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Did you know that within you is the most powerful force that has ever existed? The challenge is that we have forgotten who we really are. My mission is to awaken you to understand that what you believe on a subconscious level creates everything in your life. And in the energy, thoughts, feelings, patterns, all of it is created by our beliefs. And our experiences can be positive or negative. Life doesn't just happen to or for you, it happens from you. Join me on the journey to discover what the eternal truth is within you, that sets you free at the deepest level possible. It all starts now.
Hello, and welcome, this week to the truth method podcast, we're gonna have real talk about toxic people, and what to do about it. And it might be a little different than what you have heard. A lot of people will say, just leave the situation, remove the people out of your life that are causing you to be uncomfortable. I'm going to give you a little twist on that. But before I do, I want to say if you are in a physically abusive situation or relationship, please get help to form a solid exit strategy. No one needs to be abused. No one deserves it. Love is the strongest power that has ever existed or ever will.
Going back to toxic people. We've all run into them. We've all had friends, we've had groups of friends, we've been in working situations that were not positive. We've all experienced it. We've had people with road rage. We've had, I mean, you name it, we've had it. And there's another word that's been thrown out. And we'll deal with this in a future podcasts, but narcissistic people. So the situation is this, do I remove myself from the situation that causes me to be uncomfortable? Or knowing the law of mind and knowing how this whole universe works and is put together? Do I pause and start to see what role I play in the situation? Even if it is just a belief I have that is in frequency with the other person or the situation that is occurring? What I'm asking you, and we're gonna put this in very simple terms, is Do we just run away because something is uncomfortable? Or do we shift into the journey, it's like a destination of our power, and use everything that we experience in this world as feedback, as a gauge to tell us where we are, and how we're doing. At the moment, we are not defined by what someone else says.
I have a tattoo that says Remember, on my arm, it's a very important to how to, to me, it means a lot, my daughter and I both got one, we have a true identity, nothing in the world can touch it, or take it away. It is who we are in our soul in our higher spirit. We were made in creation, this beautiful energy that science studies. And we all have value. It is part of the life principle. But we just believe a lot of bullshit about ourselves. And when we're around someone that is toxic, and they're saying something or triggering us will say things like this, well, he made me feel bad or she made me feel bad. They make me feel like shit. Well no one can make you feel any way unless you have a belief that is in frequency with what they're doing. So if they make you feel bad, you have a belief in frequency that says okay, and this is all science, this is all creation, their thought wave comes to your thought wave it has to be in frequency for it to register with both of you. So no one can really make you feel bad unless you have a belief that allows it. So I would love for everyone to shift from “this is happening” to me and start to be curious about “is this happening from me?”
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And my belief is everything happens from me, I didn't always believe this. But I do now because I understand science in the law of mind, the law of belief, and the law of correspondence. The law of correspondence will tell you, whatever you're experiencing in your outer world, it is in direct correlation to what is happening in your inner world. So in other words, everything is being mirrored to us. If I have a toxic person standing right in front of me saying terrible things, or doing something that isn't so pleasant, such as trying to control me or manipulate me, then I have to if I want to go on the destination of growth, if I really want to step into my true power, and not just the power of my ego, and trying to pretend I'm powerful, that I have to be willing to take this journey, and ask myself, What do I believe that is allowing this to happen in front of me, right now.
The practice of the truth method helps you to get that answer, and helps you to seek the truth and figure out at a subconscious level, what you're believing. Why is this so important? Because you're creating everything from what you believe, as a whole, every person on earth, is creating through their subconscious beliefs. And it shows up in many ways in the world. Think about how many people are in fear, stress, anxiety, and how much disease is in the world. This correlation is really important if we really want to get to the depth of our being and what's really going on. So I would say instead of just getting upset, and then unfriending, someone blocking them getting rid of them. Instead of that, try to have a conversation first with yourself. And then with the truth, what that looks like is you can just pause, you might be very upset in the moment, but start to practice pausing, because in calmness, and in the pause, we can stay in our power.
If we allow what is happening to pull us into the emotional spin, we get in the frequency of that emotional spin, and that I like to call the shit show, it doesn't feel good to be in it. It drains our energy and power, and causes us to feel certain ways that are not pleasant. But remember, we have to have a belief that is in frequency with that. And so when we're unwinding from this, and learning how to show up in the world, in a different way, takes a little bit of practice. When I first started to do this, I was working in real estate, and I would have clients that would do something. And I would think it was disrespectful, or, you know, I had one client where I showed a lot of property to them. And then they just went off, went to New Construction and didn't follow the rules. This is in the beginning of my career, and just disregarded all the time that I taken with them. This really upset me. And I felt used. As I began to do deeper studies into spirituality of ancient teachings. And as the truth rose in my heart and in my life, I began to understand, I had a belief that was related to being used, it was a fear of being used. I talked about this in another podcast. But they can only use me if I have that belief, people using you would be categorized as toxic behavior.
Another thing is, if you're getting to the point where you're not gossiping anymore, this is just another example. You're not gossiping anymore, but you hang out with friends that do that a lot. You'll start to feel like this is not really my vibe, right? And as you begin to understand what's going on behind the scenes, these people are feeling insecure about themselves. And this is why they have to talk. Their ego is comparing them with someone else and now they're talking about it. And if you've ever noticed with gossip, it's usually something about someone else that is negative. Sometimes gossip can be good, like, did you hear so and so got engaged? Did you hear they're having a baby? It's so wonderful, that's good gossip, right? But most of the time it's putting the other person down. That's also a toxic behavior.
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Anything that is not up lifting the hole yourself others is not of the life principle. It is actually considered in ancient teachings to be of the death principle. There is good in evil,l Life and death. And what this means is if you're operating under the life principle, you're operating under the principle of life, light, enlightenment. And that is always to support yourself and others and not do the comparison game. If you're in your ego and false identity, you will compare. And we're all there until we grow out of it. So do we remove toxic people? Or do we understand that everything that is happening around us is just feedback for something we believe on the inside. And are these people serving us to actually show us where we are? I think they are. So if you're not in a dangerous situation, start to become curious about this, do the work within yourself first, and then see if their behavior doesn't shift.
If everybody was the same way all the time, then we couldn't say it was belief based. But I have literally stood in line and watched a cashier or be very friendly to most everyone, and then another guy shows up. And she's not friendly. And he didn't do anything wrong. She's just not friendly to him, she's kind of quick, she's annoyed. And then the next person shows up, and she's friendly again. And then when I show up, because I'm radiating love to her, because I just, that's what I attempt to do on a constant basis. I mean, I'm training myself to do that. She's really great with me, she's like, full of energy and happy that I'm seeing how she just reacts a little differently to everybody. And it's based on frequency. And so she will show up to me in the manner that I expect her to, for the most part, and this is a hard concept to handle. Now, she might have had something just happened to her and she could be an ill mood. And then I'll say, How are you doing? And she's like, not well, you know, and I'll go, I'm so sorry. You know what I'm gonna wish for you, I'm gonna wish for your day to go well, from here on out. And then her energy will shift.
However, if I see a pattern in my life, if I see a lot of toxic situations coming into my presence, I have to look at myself and go, What do I believe that allows it? What am I cooperating with, because everything has to be a completion of a loop. That thought has to come from them go to me, I have to be in frequency with it and goes back to them. It completes. This is part of a very old teaching called The Secret of the light. And it is how things work in science. You know, you broadcast out you have waves that go out, they come back in. It's very interesting. So do we just cut off everybody and try to protect ourselves from a world that is ever changing? And it's dynamic, because people are creating left and right from their subconscious with what they believe? Or do we begin to go on the destination to become masters of this? I don't know about you. But I don't want to be subject to random stuff, I want to know that if I'm creating something that is undesirable, I have the chance to uncreate it, I have the chance to tap into infinite intelligence within my being and solve that problem or situation. If I choose Love, which is the highest frequency, then it is solved in a beautiful way.
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So here are the steps to kind of go through this. And it does take practice to hear the truth comprehend the truth, determine whether or not you are actually hearing the truth. And this is why we're creating an app for you for that. Because this is very important. And there's going to be different levels that you can join on the app. We will have a complimentary level after the download also, because we want to help you as much as possible. But here are the steps. Ask for what you believe about it. Beliefs are located in the subconscious. And those are the most powerful, you can have conscious beliefs. But you can have a conscious belief that is positive because you've done mindset work, and then access through the truth, your subconscious. And you have a belief that is totally opposite of that.
I can't tell you how many people I've worked with Tell me, I thought I dealt with that. Or I've handled that, you know, that's not true. I don't believe that. But it's coming up from their subconscious. And when it's processed and the truth comes in at that level, then we can be free from it. But even if you haven't practiced truth before, even just asking, what is the truth about this will start you on your destination to your freedom. And at first, you'll wonder, you know, is this going to work? Am I going to really hear it? Actually, yes, the law of truth is if you turn to the eternal truth, this is not your truth or my truth, I did a podcast on that. But if you turn to your the eternal truth, which is dictated by Universal Law, and you just put your awareness on it, like you go, I asked for the truth, it will begin to show up in your life, in different ways, from different avenues that can be someone saying something that strikes you deep in your heart, it could be a number of ways, but it will start to turn up.
And the more you practice, pausing in asking for the truth about something, and what do you believe about it that allows it, the more the truth will start to show up, it could take a week, it could take two weeks, in interest session practices in through the practice of truth. A lot of times, it happens faster. But not always. The truth comes to us when our mind gets out of the way. And we are simply in our heart. Have you ever had just an intuitive knowing or gut feeling rise within you? And you're like, wow, okay. That's the truth. And so that's how it shows up. So instead of looking at people, as they're toxic, I have to remove them, can we shift to looking at them as they're giving me feedback? Thank you. They're giving me feedback for something that is in my soul. And once it gets truth, I won't keep creating situations where people like this show up. So as you shift, a lot of people will go on a journey into awareness and spirituality, they'll begin to shift up in their awareness and consciousness. And people that were in their lives won't always stay in their life. And that's okay. That's perfectly fine. Allow people to come and go and wish them well.
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True power in mastery is to be able to stand in the midst of the storm, steady, strong in in your power. You might be thinking to yourself, no, I can't do that. Yes, you can't. The only thing saying you can't is a belief located within your subconscious. And it is your ego talking, I like to call the ego chichi the Chihuahua. I think I've mentioned this before in other podcasts, but we visualize we use our imagination to access our subconscious. So if we can put the lower mind or the ego into a picture of something, then we can send it out of our imagination as if we were putting a dog out to go to the vet or use the bathroom. So it's just an easy, fun way to do it. So if you start to access truth about a situation that you're facing, and you consider that person toxic, and you start to hear I can't do this, this isn't gonna work visualize it. It could be a little chihuahua, it could be a squirrel, it can be any type of animal we love animals, about when they need when they need medication or have rabies, we need to get them medicated, right. The lower mind cooperates with all of the lower beliefs. All of the false beliefs about ourselves, or what we're doing, or what we're capable of. Any limiting belief comes from the ego in the lower mind. It is stored in our subconscious, and it creates our whole reality. Until we get truth. This is why I'm like truth, truth first, right? You just have to get the truth to start to unwind from this in step into your true self.
So is that person really toxic? Or are they mirroring to you something within yourself? And if you're brave enough to go on this journey, you will reach a point of freedom that you never ever thought possible. True power and mastery is to be able to stand in the midst of the storm. steady and strong in your power. This isn't a fake it type of thing. Let me forget let my ego be strong. Oh, I'm going to Will my way through it. It's a solid energy that resonates from the inside out. Our goal is to get total trust in the past power of creation within you. We can't even really define it. I have attempted to define the truth, but it goes beyond our comprehension. We know that there is this intelligence that shapes life, it shapes everything, we know that our body continues to breathe, we know that our body is a beautiful machine, we know that there is something else out there, Einstein talked about it. And he considered it beautiful and powerful. Geniuses talk about it, they get their inspiration from it. That's where that word comes from, from in spirit inspiration.
And so this is within us. And if we start to practice turning inward, instead of just reacting to everything outside of us, including toxic people, then we begin to step into true power. And the truth is the thing that sets us free, because if what we believe creates everything, then it's going to create more toxic people. That's why just getting away from them, or removing them from your life may give you a momentary sense of relief, right? Like, okay, I've let that friendship go, or I've let that person go, or I'm out of that job. But what if you sought the truth, got rid of the bullshit beliefs, and was in that situation on touchable? And then that's your feedback. And then as you shift, the situation shifts, now you might still get a new job, or you might still lead the person, maybe that's your guidance afterwards. But what if you stood really strong,
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and you quit giving people the ability to make you feel bad? Isn't that more powerful. There's an ancient writing that talks about this. And it says, Greater is the person that has mastered their mind than the person that has conquered a city. The conquering of the city is outside, ego, right? If you've mastered yourself, and you are creating good things, the conquering of that city doesn't even touch your life. This is how this all works.
So everyone's creating so we participate in constructs, social constructs, individual constructs. But we're on a journey to get out of the beliefs that are constrictive in limiting, including toxic people. So watch as you begin to get truth. And I'm going to give you a quick little treatment too, because I think it's really important that we know what to do or say, and we, we can bless everybody talks about karma, right? And so if you run into somebody in the room to you, or something happens to you, what can you do in that moment? I would say to them, I bless you and turn you back over to the truth within you. And may you have the truth rise within your soul for your freedom, I send you love, and I see only love now. And that person could be acting crazy in front of you. And you could say, but that's not realistic Claudette. Well, if you go back to what you believe creates everything that you experience, it might not shift immediately. But if you say it over and over, every time you think of them every time that they have ever hurt you or said something, work situation, every time it happens, I bless you, I turn you back over to the truth within you. And may the truth you need rise in your soul for your freedom. And I send you love. And you could even add, I release you. I release you because when we give someone our power by participating in the energy of that toxic behavior, we have a belief they have a belief it's in frequency, we're participating kind of farms an energy connection. And then that starts to drain our power. This is how it works.
Everything is electricity. Everything is and so why would we want our power drained? We gotta stop doing that. So we start to step out and master who we truly are. I asked you to test this. You don't have to believe what I say but test it for yourself. Everything that I share is demonstratable. There might be a moment that you have to keep doing it and you're not seeing The results right away. But I say don't give up. Because everyone that I've ever worked with looks at this, they try something, they bless someone they send love to someone, you can even say, I see only love from them. And I only give love to them. Because there is a divine love that covers all of the scripts. It covers all of that, and all of the lower thoughts, all of the lower thinking. It is the most powerful force ever. And don't forget to ask for the truth. And then that toxic situation may just be inserted into another area out of your life, it might just go away and dissipate. Or they could actually shift and change. I've had that happen with a client I was working with. She was kind of impossible. And I was like, Why did I agree to work with her? This was years ago. And I was having to deal with her work with her. And finally, I just kept sending her love and going I only see God and you only see love with you. And then I remember one day she called me up and she goes, You know, I haven't treated you well. And I was like oh how so what what do you mean by like, like, I
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didn't know, it's because I've been kind of rude to you, I want to apologize, you've been nothing but professional. It took about a month, or a month and a half to get to that point. But every time I interacted with her, I just did that. And I was like I refuse anything else. But this, this is what I expect to begin to show up in my presence, because I'm not going to allow anything else. And when she shifted, I was like, I've grown. I've I'm starting to get this right. And there's no better feeling than that. So think about everyone in your life that could be it could be a toxic situation.
And I do want to comment one little bit on narcissism. If you are in a relationship to where you you have beliefs that are in frequency to allow a narcissist in your life, it is probably best to leave that relationship, cut it off, it's can't be friends with a narcissist, don't even try it. And then get the truth on what you believe that allowed it because what will happen as you seek truth, you will never allow that or track that back into your life. And so that's very important. But I say leave it. Because obviously you have beliefs that are in frequency of it. And it's easier to get healed in whole from a distance with that, because that type of thing pulls you in and manipulate you so much. And so recognize that always seek the truth, and you're helping yourself in them. When you send love to someone and they say I send love to you and to myself. It ignites within both of your souls. And there's an awakening that happens at a very deep level. It's a subtle way to change what is happening in your world, in the world as a whole. Because Can you imagine if everyone got truth on what they believed, and they begin to create really positive things, the massive effect and change that would have in this world, and it would even affect the people who intend to do bad things in the world, it will begin to shift them because no power is greater. The truth has no opponents and love has no opponents. There is nothing that can stop it. There is nothing greater than it. And it is the power of the universe in you. And that is who you really are.
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