Want to know how to turn your spouse on (for both husband and wife) and drive them crazy in the bedroom? Nick and Amy share tips for how a husband can drive his wife crazy, and how a wife can drive her husband crazy in the bedroom. They share the things that have transformed their marriage and sexual intimacy. After 20 years of marriage, their sexual intimacy is better than it has ever been and their goal is to help couples find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships. If you haven't already,...
Aug 09, 2022•39 min
You look at some couples and see that the wife is madly in love with her husband, and you wonder.. "what is the secret"? Over the past several years we've talked to a lot of couples about things their husbands do to make them feel loved. There is also a great article from To Love Honor And Vacuum titled " 10 Things husbands who are great lovers do" which we reference in this podcast as well. If you want to know the secrets that will make your wife madly in love with you, then this episode is for...
Aug 05, 2022•29 min
We constantly talk about things couples can do to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship. However, we understand that things are not always perfect in a relationship and fighting is something that is normal and healthy to do, but it is important to fight "the right way" so that your arguments and disagreements move your relationship forward and don't cause any harm or damage long term. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss "The Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Spouse When You Are Fight...
Aug 02, 2022•29 min
Many couples wonder why their sex life isn't like what they see on tv, or in the movies and compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples have myths about sex that keep them from having the "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage that they deserve to have. Nick and Amy discuss some of these myths and offer solutions to help you find more sexual enjoyment (and frequency) in your marriage. - Do you have to be turned on (in the mood) to have sex? - Does sex have to be amazing and m...
Jul 29, 2022•30 min
In many of their previous podcasts, Nick and Amy have discussed things you can do in your marriage to create more emotional and physical intimacy, and also the things that can hurt intimacy in your marriage. Most of them are pretty common things that many couples deal with and recognize they impact their marriages...but there are also several hidden things that can "kill" the intimacy in your marriage and could be happening without you even knowing it. We took a poll and asked couples what kills...
Jul 27, 2022•36 min
Many couple's don't discuss or feel the need to have boundaries in their marriage. They feel that boundaries take away freedom, or that they would only be needed due to a lack of trust in the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. Couple's that haven't discussed or agreed to certain boundaries in their marriage are much more likely to do something (even unintentionally) that could cause distrust or issues at some point in their marriage. Couples that have boundaries are much more...
Jul 20, 2022•28 min
It's amazing all the distractions or little things that can get in the way, and keep a couple from connecting, which of course will negatively impact their marriage. So many of these distractions take place at the most critical time of the day (and place) where couples should be connecting the most... in the bedroom. Most couples dont realize the impact and consequences this has on their marriage, but with a few simple routines, the marriage can be transformed. In this episode Nick and Amy discu...
Jul 13, 2022•24 min
We just had our 20th anniversary and we were discussing all the things we have learned over the past 20 years of our marriage (which are many). There were a lot of expectations of what we thought marriage would be like, and perceptions of things in life with our relationship and how we viewed other relationships as well. Of course we were wrong about many of our expectations and perceptions of what we thought. The things we have learned have helped our marriage tremendously, and although everyon...
Jul 06, 2022•40 min
In this episode, we share the results from the social media poll we did with our Ultimate Intimacy audience about husbands and wives favorite and least favorite sexual positions, the ideal times a week to be sexually intimate, tips for their spouse, and so much more! We also discuss the many benefits of sex and share the top voted sex positions. You might be as shocked as we were with the poll answers! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultima...
Jun 29, 2022•38 min
Last week we talked with Expedition Marriage about the 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You, so this week we want to talk to the husbands about the 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You. Often times in marriage we think for our marriage to change for the better, we have to do some major life changing things, but it is most often the small and simple things that make the difference in having a mediocre marriage to finding "Ultimate Intimacy"! and when you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage, it...
Jun 21, 2022•37 min
In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Chris and Jamie Bailey with Expedition Marriage about an article they wrote on their blog about what husbands need to hear from their wive's. If you are a wife, these simple things can transform your marriage and are very easy to do. Your husband needs: To hear that you believe in him and support him Sexual intimacy and to connect with you To know you love, appreciate and respect him To know you dont hold the past against him and others topics. Ladies, if ...
Jun 14, 2022•33 min
How to get your wife to want more sex?.... This is the million dollar question that most men would sell all they own to know the answer to ;) We polled over 1000 wives on social media to get REAL answers for you. Here are the questions we asked in the poll: What non-sexual things does your husband do that turns you on and gets you in the mood for sex? What things does your husband do to get you mentally in the mood for sex? What things does your husband do to make you instantly lose your desire ...
Jun 07, 2022•28 min
The majority of people now days have an addiction to technology which has a significant impact on their sex life and relationship. The stats are incredible. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss an article from Emily Jamea called "The Modern Day Libido Killer" found HERE , and also share insights from an article from The 80/80 marriage, about how technology is killing our sex lives and relationships. If you and your spouse are not having sexual intimacy on a regular basis, technology is most like...
May 31, 2022•34 min
Nick and Amy interview Dr. Kim Kimberling with Awesome Marriage about his online course "Marriage 911" to help couples re connect and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriages. Some of the topics they discuss in the podcast are: What is the wrong and right way to fight? What is healthy communication? Expectations in marriage Boundaries in and out of the marriage Turning to God Dealing with distractions Sex issues Finances and how they impact marriage Forgiveness Having Fun! Check out the Marri...
May 24, 2022•44 min
Nick and Amy interview Bryan Reeves who is the author of a new book called "Choose Her Everyday (or leave her)" about the importance of choosing your spouse everyday in your relationship. Bryan compares a relationship to a precious fragrant flower that is brought into the home, but then fails to be watered. Relationships start out beautiful and amazing but if we dont continue to nourish and feed those relationships, they will eventually die. We also discuss why you need to choose her (your wife)...
May 17, 2022•50 min
About a year and a half ago, we had a lady write to us and say she would never be using the Ultimate Intimacy App again based upon an article we had on the app. We were shocked and wondered what we had on the app that would cause this as we personally review and post everything that goes on the app. It was an article that was written by a Sex expert and Marriage Counselor. We read through the article several times again and thought that everything stated in it was beautiful and offered ways for ...
May 10, 2022•30 min
Since 1990 the divorce rate among couples between the ages of 55-64 has more than doubled! Why is this happening? Aren't the years after the kids move out, and couples head into retirement suppose to be the best? Many couples focus so much time and energy on raising their kids, they often neglect their own relationship only to find out that it is VERY difficult to reconnect once they have grown apart. Also spouses may react differently in regards to becoming "empty nesters" while one spouse may ...
May 03, 2022•47 min
We have all seen couples that look like they have an amazing relationship and have everything together and we wonder what their secrets are and yearn for that kind of relationship. On the flip side, we have all seen the couples that we have no idea how they are staying together as it looks like they are so unhappy together. So what is the difference and what are the secrets of happy couples? While every couple deals with different trials, struggles and life experiences, there are absolute things...
Apr 26, 2022•51 min
A man's sexual confidence can be negatively impacted for many reasons, and when a man looses his sexual confidence, it can effect many aspects of his life including mental health, physical health, personality, work productivity and other things in his life. On the flip side, a sexually confident man can feel like he can conquer the world and sexually confident men are often happier, more efficient at work, physically and mentally healthier, better husbands and fathers, and have a better overall ...
Apr 21, 2022•25 min
In marriage, more often than not couples come from different backgrounds and have different experiences growing up which shapes "their" parenting styles and beliefs. For example, one might have had very strict parents with many rules and structure while the other spouse may have had very lenient parents with little structure. While neither one is right or wrong, our reality of how we were raised can shape our perception on how we should parent our kids. It is vital for couples to talk about "how...
Apr 19, 2022•59 min
"Your level of sexual confidence determines your capacity to experience intimacy both in and out of the bedroom. Sexual confidence is actually crucial to a woman's well-being both in and out of the bedroom." Ketsia Gustave. In this episode, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of having Ketsia Gustave from evolvingwife.com on the podcast to discuss an article she wrote on how women can build sexual confidence. There are many reasons why some women have low sexual confidence. These include: Growing up ...
Apr 12, 2022•41 min
In this episode, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of having Dr. Emily Jamea on the podcast. Emily is a certified sex therapist and LMFT with Revive Therapy and discusses the concept of the different Sex Languages with us. Most couples have heard of the 5 Love Languages and understand how important they are to a relationship, but have you heard of the Sex Languages? We hadn't either! Here are a few of the things we discuss in this awesome episode: What are the sex languages? What is the language of...
Apr 05, 2022•33 min
Last week we tackled the 10 mistakes men make in marriage, now it's time for the women! A ton of research and preparation was put in for this episode (just like all other podcasts we do) and almost all other articles had these 10 mistakes women make in marriage, so this is not according to Nick and Amy, but what most relationship experts agree across the board. Most marriages want to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships and this episode will help you achieve that! Some of the mistakes...
Mar 29, 2022•32 min
Let's be real, sometimes we as guys say dumb things or make stupid mistakes in our marriage. We often don't do things intentionally, but sometimes the things we do or say can cause issues with our spouse. In this episode, Nick and Amy share a fantastic article by Knot Easily Broken and discuss the 10 mistakes men make in marriage. Some of these include: - Only thinking about yourself in the bedroom - Reckless spending - Dont confide in your wife Listen to the episode to hear all the mistakes we ...
Mar 22, 2022•32 min
Many married couples think if they are fighting or arguing, then they have an unhealthy marriage, but this is not the case. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss 12 reasons why it is actually healthy to argue in marriage, AND why it is not healthy to hold things in or sweep things "under the rug". Some of the benefits from arguing include: - Arguing shows you really care about your spouse - Helps you become a better listener - Helps you to communicate better - Helps you see other perspectives and...
Mar 17, 2022•31 min
Do you feel like your sexual chemistry between you and your spouse has dwindled or is no longer existent? In this episode Nick and Amy discuss and share 10 tips to help couples rekindle their sexual chemistry so they can find the excitement, passion and connection in their relationship just like when they were first married. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to downl...
Mar 14, 2022•33 min
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss a great article by focusonthefamily.com about why your marriage and relationship with your spouse has to be priority above the kids! "When a parental team breaks down, children become the biggest losers." Research shows that marriage takes a hit when you have kids. According to an analysis involving 31,000 married people, the drop in marital satisfaction after the first baby is born is a staggering 42% larger among the current generation of parents than their...
Feb 23, 2022•28 min
Do you find yourself comparing your marriage and life to others? Do you envy other marriages, families, vacations, and lifestyle and wonder why yours isn't like everyone else's?Well your not alone... We took a poll and the results found many other people and couples feel this same way. The problem is what we see is a mirage, and we only see the what others WANT us to see, or what the companies want us to see to convince ourselves we need something to be happy. It's "our" perceptions but often ti...
Feb 16, 2022•35 min
As men and women, we are biologically different...and that is how God made us and wants it to be. The world wants us to think we have to be the same and there is no difference between a man and woman biologically. This is not how God made us and it is good that we are wired differently and have different strengths, weaknesses and emotional and physical desires as men and women. When we understand how we are biologically different and how men and women function, it is easier to create "Ultimate I...
Feb 09, 2022•59 min
In this weeks episode, Nick and Amy discuss the poll answers from social media. "Husbands answers to their Sexual Intimacy wants and needs." The questions husbands answered were: Do you have a hard time talking about sex with your wife? Why or why not? Can you tell your wife what you want sexually? How do you bring up the conversation? Who wants to make love more often, you or your wife? How do you find balance in your desire differences? Do you enjoy foreplay? What foreplay technique that your ...
Feb 02, 2022•33 min
