I admit I’ve had my share of blunders in my marriage—still do sometimes. But when I get into negativity, disrespect or being undignified, I don’t like how it feels. Today I’ll share the #1 ingredient that allows me to show up as my best self in my relationship. I’ll also give you the key that will unlock the doors to being wildly successful both in your relationship and in your coaching practice. If your prospects keep saying no when you’re making offers, you won’t want to miss this one!...
May 24, 2023•7 min•Ep. 28
We’ve all heard that it’s the journey, not the destination. But what if it’s not? Today I’ll share a surprising context where the destination is actually the important part. You’ll learn the focus that repels prospects, ways of being that enroll clients, the #1 quality I look for when hiring a coach, plus the secret that Laura Doyle has taught me the past 20+ years about the best way to attract clients!
May 17, 2023•8 min•Ep. 27
Do you ever walk away from a coaching session feeling spent? Or at a loss in solving her problem or answering when she’s asking you what to do? I did too, until I discovered what was getting in the way of my client getting her breakthrough. Today I’ll share how to increase your confidence and lighten your load as a coach—and give your clients more breakthroughs while you’re at it!
May 10, 2023•7 min•Ep. 26
As you know by now, my journey has not been so perfect. I was once on the brink of divorce, feeling so lonely, unloved, and unsuccessful in relationships. Today I’ll share why that is now my biggest asset. I’ll also reveal how to boost your confidence in your own coaching so you can provide your clients with even more hope and transformation. You’ll learn how you can bring your personal transformation into your coaching—and how to ensure your own ongoing transformation. It’s not about being perf...
May 03, 2023•11 min•Ep. 25
I’m fortunate to know a LOT of successful coaches and get to study them up close. Today I’ll reveal key practices of the most wildly successful coaches I’ve ever met. I’ll share 3 benefits you have to experience for yourself (including a surprising benefit for your relationship)! You’ll also learn 3 key questions that will help you move toward your vision of the kind of coach you want to be. And the #1 fear that gets in the way of having a bigger impact and magnetizing way more clients. You’ll w...
Apr 26, 2023•13 min•Ep. 24
Do you see your clients’ success as an indicator of your own? If so, you are not alone. It’s a common pitfall, and today I'll share why. You’ll learn to turn that around using this essential practice of successful relationship coaches. And you’ll walk away with plenty to celebrate!
Apr 19, 2023•6 min•Ep. 23
When your client is struggling, do you wonder how good you really are as a coach? Today I’ll share the problem with basing your success on your client’s, along with 7 alternative ways to measure your success as a coach. I’ll reveal practical systems—including specific daily, monthly, and yearly practices—that will empower you with concrete measures of your success. You’ll learn to shift your mindset so you can be a wildly successful relationship coach!
Apr 12, 2023•11 min•Ep. 22
In contrast to last week’s episode on coaching for an organization, this week we’re talking about the benefits of being an independent coach. I’ll also share how you can get support in fulfilling YOUR vision as a coach. Listen now if you’re ready to make a big difference!
Apr 05, 2023•12 min•Ep. 21
What’s the best way for you to be of service as a relationship coach? Today I’ll share the benefits of coaching for an organization and what it’s like compared to coaching for yourself. If you’re still finding your lane, you won’t want to miss learning about this opportunity to expand your reach and make a difference.
Mar 29, 2023•12 min•Ep. 20
What do busy-ness and irritation have in common? Those are telltale signs of avoidance for me. But after receiving coaching for over 30 years, I’ve learned how to address the real issue, which all comes down to taking action. (I’ll also share what happens when I avoid that action.) Today I’ll reveal common signs of avoidance—and the antidote—so you can identify the symptoms and the cure for you.
Mar 22, 2023•12 min•Ep. 19
What are you really getting paid for as a coach? How do you convey the value of what you’re providing? I’ll share the 180° transformation I experienced on a single enrollment call when I was put on the spot about how much to charge for my coaching. This is for you if you’re grappling with how much to charge or want to shift your mindset around setting your prices. Listen now so you too can experience increased prosperity!
Mar 15, 2023•8 min•Ep. 18
On today’s episode, Coach Stefanie shares the fear that struck when she got certified and the clients did NOT start pouring in. How’d she get from there to her client load becoming so full she had to start saying “I can’t” to new clients? From hating the whole idea of sales to becoming a top enroller? Here's how she moved from the masculine approach to making it happen to a more feminine approach, which let things happen effortlessly. The now Senior Coach and Director of Coach Training reveals t...
Mar 08, 2023•32 min•Ep. 17
Coach Julie gets vulnerable about her desperation and embarrassment when things got to be too much and her varnished image threatened to crumble. She gets real to answer your burning questions: How do you get clients? How do you become wildly successful? Here’s how Coach Julie found her purpose—and the courage to actually carry it out.
Mar 02, 2023•48 min•Ep. 16
Relationship Coach Training changed Mila’s life. She was so excited to start coaching, but then her first client said she wanted a different coach! Mila shares how this painful experience transformed her into the well-loved coach she is today, one who is transforming Bulgaria one marriage at a time. And how that ongoing growth as a coach makes her own marriage keep getting better and better too. Listen now to learn Mila’s super manageable approach to becoming a wildly successful coach....
Feb 22, 2023•35 min•Ep. 15
Have you ever wondered “Am I enough? Do I have enough to offer?” My guest, Coach Darlene, did—all the time. That internal dialogue had her frozen in fear. Here’s the one thing that made all the difference in transforming her fear to become a beloved, celebrated coach. And the question she now asks herself, which empowers her to be wildly successful. You’ll also learn how a master coach shows up on every call with every client so you too can become a sought-after coach whom clients never want to ...
Feb 15, 2023•36 min•Ep. 14
I admit it. In the bad old days, I was a bulldozer. While being the girl who could make it all happen seemed to serve me well in my career, it cost me intimacy in my marriage. As it turns out, bulldozing wasn’t the best approach in the workplace either! I never would have known that had I not tried a more feminine approach. I was amazed as I experienced getting into the flow, without striving. On today’s episode of the Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, we’re talking about bringing a feminin...
Feb 08, 2023•10 min•Ep. 13
As a new coach, I was not so consistent. I was afraid. So I experienced firsthand the cost of being inconsistent. Here’s how I turned things around and started to see results. Today I share all about the impact you can have by consistently sharing your story and letting people know how you can help them.
Feb 01, 2023•7 min•Ep. 12
In today’s episode, you’ll discover my secrets to taking brave steps towards my vision and purpose—and what got in my way along the way. Picking up from last week, I share the most important thing I’ve found to help me make the difference I’m called to make. I reveal how you can manage your mind and your actions so you can increase your belief and realize your dream of becoming a wildly successful coach. You don’t want to miss this opportunity to be vulnerable, authentic and courageous. I believ...
Jan 25, 2023•8 min•Ep. 11
Is becoming a successful coach taking longer than you’d like? This question may sound unrelated, but have you also found yourself feeling uncomfortable receiving praise from your coach or mentor? My answers were YES and YES. When I started getting coaching over thirty years ago, I could not receive someone else standing for my greatness. I was so insecure that coaching felt more like criticism at times. But today I can hear what others say and believe and receive it too. This led to success fulf...
Jan 18, 2023•10 min•Ep. 10
I know this sounds weird, but waking up with an alien on my face used to stop me from pursuing my purpose to make the world a better place. Yet somehow, failing on the way to growing a coaching business was a hidden gift I didn’t see coming. In today’s episode, I’ll share how my negative Self-Fulfilling Prophecies hindered my belief in my gifts and robbed me of receiving positive feedback graciously. Now you get a chance to uncover what negative Self-Fulfilling Prophecies are getting in the way ...
Jan 11, 2023•8 min•Ep. 9
How do you leave people feeling about their interactions with you? In today’s episode, I share how impactful such questions have been in my journey becoming a successful relationship coach. How does your way of being with clients compare to who you are with your kids or husband? Mine was inconsistent. I was out of integrity by not practicing what I preached—until I created a practice that changed everything. Today I’ll share the vital practice I was lacking to show up as my best self....
Jan 04, 2023•11 min•Ep. 8
Putting the cart before the horse when building a coaching practice can get in the way of becoming known, liked and trusted in the marketplace. In today’s episode, I’ll share one of the biggest mistakes coaches make when they jump too quickly. I’ll also reveal the secret to attracting your ideal client and becoming trusted. You’ll learn the differences between a lead, prospect and a client. To attract all three types of women so you can be wildly successful, you don’t want to miss this episode!...
Dec 28, 2022•9 min•Ep. 7
Have you ever been at a party or sitting next to someone on a plane who’s interested in what you do for a living? She even seems like your ideal client so you’re getting excited, but you know it’s not the proper setting. What do you do? Or, when a friend is pouring out her pain to you and you really want to help her, how do you handle that? I’ll confess some ways I’ve handled it that I’m not so proud of. I share my mistakes as a new coach and how dearly they cost me so you don’t have to go throu...
Dec 21, 2022•11 min•Ep. 6
When someone threw a stone my way, I almost let it take me down. I wanted to get defensive, but I found a way to be accountable instead. Today I’ll share how such accountability has served me on my journey to becoming a successful relationship coach. You’ll hear how I almost sold out on myself and robbed my client of her own opportunity to be accountable. And what I did to empower myself instead so you can do it too!
Dec 14, 2022•10 min•Ep. 5
On today’s episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, I share what has gotten in the way of becoming a wildly successful relationship coach for me. You’ll hear about the biggest fears and failures on my journey of becoming a relationship coach. Tune in and discover how vulnerable it’s been to break through my fear to become the client and coach I’m called to be. I’ll reveal what I avoid and what I’m no longer willing to let get in the way. I can’t wait to hear whether you can relate a...
Dec 07, 2022•9 min•Ep. 4
Today I share what it means to be a successful relationship coach. But I had no idea what that meant in the beginning. In 2001, when I was working full-time and raising kids while becoming a coach, I was hiding out, not wanting anyone to know my secrets or my struggles. I’ll never forget the day I thought I made one of the biggest mistakes in my career, but I was wrong. It was the best mistake I’ve ever made…
Nov 30, 2022•19 min•Ep. 3
On today’s episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast , I’m coming out from behind the curtain. I share why I don’t want my pain to go to waste and what I did to cause more transformation in my personal life, my marriage and my career than anything else I had ever tried.
Nov 23, 2022•5 min•Ep. 2
BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: YOUR PRESENT AND PODCAST For my birthday today, I have a present for you and every relationship coach who wants to have a more playful, passionate relationship and help others have the same. *Drumroll, please!* Presenting...THE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP COACH PODCAST. Where it’s all about becoming a wildly successful relationship coach without having to work 24/7 so you can prosper, have the relationship you want and make an impact in the world. I’m sharing all my best stuff and ...
Nov 22, 2022•28 min•Ep. 1
Welcome to the Successful Relationship Coach podcast where it’s all about becoming a wildly successful relationship coach without having to work 24/7. So you can prosper, have the relationship you want and make an impact in the world. This is about learning to do less, not more. I’m Master Relationship Coach Kathy Murray and the Creator of Next Level Coaching. I’ve helped thousands of women fix their marriages and hundreds of relationship coaches become successful relationship coaches while incr...
Nov 17, 2022•4 min
