191: "What Do You Do?" - Answering as a Nurse Coach
Episode description
In this episode, Shelby and Laura get real about one of the most awkward questions for new nurse coaches: “What do you do?” They unpack why this question can trigger so much internal resistance, how to move through early identity wobble, and what makes a response truly land. Through honest stories, practical tips, and encouragement, they help you feel more grounded and confident in your unique nurse coaching journey.
Key Takeaways:
- You’re not alone—it’s easier with a partner in the journey.
- The early days of being a nurse coach can feel confusing and vulnerable.
- Ditch the credentials; lead with who you help and how.
- Make your answer compelling enough to invite curiosity.
- Practice saying it out loud until it feels natural.
- Networking isn’t about impressing—it’s about connecting.
- Awkward convos are part of the process. Embrace the cringe.
- Stay open to “divine appointments”—you never know who’s listening.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction and the Value of Collaboration
02:01 – Navigating the Challenges of Being a New Nurse Coach
07:11 – Crafting Your Response: What Not to Do
13:34 – How to Answer 'What Do You Do?' with Clarity and Curiosity
19:02 – Building Confidence in Your Coaching Identity
21:20 – Facing the Discomfort of Networking
24:49 – Why Volume of Conversations Matters
26:12 – Practice Makes Peaceful
30:23 – Normalizing the Cringe
32:28 – Divine Appointments and Meaningful Conversations
36:06 – Taking the Focus Off Yourself
Mentioned in this episode:
NLCA Cohort 4