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Aug 19, 2025•17 sec•Ep. 59
Together Real Bad
Together Real Bad is a queer relationship based podcast, encouraging you to communicate more freely and openly, in your own relationships, to reap the amazing benefits of uninhibited healthy communication.
Join us bi-weekly as we discuss topics such as, pop culture, relationship dynamics, date night activities and maybe even a little flag football! Discover how we nurture our growing relationship with intentional acts, questions, love and service.
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Love Is A Responsibility
This is a Patreon Episode Check out our visuals and support the Pod: patreon.com/TogetherRealBad 🎙️ Episode Summary: Love, Responsibility, and Real-Life Frustrations In this raw and vulnerable Patreon episode, Beautifulll & Ace dive deep into relationship responsibility, emotional triggers, and real-life stressors, all while keeping their signature mix of humor and honesty. The Insurance Scam Saga shares a personal and frustrating experience after a minor car accident where the other driver...
Aug 05, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 58
What’s Going On: Communication Gaps in Black Families and Queer Love
In this episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into how generational communication habits in Black families impact our adult relationships—both romantic and platonic. Beautifulll and Ace share stories from their childhood, how they were raised to handle (or avoid) conflict, and what it’s like navigating communication with family as out, queer Black women. From unspoken tensions and "what happens in this house stays in this house" mindsets to rebuilding sibling relationships and confronting p...
Jul 22, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 57
Traveling with Friends
In this episode of Together Real Bad , your favorite queer couple podcast dives into what happens when you mix travel, friends, and relationship expectations. Beautifulll and Ace get vulnerable about a recent trip to New Orleans — and how a birthday vacation quickly turned into a lesson on boundaries, communication, and prioritizing your partner. 💬 They discuss: How to navigate travel with friends vs. travel with your girlfriend Why certain behaviors are relationship red flags on vacation Lesso...
Jul 08, 2025•56 min•Ep. 56
Love Is Fluid
In this episode of Together Real Bad, we’re diving into the deep end of what love, gender energy, and fluidity actually look like in our relationship. From surprise birthday letters and edible arrangements in New Orleans to unpacking who “wears the pants” at home, we're getting real about how we show up for each other in ways that break the mold. We get personal about: Why labels like “stud” or “femme” don't fully fit us—and how we navigate assumptions. How our energies shift depending on the mo...
Jun 24, 2025•58 min•Ep. 55
The Longest (Love) Yard
This exclusive Patreon video episode gets into the real, real of what it means to build (and keep building) a long-term relationship. Beautifulll shares what it’s like to be in her longest relationship ever, and Ace reflects on lessons from two 8-year loves. The talk growth, communication, triggers, and how to stay soft when life (and your ex) tried to harden you. In this episode: Posting your partner for the first time 😳 Creating a soft space when past relationships made you hard Why we don’t ...
Jun 10, 2025•55 min•Ep. 54
We Launched a Biz Together!
In this episode of Together Real Bad , Beautifulll and Ace open up about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of launching their new business venture together — Jem Junkies. From working the Black Boy Art Show in Chicago to building a brand that blends beauty and culture, the duo shares what it’s really like to start a business with your partner. They talk about: 👩🏾❤️👩🏽 The real behind mixing love and entrepreneurship 📈 The vision for Jem Junkies as a cultural lifestyle brand beyond too...
May 28, 2025•46 min•Ep. 53
New Episode Coming Wednesday!
What’s up y’all! With the long weekend, and how busy we were, we just could not fit the Podcast in the schedule. But don’t worry we are back with an episode early Wednesday morning. See you then! Beautifulll and Ace
May 27, 2025•22 sec•Ep. 52
The Closet Has Rooms
In this episode, we talk about what it’s like to really come out — not just once, but in layers. Inspired by a touching DM from a listener in London and a major coming out moment with family, we peel back the curtain on the fears, family dynamics, social media choices, and joy that come with showing up fully as yourself. ✨ Inside: Funny & frustrating bed-making battles A Mother's Day coming-out story (with a twist!) Being “out” at work, but not on Facebook Responding to a listener who asked,...
May 13, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 51
LGBTQIA But the "B" is Silent
In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the complexities of bisexuality, identity, and love in queer relationships — inspired by a real conversation with our incredible Airbnb guest, Demita Frazier! 🏡✨ 🎙 Topics Covered: When Beautifulll first realized her attraction to women The struggles of reconciling bisexuality with religious upbringing First experiences with women and evolving relationship dynamics How being bisexual is perceived di...
Apr 29, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 50
The Blame Game
**Patreon Episode - Visuals*** patreon.com/c/TogetherRealBad In this Patreon episode of Together Real Bad , Beautifulll and Ace get real about navigating blame in relationships—from late-night matcha disasters to emotional misfires and unspoken expectations. We kick things off with a check-in on work, wellness, and that one neighbor who might just be a villain. Then we get personal about family brunches, coming out, and why setting emotional traps (even unintentionally) never ends well. 💥 This ...
Apr 15, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 49
When Being Right Goes Left 🎙️
In this honest and hilarious episode, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the question: Would you rather be right or stay in a relationship? From "I told you so" moments to the petty Olympics, they're unpacking ego, communication, and growth in a real relationship. This episode also features: Their experience at a Black-owned Chicago hotel 🏨 A pottery date gone sideways 🎨 Piercings, tattoos, and tooth gems 💎 A wild tattoo convention 🐍 Tips for compromising without losing yourself 💌 Got an SO...
Apr 01, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 48
Let's NOT Talk About Sex, Baby!
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: A full video version + behind-the-scenes extras are available on Patreon! Join the Together Real Bad community on PATREON for unfiltered convos & bonus content. 🔊 Beautifulll & Ace are flipping the script on intimacy! In this episode, they’re NOT talking about sex (okay, maybe a little), but more about the deeper, everyday ways partners connect. From knowing when your person needs space to those small but meaningful gestures—THIS is what keeps relationships strong. 💖...
Mar 18, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 47
Blood, Bonds, and Boo’d Up
📺 Watch the (half) episode on YouTube! 🎥 Blood, Bonds & Boo’d Up | Friends vs. Family vs. Relationships 🚨 Oops! Half of this episode’s video didn’t record! 😬 But don’t worry—the full episode is available on all podcast platforms where you get your dose of Together Real Bad ! 🎧 When it comes to ranking our relationships, who really comes first? In this episode, we dive deep into the balancing act of friendships, family ties, and romantic relationships—and the struggles of keeping everyon...
Mar 04, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 46
Lose Yourself
💡 This Episode's Visuals Are Available Exclusively on Patreon! Visit our Patreon Page -----> P atreon.com/TogetherRealBad It’s easy to get caught up in love, but sometimes, in the process of building a life with a partner, parts of personal identity can start to fade. In this episode of Together Real Bad , hosts Beautifulll and Ace take a deep dive into what it means to maintain individuality in a long-term relationship. Three years into their journey, they reflect on the question: Are they ...
Feb 18, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 45
She Is The One, Not The Two
In this episode of Together Real Bad, the hosts explore the importance of growth, accountability, and compromise in relationships. They discuss what it truly means to be “the one” for each other and share insights on how they challenge and support each other in personal and professional spaces. Listeners will hear candid conversations about navigating relationship dynamics, improving communication, and holding each other accountable while maintaining love and respect. Whether it’s about staying ...
Feb 04, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Growing Pains
*All Visuals Will Now Be Posted On Patreon* Patreon:Together Real Bad You can still catch short on YouTube Leave a comment sharing how you’ve handled growing pains in your relationships. Share this episode with a friend who could use some relationship real talk! Send us a S.O.S letter (Save Our Situation) for advice on your love situatiion at 2getherrealbad @gmail.com Follow us on TIkTok: together.real.badpod Follow us on IG: together.real.badpod In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode of Toget...
Jan 21, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 44
Happy New Year!
In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace recap year end 2024 and move into 2025. Beautifulll gives a much awaited coming out update, new friends, new community, goal setting and football updates! *We apologies in advance for our dogs, they were actin a damn fool!* Drop us a line or a question: 2getherrealbad@gmail.com
Jan 07, 2025•58 min•Ep. 43
It's Cheesy But We're Doing It, Again!
In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about their upcoming vacation, and recap their goals that were set at the beginning of 2024. *Beautifulll & Ace will be taking a break until January 6th!* Stay tuned to their social media for more content and bts stuff! together.real.badpod
Nov 26, 2024•51 min•Ep. 42
The Talk
In this episode Beautifulll & Ace have candid conversation about the happenings in their lives in the past few weeks. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? ...
Nov 12, 2024•36 min•Ep. 41
Quid Pro Quo
In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about week updates, date night diaries, flag football, SOS letter and the nature of quid pro quo in their relationship. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Together Real Bad is launching a Di...
Oct 29, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 40
Crazy, Stupid, Love...And Priorities
In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about coming out updates, Love Is Blind, a brush with a Basketball Franchise Owner, Date Night Activities and prioritizing each other Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Together Real Bad i...
Oct 15, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 39
Impulse Chicago
In this episode, Beautifulll & Ace chat with Darren Parker of Impulse Chicago! This is a departure from their normal platform but Beautifulll & Ace feel it's necessary to amplify the voices of the LGBTQIA+ Community who are here to help, support and engage the community. Founded in 2009 by Jose Ramos, Impulse Group is a nonprofit organization dedicated to building a stronger and healthier community for gay men. Hosting over 400 events annually in twenty-six cities across the globe, Impul...
Oct 01, 2024•54 min•Ep. 38
Eat The Cat, Eat Eat The Cat!
In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about the debate, project 2025, “I Kissed A Girl” on Hulu, fantasy football, flag football, date night diaries and how there is more than one way to skin a cat in relationships, navigating how people believe that their way, is the right way, when it comes to tasks or events in a relationship. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclu...
Sep 17, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 37
Fear Factor
In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Labor Day Weekend, fantasy football, Mic Check, Chicago Sky, Date Night Diaries, Fears that pop up in relationships and how to calm them. Lastly, stay tuned for their new segment SOS Letters: Save Our Situation Letters. where they read community letters and give thoughts on the situation. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclu...
Sep 03, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 36
A Fall From Grace
In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the DNC, the hectic weekend, why they missed their recording day, volunteering, coming out, letter update and the impact of grace on relationships and everyday life. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod!patreon.com/T...
Aug 21, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 35
Grace
Unfortunately, we have been overwhelmed with life lately and we are unable to drop an episode at our regular day and time. Not to worry though! We will be dropping and episode late Tuesday or early Wednesday and ironically enough, it will be about grace. We appreciate you and all of the support that we have been getting over the past year! Thank you all! Beautifulll & Ace
Aug 20, 2024•2 min•Ep. 34
Is This Love?
In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace talk about the olympics (track), date night, alabama boat brawl anniversary and love: are you receiving or just passively standing in it? Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod! Patreon Together Real Bad is launching a Discord S...
Aug 06, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 33
When Boredom Strikes
In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the countdown to coming out, Simone Biles and the Olympics, Blvckscene, Biden’s drop out, date night activities and when boredom strikes, how to get around boredom in relationships. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Pateron: We have a patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the p...
Jul 23, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 32
Why So Serious?
In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss, Pride South Side, Date Night Diaries, and the power of play in their relationship. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us ...
Jul 09, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 31
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