Today we have author and Vox Media Host Liz Plank in the studio to talk about idealized masculinity. But first, Nick weighs in on the Raven/Rachel controversy. Liz shares why she doesn't like the term toxic masculinity, she discusses her research on male intimacy, and Nick and Liz discuss not fitting into gender norms. Check out Liz's book For The Love of Men . Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: HUNT A KILLER: https://www.huntakiller.com/viall FIGS: https:...
Oct 09, 2019•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 50
Listeners call in and ask Nick questions about sex and dating! But first, Nick dishes about what it was like to be a cartoon on Family Guy and meeting Demi Lovato at Dancing with the Stars. We talk to someone who feels bad about not being attracted to a great guy, a swinger who is struggling with online dating, the fiancé of a veteran, and someone who feels she is too overweight for love. Stop protecting temporary relationships! Send your sex and dating questions to asknick@kastmedia.com. THANKS...
Oct 07, 2019•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 49
Today we are joined by popular relationship coach Silvy Khocasian who teaches us all about Attachment Styles. We learn about where they originate, Nick reveals his own attachment style, and we talk about how to know whether someone is compatible with you. Are you secure, avoidant, anxious, or fearful? Be sure to subscribe so that you never miss an episode! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: BEST FIENDS: https://download.bestfiends.com NOOM: https://www.noom.com/viall PROACTIV: https://www.proactiv.com/NICK...
Oct 02, 2019•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 48
We have another great episode of Ask Nick where listeners call in to ask Nick questions about their love lives. Nick takes a strong stance on ghosting that might surprise you. We talk to an 18 year-old dating an older musician, a waitress interested in a divorced customer, someone who wants to fight for her relationship, and a woman who is with a terrible kisser. Stop reinvesting in a bad bet! Send your sex and dating questions to asknick@kastmedia.com. THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: CALMING COMFORT: h...
Sep 30, 2019•1 hr 40 min•Ep. 47
Demi Burnett joins us for her third Viall Files interview to discuss life after Bachelor in Paradise! Nick and Demi talk about the pressures of getting engaged on TV, they discuss the importance of maintaining your sense of self while in a relationship, and Demi lets us know what's next. Plus, she shares some behind-the-scenes scoop on Dancing with the Stars and a hilarious story about Hannah G. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: AWAY: https://www.awaytrav...
Sep 25, 2019•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 46
It's another exciting episode of Ask Nick! We talk to someone whose friend seems to be rushing into marriage, a woman who is definitely in denial, an anxious guy's girlfriend, and a woman whose boyfriend is full of excuses. Nick gives some tough love, but will she listen? Remember, it's never too late to start over! Send your sex and dating questions to asknick@kastmedia.com. THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: BUTCHERBOX: https://www.butcherbox.com/viall BETTERHELP: https://betterhelp.com/viall NATURAL HAB...
Sep 23, 2019•1 hr 46 min•Ep. 45
Today we have Jackie Schimmel of Bitch Bible on to talk about the dangers of other people's opinions. We clear the air about Nick's interview on Bitch Bible and Jackie's fiery response. Then Nick tries to understand what happened on one of his previous dates, they discuss whose responsibility it is to end FWB situations, and they open up about jealousy in relationships. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: https://www.hellofresh.com/VIALL80...
Sep 18, 2019•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 44
Nick is here to answer your questions about sex and dating! We take a caller who is concerned about her virgin friend with high standards, someone struggling to be the "cool girlfriend," and a few women who find out engagement isn't everything they hoped it would be. Send your questions to asknick@kastmedia.com. THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: ROTHY'S: https://rothys.com/viall BETTERHELP: https://betterhelp.com/viall NATURAL HABITS: https://nhoils.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Sep 16, 2019•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 43
Dean Unglert of The Bachelor drives his van to the studio to get deep with Nick! He talks about getting ahead of criticism, he explains why he went back to the beach for Caelynn, and he explores the root of his alternate lifestyle choices. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Donate or get tickets to Nick's campaign for cystic fibrosis: https://finest.cff.org/walkthepurplecarpet/nickviall THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: NOOM: https://www.noom.com/viall RAYCON: http://buyraycon.com/viall AR...
Sep 11, 2019•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 42
On this episode of Ask Nick, we talk a lot about… sex. We take questions from listeners about too much sex, too little sex, and being afraid of sex. We also hear from a woman who is concerned she is getting groomed for a Throuple. But first, we get an update from the "Super Ghoster," Jeremy. Let's keep the Sexversation flowing! Send your sex and dating questions to asknick@kastmedia.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: MODERN FERTILITY: https://modernfe...
Sep 09, 2019•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 41
ESPN writer and TV personality Mina Kimes, who is the first female color commentator for the NFL, joins us in the studio today to give her commentary on BIP. We talk about the Clay and Angela situation, we discuss Tayshia's shocking choice, and we try to understand the enigma that is JPJ. Then Mina gives some advice on how to succeed as a woman in a male-dominated field. Say yes, stay weird, and cry when you want to cry. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: ...
Sep 04, 2019•1 hr 39 min•Ep. 40
It's time for another Ask Nick! Nick and Sug answer questions from fans about sex and relationships. They talk to a "ten-percenter" who is hung up on checking boxes, an emotional-cheater, a woman who doesn't know how to ask for a threesome, and a someone whose father-in-law is making her life hell. Email asknick@kastmedia.com to get on the show! Please rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: OPENFIT: Text VIALL to 303030 SHIPSTATION: https://www.shipstation.com/w...
Sep 02, 2019•1 hr 43 min•Ep. 39
Today we're joined by The Bachelor's Tanner Tolbert for his first podcast interview without his wife, Jade. We hash out the Demi/Kristian debate face-to-face and discuss the enigma that is JPJ. Then we get into fatherhood, and Tanner gives some tips on how to keep the spark alive amidst dirty diapers and crying newborns. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Donate to Nick's campaign for The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation: https://finest.cff.org/walkthepurplecarpet/nickviall THANKS...
Aug 28, 2019•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 38
On our third installment of Ask Nick, we answer questions from four more fans. But first, Nick responds to some complaints from Bachelor Nation regarding Bachelor in Paradise's Demi and Kristian. Then we talk to a nice guy who didn't get a second date, a woman who was thrown a baby-curveball, a fiancé in the middle of Strippergate, and a man haunted by a super-ghost. Send your sex and dating questions to asknick@kastmedia.com for your chance to be on the show! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: BEST FIENDS...
Aug 26, 2019•1 hr 41 min•Ep. 37
Good friend, musician, and YouTube star Andrea Russett joins Nick in the studio to talk about situationships. But first, we discuss the Tanner/Demi drama and whether or not Demi was in the wrong to have a girlfriend before coming onto Paradise. Then Nick and Andrea get into the real reason Andrea is avoiding defining her relationships. They discuss heartbreak and debate the best way to break up with someone. To Ghost or not To Ghost? That is the question. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss a...
Aug 21, 2019•1 hr 34 min•Ep. 36
Our weekly episode featuring questions from fans is back! Nick and Sug joined by producer Richelle answer your calls about sex and dating. We talk about friend-zoning, waiting until marriage, and *gulp* STDs. Plus, we dive into the details of Nick and Sug's friendship. Has she seen the D? You'll have to listen to find out. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. Send your questions to asknick@kastmedia.com. Thanks to our sponsor AURATE! https://auratenewyork.com/viall CODE: VIALL See ...
Aug 19, 2019•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 35
Good friend and fellow Bachelor alum Amanda Stanton joins us today to talk about her new book, Now Accepting Roses. But first, Nick dishes on Ashley and Jared's wedding, we recap Bachelor in Paradise, and Nick gives his opinion on Blake releasing those text messages. Then, Amanda opens up about her dating history and why her "picker is off." We then take some vulnerable calls from fans. Avoid medians, pay attention to red flags, and learn from your mistakes. Be sure to rate and subscribe so you ...
Aug 14, 2019•1 hr 52 min•Ep. 34
Every Monday we will now have a special "Ask Nick" episode! Nick kicks it off by discussing the number one question he gets asked about sex and dating. We talk to a woman who is worried she can't get a guy off, someone whose partner has no desire for sex, and a cancer survivor who feels stuck in a relationship. If there's anyone who has had a lot of experience dating, it's Nick! Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email your questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to get on the show. T...
Aug 12, 2019•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 33
Host of The Bachelor and good friend Chris Harrison joins us in the studio today. Before he does, Nick addresses the accusations by Jed and the premiere of Bachelor in Paradise. Chris then opens up about his romance with Lauren Zima, he reveals how he ended up hosting the most romantic show on television, and he responds to a rumor about a wink. Then we answer a question from a fan that made us all gasp. Don't be afraid to fail, go where the path is leading you, and DON'T BE A F*CKBOY! Keep a lo...
Aug 07, 2019•1 hr 58 min•Ep. 32
Straight from The Bachelorette's After The Final Rose, Tyler Cameron joins us in the studio to unpack it all. He opens up about his first heartbreak, he shares a hilarious story about where he was when he found out he was going on the show, and we finally solve the mystery of the salmon jackets. Then we play "Do You Know Me?" with Tyler and take questions from fans.Use those loofahs, give love a second chance, and stay grounded. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. Donate to Nick's...
Jul 31, 2019•1 hr 33 min•Ep. 31
Happy 30th Episode of The Viall Files! Rachel Bilson, Bachelor fan and actor from Hart of Dixie, the OC, and Jumper, joins us for her FIRST PODCAST EVER. She opens up about dating while being a single mother, we talk about the Pilot Pete "scandal," and Rachel gives Nick a hard time about being The Godfather of The Bachelor. Then we have a fan stump Nick and Sug with their question. Slide into those DMs, get to bed early, and #RachelForBachelorette. Be sure to rate and subscribe so you never miss...
Jul 24, 2019•1 hr 40 min•Ep. 30
This week we are joined by Dr. Emily Morse from Sex With Emily to talk about that crazy "Fantasy Suites" episode of The Bachelorette. Emily reveals the biggest mistake men and women make in the bedroom, we discuss sex with an ex, and we dive deep into how shame affects us. Then we take a call from a fan about a dick pic that wasn't meant for her. Communication is lubrication, toys are your sidekick, and think twice before sending that nude. And shoutout to the windmill! Be sure to subscribe so y...
Jul 17, 2019•1 hr 53 min•Ep. 29
This week I'm joined by actress, singer and podcast host Jana Kramer to talk about sex and love addiction. But first, Sug and I dissect the hometown episode of The Bachelorette. There were definitely some Bachelor firsts. Once we get into the interview, Jana talks about the first time we met and doesn't pull any punches. She opens up about her husband's struggle with sex addiction and we debate whether people who cheat are just bad people. I'm curious as to what you think about this episode! Let...
Jul 10, 2019•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 28
Today I'm joined Lauren Zima, host of Entertainment Tonight and The Bachelor recap show Roses and Rosé. She opens up for the very first time about her relationship with Chris Harrison (the tables have turned!). We get the details of how Chris and Lauren started dating, Lauren gives us the inside scoop on The Bachelorette's Jed situation, and we make predictions about the rest of the season. Then we take a shocking call from a fan that you have to hear. Stay placid, never pay for something you co...
Jul 03, 2019•1 hr 32 min•Ep. 27
Multi-hyphenate YouTube star Grace Helbig is in the house to talk about what makes her relationship work. We discuss the rumors circling The Bachelorette's Jed, I spill some tea about my current crush (who Sug does not approve of), and we play a fun new game with Grace. Then we take some of the most heartbreaking calls from fans yet. Learn your presidents, use that Magic Bullet, and go into the week with Big Clit Energy. THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: NOOM: https://www.noom.com/viall SCENTBIRD: https:/...
Jun 26, 2019•1 hr 44 min•Ep. 26
This week we are joined by the crazy-talented Jackie Tohn from Netflix' GLOW to talk about persistence in the face of rejection. We discuss that frustrating Bachelorette episode that separated the woman from the boys, Jackie spills some GLOW tea, and we dive into the diagnosis of "malignant narcissism." Then we take a call from a fan that really resonated with Jackie and Sug. Learn to say what you need, get deep if she wants to get deep, and break tiny shoulders. Be sure to subscribe so you neve...
Jun 19, 2019•1 hr 41 min•Ep. 25
Bekah Martinez from Arie's season of The Bachelor and Jess Ambrose, AKA the Chatty Broads, join me today to talk about FOMO in the digital age. We reveal which activities we prefer to do alone, spill some behind-the-scenes Bachelor Tea, and try to rewrite the narratives we have in our heads about loneliness. Then I get blunt with a fan about her fiancé and check back in with our favorite 10%er, Nate. Be your own mysterious French girl, take off that tie, and get frisky if you're drinking whiskey...
Jun 12, 2019•1 hr 54 min•Ep. 24
The Bachelorette's Hannah Brown is on The Viall Files today, and I couldn't be more excited. We're big fans of Hannah on the podcast, and she did not disappoint. We talked about the struggle to be "perfect" and how that can lead to anxiety and depression, why we repeat bad relationships from our past, and Hannah reveals why she is keeping Luke P. around so long. Then, as always, we take questions from fans and Hannah gives a surprising answer.Stay away from the Sour Patch Kids and figure out if ...
Jun 05, 2019•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 23
Ginger Zee, Chief Meteorologist at ABC News and NYT bestselling author, joins me today to talk about leaps of faith. Ginger and I both come from the Midwest, both come from big families, and both took some big chances in order to chase our dreams. You might just say we're soul twins. We talk about finding your "person," we discuss that painful (in more ways than one) third episode of The Bachelorette, and we take a call from a fan who wants to help her husband feel sexier. We're all a little bit...
May 29, 2019•1 hr 56 min•Ep. 22
Today I'm joined by hilarious actress Arielle Vandenberg to talk about that crazy second episode of The Bachelorette. We discuss crying in front of others and how soon is too soon to say "I'm falling in love with you." Also, spoiler alert, I still don't like Luke P. Then we get a surprising update from a past caller and talk to our most endearing fan yet. FaceTime even though you're not a model, DTR, and don't be afraid to correct people when they say your name wrong. Be sure to subscribe and gi...
May 22, 2019•1 hr 46 min•Ep. 21
