Why You Keep Getting “Almost” Clients and “Almost” Results

Today, we are going to break down the loop that keeps so many people stuck at 90%. The almost sale, the almost breakthrough, the almost momentum, the almost got that client. You're doing so many things. You're investing, you're showing up, you're seeing the affirmations. You're writing your content, visualizing all of your outcomes, and yet the needle barely moves. Or it moves and then it falls right back. Things work and then they stop. You rise and then you crash.

You receive, and then it all just starts slipping away again. And that pattern is going to end in today's episode. So let's talk about why you're caught in the almost there loop. It's your internal operating system. It's your identity. It's the unconscious patterns that we have that say success must be hard. I don't trust it when it's easy. I'm only worthy when I'm producing. If I celebrate this, it might disappear. And these thoughts are just not true, right?

But if you believe them, if your nervous system lives inside of them, then they become your reality. Because you don't get what you want. You get what you're available for. And right now, most people are only available for 90%. They're available for glimpses of success, but not sustainability. They're available for potential, but not for proof. And they don't even recognize it because they're still operating from a past version of themselves that has not been updated.

So I want to talk about identity rewiring. If you're tired of getting these almost there results, then it's time to start. Stop trying to fix everything outside of you. Stop trying to micromanage reality. Stop trying to make it happen. Stop trying to tweak this and alter that and DM this and do that. Just stop trying to fix the external and start upgrading your internal operating system. Because identity is the thermostat setting, right?

You can hustle all you want, but if that internal setting says only almost, then almost is the reality that you're going to get, right? It goes back to, like, whether you think you can or you can't. You are right? So if you think almost, you're going to get more almost. If you think my revenue is not consistent, sales don't flow to me consistently. That is the reality and the thoughts that you're creating. This is why I'm always saying your thoughts create your reality.

But not just the conscious thoughts that you post online or you share on your podcast or your YouTube channel, whatever, but the conscious thoughts that are the micro thoughts. In the, that you think in those quiet little moments. Right. When the payment notifications aren't hitting, when your DMS aren't getting responded, when you post and you're not getting inbound leads. Right.

If you send out your email and you don't get the reaction that you wanted, these are all those micro moments where it's like, who are you being behind the scenes? Right? Right. That is where the real power leaks happen and that is where your future is being written.

Because those subconscious loops that you're creating, those patterns that you're creating, those thought processes of attaching meaning to the moment, attaching meaning to the moment in the sense of this DM person didn't respond to me and now that means that I suck. Right. Like that's being very dramatic. But when you attach meaning to it, then you stay stuck inside of this cycle instead of just like, oh, that's a no brainer. This is a gift.

I don't have to waste my time talking to somebody who's not actually going to buy from me. Thank you so much, God, the universe, whatever for giving me that. I don't even have to invest my time in exchange for it. Everything is working for your good, right? So another version of the cycle might be like when things work and then they stop. You rise and then you fall. You have created a reality that says hills and valleys must exist.

So you'll receive something amazing and then it'll all slip away. And then that voice inside of your head says, see, I knew it was too good to last. I knew it wouldn't stay consistent. This always happens to me. And what do you get more of that reality. Deep down you still expect things to fall apart. You are waiting for it to stop working. You're bracing for the crash. So even when things are going really, really good, you're leaking energy in fear.

The fear of losing it, the fear of being seen too much. The fear that you're not built to hold it all. Or what if I'm not ready? Or anything. That can happen when success starts to enter your life and that energy can show up as self sabotage. Overthinking, tinkering with your offers every two minutes. Right. Looking for somebody else to tell you that it's okay or that it's safe or that it's going to work. And constantly seeking external validation rather than being your own internal validator.

Right? But this is not your story because we're going to create a new reality and a new identity. So I want you to step into a version of you where it is safe for things to work for you. You don't have to chase the next hit of validation because you are the validation, right? You are. Success is a decision and it's a decision because your thoughts create your reality. So if you wake up saying, I'm gonna make money today, odds are you're probably going to attract that into your life.

Maybe all of the subconscious programming and other energy leakers are kind of blocking that for you along your day. And so you really need to do the work and be so consciously aware of all of the thoughts that you're having and the meaning that you're attaching to every moment and really just try and be here now. This is where you can start living from your truth, your inner knowing, where you become the source of your power, right?

So, so I want to reframe those fear based thoughts that you've been having that have been draining your energy, your money and your consistency.

So let's just talk about a couple thoughts that might be popping up for you right now. An old thought pattern might say, what if a sale doesn't come today? And a new thought pattern and a full non circumstantial identity of somebody who believes that they're actually an abundant child of God and is fully rooted in that truth says, what if sales keep coming in because I'm now somebody who receives consistently. So do you see how powerful that reframe is?

Instead of asking the universe, what if I don't get this? What if I do, right? What if it does come because I am this person, right? So another old thought, like, I'm scared it's gonna stop working. A new thought might be, this is my new normal. Consistency is my baseline. It's not the exception. That is who you actually are, that is the reality that you're creating. And then you can begin to feel safe in that. And the more you say it, the more stability, calmness, peace is available for you.

An old thought pattern might be, I know I shouldn't be thinking like this. Because you see yourself, you're like, I know this isn't right. I know this thought is rooted in lack. I know this thought is rooted in fear. I know I shouldn't be thinking like this. And you want to rewire that thought and you want to tell yourself and say, even this version of me is safe, right? I am allowed to have doubt and still be powerful.

I am allowed to experience a moment of fear and anxiety and stress and be recalibrated to overflow within 5 seconds flat, right? Because you have to give yourself permission. We're all going to die, right? But I still think that we have a lot more time than what we give ourselves credit for because we consistently put this scarcity on time. But time is man made, right? God doesn't like, one day can last like a million years inside of his world. So I just have a different opinion on time.

But the question that I consistently ask myself is, am I willing to exchange the time that I do have for this thought? And. And if this thought is not expanding me, it is not providing me with any value. If the thought gives me a negative emotion like, no, I'm just. I'm no longer willing to exchange my time for thoughts that don't expand me. So I want you to be very intentional and ask yourself, am I willing to go down this rabbit hole.

Am I willing to exchange the time that I do have for this thing? And that was a very powerful shift for me that allowed me to say, no, I am not. Even if, like, just I think a while ago I was in the zone of, is this thought valuable? Does this thought bring me closer or further away? And now it's just like, I don't even care where it brings me. Like, if it's a no, it's a no. Okay? So another thought that you might be having that we're going to call old programming is I hope I make money today.

Now, a new thought pattern that you would want to create here to rewire your brain and create, create that neuroplasticity that I always talk about is, I decided money is flowing to me today because I am a match for overflow. Period. So your success is a decision, right? You have to wake up every single morning and not say, I hope I get to win today. But you wake up every morning and you decide and you confirm and you announce to the world, I am decided. I am receiving. I am in overflow.

I. Money flows easily and frequently. It is completely normal for me to have a $5,000 day, a $20,000 day, a $30,000 day, 100k day, right? And when emotions come up for you, those are the limiting beliefs, right? And so those are gifts, right? When I say you can make $100,000 in a day, the anxiety, the stress levels, the beliefs, the fears, all of those thoughts, that's the rewiring, all of those thoughts.

Until you feel completely safe and rooted in that truth, you will not be able to hold it because you have to believe it. You have to decide it. You have to ask, believe and receive. Mark 11:24, right? So if you don't actually believe it's possible for you, you can't affirm it and expect to receive it because you miss the middle where you believe it. And you can only believe it when you rewire these thought patterns.

Another thought that your old programming is running on is, maybe this post will get me a client. The new thought is, every post that I write is a seed and I am always in my harvest, right? Every time I show up, I build momentum. My content is compounding. I always win when I press, post or publish whatever it is, right? Like, all I do is win. Everything always works out for me. I am a match for miracles. Miracles happen to me every day. It's completely normal, right? Those are the.

That's the energy of overflow. That's the energy of abundance. That is a mindset that is rooted in the truth. And they are not lacking anything. Like I consistently, the moment a negative thought comes up, or any kind of thing, it's I lack nothing. I'm an abundant child of God. I lack nothing. I am an abundant child of God. And so anytime that thought comes up, anytime I know that it's talking about what if? Or entertaining a moment of doubt or fear, it's I lack nothing. I am abundant.

And it just. It gets rewired. And if a new thought that I've never even had comes up as I expand my reality and experience new things, it's I lack nothing. This is not the truth. That is somebody else's programming coming up right now. And so you were made to be successful. You were designed to be abundant. There is nothing wrong with you. You have to just fully accept yourself for who you are in every single moment. And rewiring these thought patterns is my genius way of being able to do this.

So another old thought pattern might be I believe it's possible. Now, at a first glance, you might say, like, that sounds like a really positive thought, right? I believe it is possible. I believe it can happen for me. But you're not actually claiming it or embodying the outcome, right? You are not operating with the assumption that it is already done, right? So just because you believe something's possible doesn't mean that it's happening.

So the way that you want to be so intentional with every word spoken, the new thought pattern that you would create here is it's already mine. It's already done. Now I just act like the version of me who already has it. So there's no doubt, there's no nothing. You are living with the assumption that it's just done. So I no longer believe it's possible. I know that it's already done the moment that I asked for it.

My belief system says the moment I asked, the universe has begun already to rearrange itself in my favor to give me exactly what I want. But I am unattached to the outcome. So whatever way it does decide to come in, you always have to be open to miracles. I am not going to micromanage my reality and say I expect $10,000 to come through this one single offer and through this. And I'm going to get this and this and no, I'm not doing that. It's like, hey, universe, God, this is what I want.

It's already mine. I believe in that. I'm going to move as if it's already done and I'm going to wait for the three dimensional reality to catch up with the thought patterns that I am having. So everything that I am seeing and experiencing in front of me is just a result of every past thought that I've ever had. And, and so if you have that awareness throughout your day, the 3D doesn't matter, right?

So you no longer are reacting to your reality because it is just based off of previous thought patterns. And so to become the intentional creator of your reality, you really have to just start with scripting your day and doing, taking the time every morning before you go on your computer or you know, you know, I do use my computer for my affirmations, but I am like scripting my day.

I am talking out loud, I am doing I am statements, I am writing out what I want to experience and the beliefs that I want to hold. And I am consistently putting myself in that frequency, in that energy before I go to bed. Every single night.

It's another like I fall asleep for I put on my timer for two hours on YouTube and I'm listening to some kind of affirmation or a lot of times I make my own audios and I call them my brainwashing sessions, which I've been working on something that I will be dropping soon enough. So stay tuned to those, they're so good. But I'll record myself and on my morning dog walks, I'm listening to. I have. I consistently make money, people love to pay me. I don't have to take multiple appointments.

Like I am intentionally rewiring my thought patterns and only allowing myself to live in that space. Okay. So I just hope that you can see the frequency difference between these two thoughts, especially if you are somebody who believes that your thoughts create your reality. This, I hope, just expands and opens the door for you so much more. Like one of these thought sets keeps you chasing, the other one anchors you into being because your results follow your identity.

And the moment you shift into the frequency of it is done. You stop trying to earn and you embody the result. Okay, you are not here to struggle. God doesn't dangle the fruit in front of you and say, if you do all of these things and you are, you know, you eat healthy and you do this and you do that, only then will you be worthy. No, it's just an inheritance. Like, that is why it's not by your works alone that you are saved and that you get to be an abundant child of God, right?

So just really try and remember that every time you want to effort, every time you're like, let me go and do all these dms and like, ask yourself, in these moments, am I efforting right now? Am I trying to micromanage reality? Am I trying to use my hands in the three dimensional world to rearrange it in a way that makes me feel better in this temporary moment?

Or am I becoming the person who is intentionally planting seeds every single day in order to manifest and see everything come forward as my days move? So you're here to receive it, to stabilize it, to hold it. You'll create from a place of knowing that your results are a decision. It's not like a one time miracle, it's not a lucky week, it's not a temporary high. Just gets to be the new normal that you operate in, right?

And any moment like, but what if or this happened or last time, no, that is your old programming. You are made new, right? Every day you are made new. You don't have to take whatever else happened into today. So ultimately you need to finally become the version of you that gets paid for, for being you, right? Just like if you're. For example, I used to consistently not work out because I was like, I have to work 14 hours a day, otherwise I'm not going to be successful.

Because people like Gary Vee and Alex Hermosi and all these like top players who had millions of dollars, like, you got to work hard, you got to do this, you got to be willing to do what other people aren't doing, no matter how willing I was, no matter how much I sacrificed.

You know, like, I spent four years basically in my home office working my butt off, becoming a chief marketing officer, working multiple jobs, like, you know, launching a podcast, doing this, getting clients, running an agency, switching my business, doing a million different things, working multiple hours, skipping birthdays, not even celebrating my own birthday because I wanted it so bad.

And if efforting was going to make it happen for me, it would have happened because I efforted more than anybody on the planet for as long as I could remember. Like, I always had two or three jobs. Like, it's just. It was literally, no matter what, if I was gonna get it that way, like, I had to literally effort my way into gaining 40 pounds a couple years ago. And I'm still at the point now where I'm taking all of that weight off and removing all of that stress and that anxiety.

I am basically at my goal now. But it took, like, a couple years of doing all of the things that everybody else out there told me that I had to do instead of just following what I knew was true for me, what I knew was going to work for me. What made me happy, like, was working out multiple times a day because I grew up as a dancer and I was used to moving my body for four hours a night.

So, yes, working out for me in the morning and again in the afternoon, that is something that brings me so much joy. And now I get paid to work out because I'm doing what's in alignment for me. Right? And so maybe you're somebody who loves painting or you love being outside in nature. You love yoga, you love, I don't know, making a smoothie, like, whatever it is, baking cakes, like, whatever you love. And it's not necessarily the exact thing. Thing that is in your business.

Like, I'm business owner first. My entire world is like, I'm going to be a CEO since I was a little girl. But you have to honestly just do the things that you keep telling yourself. Once I make enough money, then I'll do it. I had to start doing all of those things now.

And that's what it means to be the person that is living with the end in mind. Right? Because if I was financially free, then I would feel safe to work out when I wanted. Right? And so you, if you are operating as your highest self, then you can feel free and feel safe to do the things that you want and understand that the rest isn't going to collapse or fall down because you chose yourself. Right?

Everything is going to start rearranging itself to give you the best possible life that you could have. You're finally going to be able to close all of those dream clients that you've been wanting, the high ticket sales, everything. And it's not going to come from performing. It's not going to come from fixing and tweaking and trying to make it work. It's not going to come from trying to convince somebody.

It's not going to come from endless sales calls where you're working through people's objections and their obligations like whatever those things, right? Like, it's gonna come from being you. It's gonna come from having the thoughts that serve you. It's gonna come from being solid, rooted and abundant. Right?

And if you are done living with us back and forth energy and you are ready to stop living in the land of almost, I want you to honestly get inside of my four day training called Unreasonably Paid where I'm going to help you rewire the identity that is blocked, blocking your blessing and installing new one that holds older overflow, holds your consistency and your results as normal. Okay?

We're going to readjust your thermostat setting, we are going to recalibrate your identity and you can keep intaking free content and making small micro shifts or you can get inside of this program and start going deeper with the real work. Right now the program is at 3:33 and tomorrow we on Friday June 6th is going up to 4:44. The link is in the show notes and if you have been waiting for the sign to finally bet on yourself, this is it.