On my thirty fifth birthday. After talks with my husband and deciding we were ready to start a family, I stopped taking my birth control pills. After a year, I had not gotten pregnant, so we met with a fertility specialist who had me undergo a lot of different kinds of tests, some that were really painful and evasive, and he determined that I have polycystic ovary syndrome but found
no other underlying issues. Pcos can make it difficult to get pregnant naturally, so my doctor recommended I try entry uterine insemination. I ended up doing four iuis with him, none of which resulted in a pregnancy. Before I started seeing a new doctor who recommended I move on to IVF. My egg retrieval resulted in five healthy embryos that we had frozen, and since then I have undergone three embryo transfers,
but none of them resulted in a pregnancy either. I've done genetic testing, countless rounds of blood work and ultrasounds, a mock transfer cycle, a hissteroscopy, an HSG scan. I stopped eating gluten, dairy, and sugar. I do monthly ovulation tracking, have regular acupuncture and meditation. Sessions made my fertility a full time job, and still I have no answers. I just turned thirty nine, and I'm always wondering why not me. My friends are all having kids and growing their families
exactly as they had planned. Well, I'm just spinning my wheels. There's so much I wish i'd known about fertility when I was younger. None of my female relatives had fertility issues, and I always had totally normal results at my annual exams with my gynecologist. Plus my PCOS symptoms were masked by the pill, so I just had no idea that
I would ever end up with unexplained infertility. I always assumed that if I had trouble getting pregnant, especially since I didn't start trying until I was thirty five, which is considered geriatric in the medical world, that IVP would
be a safety net that it would definitely work. My last embryo transfer was over a year ago, and while I have two perfect embryos still sitting frozen and ready beus, I've been too scared to try again, going through the appointments, the injections, dealing with the effects of the hormones, holding onto hope, and telling myself this time will work. I'm just not sure I'm strong enough to go through it all.
Again, thank you so much for sharing your story with us, and a huge thank you to everyone who reached out and shared their stories with us. You'll hear more first hand accounts later in this episode and in the next couple of episodes that we'll be doing on this topic. And there were so like we were truly overwhelmed in the best possible way by the sheer volume of responses that we got. Like I never expected it. It was incredible. So thank you to each and every one of you
who sent in your stories. We appreciate you so so, so so much.
We really do.
It was incredible. It was a privilege to get to read through all of your stories, and thank you so much to everyone who wrote in, and we tried to include as many people as we possibly could, so you're going to hear a lot more first hand accounts throughout this episode in our next couple episodes. So thank you all so much.
Yes, Hi, I'm erin Welsh.
And I'm Erin Ollman Updyke.
And this is this podcast will kill you.
Welcome to the first of three Yeah.
Episodes we said in our social media posts that were going to do a two parter, and then as we started to like plan what that two parter would look like, we realized very quickly that this could not only be just two parts, that it needed to be at least three, if not many, many many more. We're stopping at three.
So yeah, it's it's going to be a lot, but we are really really excited about it.
So buckle up. Three weeks up.
You know, this is do I even need to say that this is such a huge topic. It just is such a huge topic. We always say this, but this time we're really showing you that we mean it by dividing it into three episodes. And so just to give you an overview of what each of these episodes is going to include. The first episode, this one today, is
going to focus primarily on infertility. So I'll be talking about the concept of infertility as it has changed over time, leading up to the development of assisted reproductive technologies in the twentieth century. And Aaron will go into what to expect if you go in for a fertility exam and how fertility is assessed.
Yeah, and then our second episode will be mostly IVF focused, So what is IVF, how was it developed, what steps had to happen for it to be developed, how does this technology actually work, and what does a typical cycle, if there is such a thing of IVF, actually look like.
And then our final.
Episode will explore IVF as it has grown in terms of both industry and innovation, from some ethically murky areas to some pretty incredible new technologies.
Even with three whole episodes, there are things that we're not going to be able to cover in depth or that will miss entirely, and frankly, that would probably happen even if we did an entire series on IVF, And as always we will put links to sources where you can find more info should you want it. But overall, our goals for these episodes are number one, to explain what IVF is and how it works. Number two, talk
about other forms of art assisted reproductive technologies. Number three present an overview of how IVF technology was developed, and for briefly discuss some of the ethical issues that have arisen with art in terms of access regulation and as an industry.
And this is suffice to say a very complex and very multi dimensional topic, and there are a lot of people out there with really strong feelings about it. Our intent is not to add to that noise by sharing whatever our individual thoughts that we might have about infertility and IVF, but simply to just share all of the incredible information that we have learned in the.
Course of this research.
So hopefully we do an okay job. But of course, before we get into that, it is quarantiny time.
It is Aaron. What are we drinking this week?
We're drinking a work of art. Good one. It's a good one. It's a little inside joke there.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Oh, and by the way, this is what we'll be drinking for this week and the next two episodes on this yeah. Classic, yeah, and in a work of art, tell me what's in it? What are the delicious ingredients?
It's kind of essentially like a cucumber gimlet. So we've got gin, we've got lime juice, we've got cucumber, We've got some simple syrup. You can throw some sparkling water in there if you like. It's really refreshing, really tasty. And we'll post the full recipe for that quarantini as well as the non alcoholic clas Ceba rita on our website. This podcast will kill You dot com and all of our social media channels.
We will On our website this podcast will kill You dot com, you can find all sorts of cool things, including but not limited to, transcripts, links to bookshop dot org and goodreads lists, links to music by Bloodmobile, links to merch links to our Patreon, links to other things. I think all the sources, just all the things. You know, take a peek, see what you can find. Tell me what I'm forgetting.
You didn't forget anything. I actually that I noticed. I thought that it was great, wonderful.
Then check done done. Should we get started?
I think that we should. I really think that we should.
Let's just take a quick break and then I'll get started because we're doing all of these episodes a little bit out of order where I go first and then.
I can't wait.
So my husband and I we started trying to get pregnant as soon as we got married. I already had my eldest son from a previous relationship, but we were desperate to carry on and grow our family. We tried, and after trying for a year, we decided to have some investigations. We went to the doctor and it turned out that my husband had low sperm counts and low sperm motility, and so we were told that the only real option was to have IVF. We found a clinic that we liked, and we also decided to do egg
donation alongside our IVF treatment. So what that meant is that I donated half of the eggs that were harvested during the treatment to another couple, So we got nine eggs when they went in to collect them, so we gave five to the other couple and we had four ourselves. The procedure needed ixy as well, which is where this sperm is actually injected directly into the egg, so all four eggs were fertilized and then it was a very anxious weight call in the lab every day to see
if our embryos had been dividing and developing. And then three days later, we chose while the doctors chose the two embryos to transfer back into my uterus. It was a very nerve wracking day, but we did it. We went home and then it was a two week wait to find out if it had worked and if I was pregnant. We happened to go away for the weekend.
It was our wedding anniversary, and just by some coincidence, we were staying at our same hotel we spent our wedding night, and we ended up in the same room we spent our wedding night, and that's where I did a pregnancy test and we got a positive result. Then six weeks later we saw their little heartbeats and we found out it was twins. And then those twins are now twelve. I also found out that the couple that I donated my eggs too, they had a little girl
as well, so their pregnancy was also successful. So really case scenario everyhoe.
Hi, my name's Maddie.
I'm twenty eight and my husband and I are currently undergoing IVF in the hopes of having our first baby. We got married young seven years ago and we weren't really in a rush to start a family, but we did decide to start trying about two and a half years ago. We're trying for about a year, and during that time I noticed that my already painful periods were now becoming even more difficult to manage, and I also noticed some urinary and.
Bout problems that were quite concerning.
It took that year of trying to finally get a referral to a gynecologist, and within the first ten minutes of meeting her, she was pretty convinced that I had
endometriosis and wanted me in surgery in two weeks. Two weeks later, I had a laproscopy and a histroscopy, and my surgeon had found stage four endometriosis affecting my uterus, ovaries, fallopian tubes, about and bladder, but thankfully she managed to remove majority of it and kind of said that for the next six month I'd probably be my most fertile, and that she'd be quite surprised if I hadn't naturally
fallen pregnant. And in that six months those boo and urinary problems had subsided, and so too did the period pain, so we were quite hopeful. Fast forward six months and still nothing was happening, so we requested a referral to a fertility specialist and she informed us that my husband
had a low sperm count. His count was roughly one and a half million sperm per meal and the normal reference point is fifteen million per meal, so she actually recommended IXY over IVF to ensure a good fertilization rate. October last year, I had my first egg retrieval and I was really lucky and had a really positive experience. I wasn't shy of the needles, being a healthcare worker, and I had a really good result. We retrieved twenty
eggs and ten were actually mature enough to fertilize. Nine did fertilize overnight, and by day five I had six really high quality blastocites. We ended up doing a fresh transfer with one of them and froze the rest, and unfortunately that transfer failed, and since then we've done a further too frozen embryo transfers that have unfortunately also failed.
I've actually just done my second historiscopy in just over twelve months to see if there's some kind of issue local to my uterus that might be preventing implantation, and I've also done multiple blood tests to rule out other issues such.
As immune or clotting disorders.
We are actually hoping to do another transfer within the next month or two, and we remain really hopeful. We both say this is one of the hardest journeys we've ever been through, and we're very aware that there are people who have been on even longer, more painful journeys than us. Every day is a battle, and every failed
cycle is a full cycle of grief. But we're so grateful we have the means to do this, and at a time where science is learning more and more every day about infertility and how to overcome it, and hopefully one day we'll get our little baby.
It seems to me like every few months there's a headline that declares, in somewhat alarmist tones, infertility is on the rise?
Is it?
Is it? The short answer is no, and I know that you'll give the longer answer later in the episode Erin, but most research shows that actually global infertility has changed very little over the past few decades, if at all. I think the more accurate headline would be headlines about
infertility being on the rise. Are on the rise, And I'll get into more of the possible reasons for that a little later on, But I wanted to start with these headlines because I think they provide an opportunity for us to think about what infertility can mean for us today, and how those definitions are fluid across space, across time,
and across intent. There's the medical definition of infertility, which the WHO says is twelve months of regular unprotected sex without pregnancy, and that definition actually has been like the medical definition has been revised over the years. There's primary infertility it's like no pregnancy ever, and secondary infertility at least one pregnancy previously. And then there's what insurance companies will consider to be infertility, which changes what they're willing
to cover for fertility treatment. There's how infertility is used politically as a scare tactic to reinforce gender roles. There's fertility rate, which some headlines conflate with infertility rate, so you know, like the average woman in twenty twenty four is giving birth to fewer kids than in the nineteen fifties, so infertility must be on the rise, that's not, yeah, something having like two.
Whole pages that I had to cut down just about that.
It's very very very different. Yes, yes, infertility. The concept of infertility varies also across cultures. So for instance, there are some cultures that consider someone to be infertile if they haven't given birth to a boy yet. Is it a snapshot measure or a lifetime measure? If you become pregnant after two years, three years, five years, seven years of trying does that still count? Like does infertility apply
to couples or to individuals? Does intent matter? If someone cannot become pregnant due to a medical issue, but they have never intended to become pregnant, does that count as infertility? Along those same lines, if someone never seeks treatment for infertility because of lack of access, personal beliefs, other reasons, are they counted in these measures of infertility? Will their
voice be heard? The bottom line is that infertility can mean many different things to many different people, and it can be difficult to get a handle on where these modern measures of infertility are coming from, who they are capturing,
and who they are failing to capture. This is one reason why we should scrutinize headlines claiming a rise in infertility rates, first of all, compared to when the data that go into modern measures of infertility are incredibly messy, let alone estimates from the early twentieth century or before, when infertility was even more shrouded in silence than it
is today. Secondly, these headlines tend to ramp up during periods of backlash against progressive movements like women's liberation in the nineteen seventies, which was followed by claims that the traditional nuclear family was at risk because career hungry women were waiting too long to have kids. And then this called for a return to a traditional working husband's stay at home mom arrangement. And it's you know, we're seeing echoes of that today with this tradwife trend and all
of the birth controlled disinformation that's circulating around social media lately. Yeah, And the last thing I'll say about these headlines is that right alongside them are reports of out of control global population growth, which shows that it's not about infertility overall, but it's rather concern over who is having babies and who isn't. If infertility in its bio medical definition is truly on the rise globally or regionally or within populations,
we should investigate why that is. Just because infertility is hard to measure, it doesn't mean that we shouldn't try. And if we want to do that, we have to take in all of the various meanings of infertility, what it means to people measuring it, what it means to people experiencing it, what it means to people treating it, and how those meanings change over space and time. For
a truly amazing overview of this subject. I highly recommend that Paul Grave Handbook of Infertility in History, edited by Gail Davis and Tracy Lofgren, which was my main resource for this first episode. It's a wonderful collection of essays and chapters and works that I really just all across the board. I mean, I was like completely overwhelmed, but I loved it. So I want to first take a step back and consider what it means to look for
traces of infertility throughout history. Humans have experienced infertility forever, but infertility doesn't leave marks on the bone, and it doesn't get logged in yearly mortality rates or disease tallies. With the exception of the last century or so, it is rarely openly discussed by those who are experiencing it, maybe because they didn't know how to read or write, maybe because their writings were not seen as important for preservation, or maybe because shame or pain kept them from including
it in their writings. There do exist some examples of letters or diaries where women have described their feelings about not being able to have children or not being able to have additional children. Secondary infertility is even more difficult to spot in history, but these writings are fairly rare. So I'm going to read you a quote from Henriette Obermuller Vena Dat, writing in her autobiography in eighteen seventy quote. I bought books, I talked to women's doctors. I decided
to do everything they told me to. I saw the midwife, I was told this and that. I heard that there was a recipe, but that it might kill me. I wouldn't have minded. If only I could have become a mother, if only I could have born Gustave a child. I was so certain it was my fault.
End quote.
Infertility or difficulty conceiving shows up in pagan mythologies with goddesses of fertility, and plays in religious texts like the Bible, in epic poems. In works of art. We see traces of infertility in instances of royal succession, like where a male heir is not produced, but for the most part in those stories it stays more of an historical plot point rather than the lived experience being important on its own,
probably keeping infertility partially shrouded in silence. Theat history is its affiliation with sex, which has always been pretty taboo in Western culture. Especially sex without procreation, as well as the fact that bearing children has been the expectation, the norm throughout all of history, and when that didn't happen, it was a noticed and be tinged with shame, indicative of a problem. Finally, infertility has mostly been seen as
a woman's issue, thus not as important for documenting. Who is doing the writing after all, who is actually deciding what is important in history, you know, and what should be preserved or not? Would they have viewed a woman's infertility as relevant to the historical record or just to
whatever story they're telling. As Davis and Lochrin, the editors of this book put it, quote, these problems are magnified when tackling infertility experiential state that exists as an absence, the failure to engender pregnancy that plays out on the bodies of women, a historically marginalized group, and that, it seems, often further stigmatizes its subjects, thus rendering them inarticulate or
silent end quote. Where we see the most references to infertility, or maybe more precisely, involuntary childlessness is in medical writings with hypotheses as to why someone is not able to become pregnant or treatment handbooks to target different perceived causes of involuntary childlessness, ranging from the biological, to the psychological to the spiritual. Today, if someone goes in for fertility testing, doctors will try to pinpoint the precise issue and come
up with treatment based on that. But we know a whole lot more now about reproductive science than, for instance, ancient Greek physicians, who largely viewed reproduction in like plant soil terms. The man provides the seed semen the active dynamic material, and the woman provides the substrate, the soil
the menstrual blood in which the seed is planted. And this agricultural metaphor reinforced the role of the man as the active partner and the woman as passive, which still finds its way into the way we talk about some of these aspects of fertility or reproduction. The sperm invading the egg, you know, like this very much active role and then passive role. And it also explains why the terms fertile, barren, and seed are associated with producing offspring.
I never in a million years would have thought about that.
There is like so much about agriculture and reproduction in ancient Greece and it makes sense, I mean, it's yeah. And also what kind of makes sense along these same lines is treatment. So in ancient Greece, a lot of the treatments for improving conception, and this extended all the
way to medieval times. They tend to center around either balancing out the humors, of course, or prescribing recipes that included ingredients associated with fertility, like the sexual organs of animals, of certain animals in particular, plants that produce a whole lot of seeds, or animal dung which was used to fertilized fields for planting crops.
Oh.
Gross, but logical in a way.
Yes. And while many of these treatments were geared just towards women, some involved both a husband and a wife, and a small handful were just for men. Recipe books from medieval England sometimes included tests meant to show the source of the infertility. Is it from the husband? Is it from the wife? For example, quote the man and woman should each urinate into a pot of brand and the pot were then left to stand for a period
of seven, ten or fourteen nights. At the end of this time, if the fault lay in one partner, then the pot containing his or her urine would stink or contain worms. But if neither pot contained worms, then may men help them to have a child through medicines.
End quote yea yeaiyii wow.
I mean is there something to that? I don't think so, but it is very interesting. What worms?
What worm?
What worms? I'm so curious a.
Cup of brand and urine.
I mean, I.
Don't even know what to say.
Yeah, you don't have to say. I don't know, speechless. And of course these books would not have been the only sources of information about pregnancy and conceiving. We have no way of knowing how much knowledge was exchanged between women or between men, and never written down. These treatments and tests followed the logic of what was then thought to lead to pregnancy, which, by the way, just as a reminder, not like you need the reminding, but I
mean we all need the reminder. You couldn't go out and get a test to tell you within a matter of weeks that you were pregnant. You had to wait like a long time.
Very long time.
Yeah.
And I think it also forces us to consider how much our current definition of infertility depends on our biomedical understanding of reproduction. Which we really only gained in the twentieth century. I feel like historically infertility was an absence of something, and then it grew into more refined definitions of Oh, it is a presence of this issue, It is a presence of this issue, all of these different things.
And also, I mean, of course, I want to acknowledge that unexplained infertility makes up a huge proportion of infertility cases, or people who seek infertility.
Will get there, We will get there.
The word infertility came to prominence in the late nineteen seventies, replacing the terms barren and sterile. People knew you.
Say sorry, sorry sorry sor yeah you're saying nineteen seventies.
Okay, that's what I read that. It was like, I think that infertility had been used, it had been a term, but it really I think replaced the other two around that time.
That makes sense, That makes sense.
Yeah, people knew what sperm and eggs were since the seventeenth century, but it wasn't until the late eighteen hundreds that scientists figured out how they work together.
Cool.
Yeah, that's an entire story.
It's also so so that's so much earlier than I expected. Somehow, like it's it isn't that it is the eighteen eighties.
Wow, Yeah, like the late eighteen hundreds. I don't know why it struck me as late, because I feel like if they had known what they both were, But I think it was more to like the role that each of them played. But even still, sperm and eggs are just one piece of the puzzle. For much of human history, the nitty gritty of human reproduction remained more or less a mystery, and where there's room for doubt or uncertainty,
there's often room for blame. Women historically and even today, tend to shoulder more of the blame when it comes to difficulty conceiving, and it's not uncommon to hear modern stories where a straight couple goes through fertility testing. The doctors find a potential contributing factor in the woman, they take steps to treat that, and then months or years down the line, finally like still nothing's happening, and they
finally test the man and find additional issues. In this Palgrave Handbook of infertility book, I came across the story of a woman who, quote, over a two year period in the late nineteen forties, underwent two dilation and curati operations, a tubal insulflation, a selpindrogram, an endometrial biopsy, and a host of injections, courses of tablets and douches before her husband, Seamen was tested and found to contain no spermatozoa end
quote wow wow, So yeah. We can see this blame with many royal families, where women were seen as responsible for producing an air and a spare, as well as other children for forming political alliances. If a woman failed to fulfill her royal and marital duties in that way,
at the least, she was frowned upon. At the most she was disposed of, as Henry the Eighth famously did to several wives, even though scholars think that he was probably the common denominator and that it was actually quite common because at the time forty percent of Tudor marriages had no children. Really really, that's what at least historical
calculations estimate. A marriage without children could be seen as a sign of God's disapproval or later on unpatriotic, because a thriving population was important for military and economic strength. But of course there's the caveat that I had.
To be the right people reproducing right I mean, honestly, that's still the vibe from all of the articles today about fertility rates or infertility rates, like, that's the vibe.
It is the yep, it is yep, it is eugenic, y eugenic adjacent. For centuries, women have been scrutinized for everything, their behavior, their bearing, their morality, their personality, their indulgences, their activity, their education, and especially their bodies to fat, too thin, too tall, to short, whatever it is, it was their fault. In the nineteenth century, it was thought that the more passionate the woman, the more likely she would be infertile, ending in an orgasm for a woman
was thought to be less conducive to child bearing. Ah, one of the more depressing things I've I've read.
It's also not accurate scientifically, let me tell you.
Oh fascinating, Okay, The moral and medical explanations of infertility blended together. By the late eighteen hundreds. The causative agents of gonorrhea and syphilis and their effects on fertility were recognized, but in general, physicians believed that women's reproductive biology was more complex, and so women were more likely to experience
complications from these infections compared to men. One physician R. A. Gibbons said in a nineteen ten address to the Medical Graduates College that quote, in many cases of sterility about which you will be consulted, it is undoubtedly the fault of the woman.
End quote.
Ninety six book titled Sterility by Robert Bell begins with quote, in considering the important subject of sterility in the female, we must not forget the fact that occasionally impotency may exist in the male. This is of such rare occurrence, however, that it may be looked upon almost as phenomenal. Moreover, when it does occur, it can generally be traced to the effects of some previous gone a real or syphilitic attack.
End quote.
Wow, yeah, it's just so blatant.
It's also so interesting the use of different words, right, like sterility versus impotence. Like, it's very interesting.
It is. It is. And I don't know, like if the definitions have I mean, I'm assuming that they have changed, or like the umbrella has changed. Yeah, I don't know.
It's interesting. They all just have such like weight to them, no matter what, like on both sides.
Yes, Yeah, this attitude, this belief that women were more to blame for any sort of issues of infertility in
a couple. This became a self fulfilling prophecy because if physicians were taught that male infertility was rare, then they were less likely to examine the husband of a couple having difficulty conceiving because also, I say husband, because for the most part in this period of time, the only people who were seeking, or the vast majority of people who were seeking and would be seen by physicians, had to be a married couple. There was that sort of
morality component to it. Some physicians did recognize that it wasn't necessarily the wife's fault, the woman's fault with eugenic y undertones. So quote A great many women are, through no fault of their own, incapable of becoming mothers. The reason for this is that they have been infected by venereal disease, which is the great foe to the reproduction of the race. The husband has infected his wife and thus robbed her of the power of maternity.
End quote.
It's so interesting erin Yeah, there's Oh, there's just so many layers of like connotations and assumptions that go into like a sentence like that.
I know, I know there are directions like where is the blame going? Who was the active? Who was who was the Yeah? The subjectives yeah.
Robbed her like everything about.
It, the word choices yeah, yeah yeah. And we've got more because just for ice, we do just wait for it. The development of testing and treatment for STIs in the early twentieth century helped to reduce infertility associated with those infections, but it didn't remove the language of blame. The psychogenic model of infertility rose to prominence in the nineteen thirties, basically this idea that certain women brought on their infertility by not adapting to established gender roles.
Can I just guess that Freud had something to do with this?
Yes on the Dot? Got it of Yes, Yeah. It's been called a quote psychic conflict flying under a gynecologic flag end quote. Go Ross, it's awful Ross. Yeah. Okay, So I'm going to read you a quote from Freud's colleague Helene Deutsch. I also quoted her in our menopause episode. Quote, has her fear of the reproduction function proved stronger than her wish to be a mother? Is she still so much a child that she cannot emotionally and consciously decide
to assume the responsible role of mother. Is she so much absorbed emotionally in other life tasks that she fears motherhood? And above all, has the sterile woman overcome the narcissistic mortification of her inferiority as a woman to such an extent that she is willing to give the child as object full maternal love?
End quote? Oh, the rage of coursing through me.
I'm sorry, I know, I know, yep, yep, yeah, Like.
I don't even have like, I.
It's amazing that that was not very long ago.
Yes, that was less than one hundred years ago.
I mean less than a hundred years ago. And then sort of like we've talked about the time that it takes for something to leave this tradition. I mean, Freud had was so influential.
So influential, like still to this day influential. Yeah, and you can't like separate that kind of thing out from all of the other ideas, Like, sorry, okay, this is not an episode about Freud.
I know, maybe someday now, I don't know if I'm I don't know if I'm prepared to do that. But also people sometimes blamed infertility in men on their quote unquote domineering and controlling mothers. So it was just like always you know, just you know, we're not surprised, just disappointed.
You can blame a mother for infertility. That's just like that's taken a cake, right.
I mean, yep, yep across the board. Though, you know, I do think it's important to note that infertility for both men and women was and continued to be highly stigmatized and full of blame language. And there's no doubt that shame also silenced men writing about their fertility issues. A history of male infertility seems even more difficult to
get a handle on in some degree. And although the psychogenic model of infertility fell out of favor in subsequent decades as we learned more about how human reproduction works, it still lingers in some ways, like the advice that you will come across, Oh you're just too stressed, try to relax and then you'll get pregnant, or you just don't want it enough. Maybe it's your body's way of
saying this wasn't meant to be. All of these types of things have echoes of the psychogenic model, but the more positive legacy is that the recognition that Experiencing infertility and going through fertility treatments can have profound impacts on mental health, revealing a need for mental health professionals infertility clinics not as gatekeepers for who is deserving of fertility treatment, which is kind of what they started out as in
some degree, but as support. The twentieth century, which i'll talk much more about next episode, dramatically changed not only the way that infertility was studied or treated, but also the way it was experienced, which I haven't really talked about, in part because it's so big, it's so personal, it's
not at all universal or generalizable. As our understanding of human reproduction grew, and as technologies like IVF developed in the late nineteen seventies, as these opened the door to new possibilities, infertility became something to overcome through science, but not for everyone. Stigma, silence, or a lack of access prevent people from seeking treatments in the first place, and the treatments aren't always successful or the cause of the
infertility remains unexplained. In some ways. The improvements in reproductive technology have given us this illusion of complete control over our fertility, and many modern narratives of infertility tend to reinforce that control by highlighting stories where there's a beginning, a middle, and a happy ending, either through pregnancy and birth of an IVF baby, or adoption or surrogacy or something similar, something that's like and then here is the
happy ending that everyone expects. The stories of people in the middle of IVF or who have tried IVF but have not gotten pregnant or delivered a baby. These are less common stories, which can add to the silence surrounding infertility, perpetuating the myth that fertility is a universal or universally desired experience. The idea of having it all plays into this, suggesting that if you don't have kids, whether that's voluntary or involuntary, you're missing something. You can't have it all.
We could do a whole episode on the problem with the phrase having it all it's one of my least liked phrases, or doing it all. But silence can also be protective, preventing intrusive questions or platitudes like maybe this is the way it's meant to be for you. And these days, with the advent of contraceptives that in general allow us to have more control over reproduction. We can better control our own narrative, whether we want to tell
anyone or whether we want to keep it private. Sharing stories of infertility or hearing those stories can reawaken painful feelings, or it can create a sense of community, or both, or neither, or something else. There's no simple answer or universal experience. And the same applies to the concept of infertility. On the one hand, thinking about infertility in purely biomedical terms, as we often do these days, reduces this multi dimensional
experience to one aspect. But on the other the understanding that we gained throughout the twentieth century about the biological causes of infertility has helped to reduce the stigma and blame surrounding it, not globally but in many parts of the world, and it has allowed so many people to fulfill their dreams of having children. And so Aarin, I'll now turn it over to you to tell us all what to expect if we go in for fertility testing.
Ooh, I cannot wait to We'll take a quick break and then I'll get into it.
Hi were the yet man's I'm Brooke and I'm Rachel, and we wanted to share parts of our IVF journey, the good, the bad, the ugly with all of you. We started our journey in twenty twenty one. We decided that each of us would like to carry a biological child using the same donor sperm. I started the process first with IUI, and after several attempts, was unsuccessful. I then started the IVF process with follicle stimulation followed by
the egg retriple. In February of twenty twenty two, I did a frozen instead of frush transfer because of overstimulation during the retrieval process. In April of twenty twenty two, I had a successful embryo transfer and implantation, followed by a healthy baby boy born in December of twenty twenty two.
And now for the ugly part of the journey. I started my journey shortly after Rachel did. I had two egg retrievals because the first one only three embryos survived fertilization. After my first two embryos failed, I had an endometrio biopsy to test my progresstern window and test for endometrioses. For those of you that have never had when done,
it's very painful, not a great experience at all. During this time, Rachel became pregnant, and it was very difficult for me because she was able to become pregnant with the first transfer and I was continuing to have unsuccessful transfers. It was very taxing on a relationship and my mental health, but we kept pushing on. By this time, our son was born and it made all the insecurities I had about not being his birth parent disappear. On my fourth
transfer attempt, I did become pregnant. However, I started a bleed about two weeks after. I went in for an ultrasound and I found out I had a sub qoreanic chematoma that was bigger than the fetus itself. But there was still some hope because the fetus was still there and the bleeding had stepped. However, when we went in for the heartbeat check, it wasn't there. It was literally heartbreaking.
At that point, I was abating on whether or not I wanted to keep trying, but we made it further than we had previously, so there was no indication that the next transfer wouldn't be successful. I tried one more time. It was my fifth and final transfer, but that was also unsuccessful. My next step would be shut to shed down my entire immune system to see if that would help.
So I had two choices, give up on having a biological child or see if my wife, Rachel could get pregnant with my embryo, and after much discussion, we did a reciprocal IVF Rachel would attempt to carry one of my embryos. The first attempt has resulted in a chemical pregnancy. The embryo started doing plant and then detatched for an
unknown reason. It could have been a genetic issue with the embryo or the embryo quality itself, but they weren't sure, so we did the same protocol and tried it again, which was successful.
And I am now currently twenty five weeks pregnant and do in August with our second son as biologically brooks child.
And I still struggle sometimes wishing that I could have been the one who carried her second son, but for some reason, it wasn't meant to be, and the journey to our family wasn't an easy one, but we can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Journey to IVF was one that we never expected. Having our first son unassisted and then being diagnosed with secondary infertility, five long years of trying and five missed miscarriages. We were always told it's just bad luck or it happens to everybody, but eventually you start looking for answers, and science really was the only way that we could bring
our miracle baby home. Through one and a half egg retrievals due to one canceled because of poor outcomes, COVID closed clinics, moving our two precious tested embryos to a clinic five hours away, we finally reached a time where we were able to transfer our embryo and have our miracle baby. Without the science of IVF, my family would not be what.
It is today.
But it's not without shots, tears, blood, ultrasounds, financial, emotional and physical stress. And for anyone in the trenches, I'm forever grateful to have you by my side and I will always be there no matter what. To root everybody on. IVF is not something that is easy or taken lightly, but it is a chance to give us the dream of expanding our family.
So Aarin, you started off your section, and I love that we sometimes we just work together so well, don't we?
All the time you.
Started off your section talking about this idea of whether or not infertility is actually on the rise, and that's where I wanted to start too, And where I wanted to start was really looking into what you started with, which is what is really the difference between fertility and infertility and how do we use that those definitions when we're talking about how to treat infertility as a medical disease,
if that's what we're calling it. So governments, all governments cite fertility rates like that's the data that we have. We have data on birth rates, and yes, birth rates have declined substantially in the US, for example, in like thee in nineteen fifty women had close to five children
on average. And as a disclaimer, all of the language around fertility and infertility is so incredibly heteronormative, and so I use the term women here because that is what all of the data sites, and we do not have good data on the experience or the lived experience in transgender and gender diverse individuals, not to mention the fact that definitions of infertility don't even take into account people
who are gay or anything like that. So I apologize in advance that that is the reality of the situation. But when I say women talking about people with the uterus here. So on average women had five children in nineteen fifty.
By twenty twenty two, the.
Birth rate in the US is about one point six births per woman, So obviously that's a statistic. So that's a huge decline in the total fertility rate. And it's
not just the US. The global fertility rate has more than had from again close to five four point eight in nineteen fifty to two point two three in twenty But much of this decline is quite intentional, and some of it is a very good thing, because some of the statistics when you look at what has been on the decline year over year, is things like birth among those age fifteen to nineteen children, babies, having babies has been on the decline.
That's good.
It's also the increase in the availability of contraception and the ability for people to decide to either delay or forego altogether childbearing if that's what they decide, and that wasn't always possible. So has this also led to an
increase in infertility? In everything that I was reading, I didn't find any data to show that the things that we're going to talk about that cause infertility, the underlying things that can cause it to be difficult or close to impossible to conceive without medical intervention don't seem to be on the rise. And what's interesting is that nowhere in the reports that I read about fertility statistics do
they say that the infertility rate has increased. But that is absolutely the takeaway of a ton of websites and news articles that take data from these fertility statistics. Now, what is true is that the demands for assisted reproductive technologies, including IVF, have increased, though in some cases they've started to level off and in some countries they're still continuing to rise. But that still doesn't mean that we can
conflate those two things, fertility and infertility. And I think that's one of the things that's really tricky when we in medicine, as we do in medicine, define and view infertility as a disease, as this medical phenomenon, because some of this decline infertility rates might be due to things like an overall increase in the age at first birth, which has been increasing, and we know that and I'll talk more about this. The age of your eggs.
Specifically, and also the age of the sperm.
Our major driving forces behind what we conceptualize as infertility, but it still all depends on what somebody's experience is of it. So anyways, let's get a little bit more into the details of how medicine defines infertility and what happens if somebody wants to become pregnant and hasn't. So you mentioned it at the top erin the medical definition of infertility today, though it still depends a little bit
on what society is writing it. Per the who is the inability to achieve a pregnant and if that is desired after twelve months of regular unprotected sexual intercourse, again heteronormative as heck, but that's where we are. This is a medical definition, and per the World Health Organization and so many societies, it is seen as a disease of either the female or the male reproductive tract or both. And so that is the point, twelve months of unprotected
sex without a pregnancy. That's usually the point at which an investigation into what the cause of infertility is would begin. So a question that people often have, because it's a logical question, is like why twelve months? And in part it's because of just the odds. So if you look on large population scales. Most sources estimate that conception rates in the first month of attempting to get pregnant are
about thirty percent. So the first month thirty percent. Then if we look out at six months, the cumulative conception rate at six months is about seventy five percent. And then if you go to twelve months, it's about ninety percent of couples that are trying to conceive will have conceived in twelve months. So that's the main way that we get there.
I have what's interesting? Do you have a question?
I do because I feel like it plays into this too. What is regular sex? Is there a definition by the who? Yeah, I hope that you are going to ask such a good question.
Let me scroll down to the bottom where I have my fun facts section.
Oh nice?
How often do you have to have sex penis and a vagina?
Sex has to happen ideally one to two times a week at a minimum to be considered regular. And what's also important is that the timing is actually really important because the egg only lives in the female reproductive tract for about twenty four hours, but the sperm lives for
up to five days. So the fertile window really starts about six days before ovulation, peaks about two days before ovulation, and then is done essentially by the time that ovulation happens, because the sperm also need time to swim all the.
Way up to the Philippian team.
Okay, God, so that's also a lot if you are busy and trying to do this for a very long time, just just saying okay, so yes, that is that's what
is considered regular enough sex. What's interesting about this timing of twelve months is that if you were to follow again on a population level, couples who haven't conceived at that twelve months for another twelve months, fifty percent of those couples would conceive in that next twelve months within two years, so the cumulative can option rate increases to about ninety five percent at two years.
Okay.
Now this changes significantly with age, especially with the age of the person with the uterus or the woman, and we talked about this a little bit in our menopause episode. Those of us who ovulate are born with only a certain number of eggs, and at some point in our reproductive lives, those eggs either are fewer and farther between, or are of lower quality in a way that impacts the chances of pregnancy. In most of the medical community,
this starts at around age thirty five. Realistically it starts to decline a little bit before that, but between ages thirty five and thirty nine, the spontaneous conception rate at that one year mark is actually only sixty percent compared to ninety percent if you're younger than thirty five, and at two years it's eighty five percent.
Okay.
Now, male fertility also declines with age, but it gets far less attention because we don't understand it as well and nobody talks about it. But for that reason, somebody who is thirty five or older would often start, or it's recommended that they start this infertility evaluation at six months of trying to conceive and not conceiving, rather than waiting the whole year.
Okay, So what does that actually look like?
What can one expect if you are trying to get pregnant, you haven't gotten pregnant, and you go to your doctor's office for an infertility evaluation. Obviously this is going to look different at every single healthcare facility in every single country.
But what I'm going to kind.
Of focus on is what the very general evaluations are going to be focusing on how we're going to try and pinpoint what a cause of this inability to conceive is and then get into what those causes are and then what the options are for how we treat it, because while we intended this as a study of just like IVF, IVF is not often the first step depending on what the underlying cause of that infertility is.
Yeah, I'm really curious about this decision tree process.
Yeah, it's it's really complicated, but it's really interesting. So at that twelvemonth or six month mark, depending on your age, the initial doctor's office visits, this is probably gonna be pretty boring. You're gonna be answering a million questions about your personal life, about your medical history, etc. Most often, probably because of all the things you talked about, Aaron, about the history of how we view infertility as a female problem. It's usually the female partner who shows up
first to the doctor. But all of the literature says this should be an evaluation of the couple. It should never just be an evaluation of one partner. If there's a two partner scenario, which in all of the texts that's the assumption, and then the next step that's going to happen after this kind of history gathering to see if there's any clues as to what the problem could be.
There'll be a bunch of blood tests and probably some imaging studies for the female and a semen analysis and maybe some blood work, but honestly often not even blood work for the male.
What would the blood work show, great question.
So for women, the blood work is going to assess a few different things, probably some measure of ovarian reserve, so you're going to be checking some hormone and there's a few different that people might check to assess your ovarian reserve, how many eggs.
Do you have left.
They'll also check other hormones to see if there's a reason that you might not be ovulating as much as we might expect or on a regular a basis. That goes along with some of the menstrual history that you're going to ask about what someone's cycles are like, and checking on things like thyroid hormone, prolactin hormone, these other things that if they're out of whack, can contribute to ovulation issues.
In the men.
You could have similar things be checked, but it's really going to depend on like how far down the rabbit hole you end up going, or if a cause is identified prior to that. The blood work for men is not as straightforward or as algorithmized, I guess, okay, as it is unless you find something and then you might chase it down, if that makes sense.
Yes, I had no idea that you could get a feel for ovarian reserve with a blood test. Yeah.
Yeah, there's a few different things you can check.
Wow, okay, cool.
It's really important too. But anyways, I could go on, I won't. So then the imaging studies that you're going to get might be things like ultrasounds, just to assess the structure of the uterus see if there's things like
fibroids or or something that could be contributing. They might also do what's called a histroosyl pingagram, which you mentioned a little bit Aaron as well in one of your quotes, And this is quite a painful procedure from my understanding, but it's very good for looking at the entire shape of the uterus itself and to see if there's any blockage of tubes or other abnormalities of the uterine cavity that could be contributing, and in some cases people might
end up even undergoing exploratory surgeries depending on again what they find on all of these initial evaluations. Interesting again, for the men, you look at the sperm and you see how many there are, you see what the shape of them are, and you see how well they move. So you're also looking at things like motility. Now there might be more depending on what you find, but that's kind of the first start, and it gets you to a lot of these different causes of infertility. So let's
get into what these are. If we look super broadly, like really really broad, there's kind of three huge categories. It could be male factor infertility, it could be female factor infertility, could be both and that happens, or it could be unexplained infertility, and we'll get there. So at its core, if we're looking at male factor infertility first, at its core, this is going to be an issue with sperm, either amount of sperm or the effectiveness of
those sperm. So this could be an issue with spermatogenesis. So either you're not making enough sperm, or you're making sperm that are morphologically abnormal.
In some way.
Either they can't move as well, they have some kind of DNA issue. There's a lot of possibilities. Issues with spermatogenesis are the most common, but there's tons of other things that could be going on as well. You can have issues with sperm transport, either because of blockage of not being able to make it down the vast deference to be ejaculated, or because like in our cystic fibrosis episode we talked about just like the absence of ccilia
being able to help the sperm be transported. And you can also have hormonal or endocrine disorders that affect sperm production. Those are kind of the three biggest categories that contribute to male factor infertility. When we look at female factor infertility, the way that I think of it is it's most easy to split it up by like organ or area of the body. So you can have issues with your ovaries,
either you have irregular or non ovulatory cycles. We see this in things like PCOS or other hormonal disruptions, maybe thyroid disorder or prolactin, or issues with the ovaries from ocite aging or depletion, either because the eggs themselves are of life or quality because of age, or there's just not as many eggs to be ovulated. But you can also have blockage of the floapian tubes, and this is most commonly caused by things like pelvic inflammatory disease or
severe endometriosis. You can then have problems with the uterus itself that might impair implantation. This could be structural things like fibroids or acceptate uterus like me or or an insufficient lining of the uterus. You can also have cervical factors, either from previous trauma to the cervix or a reduced cervical mucus that impairs sperm transport. Then there's even more rare causes like autoimmune diseases. There is a very very long list of possible causes. Then, for both men and women,
you could have karyotype abnormalities. Right, you might have certain genetic disorders that just make it really difficult to either get pregnant in the first place, or a cause of recurrent miscarriage could be a karyotype abnormalities. That means abnormalities in your chromosome that are small enough that they usually don't affect you, but it does affect the egg or
the sperm that you're trying to produce. And then there's unexplained infertility, which is exactly as dissatisfying as it sounds, because what it means is that you have done all of this work up, you have gone through all of these tests, all of this blood work, and we didn't find anything, and you're still not pregnant and you want to be.
I have a question about unexplained infertility. How has that term shrunk over time? Like how has it you know, are there still things that were exploring that, like, oh, it could be this, and it's just like finding the right tests or develop in the right tests or you know what.
I mean, Yeah, I do, I do. It's a really good question. I don't know is the short answer classic. But it's such an interesting question because from what I read, the thought behind unexplained infertility is that it isn't one thing. It's a bunch of little things that might contribute to relatively like a relative subfertility. And the idea of subfertility is something that like I thought about writing a lot
about and then I didn't because who boy. But anyways, it's like it's a bunch of different things that might cause it to be a little bit harder or take a little bit longer to achieve a pregnancy, but all combined together, right, So like maybe you have slightly on the low side of a sperm count, and maybe you have a slightly less receptive endometrium, and maybe you have slightly hostile cervical mucus something that is that the term
it's a term. I don't know that it's a good one, but right, like, maybe you have a little bit of a lot of things, right, or maybe you have pcos so you're ovulating but not on a very regular cycle, and then your partner also has like a little bit of a low sperm count or something. But again those you would think that, Okay, well we've identified some causes.
Right.
So that's why it's really I think frustrating, is that there still is this unexplained infertility that in most estimates that I read, accounts for anywhere from ten to twenty percent of cases of infertility, which is huge, right, And so like, ah, I just can imagine it's so painful, right to not have any answer.
Deeply frustrating and unsatisfying. And so is this is that like a formal is there a point at which there's just like, well, we've done everything, so it's unexplained infertility and then that's like the diagnosis on the chart whatever.
So it is definitely a diagnosis that gets put on a chart. The question of how much of a workup has been done before that is the label that gets put on is probably going to vary depending on where you are. So I can't answer the like, what is that point, okay, because it's going to depend on where you are and what resources you have too, right, because some of these tests are not exactly easy and you have to have access to a specialist to be able
to do it. And so maybe there is for some people an answer, but they just can't get it because they don't have access to what they need to get that answer.
Okay, Yeah, it's a good question.
But so once you've gone through all of this work up and maybe you have found a cause or maybe you haven't, the options for treatment that are available to you are going to depend on a lot of different things.
They're going to.
Depend in part on what if any identified cause of infertility there is, and hopefully anything that was found that's correctable is corrected, and in some cases that might be all that you need. Right if there's a thyroid condition, then if you can correct that, perhaps that's the only kind of thing that you would need and that wouldn't
necessarily fall into medically assisted reproduction MAR or ART. And we'll get into that specific definition in a minute, but that couple would still meet the criteria for diagnosis of infertility, which I think is important. Okay, yes, But the other thing, in addition to what the cause of infertility is in terms of what the next steps are going to be will very much depend on what your access is like and what your finances are like. And that's true here
in the US, but also everywhere. Access to all forms of assisted reproductive technologies is absolutely incredibly unequal because it's incredibly expensive everywhere, not just in the US. So what are some of these different options. One of the first is ovulation induction, and this is something that can be done with either oral medicines or sometimes injectable medications. And
it's what it sounds like. It's inducing ovulation in someone who isn't ovulating or who's not ovulating on a regular schedule. And so this can be done with timed intercourse, so like using a medicine and then just having sex when you're like on the right schedule with this medicine, or depending on the cause, it can also be done in
combination with IUI or intrauterine insemini. Intriuterine insemination involves taking the sperm, washing it because did you know that if you don't wash the sperm, you're going to have a massive like reaction to that unwashed sperm if you inject it straight into the uterus.
I did indeed, because it plays a role in next episode and the history of development of ibs.
Oh my gosh, I can't wait.
And it give me such an appreciation for my cervical mucus I had to say. I was like, Wow, you're protecting me so well. Anyways, so intuterine insemination is usually in combination with ovulation induction, and that can use either
a partner sperm or it can use donor sperm. And so that is one of kind of often the first areas that you see this being able to be applied to more than just heterosexual couples is ovulation induction with IUI, and those are kind of the main options that we have, and then we get into ART or assisted reproductive technology. ART is the broader term and I don't know if people say art or art, but I'm gonna say art.
Okay.
So this is a broad term that includes conventional IVF or in vitro fertilization, which we'll talk a lot about next episode. It also includes IVF with ICSI, which is intra cytoplasmic sperm injection. And it also includes some other acronyms like gift and jift I think, and some other things that most places don't do anymore, but we're kind of earlier versions of IVF.
Okay.
But in short, art means any process where we're taking eggs out of the body, we're taking sperm out of the body, and we're joining these up and growing an embryo outside of the body and then re implanting it. And that, dear listeners, is going to be the subject of next week's episode.
Bear Okay, So someone goes in. Let's say a couple goes in for fertility testing, go through all of these different processes. Let's say that they do this and that. What are the different characteristics of the couple, like age or whatever? When when go I UI, when go IVF? When do you do all these different ICSI? Like what when?
What why, Yeah, decisions when, why? What? How?
Yes? All of this?
Yeah, it's a good question.
So sometimes IVF might be the first thing that you go to. Okay, IVF might be first line therapy in cases like, for example, if there's bilateral tubal occlusion. Right, So if you're both Philippian tubes, you go through this workup and you find out that both of your Philippian tubes are completely blocked, then it's either IVF or a surgery to try and reconstruct those tubes. Right, So IVF
might be the first line in that case. A time when IVF might not be the first line would be if somebody has something like PCOS, for example, then you might reasonably try ovulation induction either alone or with IUI, And the decision there really just depends on the couple. It depends on the situation. So it's not like a black and white there. It's very much a gray area, and there are kind of a lot of other cases
where you might try other things unexplained infertility. Generally, the recommendation is to start with ovulation induction and IUI combined. The thought again being that if there's multiple things that are all contributing to cause this relative subfertility. Then if we can induce ovulation and put the sperm right at the top of the uterus at the right time, then we have maybe the highest chance of success before we jump to something as expensive and time consuming as IVF,
IVF with ICSI. With that, intra cytoplasmic sperm injection is first line for severe male factor infertility because in many cases with severe male factor that's the only way that you're going to have a successful pregnancy. And depending on the age of the couple, especially the age of the woman, it may be that the recommendation is to go straight
to IVF. Also depending on how long they've been trying for, So it's also the case that if a couple has been trying for greater than two years or greater than three years, regardless of what you find as the cause, it's possible that someone would recommend IVF as the first just because statistically there's such a small chance of the other options being as effective, like per cycle. And similarly, if the age of the female is greater than thirty
five or definitely greater than thirty nine. But it all is just kind of depend a little bit on each individual circumstance.
Right, Okay, okay, And.
Finally, of course IVF would also be a first line if the underlying issue isn't this medical definition of infertility that we have defined, but what is called social infertility.
Right.
If you are a lesbian couple trying to get pregnant, IVF is often though not always, because ovulation induction plus IUI could also be an option, but often IVF is one of the first steps for things like that, or for a single mom who wants to get pregnant, also for somebody who has a genetic condition that they want to ensure doesn't get passed down to their children, and we mentioned this briefly in our Huntington's episode, but this is also relevant for people or couples who are carriers
of things like sickle cell or cystic fibrosis. IVF can often be first line for that, and it is used in combination with things that we'll talk about later, and that is pre implantation genetic testing for these specific disorders. So there's a very wide range.
Yeah, I think it's it's interesting how like what IVF started out in terms of like, okay, who is going to be using IVF, and then how that evolved over the decades afterwards, which is it's kind of as the technology changed, as regulations changed and so on, which we'll get into more of that, but I do have more questions. So one of the questions is, so we you have mentioned fertility rates globally and in the what are infertility rates and like, how are those measured on a global scale?
What numbers go into that? Great question.
I'll talk about this a lot more in our last episode of this series, but let's.
At least mention it. Globally.
It's estimated that one in six couples worldwide experience infertility at some point in their reproductive lives. Of course, this only includes this medical definition of infertility, right, Okay, so globally that's looking at like fifty million or more couples.
It's a huge number.
Yeah, it's huge.
Okay.
Interesting. I have a question that's, like you talked about how this is what to expect if you go in for fertility testing, what is like even before that, you know, let's say that you're trying for a year to become pregnant, not getting pregnant, who do you do? You go to your primary care and then you get a referral to a like who is the person you ultimately see?
That is such a good question because I have a lot of personal feelings about it that aren't that relevant. But it is going to depend so much on where you live and who you have access to and who your doctor is, because the first steps of this infertility workup, and even like what I would also say is so important that gets overlooked is like preconception counseling if people want to get pregnant, like understanding that you are most fertile in those six days prior to ovulation, and like
the timing of intercourse. We don't get taught that in high school biology class, right, We're so focused for so much time on like not getting pregnant, often not always, but so even that most of this initial workup is very reasonable to be done by most like general practiceers
what they're called in most places. That being said, not all physicians are trained in women's health equally and so or in like reproductive health in general, because again we have to look at both women's and men's health, and so it's very possible that some like GP type physicians wouldn't feel comfortable initiating that depending on where you are depending on what you have access to, So then you might be referred to an obgian who might focus just on again, the female reproductive tract.
So it is.
It's part of the kind of issue with people getting access to the right kinds of care is that, yes, most of this evaluation can reasonably be started at least in like a general practitioner's office if they feel comfortable with it.
Interesting, Okay, I feel like Aaron. I feel like there's like a thousand more questions that I like have that are just kind of like lingering in my head, just dancing around, but I don't know what they are. But I guess this is why we're doing multiple episodes, so that I can think back and then ask these again. Exactly.
But we're just going to keep talking.
I'm just going to keep talking forever. But we should probably wrap up this episode now, Okay, I think so.
I am really excited for next week to get into what the heck is IVF and how did we come up with it and how does it exist today?
Yes, I am excited for that, but we should do the sources for this episode first. Absolutely, I have a few, but I want to give a second shout out to
that incredible book that I've mentioned a few times now. Second, third, fourth shout out the Paul Grave Handbook of Infertility and History, edited by Gail Davis and Tracy Loughgrin, which that was just a great It was a really interesting resource and had so much like very commentary and like scholarly research on the subject that was sort of all over the place and but also really comprehensive.
I have to admit that my sources for these three episodes are a mess, being very mixed up, fair warning. But for this episode a few papers that I would like to especially shout out that I found really interesting. One was kind of an old paper now called the ABC's of Subfertility, so interesting extent of the problem. It had a lot of detail in there about infertility as well the World Health Organization fact sheet on infertility, as
well as a textbook on reproductive medicine. And we will post all of the sources from this episode and all of our episodes and the next episodes on our website, this podcast would Kill You dot Com under the episodes tab.
A huge thank you again to everyone who has shared their first hand accounts with us and who have just like really, it's it's been incredible and incredible privilege, like you said, Aaron, to be able to you know, read these hear these stories. Thank you, thank you.
Yeah, we really really appreciate it. It's so meaningful. Thank you it is.
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Thank you too, exactly right, and thank.
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