After a long hiatus, the show is back with a new sound, new episodes, and more dynamic content than ever before! This is my first solo episode since starting season 2 and I am so excited to share all the exciting news with you! From the behind-the-scenes of The Vibe Expo in Hollywood, the official launch of Artistic Edge Magazine, new Toy reviews, and more! Get your drink and let's get into it! Video Version of this podcast is available on Patreon! Links for this episode: Artistic Edge Magazine ...
Feb 19, 2024•50 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I've admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, an...
Nov 03, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 9
I am so excited to bring you a special podcast with the award-winning Kink Educator, published author, and historian, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart! She has also been the Dominant in her poly-house since 1993 with experience in opening up, as well as coming out in the mainstream. Her work as a kink activist has helped to shed light on the relationship structures, and her dedication to writing is not only insightful but walks the line of BDSM, Kink, Sci-Fi, and Erotica. She's an eclectic and amazing human ...
Oct 10, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 8
From BDSM dynamics, taboo kinks, to an extensive guide to An*l play and safety, we get down and dirty in this episode! I've admired Luna's work on the submissiveguide.com , the leading educational resource online for submissives, for years and share her passion for bringing the world of BDSM and D/s to others in an accessible, researched-based, and comforting way. She has written dozens of BDSM guides and just released her newest addition, " Exploring Anal Pleasures: A Submissive's Guide to Anal...
Jul 18, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 7
What happens when you get two queer erotica authors in a room together? Let's find out! In this episode, I welcome Christian Pan, a fantastical sexy-smart bisexual author of erotic fiction based in New York City! Since 2021 he has published 5 novels, 90 short stories, and numerous reviews of erotic fiction & nonfiction. Since 2022, he has been the Captain of the Queer Erotic Content Creators Club, a permanent A Club on Patreon. He is here to chat about the world of queer erotic fiction, from...
Jul 06, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 6
In this episode, I sit down with a special guest and intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton! She is a self-proclaimed "Orgasmanaut..." that travels to the outer reaches of human orgasmic potential to bring back the map to the territory of pleasure and connection. She's here to chat about some of the most common sexual issues in relationships today and how to amplify your sex life! Susan is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovem...
Apr 21, 2023•55 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Are you ready to swing to the other side? Or maybe you are just thinking about it? Whether you want to learn more about the swinging lifestyle to better support others or thinking about opening up your own relationship, Ed and Phoebe Swinger are resources you need to know! They are experts in opening up and getting out there! Not only that, they tell it like it is and give practical advice, as well as insights into what it is really like to be swingers today. They also help to coordinate events ...
Apr 18, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 4
What happens when the girls next door get together to chat about sex, BDSM, favorite punishments, sexcapades, and more? You will find out all about it in this episode! In this episode, I welcome special guest Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries! After living a life putting her sex life on the back burner, she woke up one day and decided to "stop wasting the pretty" and get out there! She created a sexual bucket list and set out to reclaim her sexuality and document it every step of the way!...
Apr 03, 2023•55 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Are you ready to get erotic? Join me with one of the coolest women I have been lucky enough to meet! Eleanor O'Brien is the creator of Stand Up Smut, and Dance Naked Creative. For over a decade, she has helped people tell their stories in a way that celebrates their sexuality, revels in it, explores it, and firmly believes no one should be punished for their curiosity. With an MFA at the University of San Diego, she has done everything from Shakespeare at the Old Globe Theater and auditioned for...
Mar 02, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 2
I am so happy to share this with you all! After a long hiatus, The Submissive Next Door Podcast has officially launched with an all-new season and weekly shows! Guests are lined up, juicy topics are flowing, there is an all-new sound and vibe to the show; and I'm so stoked about it! For the first episode, I am chatting with you about my most requested topic to date! The history and how-to of P★gging! In today's episode, the topics we are going to cover are: What pegging is Where pegging came fro...
Feb 03, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 1
We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what ...
Aug 13, 2022•55 min•Season 1Ep. 41
Let's talk about Libido... in particular, how do we overcome libido discrepancy? (i.e.: when one partner wants more sex than the other.) While we are at it, let's take it a step further and throw parenting, life, and a little kink into the mix! In this episode, I'm going to address an insightful question from a follower concerning how to talk to their partner about the tough subject of getting more sex when one partner isn't feeling it. I also take you on a deep dive into a conflict resolution t...
Jun 27, 2022•1 hr 22 min•Season 1Ep. 40
Are you all as stressed out as I am these days? In this episode, I'm analyzing the science behind stress from the perspective of the Stress Response Cycle, and how our sexuality plays into it. In addition, I'm going to discuss different ways to combat it from a holistic approach, including a thoughtful discussion on how mindful masturbation can be used as a tool to aid in wellbeing and stress managementment. As a bonus, this episode includes a 15 minute Chakra balancing body-scan guided medicati...
Mar 25, 2022•1 hr 31 min•Season 1Ep. 39
Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session! Links for this episode: Book: The Leather C...
Mar 04, 2022•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 37
Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long ...
Feb 04, 2022•1 hr 26 min•Season 1Ep. 38
I am so excited to bring you this very special episode! Big Daddy is here and he opens up about D/s dynamics from a Dom's perspective, maintaining a dynamic during a pandemic while working overtime, favorite scenes, orgasms, consent, and so much more! We also bring y'all on a deep discussion about check-ins, favorite toys, and finding pleasure through rituals. Dismantling stereotypes, one sex-positive conversation at a time! Links for this episode: Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book ...
Jan 14, 2022•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 36
It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill! Links for this episode: Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Journal of Sex...
Jan 07, 2022•38 min•Season 1Ep. 35
I'm back! In this episode, I'll explain my hiatus, what projects are in the works, a new course launching THIS WEEK for others looking to get into podcasting within the realm of sexual education, and we chat about a few topics that sprang up for me while watching The Wheel of Time during a recent TV binge. From polyamory, sexism, to power dynamics I noticed in this Prime TV series that has me left with extremely mixed feelings. Come chill with your friendly neighborhood Submissive Next Door and ...
Jan 07, 2022•50 min•Season 1Ep. 34
QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around :) Y'all send in some of the best, most passionate questions that deserve much more in-depth answers than what I can often convey in a single comment or 1-minute clip. In this episode, I'm going to discuss some questions submitted from fans that range from methods and communication techniques for bringing up the idea of kink to partner, get in-depth about the exciting dynamics of brats and their tammers, and the more therapeutic a...
Sep 25, 2021•55 min•Season 1Ep. 33
The inner mind of an erotica writer is a strange and adventurous place... and when you combine that with a nerdy service sub with brat tendencies, well.. you get an episode like this! 😅 In this episode, we are going to take a trip down the rabbit hole and see what kind of fetishes, kinks (like Acousticophilia and Autagonistophilia), and provocative prose we find! I'll tell you about my newest paranormal erotica, "Dark Heat", the deliciousness I found while researching new kinks to write about, ...
Sep 23, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 32
If you haven't heard, OnlyFans just announced a massive shift in their terms of service that has models, *corn* stars, and spicy accountants scrambling to answers questions. It will no longer be allowing sexually explicit content as of Oct. 1st and creators have until December to remove offensive content that goes against the TOS. Questions like: Where do we go? What happens to all the content that my fans have paid for if I have to delete it all? Will OF refund the fans or will I have to? What ...
Aug 23, 2021•56 min•Season 1Ep. 31
Ok folx, we are about to get downright filthy! In this episode, I'm going to talk about my soon-to-be-released "Mega" BDSM checklist and just how deep into the rabbit hole my research into highly specific and little-known kinks and fetishes took me! I share some of the new ones I am so glad I discovered, then I pull out one of my favorite floggers from my "Toy Trunk" and discuss some favorite uses for it ;) This episode is highly explicit... you have been warned. Check out the YouTube version to...
Aug 11, 2021•59 min•Season 1Ep. 30
It's no secret that fitness and health is a passion of mine! I get asked every so often from my IG and TikTok followers what I'm doing to stay fit. Here is the full overview of my fitness routine each week, lifestyle, nutrition, supplements, and my favorite skin routine for my body! This might be my most vanilla episode ever lol. Peep my YouTube for the video version ;) Links for this episode: Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Kink Workshops,...
Aug 11, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 29
Wow, it has been a minute! I am so sorry for the hiatus, but I am back and with more content than ever! Let's have a gab session about what happened over the summer, and what's in store for all the platforms! I'm going to give you the down and dirty details about our trip to Napa, CA in July and how we incorporated D/s into our travels and experiences. I'll also tell you a funny story about how a submissive, a Dom, and a bartender walk into a winery... ;) Grab and drink and kick back... this one...
Aug 10, 2021•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 28
Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who works with you, mentors you, or engages in a more contractual D/s dynamic, but is not in a romantic relationship with you. Here, I'm going to cover some of the differences, and ways you can incorporate a subtle...
May 22, 2021•33 min•Season 1Ep. 27
This is my 3-week update! I'll cover surgery day, post-surgery experiences, surprises along the way, and how I'm feeling at 3 weeks post-surgery, and how I'm handling my Factor 5 Lidein disorder with recovery. I understand this topic is controversial and only ask for kindness and respect as a human. I do not recommend anyone getting this procedure done without taking the time to clearly think about their options, risks, and potential complications along the way, as well as ensuring they are in a...
May 22, 2021•56 min
In this episode, I cover the amazing subject of masturbation! From making time to feel sexy, how erotic dance can help anyone get into their sexuality, to my personal joy with mutual masturbation! I also talk about some new discoveries such as body sex and creating a kink conversation template (link coming this week!) Finally, I discuss the important consideration of porn literacy! This is a jam-backed episode! Links for this episode: Follow Ryn at https://twitter.com/RynPfeuffer Follow Dodson a...
May 21, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Disclaimer: This is my personal journey with getting a breast augmentation with a lift. I ask for kindness, compassion, and non-judgmental comments. I understand some may not like my choice, but please remember I am a human with feelings. This is a vulnerable topic to many. As a Doctor of Education, I understand the diversity of opinions that exist on this topic. This is a deeply personal journey and I hope it helps provide context into the process for others. YouTube Video Version on my YouTube...
Apr 28, 2021•53 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Wow, it has been a roller coaster of a week! I hit 100K followers on TikTok and inadvertently found myself in vanilla TikTok!? Just what exactly is a service submissive? And let's just chat a bit about the public shaming I experienced as a submissive within the world of social media. I also an update on the launch of the official MERCH shop, and share some updates on my surgery this week. Finally, I share some resources on where to go for courses and additional education from some of my favorite...
Apr 28, 2021•54 min•Season 1Ep. 24
This is the podcast version of the video show & tell on YouTube! I get asked all the time about subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s dynamic. We are always looking out for nods to our kinky side and utilizing under-the-radar tactics to continue practicing our lifestyle 24/7. This is the first part of the short series "Subtly Kinky!" Links for this episode: Twitch with me! YouTube Video Podcast Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)...
Apr 15, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 23
