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Thrive Solo

Lucy Meggesonwww.buzzsprout.com

Let’s be real — being single and child-free? It’s pretty damn awesome. Don’t believe me? Stick around. I promise you, by listening to this podcast, you’re going to start seeing your solo life in a whole new light — one that feels empowering, exciting, and full of possibility.


I’m Lucy Meggeson, and I’m here to help you stop seeing singlehood as a consolation prize and start embracing it as the incredible opportunity that it is. Because the truth? Being single isn’t second best. It’s not a waiting room. And it sure as hell isn’t a life of lack. In fact, when you lean into it, it can be just as fulfilling—if not more so—than being coupled up with kids.


And besides, no matter what our relationship status, what we all really want is to feel good in the here and now. So instead of focusing on what’s ‘missing,’ let’s focus on what’s possible. The freedom. The adventure. The extra time and headspace to create a life that’s truly our own.


Because here’s the thing: you are so much more powerful than you realise. Your thoughts shape your reality. And when you shift your mindset, you shift your life. My mission isn’t just to help you feel better about being single—it’s to help you recognise your own agency. To help you see that you are the creator of your own experience. And that you, and you alone, get to decide what your life looks like.


So join me here every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, and let’s build lives that feel joyful, meaningful, and wildly fulfilling — on our own terms.


Let’s Thrive Solo…together.


E-mail me at lucy@lucymeggeson.com

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Episodes

The One Where I Talk To The Brilliant Becca Nicholls

Send us a text My guest on this week’s podcast is the bloody brilliant Becca Nicholls. Becca, who is Canadian and lives just outside Toronto, is a Life & Success Coach, Neurolinguistic Practitioner, Somatic Practitioner, and host of the podcast, There She Glows. Her podcast focuses on all things mindset, wellness, healing, business and manifestation. Topics that we cover are: Becca’s story of self-development and how it changed her life for the better; her ‘healthy obsession’ with bettering ...

Nov 19, 20241 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 144

Minisode Ep.132 - What If We Can't Shake It Off?

Send us a text On today's minisode, I'm talking about those feelings of being 'less than' that sometimes creep into our minds, even when we're happily living our single, childfree lives. I'm also talking about how, no matter how secure we might be in who we are, being around certain people from our past can make us regress back to our 17-year-old selves. The truth is that the power of the societal narrative around single women means that we may never be able to fully shake off the feeling that w...

Nov 16, 202418 min

Thursday Thoughts - Living With Intention

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly & I are talking about living intentionally. Being intentional means cultivating awareness of how you're living and how you're showing up in the world. Without this awareness, it's easy to slip into autopilot, letting life pass us by without feeling like we're the ones in control. But when you choose to live with intention, you become conscious of where you're directing your thoughts and your energy. You become more present, making delibe...

Nov 14, 202435 min

The One Where I Talk To Breathwork Facilitator & Podcaster, Polly Warren

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is my fabulous friend, the gorgeous Polly Warren. Polly is a breathwork facilitator, health & wellness coach, and hypnotherapist who is passionate about helping midlife women come back to themselves and live their very best lives. She is also a podcaster with her fabulous podcast, Menomorphosis. Topics that we cover are: how married life with kids can be challenging, and is not always a bed of roses; the energy and headspace that having three ch...

Nov 12, 20241 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 143

Minisode Ep.131 - Balancing Desire With Acceptance

Send us a text On this week's minisode, I'm talking about finding a balance between being happily single, but also desiring a relationship. The duality between loving your life here and now, and wanting to be in a relationship, can feel contradictory; but one does not cancel out the other. In this episode, I share my thoughts on how we can both embrace our lives right now, whilst also holding space for the potential of romantic love. Press 'Play' and let me know what you think! Support the show ...

Nov 09, 202416 min

Thursday Thoughts - Embracing Ageing

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about embracing ageing. It’s time to change the narrative - and let’s face it, we’re talking about women here - that you are ‘past your sell by date’ once you hit 40, 50, 60 etc. The truth is that age brings with it so many wonderful things, not least confidence, wisdom and experience. And can choose to embrace getting older by looking after ourselves properly, and truly owning the fact that age is just a number. Because le...

Nov 07, 202433 min

The One Where I Talk About My New Morning Routine Club, Cockadoodle-Lu!

Send us a text This week, it's a solo episode which has nothing to do with being single and childfree! Instead, I'm talking about another topic that I'm passionate about — my morning routine. I've started a 'morning routine club' named Cockadoodle-Lu (you can thank my sister for the name) for women who want to start their mornings off with positivity, calm, and intention, rather than beginning their days feeling flustered and stressed. On Mondays, Tuesday and Wednesday, we're going to meet at 6a...

Nov 05, 202432 minSeason 1Ep. 142

Minisode Ep.130 - Choosing Happiness

Send us a text On today's minisode, I'm talking about the idea that we get to choose happiness. Rewind several years, and I really didn't understand the concept that I could choose to be happy. But these days, after doing alot of inner work, I fully get that we do get to make a choice about how we feel. It's not always easy, but it's worth it, and these are my thoughts. Press 'Play' and let me know what you think! Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US &am...

Nov 02, 202416 min

Thursday Thoughts - Embracing Failure

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly & I are talking about embracing failure. We have been conditioned to see failure as something negative, but in fact failure is an important part of the learning process, and a very necessary step along the pathway to success. Polly & I discuss how failure gives us essential feedback, and how success is more about carrying on after a 'failure', rather than giving up. When it comes down to it, failure is something to be embraced, rathe...

Oct 31, 202435 min

The One Where I Talk To 'The Feisty Heroine', Podcaster Rachel Beck

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the fabulous Rachel Beck. At 44, Rachel Beck is single, thriving, and living life fully on her own terms. After marrying at 26 and divorcing at 33, she spent years navigating the societal pressure to find a life partner — searching for love in the relentless New York City dating pool. From long-term relationships to exhausting hours on dating apps, Rachel discovered that she often felt more fulfilled on her own than with the people she met along ...

Oct 29, 202458 minSeason 1Ep. 141

Minisode 129 - Let's Normalise Nights In By Yourself

Send us a text Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book Download my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Answers To The Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Go to: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/questions Join the waitlist for my membership, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo Check out my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thrives...

Oct 26, 202413 min

Thursday Thoughts - Uncertainty

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about uncertainty. Despite being interrupted by Lucy's wifi man 🤣, we discussed how the magic and excitement of life lie on the other side of uncertainty; and it’s worth taking that leap into the unknown because, more often than not, the net appears! We hope you found something useful or interesting in here! Love, Polly & Lucy x Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada)...

Oct 24, 202433 min

The One Where I Talk To UK Country Manager at WeRoad, Clarissa Cappelletti

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the wonderful Clarissa Cappelletti. Clarissa is single, childfree, and lives in London where she works as the UK Country Manager for travel company WeRoad. She is responsible for expanding WeRoad’s UK business, managing the product portfolio and leading commercial strategy, while also focusing on the growth of the UK team. Clarissa was a former Executive Director at JP Morgan within the Platform Sales department. Her journey with WeRoad began in ...

Oct 22, 20241 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 140

Minisode Ep.128 - Navigating Tricky Conversations With Friends Who Have Kids

Send us a text Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book Download my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Answers To The Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To (Devilishly) Respond'? Go to: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/questions Join the waitlist for my membership, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo Check out my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thrives...

Oct 19, 202418 min

Thursday Thoughts - Reframing Time

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly & I are talking about reframing time. Many of us see time as something we're constantly running out of, leading to stress and unnecessary pressure. But what if we could reframe time as an abundant resource? Instead of feeling rushed or behind, we can choose to view each moment as a gift, a new opportunity to live fully and embrace the present. We hope you'll find something useful in here. Love, Polly & Lucy x Support the show Pre-Ord...

Oct 17, 202432 min

The One Where I Talk To Writer & 'Late Bloomer', Allora Dannon Campbell

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the fabulous Allora Cannon Campbell. Allora is 34, single, childfree, and the oldest of 10 homeschooled kids raised on a horse farm in New York State. By the age of 32 she’d never been kissed, let alone been in a relationship, and in 2023 Allora started talking about her big ‘secret’, as well as her adventures with dating, on TikTok. Eighteen million views later, and an appearance on the Drew Barrymore Show thanks to documenting her life as a sel...

Oct 15, 20241 hr 8 minSeason 1Ep. 139

Minisode Ep.127 - Other People's Milestones

Send us a text On this week's minisode, I'm talking about how hard it can be for single women to watch close family members and friends hit all of the 'traditional' milestones that society expects us to tick off our check list. Inspired by a DM on Instagram, I address the feelings that can come up as a result of watching a sibling or close friend get married or have a baby; as well as talk about why the solution is to take radical responsibility for how we move forward from these difficult momen...

Oct 12, 202418 min

Thursday Thoughts - Active Listening

Send us a text This week, Polly & I are talking about active listening.👂 Do you really listen when you’re having a conversation, or are you actually thinking about what your response is going to be? We’re all guilty of it…and we could all improve our active listening skills. Lucy & I discuss various aspects of listening, including how annoying it is when people interrupt (and how we both have a tendency to do exactly that!), plus that awful feeling when you’re talking to someone but the...

Oct 10, 202432 min

The One Where I Talk To Mentor & Speaker, Rasheda Kamaria Williams

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the divine Rasheda Kamaria Williams. Rasheda is an award-winning mentor, author and empowerment speaker, and founder of Empowered Flower Girl – a social enterprise on a mission to transform the way young people relate to one another and themselves. At her core, Rasheda is a social entrepreneur and staunch advocate for women and youth. She is single, childfree, and lives in Detroit. Topics that we cover are: her experience of being bullied at the ...

Oct 08, 20241 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 138

Minisode Ep.126 - To Fancy Or Not To Fancy

Send us a text On this week's minisode, I'm talking about why fancying potential partners is a non-negotiable for me when it comes to romantic relationships, despite those people who encourage single women to "give him a chance". Not to put too fine a point on it, but if I don't actually want to shag someone, then no amount of telling me I'm "too fussy" or that my "standards are too high" is going to convince me to date them. Press 'Play' and let me know what you think! Support the show Pre-Orde...

Oct 05, 202412 min

Thursday Thoughts - Intuition

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly & I are talking about intuition, that gut feeling or inner knowing that helps us make decisions without conscious reasoning. We discuss how our ego and fear of being wrong can lead us to ignore our intuition. We also dive into how intuition involves quieting the mind and getting into the body, and some of the practices that can help you recognise patterns in your intuitive responses. We hope you'll find something of interest in this conv...

Oct 03, 202433 min

The One Where I Talk To Therapeutic Coach, Fleur Sclarandis

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the absolutely fabulous Fleur Sclarandis. Fleur is a single and childfree (both by choice) woman, who coaches empaths and highly sensitive women to create the lives they actually want to live. She helps women build emotional resilience and confidence along with “a sprinkling of philosophical and spiritual guidance” so that they can navigate the challenges of life, and do what lights them up. Topics that we cover are: Fleur’s mission to empower wo...

Oct 01, 20241 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 137

Minisode Ep.125 - Mindset Tips

Send us a text On today's minisode, I'm talking about a few of my favourite ways to cultivate a more positive mindset. If you want the full (free) PDF — My Top 10 Mindset Tips — go to lucymeggeson.com/mindset and stick this one-pager to your bathroom mirror! Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book Download my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Answers To The Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The ...

Sep 28, 202415 min

Thursday Thoughts - Getting The Damn Thing Done

Send us a text On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about getting the damn thing done! September is a great time of year to check in with ourselves about where we are with our goals. There's still a significant amount of the year to go, but not so much that it feels overwhelming. So...what are those things you keep putting off, and how can you just get the damn thing done?! Polly and I discuss how to start taking action, including getting accountability, starting very, very ...

Sep 26, 202432 min

The One Where I Talk To Speaker & Thought Leader, Keturah Kendrick

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the awesome Keturah Kendrick. Keturah is a single, childfree woman, born and raised in New Orleans but currently living in New York City. She is an author, speaker and thought leader. A passionate advocate for young, black women, Keturah’s life mission is to be an ambassador of freedom to black women. In her own words, she was meant to be an unmarried black woman, absent of children, living a joy-filled, fulfilling life. Keturah’s award-winning m...

Sep 24, 20241 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 136

Minisode Ep.124 - Easily Pleased

Send us a text On today's minisode, I'm talking about why being easily pleased is a skill that we should all master. In a world where most of us are far from joyous, being the kind of person who is easily pleased is a goddam superpower. Press 'Play' and let me know what you think! Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book Download my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Answers To The Most Irritating Questions That Single P...

Sep 21, 202414 min

Thursday Thoughts - Tapping (EFT)

Send us a text On today’s Monday Motivation, Polly and I are talking about tapping, also known as EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), an emotional form of acupuncture without the needles. It’s an amazing brain hack which can be used to help with a wide range of issues such as anxiety, stress, depression, cravings and pain. It’s even been proven to reduce stress by up to 43%! It’s simple and easy to learn as we demonstrate in this video. Give it a go and see how you feel and let us know how you ge...

Sep 19, 202434 min

The One Where I Talk To Mindset & Manifestation Coach, Anneka Reece

Send us a text My guest on this week’s episode is the fabulous Anneka Reece. Anneka is a Health and Mindset Coach who specialises in helping people to manifest a life of their dreams through living an Alcohol-Free lifestyle. She is currently single and childfree. Topics that we cover are: Anneka’s belief that we have to be happy with ourselves before we can be in a healthy, happy relationship; how she very much believes that being single can be a gift; how she is looking for a relationship, but ...

Sep 17, 20241 hr 8 minSeason 1Ep. 135

Minisode Ep.123 - Slow It Down

Send us a text On today's minisode, I'm talking about how I'm trying to slow things down and get more present in my life. Because life is so short, and if we're not careful we might miss it. Press 'Play' and let me know what you think! Support the show Pre-Order my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book Download my FREE PDF 'The Top 10 Answers To The Most Irritating Questions That Single People Get Asked On The Regular...& How To ...

Sep 14, 202411 min

Thursday Thoughts - Feelings

Send us a text On today's Thursday Thoughts, Polly & I are talking all about...feelings. No matter who you are, where you come from, or what you do, none of us can escape our feelings. They are just part of the human condition. It's how we deal with them that counts. In this conversation, Polly and I talk about why it's so important to allow ourselves to really feel our feelings - both positive and negative. We discuss some practical ways to deal with - and then disperse - the not-so-good on...

Sep 12, 202433 min
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