Do signs of aging on your face or body concern you? Do you feel pressure to stay looking a particular way (as in, forever young)? If this is resonating, then you, my dear, are not alone. In this episode, I’m breaking down different aspects of the aging process (it’s more hopeful than you think!) and giving you some ideas on how you can age gracefully and gratefully because when you really get down to it, it is a privilege to age! Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/448 Learn...
Oct 18, 2022•23 min•Ep. 448
Today I’m sharing a fascinating conversation with Rikki Cloos. Rikki is a writer and content creator with a captivatingly authentic passion for attachment healing. She shares insights and stories about anxious attachment from her own life: How anxious attachment behaviors can damage relationships, how you can stop those habits with work and understanding, and why it can make it so difficult to set healthy boundaries if you are prone to being anxiously attached. Read the show notes for today's ep...
Oct 13, 2022•39 min•Ep. 447
Are you a natural-born helper? Are you someone who is always willing to lend a hand or advice even if no one asked? Does it feel like your helping is on auto-pilot or even compulsive? Do you ever wonder if there are times when helping maybe…isn’t that helpful? In this episode, I’m breaking down what constitutes unhealthy helping. You’ll also learn what you can do so you can get back some of your bandwidth and increase your potential for intimacy and authentic connection with the people in your l...
Oct 11, 2022•22 min•Ep. 446
Today I’m sharing a girlfriend jam with one of my BFFs Danielle LaPorte. She shares how changing your perspective on yourself can help you become more loving and how tending to your body and nervous system can be a spiritual practice. Plus, Danielle shares why now was the perfect time to release her new book, How to Be Loving: As Your Heart Is Breaking Open and Our World Is Waking Up. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/445 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.f...
Oct 06, 2022•37 min•Ep. 445
Do you react strongly to bright lights, crowds, loud places, or too many stimuli? Do people ever tell you you’re too sensitive? How about high maintenance? You might be a highly sensitive person. A highly sensitive person (HSP) is someone who has an increased or deepened central nervous system with extra sensitivity to physical, emotional, and social stimuli. In this week’s episode, you’ll learn strategies to up your comfort level in all areas of your life so you can thrive! Read the show notes ...
Oct 04, 2022•20 min•Ep. 444
I had the pleasure of inviting acclaimed podcast host and author Jay Fantom on for today’s episode. We chat about how he found his passion for storytelling as a curious child, the inspiration behind his new book The Path of an Eagle , and the necessity for persistence in pursuing your dreams. Plus: We bond over the special sense of purpose that pets can bring to our lives! Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/443 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Sep 29, 2022•35 min•Ep. 443
When you think about a narcissist what comes to mind? Do you think of the life of the party bragging about their accomplishments to anyone who will listen? Or someone out there seducing people with their considerable charms only to torture them once they are caught in their narc web? In this episode, you’ll learn the top 10 signs to help you spot a covert narcissist, because this personality type can be even trickier and more insidious than the overt narc. This kind of narcissist might be flying...
Sep 27, 2022•21 min•Ep. 442
Today I’m sharing another girlfriend jam with Ophira Edut, who is one half of the AstroTwins along with her sister Tali. Since we talked last, Ophira and Tali have been busy: They released a new book, What Sign is Your Relationship? as well as creating the Amazon Prime reality show “Cosmic Love.” In this chat, Ophira shares some tips for navigating your relationship with the help of astrological charts and past life knowledge. Plus, I share my very own insights from a past life reading about my ...
Sep 22, 2022•33 min•Ep. 441
Have you ever described yourself or someone else as having OCD? I recently had someone write to me about their “neat freak” partner, referring to them as having OCD, and I was like…hold up. Not everyone who likes things orderly has obsessive-compulsive disorder, yet it’s a term that gets thrown around lightly. It is much more complicated than excessive hand washing or checking that the stove is actually off. In this episode, I’m covering the differences between obsessive-compulsive disorder and ...
Sep 20, 2022•21 min•Ep. 440
I have an especially exciting girlfriend jam to share today with my pal LeAnn Rimes! She’s an incredibly talented artist as well as an amazing person. She first became known for her country hits, and she could have rested on her laurels, but she has never stopped challenging herself in her creative work and personal development. We chat about managing the anxiety that comes with creating passionate, disruptive work. Plus, she shares the story behind her new record, “God’s Work,” and the single “...
Sep 15, 2022•35 min•Ep. 439
Do you ever find yourself exhausted and you’re not sure why? Do you ask yourself, “Why am I soooo tired?” often? Emotional energy leaks can drain us of our vitality and leave us physically exhausted, compromising our quality of life. Listen now to learn how to identify and fix energy leaks that might be sucking your precious bandwidth dry! Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/438 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Sep 13, 2022•22 min•Ep. 438
Do you ever scroll social media and think to yourself, “Wow, there’s never anything but bad news?” Well, today’s guest ione butler was tired of the exact same experience. She created a platform called Uplifting Content to share the kind of content that she wanted to see, including inspiring stories of human kindness and advice about healing and self care. Today, we chat about why good news is so important and how sharing your story with others can prepare you for positive change. Learn more abou...
Sep 08, 2022•31 min•Ep. 437
Do you ever wonder how you’re doing when it comes to boundaries? Healthy boundary setting is a lifetime skill and that means it takes practice. Our boundaries continually evolve throughout our lives and our relationships, so even if you feel like you’re already a boundary boss, it’s great to take an inventory every so often. In today's episode, I'm breaking down the five different types of boundaries and walking you through how to do a boundary inventory so you can see where to focus your attent...
Sep 06, 2022•21 min•Ep. 436
Dr. Perpetua Neo (Or Dr. P, as I like to call her) is the author of the fantastic workbook This Is What Matters: A Step-by-Step Workbook for Identifying Your Values, Priorities, and Path Forward after a Crisis . In this interview, she shares how she left an abusive relationship with a narcissist. We also chat about vulnerability, over-functioning, and resetting your brain through meditation to make sure your higher self is in charge. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/435 L...
Sep 01, 2022•29 min•Ep. 435
When you get into a new relationship, do you ever make assumptions that the other person has the same morals, values, and integrity as you… …without having a conversation about those things? Do you think healthy relationships just develop naturally on their own? If this is you, you’re not alone. These are some of the most common pitfalls we can hit early in relationships, that is, unspoken assumptions + lack of communication around boundaries. In this episode, you’ll learn the top 5 most importa...
Aug 30, 2022•24 min•Ep. 434
Today I’m sharing a fascinating conversation with therapist Cathy Adams, who recently published the book Zen Parenting: Understanding Ourselves So We Can Take Better Care of Our Children. Whether you have children, plan on having children, or even just know any children, this episode is for you. She teaches us how to prepare kids for the real world in a holistic, loving way, while managing your own fear and uncertainty about the future. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/43...
Aug 25, 2022•34 min•Ep. 433
When you and your partner come together at the end of the work day what’s the first thing you do? Flip on the TV, check email, or hop on social media? Do you ever feel like your connection has become an afterthought? What I’ve seen in more than 25 years as a psychotherapist is how very easy it can be to take our people for granted. Cultivating lasting love is a daily practice. If you seek a deeper connection and more intimacy with your lover, this episode is for you. You’ll learn some tips and s...
Aug 24, 2022•23 min•Ep. 432
In this episode I’m going to be talking to Doug Bopst, who was arrested when he was 20 years old and sent to jail for possession of a large amount of weed with intention to sell. Since then, he has become a successful personal trainer, author, and podcast host. His mission is to inspire others to overcome their own adversity, whatever it may be. He shares his inspiring life story and reminds us to reflect on how we can take responsibility for our actions and their consequences, even in difficult...
Aug 18, 2022•29 min•Ep. 431
When you’ve repeatedly been hurt by someone and you share it with others in your life do you ever hear things like, “Well, you probably provoked them” or… “You can be really sensitive” or… “Maybe you just took it the wrong way” or… “I’ve never had a problem with them” or… “Aren’t you being a bit of a drama queen”? These reactions are the opposite of supportive. If it happens often, you need to learn how to protect yourself with boundaries from others who (whether they realize it or not) are cont...
Aug 16, 2022•22 min•Ep. 430
When I called Niyc Pidgeon for this interview, I thought we would be talking about productivity and positive psychology. Instead, when I asked her about the work that was really energizing her lately, her answer surprised me: She’s writing a book about suicide prevention. What’s more, she finds hope and joy in writing about it — even though suicidal behavior has heavily impacted her own personal life. We discuss the ripple effects suicidal thoughts and behaviors can have on communities, tips for...
Aug 11, 2022•25 min
When you seek support from a friend or family member about something hurtful someone else did or said to you, do you ever hear things like: “Well, it takes two to tango…” or “You’re too sensitive…” or “You need to let it go…” or “Why can’t you just forgive and forget…” or… any variation of thereof? If there are people in your life who can’t wait to blame you for the crappy behavior of someone else, I created this 2-part series for you. In part 1 of Identify + Manage Abuse Enablers, I’m breaking ...
Aug 09, 2022•19 min
When you seek support from a friend or family member about something hurtful someone else did or said to you, do you ever hear things like: “Well, it takes two to tango…” or “You’re too sensitive…” or “You need to let it go…” or “Why can’t you just forgive and forget…” or… any variation of thereof? If there are people in your life who can’t wait to blame you for the crappy behavior of someone else, I created this 2-part series for you. In part 1 of Identify + Manage Abuse Enablers, I’m breaking ...
Aug 09, 2022•19 min
Be honest: Could you use a little more chill in your internal life? How about being less stressed and experience more joy, more relaxation, and more flow? Well, in today’s episode I’m talking to the perfect guest for you: Kelly Smith, the globally celebrated yoga and meditation teacher who founded Yoga For You and hosts the podcast Mindful in Minutes. Today we’re chatting about the reasons you should consider incorporating a daily meditation practice into your life and how meditation can be acce...
Aug 04, 2022•33 min
I don’t think I’ve ever shared this story publicly, but skin cancer awareness is a topic that is near and dear to my heart (and my nose!). If my journey can inspire even a handful of you to start a new routine of daily sun protection, sharing it will have been worthwhile. If you're someone who knows you should be using SPF when you go out in the sun, but you still don't do it consistently, this episode is for you, my friend, because I don’t want you to experience what I experienced. I’m sharing ...
Aug 02, 2022•23 min
Today I’m excited to share my chat with weight loss expert, author, and creator of the Target 100 program, Liz Josefsberg. When I first heard about her holistic approach to weight loss and health, it made so much sense to me that I took her 10 week course myself! In this episode, we talk about ways to disrupt unhealthy patterns, set new boundaries around food, and target lifestyle goals that you can really live with. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/425 Learn more about y...
Jul 28, 2022•27 min
Are you someone who goes on vacation…but doesn’t actually go on vacation? Are you checking your work messages when you should be present to the folks you are with or the beauty that’s surrounding you? If you're nodding your head yes then this video is for you. You’ll learn why it can be so hard to actually BE away when we’re on holiday - whether it’s a staycation or a vacation- plus some steps you can take to create proactive boundaries so you can actually enjoy your time off! Read the show note...
Jul 26, 2022•19 min
Today I’m sharing a chat with my longtime friend Rob Mack. We’re talking all about love: How to find it ourselves, create more of it in the world, and embody it by searching for a story that is both positive and true. Plus, Rob shares his own meditation practices and helps us understand how we are naturally wired to see problems, and how we can work on reducing that bias. Read today's show notes at terricole.com/423 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Jul 21, 2022•29 min
Have you ever told someone something important to you in confidence, only to find out they told someone else? Are there people in your life you are hesitant or afraid to share your truth with because you know you’ll be judged? In this episode, we are talking about emotional trustworthiness, how to spot it in others, how to maintain it in your relationships, and how to become more emotionally trustworthy yourself! Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/422 Learn more about your ...
Jul 19, 2022•20 min
Today I’m chatting with Allyson Byrd, an expert in entrepreneurship, success, and manifestation. We chat about how creating the life that is true to your inner self today will set you up for financial success in the future. Plus, she shares some tips to help you let go of your learned fear of financial abundance. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/421 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Jul 14, 2022•27 min
Do you identify as someone who is a kind and generous person? Does that sometimes mean you prioritize other people's wants, needs, and desires above your own? It is possible to be kind and generous without self-abandoning! In this episode, you’ll learn why we do this plus the most common signs you might be self-abandoning, so you can up your self-love and begin to take better care of yourself (because you deserve it). Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/420 Learn more about ...
Jul 12, 2022•22 min
