Danyell Adamski: [00:00:00] I had this epiphany that it, at the, this point it must be me. I really did it. It came down to this and I think we all are like this. I see this in all my clients. We wait to something tragic happens and then we're like, Maybe I should do something about this. And that's exactly what I ended up doing is I went inward.
Okay. And it's not that I hadn't gone inward before. I just want to back up a little bit before in, when I was married before I did go to the therapist, I did read a bunch of self-help and I thought. That I had figured out a lot of stuff, which is why I made the decision in the first place to get a divorce.
I thought that I had learned everything that I could have possibly learn [00:01:00] about therapy. It wasn't working, it didn't fix me. I thought I was really intelligent and I got a lot of people asking me questions because I did have a lot of knowledge, but it didn't change. How I viewed the relationship. And then I started thinking, is there any truth to what he's saying?
And so I really started the introspection of what truth is there to this. Is it possible that maybe I am wrong?