Buckle up, because this Naughty N'awlin’s 2025 recap is anything but tame. With Ava stuck at home living that #MomLife, she grills Pinky and Anthony about their wild, laughter-filled, and occasionally chaotic journey to the Big Easy. From travel headaches that almost kept them from the party, to Pinky pushing herself out of her comfort zone (and loving every second), to a whirlwind of classes that ranged from eye-opening to downright delicious—this episode serves up the play-by-play you didn’t k...
Aug 14, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 20
Ever wonder what really gets Pinky and Ava going? In this intimate and unfiltered episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party , the duo dives deep into their turn-ons—and they’re not just talking bodies. From the thrill of emotional freedom to the buzz of a partner’s confidence, from shared laughter to shared lovers, they explore the layers of satisfaction that light them up. It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s ridiculously relatable.
Jul 28, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 18
In this deliciously nerdy and insightful episode, we’re joined by Sir Sublime —a self-proclaimed “lazy top,” kink toymaker, and connoisseur of all things rope, impact, and mindplay. Together, we unwrap the art and intention behind BDSM, diving into the nuances of dominance, the seduction of sensory play, and why best practices matter in the kink world. Whether you’re a seasoned sadist or just kink-curious, Sir Sublime reminds us that "everyone kinks their own way"—and there’s no one-size-fits-al...
Jul 21, 2025•58 min•Season 1Ep. 6
In this episode of we take a moment to own our sh*t. In the past, we might’ve made it sound like there’s only one right way to start a non-monogamous relationship. But thanks to some wise friends of the show—and a little bit of grown-folks (Foxy) "magic"—we realized we goofed. Non-monogamy isn’t a one-size-fits-all situation, and there are many ways to build strong, thriving, sexy connections right from the start. So, we gathered around the mic with our extended poly pod squad for a heartfelt (a...
Jul 14, 2025•51 min•Season 2Ep. 19
It’s time to clear the air, and maybe burst a few egos along the way! In this episode Pinky & Ava get real about one of the most frustrating misconceptions in the non-monogamous world — that being open means being easy......Spoiler alert: We Don't "F@(k" Everybody!!! The ladies share some cringe-worthy, hilarious, and downright annoying stories of people who thought “non-monogamous” was code for “no standards.” From awkward assumptions to bold propositions, they set the record straight on wh...
Jun 28, 2025•55 min•Season 2Ep. 17
What happens when your non-monogamy is no longer a secret? In this episode, we go deeper with Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast to unpack the emotional journey of being outed to their church (and family)—and how they handled it with grace, honesty, and strength. We share our own fears around exposure and talk about how to prepare for conversations you might never want to have. Whether you’re out loud or staying low-key, this episode is filled with tools, perspective, and solidarit...
Jun 21, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 5
In this double bonus episode of Three Shades of Grey, Anthony shares the summer plans for the crew and takes you inside his first-ever Splash Mocha, an interracial and hot wife hotel takeover in Atlanta, Georgia. While he couldn’t make it with his wife Pinky or girlfriend Ava (thanks to #MomLife and a preference for smaller scenes), he experienced it all with his babygirl, Bree. Anthony sits down with Socrates of The Bull Brotherhood and Michael C. of Keys and Anklets to unpack their Splash Moch...
Jun 14, 2025•49 min•Season 2Ep. 18
The girls are back in their jammies and this time they’ve brought a special guest— Dragonfly returns for another round of real, raw, and playful conversation. In this episode, Pinky, Ava, and Dragonfly dive deep into the delicious topic of pleasure: from the power of self-connection to the fun of toys, and why prioritizing intimate time with yourself is more than just self-care—it’s self-celebration. So grab your favorite toy (or take notes for later), because after this episode, you won’t have ...
May 28, 2025•59 min•Season 2Ep. 16
In this powerful episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with the incomparable Cindy Gallop —advertising icon, entrepreneur, and founder of the groundbreaking platform MakeLoveNotPorn ( https://makelovenotporn.tv ). Known for speaking boldly about sex, Cindy shares how she “accidentally” got into porn—not the industry, but the mission to revolutionize how we think about it. Dating younger men led Cindy to discover a troubling gap between porn fantasy and real-world sex. Frustrated by the lac...
May 21, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 4
In this episode, we dive deep with Bobby , one of the driving forces behind Splash Takeovers , the multi-city lifestyle hotel takeover experience. Bobby shares his personal origin story and how he found his way into the lifestyle, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at his journey from attendee to organizer. We also explore the wide range of Splash events held throughout the year in cities across the country—and get an exciting preview of new events on the horizon. Bobby talks candidly about what...
May 14, 2025•55 min•Season 2Ep. 17
In this episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party , we welcome back relationship coach Elizabeth Cunningham for a deep and juicy conversation about eroticism and pleasure . Elizabeth reminds us that eroticism isn’t just about sex — it’s about the full range of aliveness, desire, and connection in our lives. Together, they explore how to tap into your wants and needs, whether in polyamory, sexually, or in other parts of your relationships. Plus, Elizabeth, Pinky, and Ava offer practical ideas for a...
Apr 28, 2025•1 hr 19 min•Season 2Ep. 15
What happens when a triad and a quad walk into a podcast? You get one unforgettable conversation full of laughs, insight, and lifestyle realness. In this episode of Three Shades Deeper , we sit down with two incredible couples in the non-monogamy space—Swinky Life and The Accidental Swingers—to explore what it really means to be polyamorous. From love and labels to communication, compatibility, and the beautiful messiness of human connection, this is the kind of episode that goes way beyond the ...
Apr 21, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 3
In this episode, we sit down with the incredible Dragonfly Lee and her partner E from Pure Orgasmic Love, two passionate guides in the realms of non-monogamy, somatic work, and holistic intimacy. Pinky first connected with Dragonfly at Naughty N’awlins, and it was clear from the start that her energy and depth of experience needed to be shared with our community. In this conversation, Dragonfly opens up deeply about her personal journey — from navigating health challenges to embracing a life of ...
Apr 14, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 16
In this special International Women’s Day episode, Pinky and Ava welcome a friend of the show, the one and only Chocolate Fox! She’s a slightly sadistic, top-leaning Domme/switch, a swinger, and proudly poly—so you know this conversation is going to be deliciously dynamic. Together, they dive into the world of BDSM, busting myths, sharing practical advice, and sprinkling in their own spicy stories along the way. Whether you’re a seasoned kinkster or just curious, this episode has something for e...
Mar 28, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 14
In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we dive into the world of relationship coaching—especially for those navigating non-monogamy. Our guest, Elizabeth Cunningham, is a relationship coach, speaker, and polyamory educator who has helped countless people create thriving, authentic connections. We explore the real benefits of coaching, from gaining clarity in your relationships to handling challenges with confidence. Elizabeth also shares tips on how to find the right coach, what to look for, an...
Mar 21, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 2
In this episode we sit down with Ava’s new partner, Ramone, to explore his journey through non-monogamy. Ramone had always identified as strictly polyamorous, but meeting Ava introduced him to new experiences, including his first sex-positive event. We dive into Ramone’s past relationships, his perspective on polyamory before Ava, and how stepping into a more open, play-oriented space challenged and excited him. Plus, we hear about his first impressions of finally meeting Anthony and Pinky in pe...
Mar 14, 2025•58 min•Season 2Ep. 15
In this episode of Pinky & Ava’s Pajama Party , we’re stripping away the negativity and celebrating body positivity! From embracing our unique shapes to shutting down unrealistic beauty standards, we’re diving deep into self-love, confidence, and owning every part of ourselves. Join us as we share personal stories, challenges, and tips on how to feel good in your skin—because every body is a beautiful body. So grab your favorite pajamas and let’s get comfy with some real talk about loving ou...
Feb 28, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Three Shades Deeper: Exploring Intimacy with Beth Darling Welcome to the debut episode of Three Shades Deeper , a new segment where we take an even more intimate look at love, sex, and connection. Our first guest is Beth Darling—author, coach, and speaker—who delves into the nuances of intimacy, sharing insights from her book, The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive . Beth’s journey from a former divorce lawyer to a passionate advocate for deeper, more fulfilling relationships offer...
Feb 21, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Compersion—the warm, fuzzy feeling of joy when your partner experiences pleasure with someone else—is often called the “opposite of jealousy.” But what does it really mean, and how do you cultivate it in your non-monogamous relationships? In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava dive into the concept of compersion; sharing personal stories, insights, and practical tips on how to navigate this unique emotion. They discuss: • What compersion is (and what it isn’t) • The role of compersion in diffe...
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Vulnerability is often seen as a risk, but in non-monogamy, it can be the key to deeper connection, trust, and growth. In this episode, Pinky & Ava explore what it means to be vulnerable in relationships that challenge traditional norms. Join us for an honest and raw conversation about the power of being “bare and unbound.” Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or a seasoned pro, this episode will inspire you to embrace the beauty of being truly seen. Tune in now and let’s get vulnerable! SOCIA...
Jan 28, 2025•55 min•Season 2Ep. 12
In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava recap their unforgettable holiday bowling event. From Pinky becoming part of a couch (à la Half-Baked) to Ava offering herself as tribute (à la The Hunger Games); we’re sharing all the highlights (and strikes) from the night. We also take a look back at our journey over the past year, reflecting on the incredible moments, lessons learned, and growth we’ve experienced. Plus, we’re sharing a sneak peek at what’s to come for the podcast and our adventures in...
Jan 14, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Get ready for laughs, gasps, and maybe a few “Ohhhhhs” in this month's episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party ! Ava drops a bombshell that she’s been holding onto for way too long—like, years-long—and it’s all about orgasms (yes, those orgasms). We dive deep into Ava’s revelation, unpacking the hilarity, the honesty, and the sheer audacity of keeping a secret this big. Did Pinky see it coming? (Spoiler alert: absolutely not.) Join us as we talk about the Big O, the small lies we tell ourselves,...
Dec 28, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 11
In this episode of Anthony, Pinky, & Ava dive into the concept of polysaturation—the moment when managing multiple partners in non-monogamy becomes overwhelming. While love and connection are infinite; time, energy, and emotional capacity are not. Join us as we break down three concerns surrounding polysaturation: 1. Time Management 2. Emotional Burnout 3. Relationship Quality vs. Quantity Through personal anecdotes, practical tips, and heartfelt advice, we explore how to recognize the signs...
Dec 14, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 12
In this episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party , the tables are turned as Ava steps boldly into the spotlight. She’s on the prowl, and her latest adventure leads her to an unexpected discovery: someone who speaks Pinky! What does it mean to "speak Pinky"? Ava reveals how she navigated this surprising connection and what made her sit up and take notice. Meanwhile, Pinky offers her perspective on this unique dynamic and how it feels to be understood in such a personal way. Join us for laughter, r...
Nov 28, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Slumber party, anyone? In this episode, we’re diving into one of the more complex aspects of non-monogamous relationships; sleepovers!!! Spending the night can bring up a range of emotions, from excitement to anxiety, and we’re here to explore it all. We’ll look at how sleepovers impact feelings like jealousy, security, and connection, along with the unique pros and cons they bring. While they can deepen bonds with other partners, they also come with challenges like balancing time, handling comm...
Nov 14, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Love, freedom, and maybe just a dash of “did we call it or what?” are all on the table in this juicy episode! After leaving the non-monogamous world to pursue love in a monogamous relationship, PD/Nirvana Lover is back—and let’s just say, Ava and Pinky couldn’t be happier! This shared partner of theirs isn’t just making a return to the lifestyle; he’s back where he belongs, rekindling connections and rediscovering the magic of non-monogamy. What was it about monogamy that lured him away, and wha...
Nov 07, 2024•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 10
In this episode, Pinky and Ava dive into the Netflix series Nobody Wants This , a romantic comedy that follows the unlikely connection between an atheist sex podcaster and a Jewish rabbi. From quirky mishaps to heartfelt moments, the show navigates the challenges and joys of balancing differences in lifestyle, belief, and love. Join Pinky and Ava as they break down how they relate to the characters’ struggles, surprises, and laughter-filled moments. They share their own experiences that resonate...
Oct 28, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Join us for this exciting episode as Anthony and Pinky recap their first time attending a Splash Takeovers event in Florida to celebrate another anniversary of Pinky's "21st birthday". This was no ordinary getaway—Splash Takeovers hosts premier couples only, clothing-optional, lifestyle events where participants from the swinging and kink communities come together for unforgettable experiences. Unfortunately, Ava couldn't join in on the adventures. However, Anthony and Pinky were able to enlist ...
Oct 14, 2024•59 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Picture this: a Christmas party, but instead of unwrapping gifts, Ava’s unwrapping…well, you get it. But this wasn’t just any party; it was an empowering space where women ruled, respect was paramount, and despite a few creepers; she felt safe. In this episode, Pinky gets Ava to share her wild introduction to the swinging scene, where "multitasking" took on a whole new meaning for her! Ava shares the salacious details of her crash course into the lifestyle; where she found herself at the deep en...
Sep 28, 2024•57 min•Season 1Ep. 8
In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of setting and navigating Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules (BAR) in non-monogamous relationships. With insights drawn from real-life experiences and expert advice, we explore how these tools help foster trust, respect, and growth in any relationship dynamic. Join us for this candid and enlightening conversation on how to set, respect, and evolve the boundaries, agreements, and rules that work for your unique relationship style. Whether you’re n...
Sep 14, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 8
