Trust issues from cheating, spiritual signs, clarity on next steps & MORE! 🌙Advice with G#2

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So we've got questions about, you know, if you're not super passionate about your current job and you don't know what to do, and tips on how to go from there. I also chat to another girl about struggles with trust issues in a relationship because she has been cheated on before, and I talk about my experience with trust issues and previous cheating and how I feel about that. We also chat about signs from the universe and how to know if they're like correct or not, and also getting into

a routine and my tips for that. So before we get into our little advice segment, I do want to obviously preface this and just say, you know, I am a qualified life coach and health coach, but I'm not a qualified you know, mental health practitioner, a medical doctor, anything like that. So this is general advice. This is not specific advice, and this is very much my own opinions, So you guys know, this is what this podcast is.

So if you are looking for very you know, specific advice or if any of these topics.

is Kate, the Lovely. Kate said that she loves the podcast and she loves the solo PEP talks and has gotten so much more self confidence and positive energy since listening. So appreciate that, Kate, and sending so much love back. So Kate is asking advice about her job. She explains that, you know, in high school, she did legal studies.

they're just scared of taking a leap of faith. And she's kind of the opposite where she's ready to take the leap of faith, like she's gearing, she's ready to go, but she just doesn't know what is next. She knows that she wants to be flexible with her schedule and do some creative but that is about it. She's like, I love travel, food, learning new things, reading, listening to podcasts, except but she doesn't really see those as career options. So she goes, do you have any next steps to me?

What would you do in regards to looking for a clear path moving forward, particular in relation to job slash career.

So honestly, I think like our next enrollment won't be till mid year, so it's probably not the greatest, but oh my god, you would love the project because obviously I'm going to get into it so much deeper over there. But just kind of brisk on things with the whole saying, you know, I'm interested in adventures, travel, food, learning new things, but you don't think that can be your career, Like that is a limiting belief because you know, just look

at me. I literally started doing health and fitness, doing recipes, all these various things, and now I have a podcast and a natural supplement company. And it's not like at the start, I was like that's what I wanted to do. It was these you know, hobbies and side hustles and passions that led to that. So honestly, Kate, the first thing that comes up for me, and all these advice of G segments are very like intuitive, I'm not really thinking about it. I'm just kind of saying whatever comes to me.

couple of things come up for me. It's like, you know, do you quit your job and just kind of get like an in between jobs so you have more space to figure this out, or do you keep doing your job plus start getting some passions on the side, So you guys know, I, you know, throughout my whole law degree and when I worked at a law firm, I was doing my side hustle, social media, fitness and health

on the side. Yes, it was crazy and I didn't have a lot of time for myself, but I feel like when you have a passion, like you make it work. So it was literally like I would wake up at four thirty, I'd do gym, you know, to get that in there.

think that's so fine to do that and don't. And that's also another thing I wanted to chat on is I want you to really think about if it's important that your job is your passion because I think, you know, maybe you're hearing a lot of podcasts, you're seeing a lot of stuff on social media where these people you know are doing their job and that's their passion, which

includes me. But I always say the example of my husband Tim, who he you know, absolutely loves golf, and golf's all weekend and sometimes during the week and for him, it's like he is so happy to work his job. He obviously works in Naked Harvest, but he's so happy to you know, do his job and then do his

hobby on you know, the weekends. And I remember even saying to him at one point, like, would you want to quit Naked Harvest and you know, be a golf teacher or something like that, and he was like, no way, Like golf is my passion and I think it wouldn't be as fun if it was my job. So he actually likes keeping them separate. And so I think sometimes we just get a bit overwhelmed with everyone on social media like doing their passions, but it's like do you

actually want that? And that's something to get clear on. So another huge thing here, and this is obviously what I teach in my Rise and Conker project, is when we are tapped into our intuition, into you know, when we're feeling aligned and we really know ourselves. And this, you know, for me, I know I'm tapped into my intuition and in alignment when I feel in flow when I'm working when you know, I'm doing my practices of meditation and journaling and I really, like, I feel so confident in who.

me personally, I'm never stuck on this next step. And that's because I'm so tapped into my intuition in alignment that I can, you know, sit there and meditate and might take a little bit, but the next step will always come to me because that is my core belief. I know that when I'm in alignment, when I'm you know, tapped into the most authentic Georgie, the next step is always there because the universe has my back, and that is you know, like, that is my belief and that

is how my life goes. And I'm so certain on that, and so I would love to know if you ask someone who is you know, already tapped into your intuition and really kind of exploring yourself because I think a lot of clarity comes with that one last thing before I move on to the next question. Another little thing to add. And it is kind of hard for me because I don't have the whole story, Kate. But when I, you know, quit my corporate job, I didn't know what

I wanted to do. So I talk about this kind of concept of it's kind of like there was fog. There was fog everywhere, and it's like I can't see the goal, but I could see two steps in front of me, and one of those steps was to quit my corporate job. And even though I couldn't see the end goal, I had to surrender and trust it just

felt right for me. And so that's a huge, you know, intuitive, you know, sort of state, which I know not everyone is in, but for me, it's like when I'm in alignment and flow, I don't even have to see the end goal because I can just trust that everything is happening for me. Everything will fall into place and I've just got to take these next steps.

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the energy and everything is just it is insane. And that's why I absolutely love when we do rounds THET because it is just the most insane container of people where we do that. But other than that. So kind of like with Kate, I'd be using your spare time to tap into your intuition, really getting to know yourself, you know, meditating, journaling, doing those things, other kind of books and whatnot. I feel like I do have a

blog about this, but let me just think. So my favorite manifesting books I love Gabby Bernstein and her books. My absolute favorite book is kind of Yeah, I guess it's a little bit about that, but how to Be a badasst Making Money by Jensen Cerro And yeah, so I would just start with some personal development stuff, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and go from their

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show notes if you want to check that out. But let's get back into the episode, all right, next question Michelle. Oh, okay, So let me kind of give you a rundown of Michelle. So she explains, you know, she's thirty three. Her ex husband cheat on her and really degraded her self esteem. They were together for sixteen years, married for seven and

she's left that relationship. She's got a new relationship that she's been in for a couple of months, and she's just explaining she's having a lot of a lot of issues with trusting him. And she kind of goes she kind of chats about like, you know, he's really amazing. He's so kind to the kids, he's so genuine and such a good man to me and the kids. But she's like, am I seeing him with rose colored glasses?

Like could this actually be true? And so she's like, do I just you know, dive in and see what happens?

much love. The first thing that comes to mind is you really need to work on yourself and your worthiness, because I can even see from this question you said it yourself, like you know your partner, your previous partner, really degraded your self esteem. And what I get from this question is you saying, you know, this man is so amazing and genuine and he's so nice to me.

Can that actually be true? And it's like, yes, Michelle, you deserve a man who treats you right, who's nice to your children, who's like you know.

So I totally understand in regards to having your wall up and just being like, you know, that can't happen again. So again, you know, I'm not a professional, Like, definitely, if you're really suffering with this, I really recommend seeing a psychologist talking to someone about this. You know, I see a psychologist weekly and it's amazing and just to have someone else's opinion is huge, and I think they

could really help you with this. My personal opinion on this is like, yeah, you need to really well work on your self esteem and your self worth because if you don't, I feel like you might like consistently see problems in the relationship. Because also if you think about it from his perspective, if you're there constantly not trusting him, constantly feeling insecure, it's going to be a lot for him where he's.

with being by herself, loving herself first. And I loved it because she spoke about this concept of she's like, I don't even fuck around with dating because you know, like kind of she was saying, guys her age are just like, you know, a bit young and immature. And she's like, if I, like go on a date with someone and I just you know, straightaway, don't get those amazing vibes and whatnot, She's like, I'm not wasting my time.

And she was very much like you could tell like she knew her worth, she knew what she brought to the table, and she was like, you know, I'm a fucking I'm a goddess. I am who I am. And if someone doesn't you know, kind of match that and come up to the table with a lot to offer. Then she's just not going to bother. And I just thought the self worth and yeah, the self worth on her. I was just like, yes, I think every you know, young woman sometimes feels like we have to be in

a relationship to feel complete. And I just really loved how she spoke about it. So Michelle definitely recommend listening to that. And she spoke about she's like, yeah, I'm my own best friend. So that's another thing too, is I think it would be really good for you to work on being your own best friend, working on yourself. So if something was to happen to this relationship, it's like you've got yourself, you've got your kids, you've got yourself.

So my overall advice, because I've been bloody ranting as per usual, is like, I think you need to come to this relationship with a clean slate and not bring the past with you. If you're having trouble with that, I suggest you know, getting professional help, seeing a psychologist, talking to a counselor, because you owe it to you know, this relationship, to show up in your best self. And

when we're carrying baggage from previous staff. We almost can't, and especially you kind of explain that you know, he hasn't given you too much to think that there's any issues. So I think you really need to, you know, show up as you your best self, deal with the past trauma, and like I said, like really work on yourself. And it's like put yourself first, put your kids first, go fully in. But no, if it doesn't work out, that you did go fully in, like your side of the

street was clean. And if it doesn't work out, You've got yourself. You're your own best friend. You're so okay, all right, So quick one from Lah I hope I'm pronouncing that right, La. So she said, what sort of music do you listen to to get into a higher vibe? I'm really struggling to find something that boosts my moods and brings me the best version of her Okay. So I love this question because recently I've just realized how much music really, just like changes my mood. So I

use music most parts of the day. So I have a playlist that I have on while I'm working that you know, helps me be productive. It's kind of like background chill music. I have like a pump up music that playlist. Sorry, that is like when I'm about to work out and it's like old schooled R and B. And then I also have like like kind of when I'm like, you know, pulling tarot cards, journaling self development. I also have a list too, So I am gonna make you guys.

how to trust that they're actually correct. So she has a backstory where her and X broke up in novemb twenty twenty. They stopped talking at the end of December. She didn't really want to break up and really hoped they'd get back together. So she found she's in a bit of a funk in January came across the podcast. She

put in graphic graph of brackets. Wow, life changing, And after listening to some episode, you know, she started journaling and meditating, and so she went she asked for like a sign if she should get back with her ex, and she was kind of thinking of this song, and then this song kept playing and she heard it a couple of times. So she's like, so, my question is

whether this is a sign. My intuition feels like it's a sign, but then my logical brain says it could be trying to find signs because I want to be with my ex.

I trust my intuition. Even from your question, here about your like, oh, my intuition's saying it's a sign, but logically I'm like, oh, is.

know with relationships. It's almost like, yeah, you go through this like back, Like I remember, obviously years and years ago, I was seventeen, so I feel like I don't have too much to add. But when I was seventeen and my boyfriend broke up with me, it took me months to just even get around the fact that he had broken up with me and I, you know, like it had happened like and then now looking back, it was the best thing ever. But I remember wanting to get

back with him so bad. But it's like it was only because I was in that relationship with him for like three years and it's all I kind of knew, and it felt very comfortable and even you know, not even relationships, but you know, self development, Like with self development, before the shit gets good, it's uncomfortable as fuck and you want to stop. You don't want to keep going.

So it's like, are you currently just uncomfortable because you're alone, you're having to do new things and whatnot, or do you actually you know, want to see if the ex is going to work out, because if you know he broke up with you, you didn't want it to happen. I'd be interested to know more of the story. But

it's kind of like, yeah, you need to decide. And also like if you are getting those feelings, like why don't you reach out to him see what happens, you know, I mean, and you might you know, get more of a feel of this situation. So I know that's not really a clear answer, But I do hope that helps Alice and the last question or.

you really need both. So like because you can't rely on motivation with routine because there's always going to always going to have days. So a huge part of my routine is discipline, and after you've done something enough for a certain amount of time, you just you know, that's what routine is called, that's how it happens. So you've got to have that part of discipline where you just get it done and you make it routine. In saying that my routines have to bring me joy, otherwise I

won't continue to do them. So I have this big thing of, yeah, if you know, if I'm going to work out, I've got to enjoy it. If I'm going to you know, meditate, it's got to be with my favorite music, with you know, my scented candles or sage, and you know, I've got to make it enjoyable. So I would say, Josie, like, think of how you can set routines.

an example of this. Actually is recently added a new kind of workout schedule where I've joined a pilates studio and I personally have never been a pilarates fan, but in the Naked Harvest retreat we did last week, we went to a studio called Hustle in Byron Bay, and oh my god, it was so much fun.

But it's because I enjoy it so much. So huge thing for me with routine is making sure there's joy in there, because otherwise, what is the point in saying that? To Another thing that came up for me Josie is realizing that I think you also need to be super kind for yourself, Realizing that you don't have to be

busy all the time. You don't have to you know, have this routine like yeah, like you said you've been in three lockdowns, like it's a weird time for everyone, and I think we all don't need the added pressure of being like I need routine in my life because things aren't normal. Things aren't routine. So also make sure you're giving yourself grace and being like, not hard on yourself and not putting those feelings of guilt. And I should be doing that because they're low. They're low vibes,

and we don't want any of that. We want high vibes. So when we're giving ourself grace and going, look, I'm doing the best I can with what I have right now, it's okay. That is like, yeah, that's where the magic happens. So yeah, I would just also, you know, try various things, see what brings you joy, see what doesn't, and then once you find that, use the discipline to make it

a routine. All right, guys, that is it. I hope you enjoyed the second advice with g If you're listening to this and you haven't listened to the other episode, I will link it. I love answering your questions and it honestly just feels like I'm chatting with my girlfriends.

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