In this episode we sit down with Ava's new partner, Ramone, to explore his journey through non-monogamy. Ramone had always identified as strictly polyamorous, but meeting Ava introduced him to new experiences, including his first sex-positive event. We dive into Ramone's past relationships, his perspective on polyamory before Ava, and how stepping into a more open, play-oriented space challenged and excited him. Plus, we hear about his first impressions of finally meeting Anthony and Pinky in pe...
Mar 14, 2025•58 min•Season 2Ep. 15
In this episode of Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party , we're stripping away the negativity and celebrating body positivity! From embracing our unique shapes to shutting down unrealistic beauty standards, we're diving deep into self-love, confidence, and owning every part of ourselves. Join us as we share personal stories, challenges, and tips on how to feel good in your skin—because every body is a beautiful body. So grab your favorite pajamas and let's get comfy with some real talk about loving ou...
Feb 28, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Three Shades Deeper: Exploring Intimacy with Beth Darling Welcome to the debut episode of Three Shades Deeper , a new segment where we take an even more intimate look at love, sex, and connection. Our first guest is Beth Darling—author, coach, and speaker—who delves into the nuances of intimacy, sharing insights from her book, The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive . Beth's journey from a former divorce lawyer to a passionate advocate for deeper, more fulfilling relationships offer...
Feb 21, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Compersion—the warm, fuzzy feeling of joy when your partner experiences pleasure with someone else—is often called the "opposite of jealousy." But what does it really mean, and how do you cultivate it in your non-monogamous relationships? In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava dive into the concept of compersion; sharing personal stories, insights, and practical tips on how to navigate this unique emotion. They discuss: • What compersion is (and what it isn't) • The role of compersion in diffe...
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Vulnerability is often seen as a risk, but in non-monogamy, it can be the key to deeper connection, trust, and growth. In this episode, Pinky & Ava explore what it means to be vulnerable in relationships that challenge traditional norms. Join us for an honest and raw conversation about the power of being "bare and unbound." Whether you're new to non-monogamy or a seasoned pro, this episode will inspire you to embrace the beauty of being truly seen. Tune in now and let's get vulnerable! SOCIA...
Jan 28, 2025•55 min•Season 2Ep. 12
In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava recap their unforgettable holiday bowling event. From Pinky becoming part of a couch (à la Half-Baked) to Ava offering herself as tribute (à la The Hunger Games); we're sharing all the highlights (and strikes) from the night. We also take a look back at our journey over the past year, reflecting on the incredible moments, lessons learned, and growth we've experienced. Plus, we're sharing a sneak peek at what's to come for the podcast and our adventures in...
Jan 14, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Get ready for laughs, gasps, and maybe a few "Ohhhhhs" in this month's episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party ! Ava drops a bombshell that she's been holding onto for way too long—like, years-long—and it's all about orgasms (yes, those orgasms). We dive deep into Ava's revelation, unpacking the hilarity, the honesty, and the sheer audacity of keeping a secret this big. Did Pinky see it coming? (Spoiler alert: absolutely not.) Join us as we talk about the Big O, the small lies we tell ourselves,...
Dec 28, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 11
In this episode of Anthony, Pinky, & Ava dive into the concept of polysaturation—the moment when managing multiple partners in non-monogamy becomes overwhelming. While love and connection are infinite; time, energy, and emotional capacity are not. Join us as we break down three concerns surrounding polysaturation: 1. Time Management 2. Emotional Burnout 3. Relationship Quality vs. Quantity Through personal anecdotes, practical tips, and heartfelt advice, we explore how to recognize the signs...
Dec 14, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 12
In this episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party , the tables are turned as Ava steps boldly into the spotlight. She's on the prowl, and her latest adventure leads her to an unexpected discovery: someone who speaks Pinky! What does it mean to "speak Pinky"? Ava reveals how she navigated this surprising connection and what made her sit up and take notice. Meanwhile, Pinky offers her perspective on this unique dynamic and how it feels to be understood in such a personal way. Join us for laughter, r...
Nov 28, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Slumber party, anyone? In this episode, we're diving into one of the more complex aspects of non-monogamous relationships; sleepovers!!! Spending the night can bring up a range of emotions, from excitement to anxiety, and we're here to explore it all. We'll look at how sleepovers impact feelings like jealousy, security, and connection, along with the unique pros and cons they bring. While they can deepen bonds with other partners, they also come with challenges like balancing time, handling comm...
Nov 14, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Love, freedom, and maybe just a dash of "did we call it or what?" are all on the table in this juicy episode! After leaving the non-monogamous world to pursue love in a monogamous relationship, PD/Nirvana Lover is back—and let's just say, Ava and Pinky couldn't be happier! This shared partner of theirs isn't just making a return to the lifestyle; he's back where he belongs, rekindling connections and rediscovering the magic of non-monogamy. What was it about monogamy that lured him away, and wha...
Nov 07, 2024•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 10
In this episode, Pinky and Ava dive into the Netflix series Nobody Wants This , a romantic comedy that follows the unlikely connection between an atheist sex podcaster and a Jewish rabbi. From quirky mishaps to heartfelt moments, the show navigates the challenges and joys of balancing differences in lifestyle, belief, and love. Join Pinky and Ava as they break down how they relate to the characters' struggles, surprises, and laughter-filled moments. They share their own experiences that resonate...
Oct 28, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Join us for this exciting episode as Anthony and Pinky recap their first time attending a Splash Takeovers event in Florida to celebrate another anniversary of Pinky's "21st birthday". This was no ordinary getaway—Splash Takeovers hosts premier couples only, clothing-optional, lifestyle events where participants from the swinging and kink communities come together for unforgettable experiences. Unfortunately, Ava couldn't join in on the adventures. However, Anthony and Pinky were able to enlist ...
Oct 14, 2024•59 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Picture this: a Christmas party, but instead of unwrapping gifts, Ava's unwrapping…well, you get it. But this wasn't just any party; it was an empowering space where women ruled, respect was paramount, and despite a few creepers; she felt safe. In this episode, Pinky gets Ava to share her wild introduction to the swinging scene, where "multitasking" took on a whole new meaning for her! Ava shares the salacious details of her crash course into the lifestyle; where she found herself at the deep en...
Sep 28, 2024•57 min•Season 1Ep. 8
In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of setting and navigating Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules (BAR) in non-monogamous relationships. With insights drawn from real-life experiences and expert advice, we explore how these tools help foster trust, respect, and growth in any relationship dynamic. Join us for this candid and enlightening conversation on how to set, respect, and evolve the boundaries, agreements, and rules that work for your unique relationship style. Whether you're n...
Sep 14, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Pinky is still on the prowl in this exciting follow-up to the original "Pinky on the Prowl" episode. Join Pinky and Ava as they dive deeper into their journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and sexual liberation. Inspired by the powerful writings found in the New York Times Bestseller "Pussy, a Reclamation" by Regena Thomashauer (Mama Gena); the ladies explore the importance of embracing the word "Pussy" as a term of empowerment rather than a derogatory label. They also discuss why "faking it" ...
Aug 28, 2024•58 min•Season 1Ep. 7
In this episode, we dive into the intricacies of balancing non-monogamous relationships with two other F words; friends and family. How do you handle those moments when explanations fall flat or are lost in translation? Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they explore the hilarious, heartwarming, and sometimes harrowing moments that arise when you talk to monogamous people about non-monogamy. Plus, they also discuss the importance of setting healthy boundaries, opening up to those closest to you, ...
Aug 14, 2024•54 min•Season 1Ep. 7
In this episode Pinky & Ava tackle the controversial topic of unsolicited D!*k pics. Exploring why these uninvited snapshots are a major pet peeve and turn-off for them as well as others. While they love the human form, seeing it in an unsolicited and explicit manner can be off-putting. Join the ladies as they delve into the importance of depth and meaningful connection in the world of nonmonogamy; highlighting the significance of showing who you truly are beyond just physical attributes. Al...
Jul 28, 2024•20 min•Season 1Ep. 6
In this episode, we dive into the vibrant and thrilling world of Naughty N'awlins 2024, the annual non-monogamous, sex-positive conference held in the heart of New Orleans. Join us as we recount our experiences, share highlights from the event, and discuss the various workshops, parties, and meetups that made this year's conference unforgettable. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Naughty Events | Producers & Hosts of Naughty N'awlins Amanda-The Kink Consultant | Disney Character Kinks Bi...
Jul 14, 2024•57 min•Season 1Ep. 6
The Instigator returns, and this time Pinky & Ava couldn't let Hot Mama escape without an invite to the wildest Pajama Party yet. Get ready as Hot Mama spills the tea on her most salacious experiences, from jaw-dropping party tricks to marathon sessions that defy all limits. No walls or boundaries are off-limits in this episode! This episode is a no-holds-barred exploration of freedom, passion, and the limitless possibilities within non-monogamous relationships. If you're ready to challenge ...
Jun 27, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Do you know someone who gets the party started, but looks so innocent? Anthony, Pinky, and Ava take a road trip to visit "The original Instigator", other than Pinky. Join the 3SOG crew as they sit down with Hot Mama; the woman that unintentionally, or intentionally (you be the judge) helped put the pieces together that led to this podcast. We break Hot Mama's podcast cherry as she shares her journey in non-monogamy including her time as an event hostess/"gatekeeper"; vetting single men, such as ...
Jun 14, 2024•45 min•Season 1Ep. 5
We're taking the show on the road to "The Big Easy"!!! Anthony, Pinky, & Ava are heading to Naughty N'awlins 2024 hosted by Naughty Events. Naughty Events is one of the leading lifestyle event planners in the country. With over 40, Hotel & Resort Takeovers, Bob & Tess (the producers) know what their customers want... and they deliver. The crew discuss their initial introduction to this annual event, which is in its 26th year; and what/who they're looking forward to: Educational class...
Jun 13, 2024•22 min•Ep. 1
How does a goddess navigate the world of non-monogamy? Lookout, Pinky is on the prowl!! Join Pinky and Ava as they discuss the challenges of finding suitable suitors; aka "Professionals". From speaking the same language so desires are known, to surviving the gauntlet of online dating; the ladies share their experiences and advice. Buckle up as they get down and dirty!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Feeld | A Dating App For The Curious SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram (& Poems) Ava's Insta...
May 28, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 4
What's your kink? Interested in BDSM? Is there something that gets your rocks off that isn't "normal"? You'd be surprised to know you're probably not the only one. Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they discuss their adventures in kink and BDSM. They discuss their dyanamics and roles, various play styles, and provide some resources for those that might want to visit the "dark" side. LINKS Three Shades Of Grey / Website Dr. Emily Morse / Sex With Emily (Yes! No! Maybe?) FetLife / The Social Netwo...
May 14, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Pinky & Ava invite Anthony and PD (aka Nirvana Lover) to the Pajama Party. The ladies get to share opinions/views about their relationships. Slide on in and enjoy the conversation. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Überlube | Feeling Is Everything SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok...
Apr 28, 2024•20 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Can you hear me now? Which love languages do you and your partner(s) speak; which do you each comprehend? Do compromise or negotiate in your relationships with others? Join Anthony, Pinky, and Ava as they discuss how they communicate within their non-monogamous dynamic. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey / Website The 5 Love Languages Kate Loree / Open Deeply Normalizing Non-Monogamy-Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging / Episode 238 Naughty N'awlins Sybian...
Apr 13, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Finding quality partners in the lifestyle can be a challenge for ladies. Pinky and Ava discuss their adventures in finding what they call PROFESSIONALS. Do you want the secret to an invitation to the "Magical Island"? Cultivating friendships and respecting boundaries are a few of the criteria to joining the "Circle". Pour yourself a drink and join us for a night of intimate revelations and provacative discussions on Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website STDcheck....
Mar 28, 2024•30 min•Ep. 2
Join Anthony , Pinky , and Ava as they discuss what led them to choose non-monogamy and what keeps them in this lifestyle. They continue to discuss their individual origin stories and how they all came together. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey / Website The Ethical Slut Naughty N'awlins Desire Resorts SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok...
Mar 14, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Ever wonder what girls talk about at a pajama party? Grab you favorite pajamas or lingerie because in these juicy installments Pinky and Ava will dive deep into the sultry and salacious side of nonmonogamous relationships; nothing will be off-limits. Get ready to kick back, relax, and indulge in the uninhibited world of nonmonogamous exploration. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just curious about the lifestyle, Pinky and Ava have you covered with their candid insights and playful banter. Pour y...
Feb 28, 2024•33 min•Ep. 1
Welcome to the inaugural episode of 'Three Shades Of Grey' where hosts Anthony , Pinky , & Ava embark on an insightful journey through the realms of non-monogamy. Join us as we delve into our origin story; exploring the intricacies, challenges, and joys of embracing non-traditional relationships. Get ready to uncover the depths of intimacy as we share our personal narritives, unraveling the complexities of love, connection, and individuality in a world beyond monogamy. Tune in for candid con...
Feb 14, 2024•44 min•Season 1Ep. 1
