Here's what's coming up on the show . This is crazy that , like you're out there flirting with women , you know you have a very , very , very small dick and yet you're out there flirting around thinking that you're going to have this really fun wild night . I think guys with small , micro penises are like wildly deluded in what they think their possibilities are .
Because , like , what's going to happen ? I know you're all horny and you're excited in your mind what they think their possibilities are . Because , like , what's going to happen I know you're all horny and you're excited In your mind . You think , like you're going to have this nice fuck session with this woman and stuff like that . But like , what are you doing ?
This is the Venus Cuckoldris podcast , a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious , for the passionate and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all . Let's go . Hello everybody , thanks so much for joining me on the show today . I'm your host , venus . Let's go .
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Hello , my name is Jeff and I'd like to know what your thoughts on telling a woman that you're small on the first or second date , so that she's not disappointed in the reveal .
I've had situations where women have accused me of letting them fall in love with me before they actually saw my small dick and thought it was dirty and a bad move because now they had feelings for me and they had to deal with my small dick .
Okay , first of all , let me just say , um , I know that there's , like you know , big dick energy that goes along with it , like a nice deep voice , and it's very sexy with bulls and stuff like that . But there is definitely some small dick energy .
When it comes to Cox voices , you definitely have it , it's like the Mike Tyson voice , but anyway , it's fine the way it is . I'm just saying , I'm just pointing it out , like there's something about your voice that definitely just portrays the small dick energy , which is , like I said , it's fine . It's fine .
But I'm just saying , okay , do I think that you should come out to your partner about your small dick before she falls in love with you ? Like , I think . So I think that that would be like a good thing . I mean , you know , if you have a small dick , you know that you're going to be lacking in that department .
I mean , there's a lot of women out there who are not size queens , who don't mind a smaller dick . But if you've got like a micro penis , like a little little bitty , itty bitty dick , like a lot of guys do , then yeah , you need to , you need to say something .
It's not fair for you to just drop it on her , like you know , a few months into the relationship , pull down your pants and be like here it is and she's gonna have a reaction . You know she is .
But for cucks I would say , like for a lot of you small dick cucks out there , you have learned to compensate and learn how to eat pussy like an absolute champ , like learn how to do outer course , basically everything else to do with sex . That's not dick in vagina or dick and ass , whatever , like learning about all of the other stuff .
I think having a small dick is kind of a good thing in some ways , because it forces you to really think outside of the box of traditional , regular piv sex which , let's face it , a lot of women are not getting off to hetero piv sex , but they are getting off with other women .
So there are parts of our body that men need to learn how to be good at satisfying and having a small dick can make you do that . It can make you really good at eating pussy . It could make you want to learn how to do pussy massage or sensual body massage . It can help you learn how to use toys or a strap on or whatever . What do they call it ?
Like a , a strap on or whatever . What do they call it ? Like a dick extender or whatever ? Like there's so many fun things that you can learn if you have a small dick that you have to be like OK , I'm going to learn how to do this , you can learn how to be a better lover .
This is going to be shocking Then , somebody who has a big dick and just does PIV Because a big dick is great for a size queen , it feels good and everything . It hits all the right spots and everything like that .
But it is really a basic one type of sex and there's so much more out there available that women desire we don't even know it when , when it comes to sex that you can be a much more well-rounded lover if you just take the time to explore all of these other ways to have sex . And so there you go .
I think that you should hint that you are good at these other things in bed , that you've learned about all of these other things like pussy massage and eating pussy and like toys and all that you've tried all of these , that you're good at , that you're very open-minded about learning about these things , and that her pleasure comes first , and but you should be
saying things .
Like you know , when it comes to , like , traditional penetration , that's not been my strong suit , but I'm so good at all these other things and that if you say that that's going to make her , oh OK , like I get it , you don't have to just like flat out come and say , like I have a micro penis , it's super small , I'm never going to be able to satisfy you
. I know that's like really hot fantasy talk , but , like when it comes to a new relationship , it's probably like not the way to say it . So focus on all of the other stuff that you've learned , all the other skills that you've learned , and drop those hints instead . Okay , next one .
Hi Venus , first of all , I'd just like to thank , to be involved in it , if they're not already , and it just needs to be more open , and I'm glad you're able to do that on your platforms . But , that being said , I just have a little story , a little confession , I guess , that I want to share . It's probably the most . I'll go with the most recent one .
I've had quite a few in my past , um , but this one I'll I'll use just because it is the most recent , most fresh on my mind .
But , um , it was about six months ago or so , um , so I had been , you know , working all week pretty hard and come Friday night , uh , I figured , you know , I'd go out , go out alone to this little dance club bar , whatever you want to call it , and , uh , have some drinks and , you know , maybe maybe get lucky Not sure , but try my luck at least um , so
, anyways , I go there and have a few drinks and after a while , um , I'd say probably two or three hours being there , um , this very gorgeous woman comes up to me and she looks to be alone as well , and , and , um , she kind of just starts talking a little bit from a distance but gets a little closer after a little while and you know , we start talking a
little bit more , quite a bit , and get a little bit closer , get a little more touchy feely and , um , you know , what she's wearing is just killing me down there , because it's sure , you know , breasts are basically popping out of her shirt . You can tell she's not wearing a bra .
Anyway , it's just very gorgeous , very much a tease in a sense , but we were kind of hitting it off , doing really good and anyways , um , obviously I knew my size down there , which I'm . I can say I'm well , well , well below average .
Um , and some I've just learned to deal with and , uh , have been very rare occasions where I've actually gotten a girl to bed just because I'm actually gotten a girl to bed , just because I'm so nervous about them seeing it , and the ones that have seen it basically not talk to me afterwards anyways .
So I'm always scared when it comes to that part , but anyways , so eventually she does kind of reach down there , kind of get a little grabby and you can tell she's really trying to grab for it . Um , and I was wearing pretty tight jeans , so it's not like , you know , if I did have something really big down there .
Then she , she would have felt it right away , but she kept reaching for it , kept reaching for it . Um , it was pretty much unsuccessful , uh , anyway .
So a little bit after that , probably about 30 minutes after that part , there's this black man that comes over to our little table at the kind of a standup table and , um , they kind of start talking and stuff , and she's pretty tipsy at this moment .
So she kind of goes over to him and does the same thing and I mean you can clearly pretty much see his down there . He's wearing some light colored jeans and yeah , it's , yeah , you can clearly see it . So , pretty much from that point on , she stayed with him . She told me multiple times to go get them drinks .
Um , basically , from from that point on , like I knew I lost her to the superior guy , um , something I've dealt with pretty much my whole life .
And and , yeah , there was anger because I was like dang , I was gonna score , but I was extremely turned on , extremely excited , knowing that she's probably gonna have some amazing sex that I definitely couldn't provide her . I , I was , yeah , I was angry , but I mean to what I am and it made my night really , I loved every bit of it .
So yeah , here's my confession , thank you .
Oh , I just love this story and you know what I think a lot of guys out there can relate the losing the woman to the black guy thing who's got a bigger dick and everything like this .
So this is like the essence of so many cuck fantasies not all include the interracial aspect , but this , the the basis of it , is definitely the cuck fantasy of missing out , losing out on this potential experience with this woman and that being such a turn on .
Let me just say that what she's doing is such like a fun , flirty thing and I'm glad that she feels safe to do that . But like , if , like , let's just face it like it's not normally a very safe place for women to do that to random guys .
Like I think and this is part of the reason why , for me anyway and for many women , this is hard for us to get into the whole small penis humiliation thing because , let's face it , it's a very dangerous thing to reject a guy based on the size of his dick . So if he's got a small dick , to reject him for , that can be extremely dangerous .
Rejecting a guy just as it is can be extremely dangerous for women . How many times do you hear about this happening where you know the guy really wants the girl and she flirts with him and then she , you know , says no , I don't want to have sex with you , and he goes into a wild rage and kills her . This is like a thing .
So it's dangerous enough to do that . But to do it upon the basis of his dick being too small is is especially hard for some guys to accept . Luckily , our lovely cucks out there find it a turn on . It's enjoyable , it's fun . It hurts but it's enjoyable , and thank God for cucks out there .
Thank you for not going into a jealous rage and flipping out and trying to kill people . So this is why I love cucks so much . I mean , I love the way that your mind works . Instead of like turning something that could be , you know , detrimental to your ego , you turn it into something that is such a turn on and I fucking love that about you .
So thank you for that . But it's a cute story . I love how he said he could see the size of the guy's crotch , like through his jeans and yeah , this is definitely a thing and how she was doing like the hand test . I love that . My friend Anne , she does the hand test every time she meets up with a new bull . It's part of her thing .
She just wants to make sure that he's packing what he says he's packing , and that test works for her every time . So it is a thing that us ladies it's a little trick that us ladies use to figure out what we're dealing with . Sometimes you don't even need a hand test . You just sit on his lap and you're like holy shit , like that's a lot .
But I love how instantly this guy felt defeat in the fact that he knew that he was not , that this , this thing was not going to happen . But going back to what I said earlier , I mean this is crazy that like you're out there flirting with women , you know you have a very , very , very , very small dick .
Like you know you have a really , really small dick and yet you're out there flirting around thinking that you're gonna have this really fun wild night . I think guys with small micro penises are like wildly deluded in in what they think their possibilities are because like what's gonna you , what's gonna happen ?
I know you're all horny and you're excited in your mind . You think , like you's gonna you what's gonna happen . I know you're all horny and you're excited in your mind . You think , like you're gonna have this nice fuck session with this woman and stuff like that . But like , what are you doing ?
You know that at some point you have to get naked and you have to show what you have to offer , and it's not gonna be good , it's just not .
The reaction is not gonna be good and you're gonna put her in an awkward situation because she is , like I said , this is gonna be dangerous to to say to him , to say anything to him and be like , oh you know , I actually don't want to fuck with you because your dick's too small . Like you do that and you could possibly get killed like that .
And so what are you going to do ? You're going to put her in this situation where she just got to kind of like pretend that this is OK and that's not cool . So I had this friend , jay , and this was way back when I first learned about chastity no-transcript .
He was getting all these tinder dates because he's a good looking guy and and unfortunately , like I , was just like , what are you doing ? Like you know that this is not going to , it's not going to pan out for you , and but he would still go out and then he would he like hooking up with these women and stuff .
And he's like he's like I think she liked it . No , she was faking it just because this is an unsafe situation for her to be in , to not fake it . And he was like just so gutted when I said that . But I'm like this is the truth . Like what are you gonna do with this little , tiny little thing ? I mean it's not gonna be fun for her .
I don't think there's any . I mean , like I said , small dicks are one thing , but like micro penises are really fucking small . So so anyway , I was like what do you think you're going to do in this situation ? Are you really going to be able to be going out and hooking up and having this like great time ?
You are , because she's going to fake it and she's not going to have a good time telling you what . You're going out there making some bad fucking memories for these women and that's not cool , like that's pretty selfish .
Anyway , that part of this story kind of reminded me of that , where he was talking about like oh yeah , I thought I was going to go out and hook up with this woman and have this like great sex . I'm like , after you just said that you had like the very smallest dick . I'm like what are you thinking ? This makes no sense to me .
this is delusional . Hi , venus , thank you for this opportunity .
Um , my confession is that my obsession with interracial cuckolding began when I was in college , when I told the woman that I was dating , who actually happened to be my key holder , that I was rejected by the girl that I was obsessed with in high school and that she chose to date a black athlete instead of me .
My college girlfriend and I had this arrangement where , in exchange for being released from chastity , I would do something for her , usually a bit degrading , and after I told her about my crush , my girlfriend found the girl's only fan page and , in exchange for releasing me from chastity , she told me I had to pay for it and watch every single video along with
her . I absolutely fell apart and cried while doing that , and it was the most emotional night of my life .
Ever since then , I've been obsessed with those videos and the cold , dagger feeling of humiliation that just shatters my composure and it makes me so aroused first let me just say , like she's a mean bitch , like that was pretty mean thing for her to do , but I guess that's like the dynamic of the relationship is very much like the power dynamic and the BDSM kind
of stuff , and so I get that like , I get that the mean tasks are great for the guys who really love that kind of humiliation . But I don't know , every time I hear about like a cuck going through like the most intense cuck angst that he cries , every time I hear about that I'm like I worry , like is this , is this something that's like hurtful ?
Is this something that's mean ? Like I just is there a line that's been crossed ? But then I always think , like okay , maybe this is just tears that represent like just an immense amount of emotion that's spilling out and that I can understand .
But this is where , like , I really wonder about whether or not there's a healthy balance in this , in these kinds of dynamics . Like , is there a balance between ? I know there's a balance between like OK , this he said , like it's it's very humiliating as a dagger feeling in his heart but is also an extreme turn on .
So I know that there's a balance between that but between , like the real negative feelings . Is there a balance of happiness and joy in the relationship as well ? Like I just wonder about that because I don't hear about that part of it .
So I don't really know , and I just hope that these kinds of cuckolding relationships although you know both parties are consenting and and that this is something that each of them enjoys , and she likes to be cruel and he loves it when she's cruel , and the more mean tasks there are that , the better . That I , as you know I , then everything is okay .
But like I don't know , I just I wonder . It makes me wonder are are these people happy still ? Like is there still some joy ? Is there still some love ? Like are we good ? Like do we need to check in those kind of things ? I don't know , because , like I , I get that these like really humiliating fantasies are so hot and like such a turn on and whatever .
Like guys really fucking get off on that , but at what point are we starting to cause some trauma or some damage and at what point is it no longer fun and games ? So I don't know . I just feel like we need to just have some caution around that and recognize that it's hot , but still , this is a real relationship , are we good ?
You know that kind of thing . That's going to be it for today's episode . You so much for joining me . Make sure you go to venuscuckoldresscom .
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