Destination: I Do - The Real Reason We Date We are talking about dating and the purposes behind it. This is important to us as we are looking for relationships. Dating is to see if they are the person you want to marry. If it is anything less, we fall into some nasty problems. This is why dating shouldn't be a casual pastime, but a purposeful journey to find a life partner. We are going to explore the pitfalls of aimless dating and how to avoid them. Eternally Casual Dating Dating casually is a ...
Mar 13, 2025•7 min•Ep. 257
Too many men are acting around women and it hurts them from making a real connection. Today we provide actionable advice on building genuine emotional connections with women. We are going to talk about the 2 secrets to making real connections with women: being genuine and emotionally powerful. Real men have passion and aren’t afraid to express it. Passionate men are always more attractive Passion isn’t a personality, it is a man who has strong feelings and can connect with them to be a more powe...
Mar 11, 2025•9 min•Ep. 256
Stop Guessing: 3 Proven Signs She's Right For You. Are you wondering if she's "the one"? In this episode, I share the first 3 things I looked for in my wife, Emma, to know she was right for me. These aren't just abstract ideas, but practical steps based on my own experience. Let's dive in! #1: Same Faith Foundation Faith is central to everything. Explain how a differing faith would create significant challenges. “Missionary dating" and why it rarely works. “I can change her” is a dangerous minds...
Mar 06, 2025•11 min•Ep. 255
Have you ever felt like you're trapped in a relationship where you're constantly walking on eggshells? Where 'love' feels more like a hostage situation? Today, we're exposing the hidden traps, the subtle signs that the woman you're with might be toxic. The Siren Myth: Creatures luring sailors to their doom. 1 - The Cling Factor "Velcro Love: When 'Need' Turns into a Noose." Extreme dependency: Constant calls, inability to make decisions, emotional meltdowns. Initial appeal vs. long-term burden. ...
Mar 04, 2025•13 min•Ep. 254
On today’s show we are are helping you identify unhealthy relationship dynamics and red flags. We do want a woman who is into us, but it can cross a line in a weird way and set up some bad relational issues. She Wants You to Complete Her There is a danger when a woman expects you to fulfill her emotional voids. If she wants you to be the one to ‘complete her’ ‘fix her’…RUN! This attitude has short-term appeal but brings long-term damage. She Treats Other People Like Trash How does she treat thos...
Feb 27, 2025•8 min•Ep. 253
In this episode, we explore the biblical basis for men leading spiritually in their homes. We focus on servant leadership and the importance of men taking responsibility within the family. What does it mean to be the spiritual leader of our homes as men? Many men today struggle with understanding and fulfilling this role. The truth is God designed men for spiritual leadership, and we'll explore what that looks like. Understanding God's Design Genesis & Creation Distinct Roles Biblical Founda...
Feb 25, 2025•12 min•Ep. 252
We live in a world bombarded by unrealistic portrayals of relationships, often fueled by rom-coms, influencers, and reality TV. These portrayals can create unhealthy expectations, leading to disappointment and relationship struggles. Today, we're diving into these unrealistic expectations and how to shift to a healthier, God-centered perspective. The "Fixer-Upper" Fallacy: The idea that a woman will magically solve all your problems is a dangerous myth. She's a person with her own needs, dreams,...
Feb 20, 2025•8 min•Ep. 251
A thriving marriage requires active effort. This episode explores practical ways husbands can rekindle the flames of love and connection with their wives. I. Spiritual Foundation: Praying for Her Living It II. Nurturing Emotional Connection: Speak Life Understanding Her Love Language Honoring Her III. Physical Intimacy Beyond the Bedroom: The Power of Non-Sexual Touch Key Takeaway: Rekindling the marriage fire requires intentional effort, prayerful support, and a commitment to understanding and ...
Feb 19, 2025•12 min•Ep. 250
What to do if you’re afraid of asking a girl out. Fear of asking a girl out is a universal feeling for men everywhere. You can't expect not to feel fear, but you can do some things to increase your confidence. When you do this you will have the courage to move ahead in spite of your fear. God designed men to lead women- that means we need to take the first step- even when we are scared. Here are a few tips to help you when you want to ask a woman out. Make a basic outline. Know what you like abo...
Feb 13, 2025•11 min•Ep. 249
How do you find the right woman for you? This is a question many men struggle with. However, they often focus on the outside stuff instead of the inside stuff. To find the right woman, we have to start by understanding a few key things that we will talk about in today's video. Understand the purpose of dating - Dating isn’t an end to itself - It is a means to an end - Relationships and ultimately marriage Be the Real You - If you aren’t authentic, how can you attract an authentic woman? - This m...
Feb 12, 2025•10 min•Ep. 248
Sorry for the mix-up when this episode was originally released! Here is the right version. Don’t be afraid of women Putting yourself out there regarding relationships with women can be intimidating. It always has been but it doesn't have to be. As men, we want to fight against the fear that leads us to the two extremes of relationships many men deal with. Avoidance Don’t avoid the girl you like. You need to know the person and know you like them, not just the idea of them. The only way to get ou...
Feb 07, 2025•10 min•Ep. 247
Why Men Should Lead in Relationships Today we are unveiling a new process for the podcasts. We are switching to shorter segments that are more focused. We made the change after getting feedback about what works best for many of the men in the audience. David and Reese will each do a show for around 8-10 minutes each week. They will be focused and easy to connect with on a busy schedule. We are starting by focusing on relationships. Men should be the leaders in their relationships with women. Dav...
Feb 04, 2025•9 min•Ep. 246
Today’s show talks about the power of community in our lives. Many men are struggling in life because they don’t have a community of like-minded men who are there to challenge them and help them. We discuss why we need other men in our lives and some community options you have today. Communities can help us overcome challenges, achieve our goals, and celebrate our successes with us. The Power of Community: Why You Need It The Lone Wolf Syndrome The lone wolf syndrome of men and why we often try ...
Jan 29, 2025•28 min•Ep. 245
Welcome to the Thriving Man Podcast, where we help you build a thriving life and conquer your everyday chaos. Today, we're diving into the 21-Day Core 4 Challenge, a practical way to jumpstart your personal growth and create lasting change by making the core four areas of your life regular habits. The key to living what you value is to systemize the core areas of your life. We discuss what that looks like as we discuss the motivation behind the 21-Day Turnaround. Why the 21-Day Turnaround Challe...
Jan 22, 2025•30 min•Ep. 244
Helping you Build a Thriving Life and Conquer Your Everyday Chaos This week, Reese and David share stories about their journeys of self-discovery, realizing that true success comes from within. Their focus this week is how personal growth is essential for a fulfilling life. They preview the four core areas of personal development and how inner work can lead to a practical strategy for building a better you. Inside Out: The Common Denominator in every area of life is You The Myth of Outward Succe...
Jan 15, 2025•25 min•Ep. 243
In this episode, we'll discuss how false promises can damage our self-respect and personal growth, and how the 21-day turnaround can change the narrative. We'll also explore the importance of self-trust and practical strategies for building positive habits. Today's episode will cover: The impact of broken promises on self-esteem, motivation, and anxiety How repeatedly breaking promises can lead to a cycle of self-doubt and procrastination The 21-Day Turnaround: a jumpstart to progress and self-r...
Jan 08, 2025•25 min•Ep. 242
In this episode, we discuss the importance of the relationships between men and women. We talk about how focusing on one woman, being a student of her, and going on a journey of discovery together can lead to a more fulfilling relationship. Main Points Focus on one woman: Don't try to understand all women. Instead, focus on understanding the woman in your life. This will help you build a stronger relationship with her. Be a student of your woman: This means taking the time to get to know her for...
Jan 01, 2025•30 min•Ep. 241
Learn how to navigate the holiday season with grace and gratitude. Discover practical tips for managing stress, coping with negative emotions, and cultivating a positive mindset. In this episode, we dive into: Developing strategies: For maintaining gratitude during challenging moments. The Power of Gratitude: A powerful tool for managing stress and improving mental health. Practical Tips for a Grateful Mindset: Learn actionable strategies for shifting your perspective and cultivating a more posi...
Dec 25, 2024•28 min•Ep. 240
Learn how to incorporate gratitude into your daily life. Discover practical methods, frequencies, and settings to foster a heart of thankfulness. Are you truly living a life of gratitude, or simply saying you're grateful? While gratitude is a noble attitude, it can often take a backseat to the hustle and bustle of daily life. Let's explore how to intentionally cultivate gratitude through daily rhythms. Building Your Gratitude Rhythms To truly embrace gratitude, we must actively choose it. This i...
Dec 18, 2024•31 min•Ep. 239
Being present is easy to say but hard to implement. As men, we love to solve problems and get things done. This often causes us to be somewhere else in our heads when we are with people, which can damage our relationships and our work abilities. If we are somewhere else in our brains, we will often miss things in the moment. Being present is a skill we can practice and improve. It’s not something that is only for those who have that ability. We can all practice it and improve at it. When we beco...
Dec 11, 2024•31 min•Ep. 238
We had a mix-up on the first release, here is the right version. Gratitude is something people talk about, but putting it into practice is difficult. Plus, many people talk about it in a “touchy-feely” way, which throws us off as men. The reality of gratitude is something we need in our lives if we want to thrive. In this week’s show, we discuss gratitude, what it is, and some of the pitfalls that keep us from developing a grateful attitude in our lives. Gratitude is cultivating an awareness of ...
Dec 04, 2024•31 min•Ep. 237
What motivates you in life? What helps you have the energy and perseverance each day to keep going? We all have different motivations. Some are selfish, and some are altruistic, but they often come down to our values. What we value will ultimately motivate us in our lives. We want to do the work to recognize our values so we can focus on them and let them empower us to live a thriving life. On today’s show, we discuss how values direct our lives and keep us from getting distracted or off course....
Nov 27, 2024•28 min•Ep. 236
What good are values? How do they help us in the everyday chaos of life? That is what we are talking about on the show today. We will discuss how values are essential for us as we navigate life. Just like a compass helps sailors arrive at their destination, values guide us to live empowered lives. This means each day can be rich and full of meaning no matter what you do for a job or how many tasks you have to accomplish. Values Help Us Live Focused in the Chaos of Life Values can act as a compas...
Nov 20, 2024•31 min•Ep. 235
Samwise Gamgee was an iconic character in the Lord of the Rings series. He was an everyday gardener who was put into some unbelievable situations. The amazing thing about Sam was that he didn’t let the good or bad situations change him. He had a strong identity and stuck to it no matter the situation. Many men today are facing an identity crisis. This is due to their lack of foundational values. When a man has strong values, he will often have a strong identity. He can stand up in hard situation...
Nov 13, 2024•29 min•Ep. 234
Core strength often involves our abs and whether we are exercising. However, we want to discuss a different type of core strength in this week’s show: Inner Core Strength. This has nothing to do with abs but has everything to do with your Values. When a man has values and seeks to live by them, he is stronger in every area of his life. When a man ignores his values, he will live a weak life of following others. Join us as we focus on values and why they are so important to men today. Society has...
Nov 06, 2024•28 min•Ep. 233
As men, we tend to go to extremes in different areas of our lives. This can be a good thing when applied appropriately, but many of us struggle with different types of extremism in our everyday lives. On today’s show, we discuss some of the common extremisms many guys struggle with. These are simple attitudes that can hurt us as we try to build a thriving life. We also give a simple attitude adjustment near the end of the show to help you fight against extremism in your life. If You Can’t Do Som...
Oct 30, 2024•29 min•Ep. 232
Discouragement is easy to fall into in our society today. With the rise of social media and worldwide connectedness, we often find examples of guys who do things better than us. This means we have to fight against it actively. If we aren’t careful, we can fall into a place of discouragement where we stay busy but don’t live purposefully. On today’s show, we discuss the cycles of discouragement and why we get to this place. As we recognize the mindset, we can begin to fight against it. The Suck C...
Oct 23, 2024•31 min•Ep. 231
The lone wolf man is a persona that isn’t real. When you look at most movies about lone wolf men, they have a pretty sad life. Sure, they could kill people and win the day, but at what cost? There is also the reality that none of them became great warriors alone. The movies will often show a backstory where they had a guide train them for their adventures. Too many men think they have to battle everything in their lives alone. They see it as a sign of weakness to ask for help. We want to show ho...
Oct 16, 2024•31 min•Ep. 230
On today’s show, we are talking about the reality of fatherlessness. Many men grew up without a father in the home, in a stepdad situation, or in a bad example of a father to follow. The men who grew up like this often don’t realize what they are missing because it wasn’t there. We discuss the reality of fatherlessness and how it affects men, their families, and society. This discussion can help men discover what they can do to build up the barren areas of their lives that fatherlessness causes....
Oct 09, 2024•36 min•Ep. 229
”Defense wins championships,” is a saying we often hear in football, but what about life? Should we live on defense or should we have an effective defense? Today’s show discusses defense and how there is a good side and a bad side to defense. As men, we should have a good defense but not live on defense. Society encourages men to live on defense today and too many are doing it. Let’s dive into what it means by looking at an Active Defense vs a Passive Defense. Active Defense Intentional Guard yo...
Oct 02, 2024•35 min•Ep. 228
