Are you unwilling or unable to forgive someone who hurt, betray or caused you intense pain? How about a church leader, spouse, or a close friend? I know- it hurts! It is not fun, but necessary for healing of the wounded soul. Why should you “forgive” when that person double crossed you, cheated on you, left you, lashed out, or turned their back on you? When we grieve a spirit of unforgiveness, we lose the ability to hear God’s voice, think clearly, and follow world ways. Worst off, it stunts our...
Nov 21, 2022•9 min•Ep. 99
We are to have the mind of Christ... so why is it such a process? Wrong mindsets evoke themselves through carnal reasoning. Foolish opinions have set themselves against the wisdom, knowledge, and Word of God. Wrong mindsets are established when you embrace certain beliefs and attitudes and allow them to take "root" in your heart. Find out the Secret of being content in all circumstances, chaos and pain! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-services Books-> ...
Nov 14, 2022•10 min•Ep. 98
Let’s be honest. How much time do you spend on social media? Can you stay away for more than an hour? When you hear a "ding" do you jump at the first sign to answer that alert? Without you knowing it... it's destroying your relationship with Jesus! It's tearing apart your marriage and dating partnerships. Find out 3 ways you might be giving the devil a foothold to your relationships! Blessings xo- YouTube Video Un-Friend you EX's Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/o...
Nov 07, 2022•12 min•Ep. 97
Time does NOT heal all wounds- GOD does! We must deal with pesky emotions and unhealthy mindsets, or these destructive wound patterns will be on a constant spin cycle of repeat. Anything done continuously without producing fruitful gains is called insanity. We will continue attracting the wrong relationships in our dating life and have the same fights with our spouse... YUCK! Grab a hold of these 2 honest options to help your relationships! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https:...
Oct 31, 2022•8 min•Ep. 96
Is self-deliverance REAL? Can you do this on your own? All things are possible with God! However, many people open doors for the devil to operate and harass their own soul. TRUTH- you must know what you are dealing with before true deliverance can happen... Find out 3 tips for self-deliverance to help aid your pain and brokenness today! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-services Books-> https://meliadiana.com/books Academy -> https://meliadiana.com/verti...
Oct 24, 2022•9 min•Ep. 95
Get out of your feelings! Accept where you are and take responsibility to move forward. Feelings are fickle and fluctuate too often. How can you rely on something constantly swaying back and forth? We listen to a feeling rather than the wisdom God freely gives us. We lead with our toxic emotions that gets us in trouble... This can cause division in our relationships, especially with our Abba Father. Lead with God, not your fickle feelings! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https:/...
Oct 17, 2022•10 min•Ep. 94
Stop saying "YES" to what is taking your precious time and energy away from God's plan. Having healthy boundaries is a must to avoid doormat tendencies. If we don’t say “no” a feeling of entrapment can carry and lodge resentment in our hearts... Worst off, we end up mad at ourselves for not listening to the prompting of the Holy Spirit. EEK! Guard your heart, my friends. Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-services Books-> https://meliadiana.com/books Acad...
Oct 10, 2022•8 min•Ep. 93
This spirit of rejection whispers to people they are unloved, unworthy, and not wanted... The devil feeds off insecurities, trauma, and fears to undermine a Christian's true identity in Christ. Are you believing these devilish lies attempting to destroy your relationships? Find out the 10 targets of rejection and if you're putting up emotional walls! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana.com/books Academy -> https://meliadi...
Oct 03, 2022•6 min•Ep. 92
The truth HURTS! "Fake it till you make it" is a SHAM! You will not fool God with plastic Christianity, fake smiles, and secret backbiting! Pretending you have it all together or crying behind closed doors only keeps people in depression, loneliness, and a self-loathing & jealous state of anxiety. Hard hearts don’t surpass healthy relationships or break-free from the bondages of the devil, but the truth does! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service B...
Sep 26, 2022•11 min•Ep. 91
Are "Decree & Declare" statements really Biblical? Without knowing it, we can position ourselves above God's will. This often replaces a true vertical relationship with Jesus. Claiming things and our circumstances into existence is not a substitute for prayer and a recipe for disaster! Remember, GOD has complete authority- we don’t. Have you fallen into this trap? Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana.com/bo...
Sep 19, 2022•11 min•Ep. 90
Ungodly connections are the worst! Aligning yourself and coming into unfruitful relationships will put strongholds in your life. Ungodly connections cause delay and can taint your business and ministry. EKKK! Who wants that? Be careful, my friends -The enemy can make anything demonic look divine! Blessings xo- Shop Items-> https://meliadiana.com/shop Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana.com/books Academy -> https://meliadiana.com/vert...
Sep 12, 2022•13 min•Ep. 89
What if our relationships and leadership are unaligned with God? Since the ruler of this world is Satan, are we subjecting ourselves too evil? Many have flipped the tables in a strategy to control and manipulate while others are trying to seriously help. The spiritual battle continues... Kingdom of God vs. Satan. Jesus' hand in never involved with force- He gives us free will! Blessings xo- YouTube-> https://youtu.be/hMCjTlomoWc Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-ser...
Sep 05, 2022•12 min•Ep. 88
It's a big fat “NO” to use crystals or sage for healing purposes! EEKKK... We think it's no big deal, but TRUTH is a majority of people who promote crystals and sage are dancing with the devil themselves without even realizing it. Healing powers come from God alone! Satan often masks itself desirable and attractive as a way to draw souls away from God. Don't fall into Satan's trap! Blessings xo- False Healing Methods -> https://meliadiana.com/vertical-relationship-academy Christian Counseling & ...
Aug 29, 2022•10 min•Ep. 87
Where are you running to for your HEALING? Alternative therapies, New Age, Healing Methods that contradict the Bible? We think we are doing well for ourselves, but TRUTH is we can further damage our souls without knowing God's truth. I'm going to share my personal testimony how I allowed the devil to manipulate and harass my soul though these False Healing Methods! Blessings xo- False Healing Methods -> https://meliadiana.com/vertical-relationship-academy Christian Counseling & Consulting -> htt...
Aug 22, 2022•15 min•Ep. 86
Praying for people who have no intention of giving up sin can be dangerous and contamination for you... Praying without a willingness to change, true repentance, and humbling ourselves is pointless and counterproductive. God actually disapproves! Praying with impure motives and fasting with wrong heart posture is NOT blessed by GOD. Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana.com/books False Healing Methods Course -> https://me...
Aug 15, 2022•12 min•Ep. 85
Do you love God in the midst of warfare? Sounds easy, right? But, when it comes down to the nitty gritty… Do you? Let go of how you think it’s supposed to be. What you think you deserve. How it makes you feel. This walk is way more than invalid misconceptions and assumptions... it's a "Vertical Relationship" with JESUS! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana.com/books VR Ministries -> https://meliadiana.com/vertical-relati...
Aug 08, 2022•9 min•Ep. 84
It’s one thing to for the enemy to go after an adult, who can think for themselves, but our innocent children? God says, “It has gone too far!" His anger is fierce and His cup of wrath will be poured out on devilish schemes and the people behind their wicked ways. Hidden agendas in kids cartoons and Disney movies will be exposed! Parents, we need to stand up and protect our kids... be their spiritual covering. Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service ...
Aug 04, 2022•14 min•Ep. 83
Marriage is NOT about self! You spouse in NOT your enemy! Too many times people throw in the towel and give up… Why? We expect others to make us happy. Spouses are relying on their own strength to try and change their husband or wife. Keep in mind: We are not the healers- GOD is, my friends. Discover 6 coping strategies you can do "right now" in your hurting and broken marriage! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana.com/b...
Aug 01, 2022•13 min•Ep. 82
Worldly concerns take you further from GOD and closer to the devil. Following ungodly leaders can capture lustful eyes with luring idols, fame, and material possessions... instead of the Father's heart. My husband and I chat about the utterance of God's living Word spoken to both of us. God desperately cries out for His children to come back to Him! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Follow Ministry Page-> https://www.facebook.com/verticalrelati...
Jul 28, 2022•19 min•Ep. 81
A true prophet is CHOSEN by God and has the heartbeat of the Father walking in complete wholeness with our Creator. Authentic prophets live for heaven’s applause, even at the cost of man’s outburst against them. It’s not always about blessings, prosperity, and promises... True prophets, like their Father, are honest, humble, and speak the truth in love on God's behalf-even when it hurts and radically unpopular. Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service...
Jul 25, 2022•16 min•Ep. 80
GOD is heartbroken and desperately trying to rescue His children before it's too late! Judgment Day is coming... False priests, pseudo prophets, and fake teachings God did not command on His behalf will NOT be tolerated! My husband and I will hash out true prophetic words. Fasten your seatbelt, my friends! This is not comforting, but true prophecy speaks on God's behalf of the Father's heart whether the time is favorable or not. God loves you, REPENT, and turn back to Him... Jesus desires a vert...
Jul 21, 2022•20 min•Ep. 79
Are you given permission for the devil to harass you? A demon is not happy unless it has a human host to torment, preferably yours... it searches and lurks for its "sweet spot'. Our flesh opens the door for harassment to invade our home, my friends. Be inspired to stay God centered and not victimized from ignorance of the enemy. “My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge" (Hosea 4:6). Blessings xo Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service VR Ministries -> https:/...
Jul 18, 2022•10 min•Ep. 78
God is not a God of disorder. What or who are you putting 1st in your life? Self, money, career, social status or your relationship status? Idols of the world are not sustainable. We must love the light more than the dark. We put everything in front of God and wonder why we are lost and confused... We look at the world for answers that only GOD can provide. God is asking His disciples to return to Him and drop useless idolatry! "So, my dear friends, flee from the worship of idols" (1 Corinthians...
Jul 14, 2022•12 min•Ep. 77
True wisdom comes from God and not the world. Mic-drop! The wisdom of the world is taking control as it reunites with evil forces in a spiritual realm... it derails our path and sends us straight to the enemy! God gave me a prophetic word to help you, my friends. It's time to STOP following worldly ways... Humanism only brings us closer to the devil. “For the wisdom of the world is foolish to God” (1 Corinthians 3:19). Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our...
Jul 11, 2022•7 min•Ep. 76
Many times, the excuses and unhealthy mindsets hinder your health, relationships and healing progression for His Kingdom. This poverty spirit illusions will not do anything for your nourishment with our Abba Father. Get some healthy tips and overcome self-sabotage so you can tackle toxic roadblocks! "All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty" (Proverbs 14:23). Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadiana...
Jul 04, 2022•11 min•Ep. 75
Who I am is not as important as who's I am! Do you worry about social status, more followers, and massive numbers on social media? Is God trying to advance you to another level, but something is missing? These divine prophetic words release the anxiety-filled truth and a huge problem with our nation. God is more important than a thumbs up and a smiley or heart Emoji- do you believe that? Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://meliadi...
Jun 30, 2022•9 min•Ep. 74
Mundane knowledge gets contorted with wicked and tormented ways from the enemy. These barriers, bondages, and strongholds often remain and prevents us from healing in all areas of our lives... including our relationships and health. Therefore, we chase heavenly drenched half-truths glazed with the enemy sneaky techniques and methods. Thinking you're safe but not, my friends! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching or Consultation -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service YouTube Clip-> Breakin...
Jun 27, 2022•12 min•Ep. 73
Are you questioning hiring a qualified Christian Counselor or Coach? How about both?! Today, I'm asking my listeners some valid and honest questions to see if they NEED authentic Biblical Christian Counseling and Relationship & Dating Coaching... There's nothing to be scared of when asking for help, my friends! Truth is, we should be more scared of not healing with God due to pride, shame, ego, or embarrassment. The devil will only play off those feelings and emotions. God desires more for you! ...
Jun 20, 2022•6 min•Ep. 72
Do you know God speaks every day? Do you think you are not qualified to hear the voice of God? HOGWASH! God has a purpose and plan for your life. Friends, my point is God calls whoever He desires who has a sincere heart for Him. “God searches across the whole earth, looking for people whose hearts are perfect toward him” (2 Chronicles 16:9). Find out 7 beautiful ways how God speaks to you! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books-> https://melia...
Jun 13, 2022•11 min•Ep. 71
True prophecy edifies God and brings His Kingdom glory. I love encouraging others, but its more than lip service. Feel good messages (False prophecy) don’t challenge us, help us heal, or mature in our walk with the Lord. God's chosen and anointed vessels adhere to God's Word whether the time is favorable or not. It's not popular and radically misunderstood. God showed me personally- “You must give them my messages whether they listen or not. But they won’t listen, for they are completely rebelli...
Jun 09, 2022•10 min•Ep. 70