolutions
Things change! Time progresses! And we often aren’t the same person we were last year. The progressions May be small and u detectable in an hour, day or week’s length. But a lot of times we look back and notice maybe our mindset has changed, or we have different values for our time and energy or are seeking different things to feel more fulfilled. Let’s talk about it!
Jul 15, 2021•22 min
Dating Life Evolutions
Pre Rona compared to during and at the (hopefully) tail end. Dating has changed and as we have all changed in life and gained more perspective this has impacted dating for many of us such as views, what we are looking for, how we date and experiences.
Jul 07, 2021•1 hr
Tomboys and Sports
Sports, art, music, creativity. These are the places where our kind is often represented. We all know stereotypes of femme and masc styles, but how cool is it to watch ballerinos fly, or to watch drag queens dance, or female basketball players dominate! We are out there guys and we are often represented in sports and creative outlets. How awesome were artists such as Bowie, Prince, Queen Latifah. Pushing the gender barriers. Definitely motivating to witness, see and enjoy.
Jun 29, 2021•41 min
Queer Sex Ed- conversations
While dating and forming more close relationships more than friends, we often aren’t taught how to navigate conversations. We are often taught from a majority culture perspective. Here is some info that may be good food for thought related to how queer people can approach different topics in gender and sexuality when it comes to dating, sex life and sexuality.
Jun 22, 2021•1 hr 30 min
Tomboys and Clothing for Hot Weather- Dysphoria, body image
Check out Jkiillem, momomuscle, and shedoeshim on Instagram for more insights, pics and tips! Here we have a real talk about how hot weather and needs to change clothing seasonally can impact dysphoria, comfort and anxiety. I talk about some tips and experiences. Don’t get down or feel a need to retreat or avoid things! It’s already hard trying to get back into socializing in person again. But don’t let discomfort get you down! There may be some options mentioned here that may give you just that...
Jun 16, 2021•1 hr
Dating and Pride
Adjusting back into dating in society can be complicated these days. This is the first pride season in a while where we are out there more in society and it’s like coming out of the cocoon!!
Jun 14, 2021•51 min
Socializing and Pride
Adjusting back into socializing in society can be complicated these days. This is the first pride season in a while where we are out there more in society and it’s like coming out of the cocoon!!
Jun 14, 2021•55 min
Dealing with the Failures and Mistakes
Lining up with the authentic self and the ego’s role in trying to defend us. This can happen publicly in social settings or in private internally while alone. We all know what a mistake looks like, and we know what it’s like to not reach a certain goal or expectation in a life milestone or a traditional expectation. When we miss the Mark how do we talk to ourselves? Or when we are insecure in a social setting how do we react? Ego defenses often show themselves when we are threatened by our own m...
May 22, 2021•56 min
Tomboys and Thailand
Welcome to all the listeners from Thailand! You are much appreciated. Please be in touch if there are any issues you would like to have anonymously discussed. Reach me at tomboyofficialemail@gmail.com or text Google number 424-241-3637. To every listener I thank you and love you lots! This community is here for you!
Apr 19, 2021•1 hr 12 min
Gender and Anxiety
Here the convo is about anxiety provoking situations... perhaps you can relate.
Mar 22, 2021•1 hr 16 min
Androgyny- expanding the mind
How to expand the mind about androgyny.
Mar 22, 2021•26 min
Sex
Check out my Patreon for stories: (some are free) patreon.com/TomboyOfficial Check out my Literotica for writings: (completely free) https://www.literotica.com/authors/Tomboy_Official Shop EBay: (Thorn Bloom 2025 T-Shirts) https://ebay.us/m/gRj3Ru (50 cents of all profits go to the Torrance LGBT+ Center in Los Angeles County,California) Blog: Tomboyofficial.blogspot.com IG: @Tomboyofficialig/ https://www.instagram.com/tomboyofficialig/ Sex notes: Stevie Boebi- how to finger a girl. https:/...
Feb 18, 2021•1 hr 2 min
Ambivalence/ Confusion and Courage
Real talk, I sometimes need support emotionally from a counselor. Life can be stressful and overwhelming. Even though I work in a therapy setting I am not ashamed to say that I need help sometimes too. Just someone who is a neutral party to help me find methods to cope and to confide in about stressors. If you’ve ever experienced distress and felt stuck, this will be a good episode for you! Ambivalence focuses on the tricky part of why sometimes we can’t “just do it.” Here I talk about situation...
Feb 18, 2021•1 hr 17 min
Gender Dysphoria and Coping
Here are some methods of coping with gender Dysphoria. It is just a start. But taking time out to slowly figure out how any arising issues are impacting in life and then slowly learning to cope with every aspect of it, this can be done. You can build up a tolerance and understanding to the thoughts and feelings that arise and eventually accept your authentic self. Just because society has not yet caught up and does not reflect all aspects of gender does not mean that anybody is “less than.” It’s...
Jan 20, 2021•1 hr 10 min
Gender Dysphoria
Many people experience discomfort with some aspect of themselves, but what happens if there are stressors related to making changes. Here we unpack some of the definitions, societal expectations and cultural topics related to the distress surrounding gender identity.
Jan 07, 2021•58 min
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