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The Unrelatable Podcast

Hi, hello, it’s Hannah. Welcome to the space that’s dedicated to everything we don’t post about.. For the quiet heartbreaks, the big transitions, the over thinkers and the ones who feel too much—this is for you.

Thursdays are for deep dives—and Fridays? Random bonus episodes where I yap your ear off about current chaos, pop culture, and whatever else is living rent-free in my head.

If you’ve ever felt like the odd one out, you’re in the right place. Let’s get into it.


Follow @unrelatablepodcast on Instagram to submit your stories and be part of the convo.
You can also find me over at @han.lanae and @hannahhlanae.

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Episodes

Solo Traveling Guide for Hot Girls with Trust Issues

Consider this your official guide to solo traveling without ending up on a true crime podcast. We're talking mistakes I've made, how to stay safe, and learning to be confident in being alone. Solo traveling can be such an incredible experience, and you don't even have to leave the country to experience it. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www...

Jul 10, 20251 hr 26 minEp. 105

Ms. Worldwide: The International Debut

Not quite to the level of Pitbull, but I did take my shot on the international stage. It wasn’t the ultimate win, but it was a step closer to the pro stage and playing in the big leagues. Thanks for being along for the ride <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://ww...

Jul 03, 20251 hr 18 minEp. 104

She's Divorced, Not Dead

Picking up where we left off last week, we’re talking about what it looks like to stay independent and open to dating at the same time. I’m also sharing a few things I really wish someone had told me about dating after divorce, plus answering some of your break-up questions. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcas...

Jun 19, 202552 minEp. 103

The Hardships of Not Being a Hoe

Dating post divorce...Dating in Europe..Dating apps. Let's talk about it. Warning: This episode is explicit, proceed with caution lol Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://www.instagram.com/hannahfeldt/ For Bonus Episodes: https://www.patreon.com/TheUnrelatablePodcast A...

Jun 12, 20251 hr 12 minEp. 102

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Hot Takes

Buckle up, because we are diving deep into season two of SLOMW. All the drama, all your opinions, and of course, all of mine. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://www.instagram.com/hannahfeldt/ For Bonus Episodes: https://www.patreon.com/TheUnrelat...

Jun 05, 20251 hr 28 minEp. 101

Surprise... I Moved to Europe!!!

I finally followed my dreams and moved to Europe — not because I have everything figured out, but because I couldn’t keep doing what I was doing. In this episode, I’m telling you everything: what led to the decision, why country I picked, what life looks like now, and how I knew I was ready to go. I’m answering your questions, sharing what’s surprised me, and talking through the kind of change that doesn’t always look pretty, but feels right. <3 Hope you enjoy, and also, happy 100th episode !...

May 29, 20251 hr 1 minEp. 100

You're Not Lazy, You're Tired Of Performing

If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive — and pretending to be palatable 24/7 is draining you dry. This episode is for those of you who’ve been called “too much” and “hard to read” in the same breath. The ones who feel exhausted after social events, not because you’re lazy, but because you’ve been editing yourself the whole time. We talk about identity exhaustion , the pressure to be the “cool girl,” the chronic habit of proving you’re worth loving by being the easiest person to deal with...

May 22, 202551 minEp. 99

Life Is Too Short To Be Nonchalant

Too often we downplay our passions, mute our emotions, and act like nothing phases us. Being "too cool to care" might just be robbing us from the best parts of life. If you've ever felt like you're holding yourself back, this one's for you <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlf...

May 15, 202552 minEp. 98

The Art Of Starting Over

Starting over in fitness, relationships, our careers, etc is not glamourous. It's quiet, lonely, and it's one of the hardest things I've ever had to experience. Today we're talking about what it really looks like to rebuild after life just isn't turning out the way you hoped it would. If you're in a "what now?" stage of life, this one's for you. <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Fol...

May 09, 202547 minEp. 97

You Win Some, You Lose Some

Three weeks ago, I walked away with the overall win at Utah's first Fit Model Bodybuilding show. This time? I placed second. I'll take you behind the scenes of what it's like to show up, give it your best, and not take home a win. We talk about the mental whiplash of competition, how to hold pride and disappointment at the same time, and why this kind of experience mirrors life a lot of the time. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! ...

May 01, 202551 minEp. 96

Unhinged Life Advice You Didn't Know You Needed

This one is for the chronically online, recently heartbroken, ADHD diagnosed, emotionally self-aware but still a little unwell girlies. Get ready for some mental health hacks and toxic advice that lowkey works. We're spiraling together, but in a productive way. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My S...

Apr 17, 202547 minEp. 95

A New Era of Bodybuilding: From Bikini to Fit Model

Welcome to a full recap of what it has been like to switch from Bikini to Fit Model, what show day entailed, and the lessons that came with it. Hope you enjoy! Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://www.instagram.com/hannahfeldt/ For Bonus Episodes: https://www.patreon.c...

Apr 10, 202556 minEp. 94

Pretty People Don't Hate

Are you often concerned about the people in your life and what they think of you? Have you had crippling anxiety about the way you're moving throughout the world? Today we are talking the intricacies of authenticity and how it all ties together. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://...

Apr 03, 202552 minEp. 93

Summers Soft Launch

Today we have a feel-good episode, because spring has sprung. We’re stepping into a lighter, softer way of living and letting go of what’s been weighing us down. Giving yourself permission to slow down, embrace ease, and trust the process. I’m talking about habits, mindsets, expectations—anything that’s not making the cut for this next season. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcas...

Mar 27, 202552 minEp. 92

Burn The Ground and Salt The Earth

It seems like we are all crashing out. But let's be real, sometimes, you need to torch everything and jump off the cliff with zero clue on where you'll land. I'll walk you through the levels of crash out's and what can happen after. This one's part pep talk, part reality check, and maybe the push you need to finally trust yourself. Hope you enjoy! Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow ...

Mar 20, 202553 minEp. 91

Weekly Friday Recap! She's Back On The Streets

I'm officially divorced and back on the roster—what a time to be alive. That means I’m in the perfect position to go through the best (and worst) dating advice you sent in. We’re talking dating culture, splitting the bill, and what it’s really like being back in the streets. Buckle up. Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow ...

Mar 14, 202553 minEp. 90

Let Me Tell You Something About Dating

Yes, I know. If you had told me even a month ago that I’d be releasing an episode on this, I would have laughed in your face—and then run straight to my grave. But life comes at you fast. So here we are, breaking down your dating advice. Hope you enjoy! Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram...

Mar 13, 202558 minEp. 89

No One Succeeds Alone

There is this idea floating around that we don't owe anyone anything. Well, it is 2025, and that mindset has to go. We've created a society where everyone wants the benefits of belonging, without the effort. Everybody wants a village, but nobody wants to be a villager. We are talking all about connection, people pleasing, and boundaries. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#link...

Mar 06, 202553 minEp. 88

When Life Is Hard You Gotta Be Harder

Big life updates all around as we dive into the rest of your submissions from last week. I'll also chime in with my update at the end, and we can reflect on how much life has changed in the last few years together. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ http...

Feb 27, 202551 minEp. 87

Let Go or Be Dragged

Love Notes & Hate Mail is back, and we’re spilling it all—heartbreaks, body image struggles, family drama, mental breakdowns, and everything in between. Today, we finally get to dive deep into your submissions. Enjoy!! <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://www...

Feb 20, 20251 hr 13 minEp. 86

WFR! Valentines Day and Turning Twenty-ATE

Oh boy, are you in for the yapping of your life today! I'm giving you all the details you didn’t ask for—about both my first birthday and my first Valentine’s Day single in 11 years. We’ll also chat about the Super Bowl halftime show, recap my quick trip across the pond, catch up on pop culture news and more. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://...

Feb 14, 202550 minEp. 85

It's Our Birthday!!! Unrelatable Birthday Stories

This year, my birthday is looking a lot different than most <3 So today I felt it would be appropriate to share your most unrelatable birthday stories, along with my own. From Pinterest perfect, to total disasters, you don't want to miss this one! Hope you enjoy, xx Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https...

Feb 12, 202543 minEp. 84

Weekly Friday Recap! The Greatest Fail of The Grammys

Recapping all the most recent pop culture news that you have been dying to know. Including news on Call Her Daddy, Why I Hate Ryan Reynolds, Billie losing at the Grammy's, Kendrick's wins and more! Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://www.instagram...

Feb 07, 202553 minEp. 83

Is Balance In Fitness Real? Steroids, Nutrition & More

Can you still maintain a social life when you have big fitness goals? Today I'll be answering your burning questions about all thing fitness. Touching on what balance looks like for me right now, and the current state of mind I'm in. Topics Covered: How do we achieve balance? Is balance about moderation? Is it about flexibility? When is your next bodybuilding show? Do you take steroids? What is your stance on approaching food? Has bodybuilding changed your relationship with food? The myth of eat...

Feb 06, 20251 hr 2 minEp. 82

Living in Reality Instead of Online

Today, we’re breaking down the modern world—why so many of us feel lost, overstimulated, and disconnected. By the end, we’ll shift the focus to finding meaning, real connection, and how I’m working to create a life that feels truly fulfilling. This episode touches on topics like social media addiction, hyper-sexualization, and the effects of pornography. If any of these subjects are sensitive for you, please listen with care. Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for li...

Jan 30, 202550 minEp. 81

The Rules I'm Breaking in 2025

Growing up, we learn the ‘rules of life' pretty quickly: You need to follow the traditional path, meet certain milestones, never stir the pot too much, and never mess up... Maybe it’s from society, from family, or just expectations we internalize about what our lives are supposed to look like. I'm letting go of all these and more! Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https:/...

Jan 23, 202557 minEp. 80

WFR! Bodybuilding Update & City Living

Talking all the drama that's happened so far this year! I'll share my updated news surrounding competing in bodybuilding, my thoughts on the tiktok ban, as well as the devastation of the LA fires. We will continue on with updates on the It Ends With Us Lawsuits, Crumbl joining skincare, and more. Hope you enjoy <3 Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram...

Jan 17, 20251 hr 1 minEp. 79

The Ebb and Flow of Confidence

Confidence isn't something we are born with, but more so a skill we develop, that ebbs and flows throughout life. Through self-compassion, boundary setting, and more, we’re able to shift from comparison and perfectionism to a place of self-acceptance and empowerment. Whether you’re on the journey to rediscover your self-worth or looking to nurture it further, I hope you enjoy what I have to say on this subject. We'll end today's episode with your wonderful submissions & thoughts on balancing...

Jan 16, 20251 hr 6 minEp. 78

Moving Forward & Slowing Down

Today I'm talking about the small steps I'm taking each day to move forward during this big life change... I'll also be diving into how my past self has handled conflict, and the difference I'm hoping to bring this time around. Finally, I'll be discussing a lot about shame; what it means, how it shows up, and how I'm working on stepping outside of it. Counting the small glimmers, creating a soft life, and healing sustainably is the upmost goal. Thank you for your messages, comments, support, etc...

Jan 09, 20251 hr 12 minEp. 77

The Energy We Are Bringing Into 2025 (and a real life update)

Moving into 2025, we are talking all about the energy we are bringing into the New Year. I’m also sharing a very (very) vulnerable life update with you guys… Thank you for your support, couldn’t do this without you. Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous) Thank you so much for listening! Submit Your Stories: https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1 Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/ Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/ https://www.instagram.co...

Jan 02, 20251 hr 9 minEp. 76
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