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Thick & Thin

Katy Bellottewww.studio71.com
The spoken diary of Katy Bellotte, a self-employed graphic designer living in New York. Each Thursday, Katy blends her personal experiences with stories from history, offering advice, laughs & some major epiphanies. She chats about living in full color, through the thick & the thin (with a dirty martini in hand). For advertising opportunities please email [email protected]   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy
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Episodes

Acting from the heart

It's time to get our shit together. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the importance of personal autonomy, as our decisions should stem from our morals and desires rather than societal pressure to look cool. Because if we can gain complete control of our actions, then maybe we can end the hustle to keep up with others and finally be content. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Source: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-self-determination-theory-2795387 Learn more abo...

Sep 08, 202252 min

Craving connection

At our core, we are all the same. We all want to be seen, to be heard, and to be loved. So in this episode of Thick & Thin, I stress our innate need for human connection. Because when we are void of those relationships, we are often left feeling crushed. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Source: https://www.gizmodo.com.au/2022/02/the-birds-outsmarted-us-magpies-help-each-other-remove-scientists-tracking-devices/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adcho...

Sep 01, 202252 min

Crocodile tears

Feeling stuck? It can be hard to get out of a rut. But, in this episode of Thick & Thin, I encourage you all to lean into the good and kick cynicism out of the driver's seat. Because if we do, then maybe we'll be able to manifest our goals and hope for the best. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/butterflies-and-bees-get-their-nutrient-fix-crocodile-tears-180951350/ https://www.livescience.com/63092-butterflies-drink-turtle-te...

Aug 25, 202243 min

The truth about looking back

Sometimes it's hard to live in the present. It can be easy to worry about the future or regret decisions from the past, but that will only hold us back. If we want to start feeling better, we need to change our perspective. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I look back at previous versions of myself and turn those low moments into significant turning points that got me to where I am today. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/lessons-loving...

Aug 18, 202244 min

When friendships change

Friends come and go –– but these connections can be just as impactful as familial or romantic relationships. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I talk about the potential hardships of maintaining adult friendships when we are all navigating different phases in life. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://play.acast.com/s/sentimentalgarbage/sentimentalinthecity3-sexandthecity-season3 https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/10/how-friendships-change-over-time-...

Aug 11, 202250 min

Am I the exception or the rule?

Maybe it's time to break the rules. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I decide to catch up with a guy from the past and hope to either uncover some answers or reignite the flame. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://www.damninteresting.com/curio/pushing-the-envelope/ https://www.damninteresting.com/curio/emphasis-mine/ https://www.damninteresting.com/curio/no-touching/ https://www.thevintagenews.com/2018/04/30/thai-queen/ https://www.beaglestreet.com/life-insuranc...

Aug 04, 202245 min

It's ok to be sensitive

Sensitivity is not an overreaction. So in this episode of Thick & Thin, I'm glad to reconnect with my sensitive side knowing that I genuinely give and care about other people to the best of my ability. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://thesimplyluxuriouslife.com/podcast44/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pi4JOlMSWjo&t=318s https://www.amazon.com/Highly-Sensitive-Person-Elaine-Aron/dp/0553062182/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1436144715&sr=8-1&keyw...

Jul 28, 202244 min

The dangers of future-tripping

Cheers to the present! We will never be able to tell the future, so why spend the energy worrying about it? In this episode of Thick & Thin, my goal is to stop wasting my time trying to control the narrative, but sometimes the anticipatory anxiety and endless what-ifs win. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://victoriaalbina.com/future-tripping-2/ https://ideas.ted.com/why-are-we-so-bad-at-predicting-what-will-happen-to-us-in-the-future/ https://nesslabs.com/end-o...

Jul 21, 202243 min

The truth about wellness

We all want to be well. But that doesn't mean we need to go to extreme lengths to do so. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the downsides of the wellness industry. Is it just a cash grab? Will celery juice really save us all? Let's find out. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://www.history.com/news/dr-john-kellogg-cereal-wellness-wacky-sanitarium-treatments https://itsblossom.com/blog/2019/04/23/most-disturbing-beauty-trends/ https://www.theatlantic.com/h...

Jul 14, 202242 min

Having a bad day?

In this episode of Thick & Thin, I share two tales. The first describes a genuinely considerate man in love. While the latter details a woman's ability to cheat death, not once but twice in one day. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://historycollection.com/cheat-death-twice-betty-lou-oliver-survived-75-storey-elevator-crash-plane-crashed-building/ https://www.newspapers.com/clip/11687034/betty-lou-oliver-tells-of-1000-foot/ https://www.history.com/this-day-in-hi...

Jul 07, 202238 min

The truth about finding your passion

It's easy to get stuck in the mundane. But in this episode of Thick & Thin, I use the life story of chemist Marie Curie to reignite my desire to discover what I'm truly passionate about. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://www.instagram.com/p/CfKup_0Lh-V/ https://kenyonlyceum.wordpress.com/2019/12/14/the-half-life-of-marie-curie/ https://history.aip.org/exhibits/curie/resbr1.htm https://www.sciencealert.com/these-personal-effects-of-marie-curie-will-be-radioacti...

Jun 30, 202240 min

Burnt out

Let's be honest doing it all is not healthy. It's exhausting and nearly impossible to keep up. Plus, what's the point of constantly chasing the next thing if it leaves you feeling unwell? So, in this episode of Thick & Thin, I strain to stop the panic. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Source: https://tabooau.co/blogs/blog/a-comparison-of-the-female-vs-male-hormonal-cycle-spoiler-alert-women-have-it-worse Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 23, 202245 min

Surprises & second chances

It's time to let loose! So in this episode of Thick & Thin, I decided to ease my tight grip on life to give in to the unpredictable. Because I think it's about time for a nice surprise. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Source: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/nov/03/i-was-given-a-second-chance-six-amazing-people-describe-their-life-changes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 16, 202243 min

Forgetting regret

Use this episode of Thick & Thin as your sign to take a walk outside right now to alleviate your current regrets and fears. Although our worries may protect us sometimes, we can't let our anxieties ultimately control our actions. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anxiety-files/202206/is-regret-ever-useful https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRtBHF-WPpM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 09, 202247 min

Envy isn't sexy

Sometimes it is hard to be happy for others. But in this episode of Thick & Thin, I try to remember that not everything is a competition, and someone else's success does not negate my own – because we can't forget that comparison is the thief of joy. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Source: https://reddit.com/r/Showerthoughts/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 02, 202246 min

A world without cell phones

It's essential to try to make the best out of every situation. But to what extent? In this episode of Thick & Thin, I contemplate the uncertainties about my current lifestyle to see if I'm truly happy. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Sources: https://www.televisionofyore.com/recaps-of-sex-and-the-city/sex-and-the-city-season-6-episode-1 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 26, 202246 min

Fight or flight

Our fears can be loud. But we must let our triumphs be even louder. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I acknowledge that I need to worry less and stop dwelling on my past mistakes; because growth should be motivated by desire rather than fear. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte / Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 19, 202244 min

Am I happy?

True satisfaction can sometimes feel unattainable. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I contemplate all my decisions over the past four years to see if I could have done anything differently to feel happier. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // To get $25 off your first order of $150 or more and free shipping, visit yearandday.com/thick and use code THICK Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 12, 202239 min

It’s like looking in a mirror

It is always easier to give advice rather than take it. But even the best advice turns hollow if you're not applying it to yourself. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I talk through my most recent epiphany about taking better care of myself. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // To get $25 off your first order of $150 or more and free shipping, visit yearandday.com/thick and use code THICK Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 05, 202242 min

Strangers to lovers

In this episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the concept of "justing." We often think that making one change in ourselves will completely transform our lifestyle – forcing us to follow the "if only..." mindset. But in the long run, the ticket to happiness is more than just one decision away. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.dictionaryofobscuresorrows.com To get $25 off your first order of $150 or more and free shipping, visit yearandday.com/thick and use c...

Apr 28, 202247 min

A thousand versions of me

We constantly focus on who we are in the present and who we want to be in the future, but it's important to remember who we were in the past and how that has helped us get to where we are and who we are today. So in this episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss the many versions of myself and how all our individual journeys are more similar than we think. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.dictionaryofobscuresorrows.com/post/23536922667/sonder https://www.cbc.ca...

Apr 21, 202252 min

I am my own worst enemy

We all deserve to be treated well by others. But what's more important is to treat ourselves with love and respect. So in this episode of Thick & Thin, I admit that it's time to stop bullying myself with the constant pressure and grind to work. Because in the contest of "Who Can Be the Most Miserable?" none of us win. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Source: https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/66650/12-outrageous-facts-about-octopuses Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ...

Apr 07, 202241 min

Why we crave attention

Humans will always crave attention and affirmation from others. However, these factors should only supplement our self-worth, not act as a foundational base. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I decide to stop wasting time digging for answers to "why?" and "what if?" But rather stay hopeful that we will get what we deserve if we remain optimistic. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.britannica.com/science/confirmation-bias https://ourpresidents.tumblr.com/pos...

Mar 31, 202249 min

Am I on the right path?

How are we supposed to know when enough is enough? In this episode of Thick & Thin, I agonize over life's uncertainty and fear that I may be on the wrong path. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Source: https://www.thecut.com/2022/03/ambition-dating-men-turnoff.html Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 24, 202239 min

The truth about influencer trips

Our parents always warned us not to trust strangers online. But what about the friends we make on social media? In this episode of Thick & Thin, I discuss my recent trip to Mexico and the truth about the close connections we all made. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 17, 202242 min

Getting started is the hardest part

It's time we face our fears, break free from our comfort zones, and start taking things head-on. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I acknowledge the importance of persistence. Because in order to get to the top, we all must start at the bottom. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.thethings.com/the-truth-about-sarah-jessica-parkers-childhood/ https://www.vogue.com/article/sarah-jessica-parker-cover-december-2021 https://www.nytimes.com/1983/10/30/nyregion/act...

Mar 10, 202241 min

Dealing with zoom anxiety

Have you ever felt mentally and physically exhausted after a Zoom call? Well, you're not alone. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I research the psychology around our Zoom-induced anxiety and post-meeting fatigue. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/body-language https://psychcentral.com/anxiety/zoom-anxiety-is-more-common-than-you-think-heres-why#how-to-manage https://www.researchgate.net/publication/350899855_Nonverbal_Mechani...

Mar 03, 202249 min

The guilty generation

We all hate feeling guilty. But, what if it's a good thing?. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I realize that a healthy dose of guilt may be just what we need to become our most authentic selves. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a31337853/how-to-stop-feeling-guilty/ https://www.winchestermysteryhouse.com/sarahs-story/ https://allthatsinteresting.com/winchester-mystery-house https://www.winchesterguns.com/news/historical-timelin...

Feb 24, 202240 min

Hiding in plain sight

What's better than a good mystery? A man with emotional intelligence. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I give you all an update on my dating life and talk about the 11-day disappearance of the world-famous author, Agatha Christie. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/11/books/agatha-christie-vanished-11-days-1926.html https://www.agathachristie.com/about-christie https://ew.com/books/agatha-christie-disappearance-excerpt/ https://www.wash...

Feb 17, 202241 min

Dating & DNA

Let's agree to start being pickier when it comes to relationships. And stop blaming ourselves if the connection doesn't last. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I talk about the dating world; and discuss the story of the great and under-appreciated Rosalind Franklin. // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katybellotte // Sources: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/slzhli/are_most_high_value_women_doomed/ https://www.nature.com/scitable/topicpage/rosalind-franklin-a-crucial-contr...

Feb 10, 202250 min
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