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263. The psychology of manifestation

Jan 03, 202540 min
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Manifestation far more mystical than scientific, but there is some important psychology behind how it works and why. In today's episode we break down the exact science and research behind the power of manifestation and 5 important exercises that can help you create powerful, positive shifts in your love. This includes: 

  • The roots of manifestation
  • The science of the law of attraction and detachment 
  • What is a self fulfilling prophecy? 
  • How does positive thinking attract a positive reality? 
  • The power of affirmations, scripted manifestation, music and more 

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Speaker 1

Hello everybody, Welcome back to the show. Welcome back to the podcast, new listeners, old listeners. Wherever you are in the world, it is so great to have you here back for another episode as we, of course break down the psychology of our twenties. I hope you all had a transformative, fun but safe start to the new year. Welcome to twenty twenty five. Before we get into this episode, a few months back, I said that I had a

lot of surprises in store for this year. And guess what, you did not have to wait long for the first one, and probably one of the biggest ones. I am so beyond excited to announce that my brand new podcast, Mantra, will be launching on the thirteenth of January. Yes, that you heard me write a brand new podcast. And if you are a fan of the Psychology of your twenties,

you're going to love this. If you're interested in expanding your mind, improving your mindset, growing as a person, learning Mantra is going to be the perfect fit for you. Every Monday, I focus on a new mantra so you can begin your week with a mental reset, and I talk to you about the meaning of the mantra. How to really take advantage of what that Mantra can do for you where we can see it show up in

our lives and also journal prompts a weekly challenge. We have been working so hard on this, and the reason I really wanted to do a show like this is because I love the psychology of your twenties is of course my creative baby, but I also wanted to have a space that isn't just the science. It's more inspirational and reaffirming, perhaps even more spiritual, which is also an important part of who I am, along with my love of humans and numbers and studies and the psychology of things.

And Martra just felt like the perfect way to do this. Every Monday is a mental reset.

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You tune in on.

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Your morning commute, when you're at work, when you're the gym, and it just sets the tone for the rest of your week. You can be one of the first people to hear it and listen to the brand new episode if you subscribe to Mantra now on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. It's already up there. It's ready to go. The first episode drops in less than a week. I hope you

love it. I really really do. It is just such a passion project for me, is something I think is going to be such an important thing to put out into the world, hopefully make a huge difference, hopefully just inspire you, give you more things to listen to if you need a new podcast. There it is. Without further ado, though, let's talk about the psychology of manifestation, which is of course today's topic, one that I have been really excited

to do for a while. Actually, it's very much been at the top of the list, but just keeps getting bumped down by things that felt more important. But it's a brand new year and this just felt like a great episode to dive into straight off the bat. So if you are a brand new to manifestation, I'll give you a quick one oh one. Manifesting is this very affirming, significant idea that you can attract your dream life by

using your thoughts. How you view a situation matters, and it's a powerful way to bring about your greatest desires. So basically, if we think positive things, they will happen. If we think we are lucky, lucky things will happen

to us. That is the whole premise and manifesting it's become so incredibly popular in recent years, specifically after the success of a book called The Secret Actually was written by an Australian author back in two thousand and six, and it reintroduced this ancient idea that your thoughts are a powerful magnet for the reality that you want. That premise has of course existed in a number of cultures

for thousands of years. It's important to acknowledge that Buddha, for example, taught that our thoughts shape us and that our intentions determine our destinies. So it's definitely not a new idea, but it's a very powerful one that has reached a whole new audience. If it sounds too good to be true, I get you. I totally understand, especially

if you're someone who is quite scientific like me. Anything that offers a simple, quick fix, easy solution to transform your life, to make everything possible, to make a million dollars sounds like a scam. Additionally, we do really have to talk about how elitist manifestation can sometimes seem for people who are experiencing poverty or starvation or war, for whom thinking positive things will most likely not change a larger systemic problem. There are some criticisms of manifestation. It's

definitely got some major issues. We're going to talk about that later on, but I also really want to break it down for you and show that it's not just a magical, mystical idea for the people who successfully implement manifestation. A lot of it is really rooted in psychology and in our cognition and in our subconscious minds, and how our beliefs in our mindset subliminally control our actions and

our behaviors. You know, if you really believe something will happen to you, and you have the ability and the resources to action that belief, that's crucial. It does create a self fulfilling prophecy where you are more likely to act in a way that ensures that it will, even if you don't realize it. You know, obviously, if you think something will happen and you don't do anything about it,

manifesting will never work for you. If you think, yeah, it would be nice to be rich and then just sit twiddling your thumbs waiting for it to happen, That's not how manifestation works. There are some really powerful psychology and neuroscience behind this very legitimate self help practice that can spur on goal directed action, and it really relies on things from cognitive restructuring to the power of self talk, the power of self belief, and concepts neurological concepts like

long term potentiation. So today I want to talk about it. If you're on the fence, if you're completely committed to the idea, if you're just trying to level up and improve the way you manifest, this episode is for you.

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There is so.

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Much science, so much fascinating research to cover in this episode, and I also want to provide the five most powerful manifestation exercises that you can use based on all this psychology. So all of that and so much more. It is a jam packed episode. After this short break, manifestation has definitely been having a moment in the self help wellness

space in recent years. I don't know when I first really became aware of manifesting as a concept, but when I did, I will admit I thought it was ridiculous. You know, how could your thoughts make anything magically happen for you? You know, I have thousands millions of thoughts every day, very few of them ever come true. I think that definitely came down to being a bit of an overachiever as well. You know, I really believed in the absolute power of blood, sweat, and tears and hard work.

Really that was my like, that's my equation. You work hard, you get what you.

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Work for and what you deserve.

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But in twenty nineteen, I really had my first instance of kind of realizing that I had manifested certain things in my life. I'd gone through a breakup. I was, you know, really committed to repeating all these positive statements to myself. I was journaling about what I wanted in the next month, three months, a year, and strangely a lot of it was coming true. And when I was investigating and I was like, Wow, why is this happening?

You know, it can't just all be luck. And I think it really came down to how these practices were restructuring and shifting how my mind thought about problems. Okay, I've already gone off on a tangent. Let's dial it back for a second. Let's talk about the pillars of manifestation, the most common manifestation techniques, themes, topics. Basically, so, the biggest formal theory of manifestation is undoubtedly the law of attraction,

law of attraction. You would have heard it everywhere. And this law basically suggests that your thoughts and beliefs can attract people, events, and circumstances into your life. And it's very much based on the idea that people and their thoughts are made up of pure energy, and like energy, similar energy attracts similar energy, thereby allowing us to improve our health well for personal relationships by thinking positive things and attracting those positive things to us. So basically, your

thoughts are a magnet. They attract whatever you think, you desire, that you think of, and that you focus on. Another very famous form of manifestation is, of course, the law of detachment. This sounds like the opposite of the law of traction, but it's definitely not an entire contradiction. It basically suggests that in order to manifest our desires, we have to release our attachment to a specific outcome. So if you are trying to manifest love, I know that's

a big one. You need to release the idea of what love could look like for you, so you cannot keep expecting that love is going to be this six foot four, dark haired person who is a lawyer, who does these exact specific things, and their name is Andrew and they're twenty seven. Like, you can't imagine a specific kind of person. You have to detach from your expectations about how whatever your desire will come to you, Like what's the outcome going to be? You have to detach

from a specific outcome. Same with a you know, a dream job. If you're manifesting your dream career, you have to accept that maybe what you have in mind isn't right. And let let's say the universe or a higher power. That's how a lot of people normally talk about this.

How you have to let that guide you. So why I see this working on a psychological basis is that this perspective creates an internal shift and it puts us into a growth and curiosity mindset so that opportunities we may have previously not looked at now become available to us.

So it keeps us more open. I definitely have some issues with the premise behind the law of detachment, because I think, especially for people who are anxious or who have anxiety or who have OCD, detaching from an outcome or breaking out of a thought pattern can be extremely hard, near impossible. That doesn't mean that these individuals don't still

have dreams that come true. So there are certainly some holes in this logic, right, People who are overly anxious don't just have bad things happen to them as well. You know, the opposite of law of attraction. You know, if law of attraction is correct, you know, thinking about negative things would make negative things happen to you someone

who is overly anxious. That's not always the case. So moving back to the law of attraction, because I think that is really the manifestation technique that we're zoning in on today. If you think it's simply about asking the universe to reward you as I once did, I really want to explain further that psychology.

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In that psychological explanation.

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And we have to start with this very fundamental logic. Believing that you can accomplish something is going to make it much more likely that you do compared to not believing. What does this rest on. It rests on the power of self belief. Self belief that is the number one biggest factor in any success story that you will ever hear, and yet I think it is the least talked about. You cannot be motivated, you cannot be disciplined. You cannot be a risk taker. You cannot bet on yourself if

you do not believe that success will be yours. So not believing in yourself is a goal ending contradiction. The reason that the law of attraction works and that many people see manifesting as a very golden key that unlocks this incredible life of theirs is because of how it changes out underlying, subconscious, subliminal thoughts to do with self belief. This is called by another name. It's called cognitive restructure, which you've already mentioned a couple of times. It's a

very well researched, legitimate therapeutic technique. Basically, what this method has people do is identify negative thoughts or self limiting thoughts and challenge them replace them with more positive thoughts. So let me give you an example of how this could be used using the American Psychological Associations accredited five step process to cognitive restructuring your CBT. Firstly, a person identifies the situation and feeling that they would like to change.

For example, let's say anxiety about the future. It's one I always use for people in their twenties. Then you identify the underlying thoughts about the feeling. So, for example, why am I feeling anxious about the future, Well, probably because you know, I'm uncertain. I'm scared of failure. I expect the worst case scenario to happen. And then it asks people to look for evidence of that being the case in the past. So, what is your worst case

scenario here? I'm going to fail, I'm going to be miserable, I'm never going to find success. They say, what's the evidence for that being the case? Who's telling you this? Where's the magic ball? And then it gets you to really focus on the alternative. What if the worst case scenario didn't happen? What if you were a success? Why couldn't that happen to you? What if it all worked

out for you? Then they ask you to make a decision and when a future dilemma like this one comes up, do you continue to choose the more health helpful thought or do you continue to choose the less helpful thought. This really changes how our brain responds to a problem by changing our thought circuits and pathways that are attached to it. Cognitive restructuring sounds a lot like manifestation in

that way. Manifestation is working to create more positive thoughts for a positive outcome, and really, you know what that entails is introducing positive scenarios into your mind. Cognitive restructuring kind of sounds the same. There is a lot of

evidence for this kind of technique working. So there was a twenty twenty study that looked at one hundred and forty one individuals who received cognitive restructuring treatment and it found that at a twelve month follow up, individuals reported lower depressive symptoms, less anxious avoidance. And this is the really big one, greater self efficacy. So self efficacy we talk

about it a lot. It's probably one of my favorite concepts and basically says that our ability, our belief, and our ability to achieve an outcome that we want is really really important. So self efficacy is basically your self belief in bringing about your future or being able to work hard or be consistent. So you know, if you have a big project at work or you want to launch a business, people who are high and self efficacy will say, yeah, I'm capable of that. It's going to

be hard, but I'm ready for the challenge. I can do it. Whereas if you're low in self efficacy, you'll doubt yourself into inaction. Basically, luckily, self efficacy is something that you can change, and this is one way of doing it, that cognitive re structuring. Another explanation for the psychology of manifestation is what we know very commonly as

a self fulfilling prophecy. So as self fulfilling prophecy occurs when our beliefs and expectations influence our actions and ways that bring those beliefs to life and the context of manifestation, by visualizing success or a desired outcome, we subconsciously align our decisions, attitudes, and actions with that goal. This focus really increases our motivation, our perseverance, and our openness to

those opportunities we might previously overlook. So, in essence, manifestation leverages the psychological mechanism of a self fulfilling prophecy by turning positive beliefs into deliberate action, really bridging the gap between intention and achievement. So, if you walk into a room thinking everyone in this room is going to fall in love with you, is going to think that you are charismatic and attractive and alluring, you are going to

feel better about yourself. And so because of that you'll probably speak to more people, you'll be more open, you'll make more eye contact, you'll feel better, and you might walk out and say, my god, I manifested that that is really actually a self fulfilling prophecy. And if you want to see it in action, you've got to hear

about this very famous experiment from the nineteen sixties. You've probably heard about it before, but it was about how teachers expectations of students actually determined their grades and the students who performed best, and it really came down to the students who wore glasses because the teachers assumed, you know, if you wear glasses, you're more intelligent, so they treated

them as such. They treated them as if they were already intelligent, and therefore it created that self fulfilling prophecy. It meant that they gave them more attention, it meant that they gave them more praise, It meant that they spent more time with them, that gave them more challenging work, and so they were the ones who achieved all because of a self fulfilling prophecy. And you can use that same formula on yourself. So two final points on the

psychology and manifestation. The other reason that we tend to think that what we think about attracts what we experience also comes down to how the thought patterns that occur with manifestation unlock a growth versus a fixed mindset. So a fixed mindset assumes that our abilities are innate and unchangeable, that what we're born with is what we're given. And you know, if we're lazy, we're lazy. If we're not good at sports, we're not good at sports, we're not disciplined,

we're not disciplined. A growth mindset means that we believe that all humans, you and I are capable of change, that we can improve, and that means that our beliefs about our ability to learn, grow, and succeed. Our growth mindset can indeed affect whether we effectively manifest what we desire. Importantly, the research really suggests that if we truly believe we can achieve something, we are more willing to do the

hard work to achieve it. So manifesting by saying all those positive statements to yourself, by saying this is what I really want, this is who I am.

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This is what I'm going to achieve, it.

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Means that the parts of ourselves that are willing to work, that are more activated, that we're more willing to grow into a challenge. And finally, the reason that manifestation works is what we call the upward spiral of positive emotions. So the thought process behind manifestation actually incidentally also creates an important cognitive positive feedback loop where the more we think positive good things, the more we actually tend to

see positive good things, like a confirmation bias. And then it goes a step further, which means that we actually are generally more optimistic, motivated, happy about our current state because all these good things are happening to us. We can see all these good things around us because we've been cue to see those things, prime to see those things. And of course, someone who is more happy, optimistic is

going to be more motivated. So manifestation techniques, like the law of attraction or the law of detachment, they really seemingly work because of how they transform the perception of our circumstances, our self beliefs, and therefore trigger important goal in intentional and activating behaviors. I want to be really really clear, there is zero proof that manifestation works on its own. Some people do like to cite this idea of quantum theory, which states that everything in the universe

is made up of energy. So when we declare an intention and we practice manifestation, we align our energy with the universe's energy. But specifically, I really think what it comes down to is our actions, and I want to talk about how we can get better at activating important, motivated behaviors and actually going after what we want with

the help of manifestation. Of course, after this shortbreak, so, the most powerful quote I have ever heard about manifestation came from an interview with a professor at Stanford University. His name is doctor James Dottie, and this is really what he had to say. Manifestation is not about asking the US universe to reward you. It's about rewiring your brain to reward itself. Love that quote, absolutely loved when I heard it for the first time. And what's really

describing is agency. This is how I see it. When our mind is on board and convinced of our success. It's kind of like turning the wheel in a huge semi truck, right, So our positive thoughts turn the wheel and then all the carriages follow behind it. So once we have a positive appraisal of our situation and of our beliefs. Our beliefs will then shift, our attitudes will then shift, then our ambition, and then our actions will follow.

So when your mind and your thoughts are on board, your behaviors and intentions follow suit and acknowledging this is really essential because we are after a really balanced approach. Your manifestation is not just about wishing, and we don't want it to lead to a lot of you know, unrealistic expectations and blame, you know, sitting there being like I'm wishing for something.

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I want it to happen so badly.

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And it's not coming true, and that means I must be doing it wrong, or I'm a bad person, or I don't deserve good things because the universe isn't giving them to me, Absolutely not. It may be because you're not allowing your actions to follow along. So I want to talk about five manifestation techniques that can really inspire that positive restructuring in their full spurun change and how

that can bring about your dream life. And the biggest one, the first one I really want to speak about that I see people using all the time, and that I actually personally use I've just recently been doing this a lot with the new year. Is scripted journaling or narrative conjuring sounds fancy, It's actually really simple. What I want you to do is write out a very detailed journal entry as if whatever you are desiring has already happened, and I want you to write it out in as

much detail and I mean overkill with the detail. So this method I did research. It really emerged as an offshoot of this nineteen seventies kind of project to do with neuro linguistic programming. So boring, but basically this project encouraged individuals, as part of this process to visualize their

futures using all five sensors. And basically what they found was that when we thought about our future using words and actions and then using all these different sensory inputs, our subconscious perception of the world changed and ultimately determined what we believed was possible for us to attain, achieve, and attract. So that project kind of like came across this incidentally, And I'll give you an example of how

you can use scripted journaling in your own life. Say you are really trying to manifest a huge lifestyle change or overhaul. So you want to make yourself into someone who is active, who has a large group of friends, who will boost each other up, who goes on hikes, goes to pilates, whatever it is. Get out your journal, get out of pen and write a journal entry that sounds like today. I woke up in my beautiful linen sheets and the sun was shining through my apartment window.

And that apartment looked down onto forty ninth Street, and I'd bought it a couple months ago, and I decided that I would text my friend group to go to pilates with each other. And this was what the picture for my friends group looked like. And this was what we called the group chat name. And this is how many people were in that group chat. And I put on this outfit that was this color from this brand, and I ate this for breakfast and these were the

ingredients and this is how it tasted. And this is what my carpet looks like. And these are my steps down to the street. And you know, this is what the POLARATEUS studio looked like. This is the perfume that my friend was wearing. She smiled when she saw me every little detail. I feel like you get the picture

as much as possible. If writing isn't really your thing, you can also use an audio journal where you describe your perfect work day at your dream job, or an amazing date you're yet to go on but that you know is a the future, you know, with as much detail as possible. That scripting doesn't just have to be, you know, written down. You can also make it verbal.

That can be really really powerful. And the reason that it's powerful is because it gets you to think about aspects of your goal or your dream that you might not consider. You know, often when we set goals or we're manifesting something, we're so just focused on it happening, right, We're so focused on the future and the outcome, and we don't really have an idea of what we need to get there, or timelines or small components, or what needs to happen between then and now and what it

could feel like. And the scripted writing in this narrative exercise gets us to fill in a lot of the blanks.

And I'm going to get a little bit scientific here, but there was actually a series of studies conducted between twenty and eight and twenty fourteen that examined what happened when we visualize future goals in this way, or we engage in positive thinking and writing or mentally simulating future events, and what it found was that two important brain areas are activated by exercises like this, the ventral medial prefrontal cortex and the posterior singular cortex, both of which, by

the way, are implicated in attention and self reflection. But more specifically, these areas of the brain support internally directed action. Basically, they are the parts of the brain that when a thought comes in, they say, Okay, we're going to make this happen.

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How do we do this?

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What parts of our body do we need to put into action? What other thought processes in our brain do we need to switch on. Even if a visual or written script isn't your thing and you're more of a visual thinker or learner, you can also utilize the power of a good old fashioned vision board. I'm sure you've all seen the videos of people sharing their vision boards from twenty twenty three and how many surprising things from

those boards actually happened. I really think it's because representing your goals visually in this way is such a great physical visual queue or reminder of what you are working towards, and therefore, when you have that more on your focus, you are more likely to remember, Hey, I actually want this thing. What have I been doing to make it happen?

Maybe I should be working harder on that. There's a famous quote that you become what you behold or what you see your environment and what you are visually exposed to that really does influence mood, motivation, attitude. Vision board work actually works on a part of our brain called the reticular activating system RIS. It's actually located in the brain stem. It's a very essential part of our brain

that filters information and determines what's important. And when you visualize your goals frequently, as you do with the vision board, your RIS becomes more attuned to opportunities that align with those goals. So this process really helps you notice things in your environment that can help you achieve your aspirations, making you more focused and intentional. Here's the thing that you really need to do, though, to make a vision

board work for you. Don't just choose the photos that are available to you in a magazine or that you have lying around. You really have to be intentional with setting this up. So choose the photos that most resonate with you. Choose to have a few options. And I really like to have four segments of my vision board. One segment is for career, one is for relationships, one is for lifestyle. One is for personal growth goals, so things like cobbies, travel, spiritual goals. And I really really

make sure that it's not all material things. There should be experiences on there too. There should be things that really activate my senses, things that are small and daily.

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And something that.

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Mel Robbins actually said that was really powerful in a recent episode of Hers is that you can't just have big life changing goals on a vision board. This is more about the lifestyle that surrounds achieving those goals. You can't just have a picture of the finish line of you know, the New York Marathon without a few pictures of you running, you know, or of a training plan or of healthy fuel. Your vision board needs to be focused on the building blocks as well as the big outcomes.

Let's talk about another very well known manifestation strategy or accompany meant and that it's affirmations. This is probably the strategy that I rely on most heavily in my own life, mainly because I know that scientifically speaking, how I talk to myself matters. Also, affirmations are so accessible on a daily basis, you know, vision boards, scripting. They're a real time commitment and a very worthy time commitment, not necessarily something that you can do every day, but affirmations you

can even do a few times a day. And when I was going through a really transformative time when I was twenty two, I had a list of t affirmations written on a big piece of paper on the inside of my bedroom door. And these affirmations were genuinely so important to me, and I really think that they were a huge, huge kind of way in which I was able to lead a more fulfilling life compared to the

life I was living before. And I actually went searching for these because I was like, these affirmations are really good, and it took me a while to come up with them, like it was a very finely tuned in the list, And finally I found a picture in my phone of this list on the back of my door, and I want to read these out to you. These were the affirmations I used to really help me bring about a more positive way of seeing my life and therefore a

more positive life. I radiate confidence and self assurance. I have an attractive aura. I am someone who goes after what I want. People feel good around me. I trust myself to make the right decisions. I am a powerful creator of my reality. I am a hard worker. I am constantly attracting incredible things into my life. I release the need for others approval. I am in control of

my best and my worst thoughts. These were the affirmations that I would recite to myself every morning for over a year, and it was like putting on a mental armor.

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Every day.

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The first thing I said to myself in the morning was I'm not stressed about the day. I'm not overwhelmed. I'm not worried about how I look. All of these natural thoughts were would pop up, and instead I would put myself into a place of self empowerment by making sure I left my house every single morning with a more positive statement and positive feeling about myself and mind. And it really did change how I approach challenges, change how I approach people, how productive I was as well.

I really think that it also changed how I made friends, Like there was this huge shift for me between being quite lonely and then suddenly having all these people in my life because I was I really think entering the outside world radiating positive energy because I felt good about myself. I also have affirmations that I use for specific circumstances. Before you know, I mentioned a public speaking I have

five affirmations for that in my notes up. Anytime I need to public speak, I say, I am prepared for this. My voice is strong and steady. The people in this room will be captivated by me. I speak and communicate with ease, and I am excited for the opportunity to

share knowledge. Very very effective. And if you want a fund psychology study that provides evidence for the effectiveness of this method, we can actually look at one from twenty fifteen conducted at the University of Wisconsin, Madison, where sixty seven students were to either participate in an affirmation exercise before a task or not, and those who outperformed the other students All of them were those who had done

affirmations because they felt more capable. And it's free, like that's the crazy part.

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You don't need to do some crazy thing.

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You just have to make your list and stick to it. Okay, before we talk about limitations, I want to talk about one final way to combine manifestation and psychology and your pursuit of your goals. And it's called a sensory anchor. And the sensory anchor we're going to be talking about today is music. So a sensory anchor is a stimulus such as a sound, smell, touch, that triggers a specific

emotional or mental state. Music in particular is highly effective because music is very emotional and it directly triggers a lot of emotional centers of the brain. It's why we get tingles when we listen to songs, That's why we have a physical reaction, it's why it evokes memories. By pairing music with your visualization or manifestation practice, you can train your brain to associate certain songs or sounds with

a mindset of success or confidence or joy. So what I want you to do is put together a playlist of songs that make you really like motivated, inspired, pumped up, feeling good about yourself, like alive. Make a playlist like that, and anytime you are in the mindset, you're in the mood, you're in the place to achieve something to get shit done, or you're just feeling low as well, play that playlist.

I've already seen so many examples of these on Spotify, Like you can look up manifestation playlist or mindset shift playlists anything like that, and people have already curated music that is intended to evoke a really like excited, motivated, passionate,

creative mindset. And I just want to say one final thing with all these methods, the thing that real links them and why they are implicated in the manifestation process is that all of them, in some way, using you know, writing, using your words, using what you see, using what you hear, all of them are influencing us to see outcomes is happening in our favor by influencing how we think about things.

So before we conclude this episode, I really think that it would be remissive me to not consider the limitations of manifestation and the privilege that definitely comes with being able to implement things like scripting or affirmations and see them as being effective, you know, manifesting that lifestyle that we want. If that's something that is really happening for people, we have to question why it's not happening for others.

And let's be honest, a lot of the things that we want to manifest, they are luxuries, and we could not begin to be you know, even dream of them, let alone receive them, receive first class flights, receive dream jobs, receive money if our fundamental basic human needs weren't already met. So food, water, security, safety, health, emotional and social support. Those are the fundamental foundations of human life, and so

many people don't have those things. There are people in war zones or experiencing violence or poverty who may be wishing harder than any of us, than you and me for a life of peace, of safety, food, and their abilities bellies, and they're not receiving it. So I think that we also have to recognize that in order to manifest anything, you do actually have to have the ability to action your desires, and that means privilege and resources.

You know, if we think manifestation is just this immaterial, energetic quantum force at work, why is the quantum force not helping so many people who are really doing it hard. Why does the universe's energy seem to neglect people that are struggling with poverty or that are less privileged than us, because I don't think that's how energy works. You know, if the quantum theory is positive energy attracts positive energy,

like it's forgetting about a large group of people. So it is a privilege to be able to use psychological methods of manifestation to really bridge the gap between intention

and motivation and therefore achievement. And I think that before we go out there and say, yeah, I like just manifest it, like, just think positive things and good things will happen, you've got to remember that's not the case for everyone, and that it is really a blessing and something you should be grateful for, that this is a technique that you are exploring and that could work for you.

So I find that when I think about manifestation as an exercise that is rooted in self belief psychology and then having the ability to take actions based on your positive thinking, that makes a lot more sense to me. And that's something that, yeah, again I think we should be grateful for. So I really hope that you learned

something from this episode. You learn something about the science, from the studies, about the research the concepts that make up manifestation is such a powerful method of attraction or of detachment, whichever one you choose to believe in. If there's something I missed here, I would love to hear from you. Please share your manifestation exercises that you use. I would love to hear from them, like I would

love to hear them. Sorry, and love to hear from you, because there's so many out there that I probably haven't mentioned that people could learn a lot from. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you share it with a friend, share it with family men, Share with your partner someone who you think could learn as well. We are always open to episode suggestions. You just have to DM me on Instagram. That is how we get so many ideas for the psychology of your twenties, and make sure you're

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