Remember that movie, Xanadu? Of course you do! Drew and Sarah retell this magic tale of 80's love, singing, dancing and rollerskates. Were the writers high? Probably. Check us out on social media! Facebook : These Are The Gays Of Our Lives Podcast Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565221160383 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thesearethegayspodcast/...
Nov 28, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 34
Drew filled in for Megan from "It's Always The Husband" and recorded some true crime with Sarah. From the show Deadly Women this is a story about Alice Mitchell and Freda Ward. It's love turned into obsession in a time when this kind of love was "frowned upon." 1892 in Memphis, Tenn saw two friends become lovers in a tale of love gone wrong. Check us out on social media! Facebook : These Are The Gays Of Our Lives Podcast Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565221160383 Instagram : htt...
Nov 25, 2025•48 min•Season 1Ep. 34
This conversation explores the lives of two groundbreaking LGBTQ athletes, John Curry and Glenn Burke. John Curry, a figure skater, faced the challenges of fame and identity while navigating the world of competitive skating. His innovative approach to ice dance and his struggles with mental health and acceptance in the sport are discussed. Glenn Burke, a baseball player, made history as the first openly gay player in Major League Baseball, facing discrimination and challenges in his career due t...
Nov 14, 2025•1 hr 38 min•Season 1Ep. 33
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the world of extreme athletes, focusing on LGBTQ representation in sports. They introduce a segment called 'Hey, That's Kind of Gay', where they discuss media and observations related to LGBTQ culture. The conversation shifts to the Proud Champions initiative, which supports LGBTQ athletes, and highlights the legendary Billie Jean King, her activism, and her impact on women's sports. The hosts express admiration for King's character and achievements, discu...
Oct 30, 2025•2 hr•Season 1Ep. 32
Listen all over again to Drew and Sarah discuss legendary actor and lover Cary Grant. Check us out on social media! Facebook : These Are The Gays Of Our Lives Podcast Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565221160383 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thesearethegayspodcast/
Oct 12, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 31
In this episode, Drew and Sarah explore the intersection of athletics and LGBTQ identity, discussing their own experiences with sports and the representation of LGBTQ individuals in media. They delve into the story of Renee Richards, a transgender athlete who broke barriers in tennis, highlighting the challenges and triumphs she faced throughout her journey. The conversation touches on pop culture moments, positive news for the LGBTQ community, and the ongoing debates surrounding gender identity...
Sep 20, 2025•1 hr 48 min•Season 1Ep. 30
In this episode, Drew and Sarah explore the intersection of sports and LGBTQ history, focusing on notable athletes and cultural moments. .' The conversation highlights Hobey Baker, a pioneering figure in American sports, whose legacy continues to influence the world of athletics today. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Greg Louganis, one of the greatest divers in Olympic history. It explores his struggles with identity, mental health, and the pressures of fame, as well as his ...
Sep 05, 2025•1 hr 36 min•Season 1Ep. 29
We made it one year! How time flies! In this episode, Drew and Sarah go over old episode and add any new information or information that didn't make it to the shows. We share more stories and interesting tidbits about the fascinating people we have learned about all year. Check us out on social media! Facebook : These Are The Gays Of Our Lives Podcast Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565221160383 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thesearethegayspodcast/...
Aug 15, 2025•46 min•Season 1Ep. 28
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives and legacies of influential LGBTQ+ writers and figures, including Audre Lorde and Gertrude Stein. They discuss media representation in films like Jaws 3D, celebrate Tom Daley's new swimwear line, and highlight the importance of community support for mental health resources. The conversation emphasizes the intersection of art, identity, and activism, showcasing how these themes resonate in both historical and contemporary contexts. This conversati...
Aug 04, 2025•1 hr 41 min•Season 1Ep. 27
*Last 5 minutes, Drew's voice disappears! You will just hear Sarah's nonsense. We will fix it for next time* Join Drew and Sarah as they dive into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ authors in their ongoing Writers Series. This episode explores the unique perspectives and creative processes of... Hans Christian Andersen: The fairy tale writer whose life and works reflect his complex identity. Audre Lorde: A powerful voice in black feminist thought and intersectionality. Sources: https://youtu.be/T_...
Jul 18, 2025•1 hr 31 min•Season 1Ep. 26
In this episode, hosts Sarah and Drew explore the lives and impacts of literary icons Emily Dickinson and Virginia Woolf. The hosts delve into Dickinson's family background, her struggles with mental health, and the societal expectations of women in the 1800s, drawing parallels to Woolf's experiences. This conversation delves into the life of Virginia Woolf, exploring her early years, struggles with mental health, relationships, and her significant contributions to literature. The discussion hig...
Jul 04, 2025•1 hr 39 min•Season 1Ep. 25
In this episode, Sarah and Drew dive into the documentary 'Pee-wee as Himself,' exploring the life and career of Paul Rubens, the man behind the iconic Pee-wee Herman character. They discuss their lifelong admiration for Pee-wee, the complexities of his character development, and the influence of his childhood and family on his artistic journey. Source: Pee Wee As Himself Documentary on HBO Check us out on social media! Facebook : These Are The Gays Of Our Lives Podcast Page https://www.facebook...
Jun 20, 2025•1 hr 34 min•Season 1Ep. 24
In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives,' hosts Drew and Sarah explore various themes related to LGBTQ history and representation. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Walt Whitman, exploring his early challenges, innovative teaching methods, and eventual transition to writing. It highlights his struggles with alcoholism, his activism for social issues, and the profound impact of his experiences in New Orleans on his work. The discussion also covers the evolution of h...
Jun 06, 2025•1 hr 39 min•Season 1Ep. 23
In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew explore the lives of LGBTQ authors, focusing on Oscar Wilde. They discuss various media representations of gay culture, share positive news for the community, and delve into Wilde's literary contributions and personal struggles with identity. The conversation highlights the importance of representation in media and the ongoing journey of the LGBTQ community. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Truman Capo...
May 23, 2025•1 hr 44 min•Season 1Ep. 22
In this episode, Drew and Sarah delve into the life and legacy of Grace Jones, exploring her journey from Jamaica to becoming a disco icon. They discuss her relationships, the impact of her Jamaican roots on her identity and music, and the challenges she faced during her pregnancy. The conversation highlights Grace's unique persona, her influence on pop culture, and the personal stories that shaped her career. In this segment, Drew and Sarah delve into the multifaceted life of Grace Jones, explo...
May 09, 2025•1 hr 53 min•Season 1Ep. 21
In this episode, Sarah and Drew delve into the life and legacy of Grace Jones, exploring her early years, cultural impact, and the significance of her work in the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss her memoir, iconic status, and the representation of queer stories in media, while also engaging in light-hearted segments about pop culture. In this conversation, Drew and Sarah delve into the life of Grace Jones, exploring her roots in Jamaica, her strict religious upbringing, and the challenges she fac...
Apr 25, 2025•1 hr 43 min•Season 1Ep. 20
In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew delve into the world of musicians, focusing on lesser-known figures like Sister Rosetta Tharp and the cultural impact of rock and roll icons. They discuss the evolution of media representation, particularly in relation to LGBTQ themes, and reflect on classic comedy's role in shaping societal norms. The conversation also highlights community resistance against censorship and the importance of preserving diverse narratives,...
Apr 11, 2025•1 hr 22 min•Season 1Ep. 19
In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives,' Drew and Sarah explore the rich history of LGBTQ+ musicians, highlighting the importance of representation in music and media. The episode culminates in a tribute to Sister Rosetta Tharp, the godmother of rock and roll, whose influence on music is profound and often overlooked. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Rosetta Tharpe, a pioneering figure in gospel music who significantly influenced the development of rock and roll....
Mar 28, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 18
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives of LGBTQ musicians, starting with Bessie Smith and Josephine Baker. This conversation delves into the life of Bessie Smith, a pioneering blues singer known for her complex personality, turbulent relationships, and significant impact on music and culture. The discussion highlights her rise to fame, struggles with family and marriage, exploration of sexuality, confrontations with racism, and the powerful messages in her lyrics. Bessie's legacy is m...
Mar 14, 2025•1 hr 27 min•Season 1Ep. 17
In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives', Drew and Sarah explore the stories of LGBTQ figures, focusing on the legacy of Prince, the campy nature of Batman films, and recent positive developments for the LGBTQ community. They also share surprising experiences from Kansas City, highlighting its unexpected inclusivity and representation. This conversation delves into the life and activism of Bayard Rustin, a key figure in the civil rights movement. The speakers discuss Rustin's early l...
Feb 28, 2025•1 hr 35 min•Season 1Ep. 16
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives of historical figures in LGBTQ+ history. This conversation explores the lives of two remarkable women: Anne Lister, a 19th-century landowner known for her diaries that documented her lesbian relationships, and Sally Ride, the first American woman in space. The discussion delves into Anne's adventurous spirit, her aspirations in architecture, and her tragic death while pursuing her dreams. It also highlights Sally's groundbreaking achievements in ...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr 38 min•Season 1Ep. 15
In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives,' hosts Drew and Sarah explore various themes, including the stories of historical figures, media moments that resonate with LGBTQ culture, and the representation of queer identities in film and literature. They discuss the gay undertones in the James Bond film 'Octopussy,' highlight a queer feminist bookstore offering wedding services, and delve into the life of Sir Isaac Newton, portraying him as a misunderstood genius with a complex personal...
Jan 31, 2025•1 hr 33 min•Season 1Ep. 14
In this episode, Drew and Sarah dive into the classic holiday film 'White Christmas,' exploring its oddities, the cast, and the cultural impact it has had over the years. They discuss the film's musical numbers, the backgrounds of the main actors, and the subtext that runs throughout the movie, including its connections to LGBTQ themes. The conversation is filled with humor and insightful commentary, making it a delightful listen for fans of the film and newcomers alike. In this conversation, Sa...
Jan 17, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 13
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore lesser-known figures from the LGBTQIA+ community, discuss media representations that resonate with queer culture, and highlight positive initiatives within the community. They delve into the life and works of Leonardo da Vinci, examining his artistic genius, innovative inventions, and groundbreaking anatomical studies, while also celebrating the cultural impact of Pee-wee Herman. This conversation delves into the lives and works of two of the most renowned...
Jan 03, 2025•1 hr 28 min•Season 1Ep. 12
In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives', hosts Drew and Sarah explore various themes related to LGBTQ+ representation in media and history.. In this conversation, Drew and Sarah delve into the fascinating life of Hatshepsut, the longest-reigning female pharaoh of ancient Egypt. They explore the fluid concepts of gender in ancient Egyptian culture, the unique challenges Hatshepsut faced in a male-dominated society, and her strategic rise to power. The discussion highlights the comple...
Dec 20, 2024•1 hr 31 min•Season 1Ep. 11
In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew explore various themes related to LGBTQ+ representation in media, political moments that resonate with the community, and the cultural impact of iconic TV shows like 'The Brady Bunch'. This conversation delves into the lives and careers of Robert Reed and Kristi McNichol, two iconic figures in television history. It explores Reed's complex character in The Brady Bunch, his struggles with identity, and his diverse roles in...
Dec 06, 2024•1 hr 24 min•Season 1Ep. 10
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the hidden stories of LGBTQ icons in television and film, focusing on figures who had to conceal their identities to protect their careers. The conversation also touches on the support for LGBTQ refugees in the U.S. and the wholesome nature of Japanese reality TV. This conversation delves into the lives and careers of Raymond Burr and Richard Chamberlain, exploring their legacies in Hollywood, personal struggles, and the impact of their work on television ...
Nov 21, 2024•1 hr 39 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Drew and Sarah cover two of the very best. If you are any kind of decent human, you know the show The Golden Girls. Bea Arthur was the guiding force of that show as Dorothy. But there is so much more to Bea and you will crap you pants at how amazing she is! Charles Nelson Reilly is the love of Sarah's life and covering him for this show was the greatest day ever. Charles was the guy you want as you bestie in every situation you can possibly think of on the planet, and then a million more. Check ...
Nov 08, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 8
It's our first annual Halloween Special! Sarah and Drew discuss LGTBQ Halloween, with special focus on Rocky Horror Picture Show and The Paul Lynde Halloween Special. Both Sarah and Drew give their top ten gay moments in Halloween TV and movies. Check us out on social media! Facebook : These Are The Gays Of Our Lives Podcast Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565221160383 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thesearethegayspodcast/...
Oct 31, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Drew and Sarah cover that wonderful show with two Darrin's just in time for Halloween. Bewitched was a huge hit in the 1960's and into the 1970's about a witch trying to be a normal housewife. Her overbearing mother and crazy uncle are the actors we are going to cover. If you loved the show, you have to listen!! Sources: Paul Lynde: A Biography - His Life, His Love(s) and His Laughter By Cathy Fitzgibbon Rudolph Twitch Upon A Star By Herbie Pilato Agnes Moorehead Hated Her Role on Bewitched, Thi...
Oct 24, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 6