In this episode, Vivian is joined by returning guest Ms. Ellis Hendrix for a timely and thought-provoking conversation sparked by Ellis’ recent post on X. Together, the ladies revisit one of the industry’s most debated topics: screening through the reference system. Is it outdated? Is participation an obligation — or a personal choice? They break down the realities of modern vetting and share practical guidance for both clients and companions, including the do’s and don’ts of requesting a refere...
Dec 24, 2025•41 min•Season 6Ep. 126
In this episode, Vivian is joined once again by Paul Cobo of SexyLuxStudio for Part Two of their rebranding series . This conversation dives deeper into the heart of personal reinvention: Who are you becoming—and why? Paul breaks down the emotional and strategic challenges of navigating change, emphasizing the importance of understanding your identity, needs, and values as a woman. He introduces a powerful new framework for defining an Authentic Companion Persona —one that blends your personalit...
Nov 19, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 125
In this episode, Vivian explores three headline-making stories: a Pennsylvania spa exposed as a front for “trafficking,” a former public defender’s dramatic fall from grace, and the shifting policies and politics of sex work in New York City. Together, these cases reveal how law, power, and morality collide in the world’s oldest profession. Vivian also shares her frustration with how government officials continue to use sex work as a political talking point—casting only female sex workers as “vi...
Sep 10, 2025•17 min•Season 5Ep. 124
After 7 years since his first appearance on Episode 37, Vivian welcomes back the ever-insightful Paul Cobo of SexyLuxStudio. They reflect on how much the landscape has evolved in nearly a decade—and why, now more than ever, rebranding is not optional, but essential for any companion seeking long-term success. Paul dives deep into the strategic “why” behind a powerful rebrand, sharing insider tips that are both practical and transformative. You’ll also hear how ChatGPT is becoming an invaluable t...
Jul 09, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 5Ep. 123
Vivian sits down with the brilliant and trailblazing Ms. Isabelle Fox, a former escort from Australia and the founder of Escort Academy - a premier business coaching and mentorship platform for escorts. In this insightful conversation, Ms. Fox shares invaluable strategies for working smarter, attracting high-caliber clients, and maximizing earnings with consistency and finesse. The discussion takes an intriguing turn as they delve into Ms. Fox’s controversial tweet about accepting payments after...
Apr 02, 2025•52 min•Season 5Ep. 122
Vivian welcomes back esteemed accounting expert Eric Polacek of Companion Tax and Accounting Services for an insightful discussion on everything you need to know about filing your taxes this year. Eric cuts through the noise, addressing concerns about potential tax changes under the new administration and offering expert guidance on staying organized for a seamless filing process. And yes— escorts pay taxes like everyone else! Financial responsibilities don’t discriminate, and Eric sheds light o...
Mar 05, 2025•18 min•Season 5Ep. 121
✨ Happy New Year! ✨ Vivian kicks off 2025 with an engaging conversation featuring special guest Ms. Leijla Foss, a high-end Washington D.C. escort and sex work business consultant. Together, they reflect on their New Year’s Eve celebrations and share their personal and professional aspirations for the year ahead. The discussion takes a provocative turn as they delve into a recent D.C. news story, where powerful elites are scrambling to conceal their involvement in a high-profile prostitution sti...
Jan 08, 2025•44 min•Season 5Ep. 120
Farewell to 2024: Gratitude, Growth, and Progress In this final episode of the year, Vivian extends heartfelt thanks to the show’s devoted listeners and generous sponsors, reflecting on the incredible journey of 2024. She shares highlights from Spotify's Wrapped, revealing impressive growth as the podcast continues to reach and inspire a wider audience. Vivian then turns her attention to groundbreaking news from Belgium, now the first country to recognize labor rights and protections for sex wor...
Dec 25, 2024•12 min•Season 5Ep. 119
In this episode, Vivian welcomes Mia Lee , a former Wall Street insider turned escort, for an eye-opening conversation. Mia shares her remarkable journey, revealing the surprising parallels between her start in high-stakes finance, where she worked long hours to survive, and how it is no different from survival sex work. Together, they delve into Mia’s latest venture—launching a financial investment firm tailored to the unique needs of individuals in the adult entertainment industry. Recognizing...
Oct 02, 2024•1 hr 25 min•Season 5Ep. 118
In today’s episode of ‘ TSEGP What’s in the News ’, Vivian examines the long-awaited sentencing of the three Backpage founders: Michael Lacey, Scott Spear, and John “Jed” Brunst. Now in their 70s, these men have been sentenced to prison terms ranging from five to ten years, with an additional three years of supervised release. They have been ordered to surrender to the U.S. Marshals Service by noon on September 11th. Notably absent from the court's discussions was any mention of the trafficking ...
Sep 04, 2024•13 min•Season 5Ep. 117
In this kinky and enlightening episode, Vivian engages in a fascinating conversation with Miami Dominatrix Mistress Mona , the esteemed owner of South Florida's premier professional dungeon. Join them as they delve into the journey of becoming a dominatrix, and explore the challenges of navigating envy and safeguarding one's reputation and livelihood. With her extensive experience and profound insights, Mistress Mona offers a wealth of knowledge as a true veteran of the domination industry. Foll...
Jun 12, 2024•59 min•Season 5Ep. 116
In this captivating episode, Vivian is once again joined by the enchanting Tiffany Elease , straight from the vibrant streets of Amsterdam. The duo delves into a riveting news article detailing an escort's astonishing claim of raking in $34,000 in a single week from Wall Street's elite . But is this extraordinary feat a common reality for escorts or a rare stroke of luck? The conversation then takes a poignant turn as the ladies explore the perilous world of doxxing and its profound impact on th...
May 01, 2024•40 min•Season 5Ep. 115
Get ready to sip some tea as we dive into the scandalous nature of law enforcement in today's episode of The Sexy Escort Guide Podcast! Vivian serves up the tea on a jaw-dropping news story: a police officer caught red-handed soliciting prostitution. Talk about karma coming back to bite! But that's not all – tune in as Vivian unpacks the public outcry. The consensus? Tax dollars down the drain! Why waste resources on consenting adults when there are real criminals to catch? Grab your cup and joi...
Mar 06, 2024•16 min•Season 5Ep. 114
In this informative episode, Vivian reunites with Eric Polacek from Companion Tax and Accounting Services , our esteemed Diamond sponsor. Dive deep as they unravel the IRS's groundbreaking Corporate Transparency Act set to shake the landscape in 2024. Eric masterfully deciphers the implications for entrepreneurs in sensitive sectors like the escort industry, spotlighting the intricate balance between transparency and privacy. Discover how the IRS's strategic moves might complicate matters for sm...
Jan 03, 2024•19 min•Season 6Ep. 113
In this controversial episode, Dr. Julie K, a seasoned Doctor of Psychology, returns for the third time to delve into the intriguing topic of clients and escorts falling for each other, and what to do if this ever happens to you. Uncover the surprising frequency of this phenomenon in our industry and explore the complexities that arise. Discover the secrets behind monogamous relationships between clients and escorts – how often do they occur, how long do they last, and what challenges do both pa...
Dec 20, 2023•35 min•Season 5Ep. 112
Join us in this powerful episode as we commemorate the 20th anniversary of the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers on December 17th, 2023 . Vivian, engages in a heartfelt conversation with the remarkable Ms. Alex Andrews, Co-Founder of SWOP Behind Bars . Dive into Alex's personal journey navigating consensual sex work under criminalization and her unwavering commitment to supporting those incarcerated in the sex work industry. Together, they shed light on breaking down the wall...
Dec 06, 2023•32 min•Season 5Ep. 111
Step into the latest scandalous escort news story with Vivian as she welcomes fellow podcaster, Ms. Ellis Hendrix . Together, they unravel the shocking tale of the Trio Behind Boston’s Illegal Brothel facing arrest, leaving clients and the brothel’s escorts to slip through the cracks of justice. But that's not all! Dive into an intimate Q&A with Ms. Hendrix, offering listeners an exclusive peek into the personality behind the voice. As a bonus treat, Vivian spills the beans on a g ame-changi...
Nov 15, 2023•49 min•Season 5Ep. 110
In this riveting episode, Vivian is once again graced by the presence of the beautiful Ms. Isabella Bloom , who unveils her remarkable ascent to the Top 1% of Onlyfans in only one year. Ms. Bloom graciously shares her personal, effective insights, guiding you on the path to your own success in the OnlyFans world. Prepare to be captivated and have your notepad ready, as this episode is full of invaluable gems. Follow Isabella on Twitter Follow Isabella on Instagram Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com ...
Nov 01, 2023•57 min•Season 5Ep. 109
In this compelling episode, Vivian delves into a recent and significant development in the realm of justice. The episode revolves around the conviction of Jose Torres, infamously known as #JoeyThePlayer , on four counts of persuading, inducing, and enticing women to travel across state lines for the purpose of prostitution. Vivian extends her gratitude to SWOP Behind Bars for their pivotal role in breaking this critical news, and she expresses profound admiration for the courage displayed by the...
Oct 13, 2023•8 min•Season 5Ep. 108
Vivian is joined for a second time by Carly David, the brilliant mind behind the innovative PS Group Creative Marketing Agency . In the ever-evolving landscape of escort marketing, seismic shifts have occurred since the era of Fosta/Sesta and the closure of Backpage. Established advertising platforms have faded into oblivion, making way for a fresh wave of opportunities. But, here's the catch – nothing remains the same. Escorts now face an unprecedented need to craft strategic online branding an...
Sep 06, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 5Ep. 107
Vivian is joined for a second time by Dr. Julie K (Doctor of Psychology). The ladies discuss life after COVID and how escorts can stay sane and cultivate positive mental health practices, in order to thrive and be successful in this line of work. Dr. Julie offers some tips on how to hack your work/personal life balance. Dr. Julie also offers a free 15 minute consultation for all escorts and clients. Book your consultation here Follow Dr. Julie K on Twitter Follow Dr. Julie K on Instagram Recomme...
Aug 09, 2023•31 min•Season 5Ep. 106
Vivian jumps into a breaking news report about Maine becoming the first state to decriminalize prostitution to some extent. She emphasizes that FULL DECRIMINALIZATION is what the industry needs, not the Nordic model, which penalizes customers for hiring escorts. Consenting adults' bodies should not be under the control of the government! News Article: Maine becomes first state to decriminalize selling sex Follow Vivian on Twitter Follow Vivian on Instagram Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com/ Please ...
Jul 12, 2023•15 min•Season 5Ep. 105
Vivian is joined by renowned global companion, Ms. Rachel Smithe . The ladies discuss a controversial tweet made by a well known escort, potentially discouraging escorts from touring. Luckily for everyone, the ladies give plenty of tips on how to tour in today’s climate. Hint: it takes preparation on the front end and strategy! Get ready to take some serious notes! Follow Rachel on Twitter Follow Rachel on Instagram Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com/ Please support the show by joining our Patreon p...
May 10, 2023•56 min•Season 5Ep. 104
Vivian is joined by self proclaimed “ Freestyling Queen ”, Ms. Ty Rose. The ladies discuss Ms. Rose’s new book on freestyling as well as tips on how to freestyle: from where to go , how to pick your target audience , and how to close the deal . Lots of laughs were shared and tons of juicy details divulged . Gems on Gems on Gems!!! Follow Ty on Twitter Purchase Ty’s Freestyling Guide Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com/ Please support the show by joining our Patreon page for just $1/month: patreon.com...
Apr 12, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 103
Vivian is joined once again by Ms. Seductive Storm, a retired escort and the owner of Taken By Storm Web Design and Assistant/Safety Screener for companions. The ladies discuss a recent news article that involved over 200 ‘would be’ clients, getting arrested in a human trafficking sting. They share tips on how to vet your companion before meeting her and how to avoid falling into law enforcement traps. Ms. Storm and Vivian also discuss what it is like to retire from companionship, get a civvie j...
Mar 01, 2023•52 min•Season 5Ep. 102
Happy New Year!!! Vivian starts off 2023 by setting the tone of collaboration for success. She gives 5 tips on having successful "doubles sessions" with your fellow companion. A happy client is a repeat client, which equates to a BIG BAG! Open your mind and be prepared to fine tune your business even more. Here's to a happy and prosperous 2023! Show Sponsor: Companion Tax Please support the show by joining our Patreon page for just $1/month: Patreon.com/TSEGP...
Jan 18, 2023•11 min•Season 5Ep. 101
It’s our 100th Episode!!! This Episode includes a giveaway to one lucky winner who participated in the contest on our social media posts. Listen to the very end for the winner! Thank you so much for supporting the show! Vivian is joined by Ms. Aranea Swat , the founder of the Runhispocketsis platform on Instagram and Patreon and the host of the Runhispocketsis podcast . The ladies read the heartfelt comments from supporters of the show and how it impacted their lives. They also discuss an intere...
Nov 03, 2022•1 hr 47 min•Season 4Ep. 100
Vivian is joined by sensual " whoretastic " sex coach and escort, Ms. Talia Amour. The ladies discuss Talia's exploration of the different modalities of sex work and how that has helped her be a better teacher and escort to her clients. The ladies also discuss the numerous possibilities available to escorts by being in the profession. Very Juicy; very enlightening! Enjoy the show! Follow Talia on Twitter Follow Talia on Instagram Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com/ Please support the show by joining...
Sep 14, 2022•1 hr 31 min•Season 4Ep. 99
Vivian asks ( and answers ), a very popular question usually posed to escorts by their clients and sometimes civilian mainstream society. Do escorts date outside of work? Escorts are not a monolith, and just like the rest of the world, are multifaceted in how they conduct themselves in their personal lives. Some escorts are married, some dating, some single, and everything in between. News Article: Air Force scientist got his ‘really hot’ prostitute a contractor job, court docs show Show Sponsor...
Aug 24, 2022•33 min•Season 4Ep. 98
Vivian takes a deep dive into the basic concept of transactional relationships and how it actually benefits society as a whole. If you have been wondering if hiring an escort is something you should do, be sure to listen to this episode as Vivian gives examples of when it is actually more appropriate to hire a companion/escort and why. News Article: Ex-prosecutor accused of soliciting prostitution in Miami Show Sponsor: Companiontax.com Please support the show by joining our Patreon page for jus...
Jun 22, 2022•19 min•Season 4Ep. 97
