In this episode, we’re getting real about the dating phase — the good, the awkward, and the eye-opening lessons we wish we had known or seen sooner. From red flags we ignored to the green flags that made us pause and say "I want you", we’re sharing it all. Whether you're dating, engaged, or reflecting on your own journey, this convo is full of honesty, laughter, and God’s grace through every season of love.
Jun 13, 2025•21 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Ever felt like your mistakes disqualified you from love, connection, or purpose? In this heartfelt episode, we’re leaning into the truth that grace isn’t just for the good days — it shows up in the middle of our mess. We’ll unpack what grace really means, how to apply it in your relationships, and why God’s love never stops covering us, even when we fall short. This is your reminder that failure doesn’t get the final say — grace does. Whether you're in need of forgiveness or learning how to offe...
Jun 06, 2025•22 min•Season 4Ep. 1
This weeks begins a new podcast era! Are you ready for it?
May 29, 2025•5 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Hey Bestie Hey! In this heart-to-heart, you’ll learn how to honor your need for connection without losing yourself in the process. We’ll cover: Why quality time fuels your relationships—and when it can become overwhelming The power of personal time for self-discovery, rest, and creativity Practical tips to strike the perfect balance so you can show up fully for others—and yourself Ready to find your sweet spot between togetherness and solitude? Tune in wherever you listen to podcasts! 💌 Got a s...
May 22, 2025•21 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Hey bestie hey! In this week’s heart-to-heart, I’m breaking down the four attachment styles—Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Disorganized—so you can finally understand what’s driving your relationship patterns. You’ll learn: How each style shows up in dating, friendships, and marriage Why your style formed the way it did (hint: childhood vibes!) Practical steps to move toward greater security and healthier connections Ready to discover what’s been pulling on your heartstrings? Tune in wherever you...
May 15, 2025•24 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Hey there, Besties! Are you tired of swiping left and right on dating apps, only to end up with a less-than-ideal match? Do you ever wonder what dating was like before technology took over? In this episode, we're discussing the differences between old-fashioned dating and modern dating styles. Go to https://rb.gy/0q3dag to book your discounted Glow in the dark kayak experience in Orlando, FL (Amazing Date Night Idea!) Go to https://rb.gy/n2bxfj to get your tickets to the fabulous Las Vegas show ...
Feb 16, 2024•32 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Hey there, Besties! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, it's time to start planning a sweet surprise for your significant other. Whether you're in a new relationship or a long-term one, it's important to show your love and appreciation. In this episode, we've got some fantastic Valentine's Day plans and surprises that are sure to make you or a significant other feel extra special. Go to https://rb.gy/0q3dag to book your discounted Glow in the dark kayak experience in Orlando, FL (Amazin...
Feb 08, 2024•21 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Hey there, Besties! Today, we're going to talk about something that's been on a lot of people's minds lately - dating outside your race. It can be a sensitive topic for some, but we're here to have an honest and open discussion about it. Go to https://rb.gy/0q3dag to book your discounted Glow in the dark kayak experience in Orlando, FL (Amazing Date Night Idea!) Go to https://rb.gy/n2bxfj to get your tickets to the fabulous Las Vegas show Mystere (Travel with a bestie and go see it!) Go to https...
Feb 01, 2024•34 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Hey there, besties! Today's episode is all about manifesting, visualization & utilizing vision boards and how they can help you manifest your dreams quickly and efficiently. Have you ever heard of the manifestation method and the visualization method? Well, we're going to dive into the difference between the two and how you can apply them when creating your yearly vision board. Go to https://rb.gy/0q3dag to book your discounted Glow in the dark kayak experience in Orlando, FL (Amazing Date N...
Jan 25, 2024•38 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Hey there, besties! Today, we're diving deep into the topic of peer, partner and family pressure. We all have goals and aspirations, but sometimes the people we surround ourselves with can unintentionally hold us back from achieving them by either pushing too hard or sometimes not pushing enough. In this episode, we'll explore the concept of work ethic and how it can be affected by the pressures we feel from others. How can we maintain focus on our own goals while still being supportive of those...
Jan 18, 2024•32 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Hey there Besties! In this episode, we're going to talk about the 5 love languages found in Gary Chapman's book 'The 5 Love Languages.’ Love languages are the different ways people EXPRESS and EXPERIENCE love. Knowing your love language and the love languages of those closest to you can help you communicate better and deepen your connections. We'll explain what each one means and give examples of how to use them in your relationships. Go to https://rb.gy/0q3dag to book your discounted Glow in th...
Jan 11, 2024•30 min•Season 3Ep. 2
It's not just about losing weight or saving money - resolutions can be an opportunity for profound personal transformation. In this episode, we reflect on our own values and aspirations, and challenge viewers to do the same. Go to https://rb.gy/0q3dag to book your discounted Glow in the dark kayak experience in Orlando, FL (Amazing Date Night Idea!) Go to https://rb.gy/n2bxfj to get your tickets to the fabulous Las Vegas show Mystere (Travel with a bestie and go see it!) Go to https://rb.gy/if5z...
Jan 04, 2024•24 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Need some encouragement? Need a bit more info on where you can find your favorite podcast babes? Tune in to get the inside scoop on 2024 plans and activities on the horizon. Can't wait to share more laughs, truths, and heart stories with you all!
Dec 02, 2023•23 min•Season 2Ep. 12
This month, we go over our plans and things we've learned over the course of doing the podcast as well as what plans God has in store for the podcast and where we are going in the next couple o months. We thank you all so much for the support and love these past couple of years and can't wait for the new changes in the future! Social Media IGs: @tha_strawberrypatch (Podcast) @lexi_sp16 (Simone) @thatfloridachic (Jaz) JTHomesAndDecor.com...
Nov 01, 2023•46 min•Season 2Ep. 11
This month was super hectic and we hope you enjoy this episode. Jazmine met her husband while online dating and gives some stories of her experiences and methods to find your "true love" or to date with intention. Simone also tried out online dating and explains why it probably wouldn't work for her potentially. We will be also be changing the schedule for the podcast as well since our lives are shifting with amazing opportunities to come! Stay tuned and thank you so much for your support and lo...
Oct 20, 2023•45 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Today, we talked about pregnancy and Jazmine became vulnerable in this episode by explaining her viewpoint on pregnancy in her friends lives as well as how she was able to cope with not being able to have children so far and Simone explains how to communicate in a healthy relationship. We also end the podcast episode by answering your questions sent in regarding relationships. Be sure to hear the responses. PCOS sucks but we are in this together! JTHomesAndDecor.com IG: @tha_strawberrypatch...
Sep 01, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 9
This months episode focuses on where the "soft life" started and how we can all adapt to walking in our soft life stage unapologetically. We invite you to experience the ultimate soft life with a little twist- friendship edition! We will dive into luxurious world of boding and growing between best friends. Veggitales has no strawberries lol JTHomes&Decor.com @tha_strawberrypatch
Aug 01, 2023•49 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Today, we talked about overthinking and how it can affect our decision making in the real world with friendships and relationships. Self sabotage and fear are usually the outcomes of these and Jazmine and Simone dive deep into why and how to overcome the overthinker inside of you. If you'd like to order your shirt from the podcast, visit jthomesanddecor.com and check out the podcast shop!
Jul 05, 2023•45 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Today's episode focuses on the fine line between using people and actually building with them in all forms of relationships. As a significant other, are you building with your partner or are you watching them do all the work and soaking it all in? Dive into today's episode to find out if you are prone to using people vs building with them and listen to the stories Jazmine & Simone share on moments of weakness in their lives whee they have been used or used others. Just know, there's forgiven...
Jun 06, 2023•53 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Today, we talk about EQ, IQ, SQ, and AQ. Want to know what those are? Tune into the episode this month! Also, don't forget to celebrate Jaz as her birthday is the 21st this month! Her cashapp is $JazzyCurlXOXO if you want to send her a little love or buy the hoodie and check out the photos accumulated. Listen to find out what hashtag to use on your purchase! Check out JTHomesAndDecor.com to purchase your hoodie and find more episodes to listen to!
May 04, 2023•45 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Todays episode, we talk about the origin of April Fools Days just for the heck of it. Then, Jazmine & Simone talk about a topic that deals with many...alcoholism. They give tips on how to deal with those who over intoxicate themselves on a regular basis and give their take on how much is "too much". Take a listen and tell us your own thoughts on drinking alcohol and how much you drink on a regular basis.
Apr 01, 2023•43 min•Season 2Ep. 4
HAPPY NATIONAL WOMEN'S HISTORY MONTH!!! In this episode, Jazmine & Simone explain different mindsets and mental concepts that women are chained with and need to break. Some generational thoughts need to be broken and Simone gives us a clear formula for apologies in this episode that you just don't want to miss! Listen In!
Mar 01, 2023•40 min•Season 2Ep. 3
This episode is super special! Jaz & Eduardo give insight to their love story and how they met rom dating to marriage. They also give insight into their plans together as a couple and activities they did/will do in the future together. This episode was such a delight to record because Eduardo is completely new to this podcast thing. If you'd like to listen with no ads or breaks, click https://anchor.fm/jazmine-tompkins/subscribe and subscribe to our show! Apparel & Gifts: jthomesanddecor...
Feb 01, 2023•53 min•Season 2Ep. 2
For this episode, Simone & Jazmine talk about love languages and how they relate to their dating lives or friendships. They explain how each relationship type they have, contributes to their love language and the healthiest ways to express your love language to your friends, family or significant other no matter the stage you're in. Jazmine also encourages those that have been abused in their lives by sharing a little of her story and how having multiple love languages or changing love langu...
Jan 01, 2023•33 min•Season 2Ep. 1
This episode, Jazmine & Simone give their opinion on when is the best or worst times to decorate for Christmas, when you should take down your tree & decor and the true reasons why they put them up in the first place. Make sure you listen until the end of the episode because Jazmine surprises Simone with an announcement that will totally change the direction of the podcast that you definitely don't want to miss!! Merry Christmas & Happy New Years everyone! Order your Hoodie: JTHomesA...
Dec 01, 2022•35 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Today's episode, Jazmine & Simone talk about the phrase "bless your heart" and whether it can truly be used genuinely or if there is always a note of stuffiness in using it. Have you ever thought about getting someone a gift card for their birthday or event? Maybe after listening to this podcast episode, you might change your mind too. We also now follow the term S.T.R.A.W.B.E.R.R.Y. when creating the podcast episodes. We want to be giving you SOLID, TRUSTWORTHY & RAW ADVICE by BRINGING ...
Nov 01, 2022•35 min•Season 1Ep. 8
This episode we decided to get a little SPOOKY....LOL We definitely put a bit of attitude into this episode as we talk about 3 different spirits. Tune in to find out what they are. We also dropped some info on our hoodies being released to all our fans out there! We will only have a few in stock so make sure you place your order on October 14th, 2022!! After Hurricane Ian, we also want to extend our prayers for those impacted by it and who are rebuilding their lives in Florida. We are here for y...
Oct 01, 2022•42 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Today, Jazmine & Simone discuss some tips and life events that caused stress and how they both reacted to them including their thoughts on......WEEEEED!!! LOL They also discuss what kind of ways to eliminate stress in this world full of tension everywhere you look. Even if you are a pro at living stress-free, it's always good to her that you are on the right track and that you are not alone! Tune in on Jazmine's IG for a live video on products she uses to de-stress. You'll truly find this ep...
Sep 01, 2022•34 min•Season 1Ep. 6
In today's episode, we explore and converse over what makes or breaks trust and Simone drops a HUGE nugget that you just don't want to miss. We also give you some ways to reach out to us to continue the conversation in case there is a topic you want to hear our view on. Healthy discussions about trust and how to let people into your life are crucial in this world. Be wise as a serpent but harmless as a dove.
Aug 01, 2022•35 min•Season 1Ep. 5
This months episode, we delve into the obvious and not so obvious truths about hair care & how it applies to the dating world as we know it. As Jazmine is no longer in the dating world, she reveals how her perspectives and actions regarding her hair reflect on her marriage and Simone opens up about a time in her life where the hair experience was one that took a "weird" turn for her in her relationship. Since this episode got really juicy towards the end, stay tuned to the next exclusive epi...
Jul 01, 2022•34 min•Season 1Ep. 3