The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
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Send us Fan Mail Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout | Episode 251 In this full episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy get real about something that can happen to anyone in the lifestyle: burnout. Between traveling, attending events, socializing, keeping up with messages, and trying to make the most of every opportunity, the lifestyle can sometimes start to feel more like an obligation than an escape. Dan and Lacy share their own experiences with feeling burned out th...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed| Episode 114 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question from a couple who are curious about exploring the lifestyle but need to keep things private because of their careers. How do you dip your toes in without putting your personal life on display? They share practical, real-world advice for protecting your privacy while still finding community, making connections, and deciding whether the lifestyle is rig...
Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures: Chattanooga After Dark| Episode 250 In this episode, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable weekend at Chattanooga Electric Pleasures! From learning the hard way what it takes to set up their own stage, to appreciating just how much work Dan puts into making the event experience come together, they share the behind-the-scenes moments that made the weekend even more memorable. They rave about the pool parties both days, complete with DJs spinning beside the po...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Full Swap Couple | Episode 113 In this Tuesday Talks episode, Dan and Lacy answer a listener who says he and his wife have yet to experience a full swap because they struggle to find couples where everyone feels equally matched and attracted to both partners. They thought they may have found the right couple, but after getting to know the woman more, he realized he wasn’t attracted to her personality — while his wife is still very interested in playin...
Send us Fan Mail The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins | Episode 249 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the ultimate Naughty N’awlins 101 guide! Whether you’re attending for the very first time or you’re a returning guest looking to make the most of the experience, this episode is packed with helpful tips, personal advice, and insider insight. Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before heading to New Orleans in July, including what to ...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Advice for Trying DP & DVP | Episode 112 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about exploring the fantasies of DVP and DP. They share their best advice from personal experience, including the importance of communication, comfort, chemistry, and making sure everyone involved is relaxed and on the same page. They also talk about why performance anxiety can make these experiences harder to pull off, especially when both mal...
Send us Fan Mail Splash Houston Recap: Dj Booths, Pool Parties, and Dance Floors | Episode 248 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are recapping their weekend at Splash Houston — and it was one for the books! Dan spent a big part of the weekend behind the DJ booth for his first official paid DJ gig, which means he’s officially gone pro! While Dan was busy keeping the party going, Lacy found herself navigating parts of the event solo and feeling a little lost at times — but,...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Play Without Us...Now What? | Episode 111 In this Tuesday Talks episode, a listener shares that she and her husband have a couple they play with regularly — but when that couple recently played with someone else, she found herself feeling left out, hurt, and unsure how to handle it. Dan and Lacy unpack why these feelings are completely valid, while also explaining that unless there is a polyamorous or exclusive agreement in place, their friends didn’t ...
Send us Fan Mail The Sanctuary SLC: Bass Drops, Buffalo & Bad Decisions | Episode 247 In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable trip to Salt Lake City, Utah for the latest Swinger Society takeover at The Sanctuary — a non-monogamy-friendly church unlike anything they’ve experienced before. The adventure starts with a massive 30-hour road trip across the country before arriving in Ut...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Make the Move from Chat to Play | Episode 110 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question about one of the most common moments couples face: how do you smoothly transition from normal “get to know you” conversation into play time? Dan and Lacy share their most practical advice for reading the room, building comfort, and remembering that most of the time, everyone...
Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 3: Mexico, Mischief and Morning Regrets | Episode 246 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy wrap up their Bliss Cruise recap with Part 3 — and this final chapter ends on a high note. After a less-than-perfect excursion earlier in the trip, Dan and Lacy head out for another adventure, this time in Mexico, and thankfully, this one delivers. From the beautiful resort-style atmosphere to the...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: More Than Skin Deep | Episode 109 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a heartfelt listener question from someone preparing for an upcoming swinger cruise while navigating a rare skin condition. The listener wonders how — or even if — they should bring it up with potential play partners and fears it could affect confidence and connection. Dan and Lacy encourage the listener to simply own it with confidence and honesty, reminding them that it’s pro...
Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 2: From Bad Excursions to Backdoor Adventures | Episode 244 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy continue their Bliss Cruise recap with Part 2 of their wild adventure at sea. They kick things off by talking about a beach party excursion from the cruise that, unfortunately, wasn’t quite up to par and left a lot of guests feeling frustrated. But in true Dan and Lacy fashion, they made the...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Community & Events | Episode 108 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy dive into a heartfelt listener question during another edition of Tuesday Talks. Lauren calls in to share that she’s been struggling to find a swinger community near her and feels discouraged trying to find where she truly fits in within the lifestyle. Dan and Lacy open up about how common that feeling actually is and remind listeners that finding ...
Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 1: Networking and Naughty Nights | Episode 243 Join Dan and Lacy for Part 1 of their wildest Bliss Cruise recap yet — a trip they jokingly dubbed “The Anal Cruise” after realizing just how much their adventures revolved around butt play this time around. From steamy playroom experiences on the ship to swapping with another couple, they dive into the sexy, chaotic, and hilarious moments that made this cruise unforgettable. But it wasn’t all nonstop play. Lacy op...
Send us Fan Mail Behind the Scenes of Bliss Cruise with Cruise Director Malcolm | Bonus Episode In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Malcolm, the Cruise Director onboard Bliss Cruise — the world’s largest swingers cruise charter. Malcolm shares the story of how he landed one of the most unique jobs in the lifestyle travel industry and what it’s really like helping manage thousands of lifestyle...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Shots, Safety and STI Risks | Episode 107 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy tackle a listener question that a lot of people might be wondering—but aren’t always comfortable asking out loud. The topic? Trimix shots and whether they increase the risk of transmitting HIV or other STIs, especially if there’s bleeding at the injection site. While they’re quick to remind listeners that they’re not medical professionals, Dan and Lacy break it down in a real, hon...
Send us Fan Mail Once Upon a Time at Secrets Part 2: Poolside Chaos and Party Nights Gone Wild | Episode 242 In part two of their takeover recap, Dan and Lacy are back to break down even more unforgettable moments from their wild week at Secrets Hideaway. From high-energy pool parties and brand-new Motorbunny games turning up the heat, to their mission of meeting and connecting with as many people as possible, the vibes stay electric. Friday night brings a Magic Kingdom twist—but what follows is...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear and How to Prepare for Your First Club | Episode 106 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a listener’s question about preparing for their very first club takeover as a married couple. From what to wear to how to feel confident walking in, Lacy shares her go-to fashion advice—including how to leave your hotel or home comfortably (and discreetly) with a lightweight trench coat over your...
Send us Fan Mail Once Upon a Time at Secrets Part 1: Drag Shows, Day Drinking and Disney Vibes | Episode 241 In part one of this special recap episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners inside the Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida. With a playful “Once Upon a Time” theme that brought plenty of Disney-inspired fun to the weekend, they kick things off by sharing what it was like arriving at Secrets, catching the Tuesday night drag show,...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Let's Talk Test Results | Episode 105 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a listener question about one of the most important — and sometimes awkward — parts of navigating the lifestyle: sharing STI test results. This week, a listener asks whether Dan and Lacy ever play spontaneously without sharing test results first, and what the best way i...
Send us Fan Mail Wild Love Theory with Naughty Gym | Episode 240 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with April and Scott from Naughty Gym to talk about their upcoming book release, Wild Love Theory. April and Scott share the story behind how the Wild Love Theory was created, what it really means, and how couples can begin applying it in their own relationships. They dive into the idea that many people slowly g...
Dan and Lacy tackle a listener's heartfelt question about her first-time hotwife experience after 35 years of marriage. They discuss the husband's emotional readiness, potential jealousy, and the importance of clear communication and safe words. The hosts offer practical advice on where to find single males, how to vet them for genuine connections, and explore the pros and cons of traditional swingers clubs versus resorts for cultivating deeper interactions.
Send us Fan Mail Send us Fan Mail Inside ENM Matchmaking with Victoria Joseph | Episode 239 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with a truly unique guest — Victoria Joseph, professional matchmaker, dating strategist, and founder of Birds of a Feather Matchmaking. Victoria specializes in connecting people within the ethically non-monogamous, open, poly, and swinger communities — and she’s built a boutique matchm...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Left Out in the Lifestyle - When Group Dynamics Change | Episode 103 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, a listener writes in with something that hits a little deeper — he’s starting to feel left out of his group dynamic. He’s being invited to play less and less, and he’s left wond...
Send us Fan Mail Secrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect | Episode 238 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before your first trip to Secrets Hideaway Resort. With the next Swinger Society takeover just weeks away, they’re here to make sure you show up confident, prepared, and ready to have an unforgettable experience. From what to wear and what to pack, to underst...
Dan and Lacy address a listener's question about engaging in unprotected sex ("raw dogging") within the swinging lifestyle. They share their journey, including a pivotal trust-betrayal story that solidified their commitment to condom use, even when tested. The hosts also delve into the complexities and limitations of STD/STI testing, emphasize personal risk assessment, and offer practical guidance on how to responsibly approach the decision to go bare, stressing open communication and normalizing testing.
Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions | Episode 237 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their recent Electric Pleasures Alternative Lifestyle Festival in Atlanta, Georgia — and it was nothing short of electric. From kandi-making meet and greets that brought everyone together, to non-stop DJs spinning everything from dance pop to dubstep, the energy stayed high all weekend l...
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle | Episode 101 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they get a call from Chris, who’s dealing with a frustrating but very real situation — what happens when your period shows up right before a big lifestyle event? He wants to know how cou...
Send us Fan Mail Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen | Episode 236 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Katherine (Katie) Bogen — a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, scholar-activist with over 500K followers, and the debut author of Queering Him. Together, they dive into her new book and unpack the social dynamics between monogamy and the lifestyle. Katie shares her perspective on how cultural...
