Masculine and feminine Energy

Society states masculine energy is characterized by DOING and achieving and is molded by logic and reason. The feminine is more intuitive, oriented towards receiving and allowing, and characterized by BEING. When these energies are balanced, we experience a greater sense of harmony and fulfillment. Our question is, why can't we see that balance is needed? Me and the Mrs. came across a chart that went over both energies. Take a seat on the sofa and let's have a pillow talk!