Creating Your Reality

You are the one inside of your own way. Not your strategy, not the skills, not your audience size. You. And I love you, and I'm sorry, but I just gotta say it. It's always us. Everything starts within us. The belief that you aren't enough in this moment to make it happen, that you need something else before you go all in, that you have to earn your way into what is already meant for you, is the only thing that is actually stopping you from the level that you want to be operating at.

All that you want to have it is yours. Because you are so damn good at what you do. In fact, I think you might even be overqualified. And I think that your experience is just like unmatched. And your wisdom and your ability to create impact is just undeniable and it's next level. Because of course, every single thing that you do is on another level, right? So are you done waiting? Are you done questioning? Are you done drinking and doubting and hesitating and wobbling inside of your power?

Because the world will treat you exactly how you command it to. But the question is, have you been commanding from your throne or have you been commanding from your wounds? A high value woman doesn't wait for permission to be powerful. She does not shrink to make other people comfortable. She decides, she declares. And she dominates her reality because she is creating her reality.

The moment you shift your mindset, the moment you embody your worth with absolute certainty that everything around you is going to change, everything around you will start to change. If you are sitting there questioning and wondering, what do I do? So it works, then you're not doing anything. You're not believing that the outcome is on the way because you still think that there's something wrong with you, right? So you have to eliminate the idea that there is anything wrong with you.

You have to own your power, own your magic, own your lane, own the greatness, own everything about who you are and embody all of it.

Because I want you to step into your divine identity, your divine feminine identity. Your identity is not just a title. It's not just like a role that you play. It's the very foundation of your reality. Who you believe yourself to be determines what you allow yourself to experience. It's what you allow yourself to accept. It's the standard that you hold yourself.

If you unintentionally have a low opinion of yourself, like, nobody's going to buy from me, or like having a low opinion of yourself sounds like, I don't think anybody's going to buy from me today because I'm not good enough. That's basically the energy that you're putting out to the world when you say things like that to yourself, right? So if you're like, I love myself. I'm operating as my highest self. I'm tapping into creating my own reality, creating my thoughts.

I'm mastering all of this, right? Then you also have to develop a skill and acknowledge the fact that you, up to this point, your wiring has been coming and been rooted from a place of, like, scarcity and lack, right? And as you start to clean that up, you also have to create new neural pathways. You have to, you know, allow for neuroplasticity. You have to embed yourself with new thought patterns and new realities that are available to you.

That's why when people talk about, like, putting their workout clothes out, like, laying their workout clothes out the night before so that they just had to grab them in the morning, that delays any resistance. And you have already decided that you're working out in the morning. And so your body and your nervous system and your reality has a less resistance around that decision because you decided that you were going to work out, right? You pulled your clothes out. You did.

You took all of the actions, right? You believed that when you woke up in the morning, you were going to put those clothes on. And so you have to believe that your business is also going to be. You're able to create your reality in that same way, right?

So if you think of your life right now, here today as just like a white page, like, if you truly decided that I'm going to remove my old identity and I am going to create a new reality and a new identity, and I am going to claim everything that I have ever wanted, right? And you're just like, I'm ready to bulldoze through whatever is in my way. You. You're just. You're ready to go. You want this thing. You are like, I don't care. There is no breakthrough. I am the breakthrough.

There is no resistance. There's nothing else around me. Because true reality is that God loves you and that every single moment gets to be good, right? And I think the biggest thing that is going to shift is the fact that people are consistently, like, embodying this energy of, like, something negative has to happen or. Or you'll hear you. You hear people say things like, well, I'm not. I don't feel like, am I in this high of energy all the time?

No. And so they drop the bar all the time because they lack the belief in the possibility that you can actually be happy, you can actually like, operate at your highest self in all of the moments. And there's no judgment, there's no nothing. Everything is divinely in time, right? Like, what is yours? Can't miss you. And if, what if you believe that what's he meant for you, what God has for you, you can't miss it.

Then you also have to believe in the fact that, like, whether you feel like whatever is happening in your reality, you're choosing your focus point. You're choosing the thing that you are going to think about all day long. You're choosing the thing that you're going to press, play on and experience.

So if you have this white page in front of you, if you have a clean slate available, right? Like, who am I going to be today? Right? Like if I said today I embody somebody who makes multiple six figures a month, 100,000, 200,000, $500,000 per month, right? So if I envision what that looks like, somebody who's making half a million dollars per year, I'm going to see myself, like in team meetings.

I'm going to picture myself inside of, I don't know, maybe a different house than what I'm in right now. There's like different things happening, but I can kind of like see it, right? Like, I can, I can think about it. I can kind of understand what my desires are through that experience, what I want to hold, right? So what is it for you? Like, what is the thing that you actually want that outcome to be? Like, that person who is operating and getting $500,000 months, right?

If they're making $100 million a year, that person, like, do they wake up at 9:00am, 8:00am, 3:00am like, what time is that person waking up? What is their schedule like, do you think? Like, what are the things that they're doing in their day? Are they biohacking? Are they taking vitamins? Are they like energized, working out every single day? What time do they work out, right? Like, what time do they do certain things? What days are they doing certain things?

Because if you can tap into what that actually looks like and who that person is who has to show up, the daily habits are the things that you need to master within that in order for you to pull that future into the now, right? Because if you just put your blinders on, you're like, I'm not going to care about anything that's happening. I don't care if it's a snowstorm. I don't care if it's pouring rain out, I don't care if the sun is shining. I am going outside and I am doing a 45 minute walk.

I'm going to get my 10,000 steps and I'm going to go do this thing. And I don't care what my external environment looks like. These are the actions that I'm going to take and I am going to force my way through it and I am going to do the thing because at the end of the thing, I know that I'm going to feel good about it, right? So if you've been living as anything less than the highest version of yourself, it's not because life has denied you your throne.

It is because your subconscious mind has not yet accepted the crown. Right from the moment you wake up, your brain fires and wires circuits that reflect your deepest beliefs about yourself. If your identity is somebody who has to work harder, push harder, struggle more just to be worthy of the things that you want, your nervous system will respond accordingly.

You are creating your reality. Your thoughts create your reality. So if you think it's going to be, you have to push more, you have to do more. Like, I'm not doing enough or maybe like, what do I do so it works, right? Like, how do I make this happen? How do I get what I want? If your nervous system is like not, it's still being fed that fuel, right? You're going to brace for impact every time you level up. You're going to sabotage yourself unconsciously or consciously.

Every expansion that you have, you will question every breakthrough and you will keep wondering why it feels like every time you rise, you have to fight for for it. If you want to scale, if you want to step in overflow. Right now you might be holding yourself back because you're like, this sounds really heavy. And secretly like, I don't want to be busier because I already feel like I'm too busy, right? So then you subconsciously delay the response from the universe.

And so you're constantly deciding and making decisions you can't. And this is where, like, I've realized overthinking is just not like, I am. My new identity does not overthink. My new identity makes like quick, fast decisions. And she doesn't second guess herself. It's just like in the moment, what, where's my gut? Where's my energy? What is the right thing? If it's not like a heck yes right away, it's just a no, right? So there's, it's just like, do the thing you actually want to do.

If somebody like approaches you or they want to work with you, or it's not something that you want to do, just don't do it right. Like you don't have to say yes just because you need money. And when you say no to the wrong client, you actually leave so much more space for the right people to flow into your world. It's magical.

And if you apply everything I'm talking about here today, if you become intentional with the thoughts that you are thinking every single day, your entire life is going to change, I promise you. If you want to scale, you want to step into your overflow, you want to be in your full feminine flow where their money pours in like you, like you have to be in launch mode every single second. But do you actually trust yourself to hold the things to too when they come right?

Because every time your nervous system, every time you level up, your nervous system panics. You say you want ease, you say you want flow, you say you want thousands pouring in whether you show up or not. But deep down your body is still wired to brace for that loss. So you want a business that pays you whether you work or not. But do you trust yourself with it to be that easy? Because if you did, you wouldn't feel the need to micromanage.

You wouldn't feel like every offer has to be perfectly crafted and sold with like a push pull strategy energy that kind of keeps you in control of it. Like if I push harder, if I do more, if I do this, if I show up more, if I, you know, take all of these actions, I'm going to get my outcome right. And that's not how it works, right?

So somewhere along the way you convinced yourself that it had to be hard, that money can't flow unless you're working for it because you exchanged your time for money in the past, probably. So that if you loosen your grip, some of you might be feeling like even if you loosen your grip just a little bit, like it's all gonna slip away. Like if you lose control or if you have a bad day, everything's gonna go away because you're not in the energy you're supposed to be.

Or like something like that, right? And that belief, that's the thing that keeps you from like the stuff that you want. You think that you need more strategy, you get confused, you launch another whatever. You, you know, you think you need the perfect webinar, the perfect for funnel or content sequence, but you don't need any of that. You need a belief system that says, like, oh, my God, this is amazing. Everybody's gonna buy this. Like, it's so good.

And you just want to stay in that mindset of, like, of course people are gonna buy from me. Of course this offer is gonna fill up, right? Like, of course I don't have to second guess it. Of course this is gonna happen. Of course it's going to. And you also want to operate in the frequency of I get to, right? Like, of course I get to have everything that I want because I am in my divine feminine energy. Right?

Like, you have the ability to create those thoughts, to hold your reality, to make something new that never existed, which is really amazing. But ultimately, money isn't the problem, Clients aren't the problem. Your ability to hold it is. And your belief in yourself, right? So how do you shift this?

The first thing that I want you to do is just that, to stop making money, be something that you have to chase. Money is not something that you need to grip onto. Money is energy, and it flows where it is trusted. So if you don't hold, if you don't trust yourself to hold money, it will not stay. If every time you have money, you just spend all of it and you're just like, consistently like, oh, here is my last whatever bit of money.

And you're constantly managing your money, you're managing your funds. You're like, I have to play within these means. This is all I'm allowed to have, right? Like, this all I have, energy has to go. Because an abundant mindset says, like, I am being restored and refueled. But I feel like, go back and listen to the last podcast episode or the one before that where I'm talking about your business strategy.

Because if you're not taking the actions, if you don't have the things available, right, if money can't actually come into your world, then you, you can't just sit there and like, pray for it, right? You have to take action. But I think most of the people on here already take action because I know I take a lot of action inside of the day. So I'm assuming I attract people into my world who are also massive action takers.

So I want you to just, like, stop forcing it, stop pushing it, stop operating in your survival mode, and just stop trying to make things happen. The third thing that you want to shift from is, like, making those reactive decisions based off of emotions, based off of how you feel in that moment, versus, like, making decisions that are long term and powerful.

And you're making decisions with, like, permission to pause, permission to think about it, permission to like do the thing that feels right for you. And so you want to operate and make decisions from a place of power, from a place of peace, from a place of love, versus like reacting to your nervous system. So basically I want you to just think like, are you making the right decisions right now or are you making the decisions for long term wealth?

If you're still pricing things based on what feels safe instead of what expands you, if you're still structuring your business based on fear instead of possibility, if you're still hesitating on investing in the support that would make everything move faster, then you are operating from a version of you that doesn't fully trust their next level. If you say that you're ready for 60 plus clients, but you do trust yourself to lead at that level.

You say you want to make millions, but do you trust yourself to bring that wealth forward? You say you want to expand, but do you trust yourself to hold the expansion without shrinking back? Because you don't just want success, you want to trust yourself so deeply that success doesn't feel like pressure, that scaling doesn't feel like you're losing part of you, like you have so much more. You're going to have to take on that. Overflow doesn't feel like.

Overflow feels like your new normal, right? That's the shift that I want you to have. Because overflow doesn't come from doing more. It comes from deciding that you were built for this, that you are safe to hold it, that this is who you are now. You don't need another breakthrough, you don't need to wait until you feel ready.

You just have to move, you have to embody like the, you know, if you remove all of the past, all of the present, all of it, and you operate from that place like today is a white blank canvas. This is where I want to go and these are the actions I'm going to take today to get me there. Right?

Those are the things that you want to do. And you want to show up at your fullest all the time. Because the version of you who already has it isn't waiting. They're not second guessing, they're not not doing it. And they're not wobbling, they're moving, they're leading, they're trusting themselves and they're watch and they're watching everything that you desire overflow into their world. Right?

And that's the outcome that you're going to get when you step into your true self, when you step into fully embodying and letting it go and just allowing things to happen, right? Just trusting God, trusting the universe, trust. Trusting life, right? Trusting that you do get to have what you want, right? Trusting that you are enough. Trusting that everything about you is incredible, right? So I, I feel like you just, you gotta move like her.

And if you are and you want to let it be easy and you've done everything you can on your own and you want, you want help with this, then my work is for you. I want you to go find me on LinkedIn. You can click in the Show Notes here and you can find me on LinkedIn or on Instagram. I want you to send me a DM and let's talk about what's happening inside of your world right now.

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So head over to those show notes and make sure you're not missing any of the greatness over there because I want you to get everything that you need so that you can become everything you're meant to be. And I also feel like I just want to leave here today saying, like, don't be afraid to sparkle and to like, take up more space today because you were made to shine as bright as you possibly can. Do not make yourself smaller. Do not shrink. Do not pull back.

Simply give people the opportunity to rise and meet you or stay silent. You have everything you need inside of you to make all of your dreams come true. And I am so excited for.