As we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year. There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well. Favorite guests include: Max Carey from the documentary tOuch kink Kate Lister the Sex Historian Alice Little and Olivia Bentley from the Nevada Br...
Dec 25, 2023•35 min
Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms. There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts. First, of course, there has to be a conversation about weird sex statistics. Did you know 11% of women name their boobs? That compares to th...
Dec 18, 2023•28 min
The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives. What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress? What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?" This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect for humiliation and mindfucking. Shout out to Mature Metal Chastity Cages for their design, value, and...
Dec 11, 2023•38 min
Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress? Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What’s it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida. What does the general public get wrong about sex work and sex workers?Why is it important that these...
Dec 04, 2023•31 min
Miss Fiiona gets a question from one of her callers. The ladies love the question, and that inspires today’s episode. The listener wants our thoughts on sissy or femme style and what is (or is not) considered feminine. What a great question! This sparks a conversation about self-image, gender roles, gender presentation, and so much more. What is the right look for a crossdresser, sissy or submissive transwoman? Why are skirts, heels and frills considered traditionally feminine? Who gets to decid...
Nov 27, 2023•33 min
Elite Dominatrix and Dungeon owner Mistress Rogue is today’s guest. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have a great time talking with this fascinating Florida Femdom and kinky Mistress. There are lots of personal stories about being a real human person who is also a Femdom Mistress. Each Mistress has a unique path. Mistress Rogue shares about her BDSM kink journey: ** getting introduced to BDSM ** the journey from submissive to Dominant ** the importance of mentoring in the BDSM kink community The relations...
Nov 20, 2023•34 min
Your Femdom hosts love to get questions from listeners. This episode is inspired by Sissy A who writes, ““I love feminine things, panties stockings bras but I don’t want to suck cock, am I still a sissy?” What a great question! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika explore the variations and nuances of sissy training, behavior and styles of play for feminization transformation. Some of the topics: ** sissy porn is great for humiliation, coerced bi, sissy cuckold husband, etc. but porn depictions of kink,...
Nov 13, 2023•34 min
The Scarlet Mistress joins the ladies to talk about CFNM. CFNM stands for clothed female naked male. There are so many ways to go with this type of fetish scene as you can hear in this episode. Miss Scarlet mentions BDSM parties run by Dominant Females. Each Femdom brings her male submissive with the understanding that all the men at the party will be required to be naked. What happens at CFNM parties and what kinds of CFNM games are there to do? Ms Scarlet brings up the human monopoly board, wh...
Nov 06, 2023•35 min
Miss Fiona joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to take part in what’s called the largest sexual personality survey ever done. Yep, you read that right. Pornhub and the Museum of Sex partnered with academic researchers on a project to create a sexual personality test on Pornhub! Since the ladies are often cruising around Pornhub, we, of course, had to take the survey to find out our sexual personalities. This leads to a conversation about all kinds of things. For example: ** the Explorer vs Bonder...
Oct 30, 2023•32 min
Ms Brighton joins the ladies to talk about cuckold fantasies. Did you know that one survey found that 2 out of 3 men have some kind of cuckold desires? That doesn’t really surprise these Femdom Mistresses but the same study showed that one-third of the participating women had thought about cuckolding. What makes this such a powerful fantasy? Mistress Olivia says she’s surprised that more women aren’t into the hot wife or cuckold lifestyle. Ms Brighton points out that a number of women are intere...
Oct 23, 2023•40 min
The ladies continue the conversation with Kaytlin Bailey, a globally recognized leader in the sex worker rights movement. She is the creator of the non-profit 501c3 Old Pros - a media organization set up to create the conditions to change the status of sex workers in society. This episode includes personal stories to illustrate various points, for example: Where did the term sex work come from and why is it used? What are sex worker rights? Why should the rights of sex workers matter to you? Who...
Oct 16, 2023•38 min
We want you to check out another podcast. It’s called The Oldest Profession podcast. Host and creator Kaytlin Bailey joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika. This episode includes a candid conversation about whorephobia, slut shaming, sex work advocacy and life as sex workers. Kaytlin Bailey talks about being drawn to “bad girls” from an early age and then learning about the power of courtesans throughout history. She tells us about becoming a sex worker by choice and from a place of privelege as a way to ...
Oct 09, 2023•28 min
October is a special month for Femdoms and chastity lovers everywhere. Why? Because it’s LOCKTOBER - named for a challenge to spend the entire month locked in chastity. Ms Harper is today’s guest. All three ladies encourage chastity for the right pet or submissive. They are quick to point out that each person in chastity is unique and the style, duration and play depends on the Mistress, the chastity pet and the relationship with the two of them. This episode is inspired by a sissy who is consid...
Oct 02, 2023•29 min
Meet Coralyn Jewel - co-author of, When the Ice Melts: The story of Coralyn Jewel. This fascinating woman shares her journey from Olympic hopeful to thriving in the adult industry. The ladies have a conversation about the misconceptions around anything that has to do with the adult industry, sex work, BDSM, kink or sex in general. Coralyn talks about her path of self discovery from the discipline of elite figure skating to making her way into and then in the adult industry as a career. Ms Olivia...
Sep 25, 2023•35 min
Olivia Bentley is today’s guest. You’ll hear why she prefers to be called a courtesan rather than an escort. She mentions the societal status of courtesans in ancient times. This leads to a discussion of power, independence and the role of erotic companions as power brokers in their own right. Miss Bentley is a fascinating woman: *15 years in the adult industry. * A Masters in Education. * An executive at an investment company * Competitive fitness model. She talks about her decision to become a...
Sep 18, 2023•41 min
A listener question inspires today’s episode. Do you need a Mistress to train you for sissy sex? Sure, you can learn and do a lot from cruising the internet, watching porn and experimenting on your own. But, don’t you want more? Don’t you want to have the advice, support, guidance, and/or control of a Dominant woman? Who better to guide you in your sissy training? You’ll hear why these Femdoms say a sissy does’t necessairly want to be a women, but rather they want to emulate a female stereotype,...
Sep 11, 2023•30 min
tOuch Kink is a new BDSM kink documentary billed as: An unprecedented journey into the secret world of pleasure, pain, and power. The producer, Todd “Max” Carey, joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about his unique and powerful documentary. Ms Olivia says this is the single best representation ever of our BDSM, kink, and Femdom community. Ms Erika calls the documentary tasteful and elegant - showing the humanity behind what others don’t understand or arbitrarily judge. Max says: “Sometimes we’re a...
Sep 04, 2023•38 min
Ms Erika has a confession. She’s never been to a BDSM convention. Today’s guest, Mistress Mia Darque, joins the ladies to talk about DomCon New Orleans. People come from all over the world for this kink event. DomCon is the premier professional and lifestyle domination convention and is now in it’s 20th year. If you’re looking for a kink event with lots of Femdoms and Pro Dommes, this is “the” convention for you. The goal of DomCon events is to bring the professional and lifestyle communities to...
Aug 28, 2023•31 min
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions. A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?” What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme: how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.” The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest. Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3" Oklahoma Amazon, mature BBW and someone who has been in the BDSM and kink scenes for more than 20 y...
Aug 21, 2023•31 min
How do I get my wife to Dominate me? How can I get my girlfriend to act like a Mistress? These questions are so common these Femdoms give their answers from their perspectives. ** Hear why Ms Olivia says there is real value in going to a Pro Domme ** Ms Erika points out why experience is so important especially if you are new to kink. What are some of the BDSM terms? ** SSC - safe sane and consensual ** RACK - risk aware consensual kink ** PRICK or personal responsibility, informed, consensual k...
Aug 14, 2023•29 min
Listeners inspire this episode on the sissy maid. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about sissy training, feminization fantasies, qualities in a good/bad sissy, and how sissification is different from being a crossdresser or trans. This episode includes: ** What is a sissy maid? ** How to tell a service sissy from other types of sissies, including the cuckold sissy husband ** Is a sissy always expected to be submissive and obedient? ** Why ladies love the slutty sissy fantasy. ** Should a sissy ...
Aug 07, 2023•29 min
How do I get my wife or girlfriend to be my chastity keyholder? How do I tell my partner I want to be put in chastity? I want some kink in our relationship, how can I get my wife to be kinky? These are just some of the most popular questions from our listeners and callers. Today, you’ll hear from a woman who went from being, in her own words, VERY vanilla to now the chastity Mistress of Mature Metal chastity cages. Meet Mrs. Mature Metal and learn: ** Her reaction when her husband told her he wa...
Jul 31, 2023•41 min
We get a lot of questions from listeners. Practical advice for feminization tips or sissy training are always top concerns. Today’s episode is inspired by several listener questions about how to find the best bra, which breast forms to get and how to online shopping suggestions for everything you need for feminization. Mistress Olivia used to work in a luxury lingerie salon and learned how to do bra fitting. You’ll hear how to measure your body to get the right band size. From there, it’s a “sim...
Jul 24, 2023•30 min
Alice Little, elite Legal Sex Worker, Sex Educator, and Intimacy Expert joins the ladies to talk about artificial intelligence and the adult entertainment industry. Mistress Olivia starts the conversation with a quote from an article, by Alice, on AI and the sex industry: “Soon, we will be able to ask AI to produce videos, complete with computer-generated characters and settings, the content of which is limited only by our imagination and desires. And what we will desire more than anything is se...
Jul 17, 2023•30 min
Alice Little is fascinating, smart, and has stories galore. Ms Erika asks about a quote on Alice’s website: https://thealicelittle.com/ that says her philosophy is “...intimacy is a need, and far too often that need goes unmet.”This leads to a thoughtful conversation about the nature of intimacy, connection, the role of sex workers, and where intimacy fits in for a fulfilled life. Ms Olivia brings up Alice’s appearance on the Tim Ferriss Show podcast. Find out what surprised the ladies about his...
Jul 10, 2023•32 min
Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships. This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs. This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives. They start with the common definition of Female Led Relationships and point out that this may or may not include BDSM, power exchange, kink or any of those so...
Jul 03, 2023•33 min
Dr. Betty Martin joins the ladies to talk about BDSM consent and the conversation touches on so much more. Meet this fascinating person who has been a chiropractor for years and is now a sex and touch coach, certified Surrogate Partner, Sacred Intimate, Somatic Sex Educator and author of the book: The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent. The conversation includes: Issues of consent for sex workers and other touch professionals Why getting a “yes” isn’t enough, consent needs to be a...
Jun 26, 2023•38 min
Think of BDSM as a 3 act play: BDSM negotiations, the kinky scene, and then, aftercare for the submissive and the Dominant. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the importance of aftercare in BDSM in general and, specifically for people who call Femdom phone sex for Distance Domination. Ms Erika gives a general description of BDSM aftercare: taking time after the play or scene to recover, get centered and tend to the physical and emotional needs of the Domme and the sub. First, they get sidet...
Jun 19, 2023•35 min
It’s summer and the ladies are inspired by pretty bare feet to talk about all of us with a foot fetish. Ms Erika leads off with a quick explanation of the difference between a kink and a fetish. The ladies answer listener questions: Do women think a foot fetish is weird? Do ladies like guys who are really into feet?J ust how popular IS sexual attraction to feet? The numbers might surprise you. Did you know there are a lot of really fun terms for foot play and the love of feet? Ever heard of the ...
Jun 12, 2023•30 min
PRIDE Month is a time for celebration, education and connection. Ms Harper joins the ladies to talk about PRIDE, BDSM, kink and connections with callers. First, how each lady identifies: Ms Olivia: Bisexual/pansexual and she/her pronouns Ms Erika: Heterosexual with bicurious rising. Ms Harper: Bi or Pan, Aromantic, and Genderqueer with pronouns she/they. First up, the history of PRIDE and politics of LGBTQ+ activism. Ms Harper points out that gay rights pushes society forward. This comment leads...
Jun 05, 2023•30 min
