A discussion of my batorhood, my recent thinking around it, and what's happening next. Mentioned in this episode: Patreon Shout Out August and September Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link. Fleshjack Quickshot I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to...
May 23, 2024•11 min•Season 4Ep. 24
David Ledain is a UK-based author, writing non-fiction for gay males, based on his experiences and research. The first in his Hot Little Gay Book series focuses on masturbation and we had a great chat about the act, the changes in social expectations and the book itself. If you'd like to grab a copy of the book check out the link below. If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter Thanks for listen...
May 02, 2024•40 min•Season 4Ep. 23
Interviews are back on the slate for 2024 and my first subject is Wynward H Oliver author of HomoWork. I found Wynward and his book through his Twitter/X account and the book grabbed me straight away as an open and honest approach to the memoir of a man self-described as a compulsive bator. We talk about everything from poppers to labels, as well as how he went about writing such a funny and engaging story recounting his life. If you'd like to get your copy of Wynward's memoir HomoWork click the...
Mar 21, 2024•48 min•Season 4Ep. 22
Another Bate Coach episode from Liam, talking more about how to take advice. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.co...
Mar 11, 2024•17 min•Season 4Ep. 21
Back with the cohost duo for 2024. We discuss our bating over the break, tracking our stats for this year and what it means to spend time masturbating. What counts as masturbation? Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to list...
Jan 25, 2024•29 min•Season 4Ep. 20
My first solo advice episode for 2024 features advice about advice. Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing an...
Jan 11, 2024•11 min•Season 4Ep. 19
Another step up in 2024 for Liam Williams and the Proud Bators project. Hear all about it in the first episode of the year. Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' n...
Jan 01, 2024•13 min•Season 4Ep. 18
So I kept my bate stats for 2023, as I have done for the last couple of years. Here's the summary (stat nerd alert!). I'm putting together a group of bators who are keen to track their stats in 2024. If you're keen click the link to start the sign-up process. I hope you enjoyed your bating in 2023, thanks for making us even a small part of it. There are big things coming in 2024, so make sure you're on board by subscribing to the podcast or joining the Discord server. Looking to connect with our...
Dec 27, 2023•12 min•Season 4Ep. 17
We've had a short break but Liam and Sean are back for a chat! Homemade lube comes up again as well as that "peach scene" from Call Me By Your Name. We also discussed the ideas behind sexual shame and how it relates to masturbation. Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great ...
Nov 02, 2023•37 min•Season 4Ep. 16
We're starting it. Replacing No Nut November with NutVember. Celebrating the nut for a whole month. We also chat, in somewhat related topics, whether or not you can masturbate too much, an age old question. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au Thanks fo...
Oct 19, 2023•31 min•Season 4Ep. 17
There's Something About Mary was an iconic movie for wanking and it got us talking about masturbation in movies. We also talked about the recent news of the young man who 'busted a lung' during a particularly strenuous solo session. Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great ...
Sep 05, 2023•36 min•Season 4Ep. 15
Both Liam and Sean share examples of wanking coming up in a 'real life' conversation. But the meat of this episode is the recent research by neurologists that shows the true danger of the NoFap abstinence policy. We'd love to hear if you attended the recent MasterBator Convention in Pittsburgh, leave you thoughts by visiting Liam's SpeakPipe Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Got a p...
Aug 24, 2023•34 min•Season 4Ep. 14
Edging is a pretty common term in the bator community. We’ve talked about it on plenty of podcast episodes, but I’ll take a bit of a deeper dive into it in this episode. What it is, the reasons people do it and the benefits of it. I’ll also throw in a couple of tips towards the end. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updat...
Jul 27, 2023•11 min•Season 4Ep. 13
A topic that comes up a lot when I chat to bators, particularly those newer to accepting their batehood is the idea of being able to talk with your mates about it, outside the bate mates that you may already have. In this episode I share some tips and insight into how I've built up some mates to chat with. Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Got a pro...
Jul 12, 2023•11 min•Season 4Ep. 12
We discuss the recent research around the history of masturbation in primates, as well as some long overdue love for our dicks. Want a chance to show some love for others'? Join the Discord server. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter Thanks fo...
Jul 01, 2023•36 min•Season 4Ep. 11
Liam chats with Jared, the Proud Bator behind the Master Bator Convention being hosted in Pittsburgh this August. It's shaping up to be a great event. There's still plenty of tickets available. Check out all the info on the website . Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators...
Jun 17, 2023•35 min•Season 4Ep. 10
Liam's just back from a holiday and Sean's got one coming up. We discuss bating while travelling, the well-renowned 'hotel bate' and Liam's recent visit to London Jack Off Club. social club bator coaching survey Mentioned in this episode: Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naughty Forty Captivate Support...
Jun 10, 2023•40 min•Season 4Ep. 9
It's Masturbation Month again! So here's a little background on our annual bator celebration. bator coaching survey social club Mentioned in this episode: Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naughty Forty Captivate Support...
May 27, 2023•11 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Archeologists discovered something interesting recently and gave plenty of excuses, but we knew what it was. Sean gives us his first toy review. The guys chat about talking with friends. Join us for more chat in the Discord server . bator coaching survey Mentioned in this episode: Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naughty Forty Captivate Support...
Apr 29, 2023•29 min•Season 4Ep. 7
Here's the next Proud Bators Podcast episode. A bit of a chat about building a better bator community. Let me know what you think. bator coaching survey Mentioned in this episode: Captivate Support Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naughty Forty...
Apr 15, 2023•14 min•Season 4Ep. 6
An interesting chat about straight guys who bate together. If that's you and you're listening to the pod we'd love to hear from you. You're more than welcome in our Discord server. social club bator coaching survey Mentioned in this episode: Captivate Support Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naughty Forty...
Apr 01, 2023•29 min•Season 4Ep. 5
This might not be a popular opinion where bating is concerned but I'm out here saying that being a better bator doesn't have to just mean jerking it more. I'd love to hear what you think of your bate lifestyle balance at the moment. The poll to let me know is here . bator coaching survey social club Fleshjack Mentioned in this episode: Captivate Support Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naughty Forty...
Mar 18, 2023•12 min•Season 4Ep. 4
In this episode Liam and Sean discuss a recent article about how the cost of living crisis is making people hornier. We also share you answers to our last question about navigating bates when you have visitors. The listener question this time is "When have you rushed life to get to a bate?" or "When have you had to rush a bate session to get back to life?" bator coaching survey social club Mentioned in this episode: Captivate Support Naughty Forty! Out Now! My first erotic novel is out now! Naug...
Mar 04, 2023•30 min•Season 4Ep. 3
This episode is a new format for 2023. Liam's getting back to the solo episodes. Once a month he'll be talking you through a particular topic, often related to a part of his Better Bator Coaching Program. First up is the important question: What Kind of Bator Are You? Once you've listened to the episode I'd love to know what type you are, the poll is here . If you're not sure which type then head over here to fill out the survey to find out. The episode of Bator Terminology is here . Mentioned i...
Feb 18, 2023•14 min•Season 4Ep. 2
We're back! A new season of the Proud Bators Podcast. We've dropped the anonymous because we're prouder than ever to be bators, to talk about bating and to do our bit to make you a better bator! The review of Sticky: A Self Love Story is here . Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social cl...
Feb 04, 2023•30 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Liam and Sean open a discussion on NNN. We're curious to chat to anyone who's doing it so if you are please let us know in the comments or hit one of us up in the Discord. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Supp...
Nov 12, 2022•23 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Sean and Liam discuss their different methods of edging. We'd love to hear about your different methods for extending the bate session. Hit Liam up through his website or in the Discord server . Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click...
Oct 23, 2022•25 min•Season 3Ep. 9
A couple of ideas from listeners and an interesting article continues our load size discussion. The article about lecithin for load volume is here . You can find the recipe for Alex's smoothie on my socials. Got any other tips or tricks? Let us know. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a ti...
Oct 09, 2022•23 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Liam's {redacted} year school reunion was held recently and he's got a couple of fun bate-related stories that arose from this. The 'Strangers On A Train' episode from Liam's Gay Erotica podcast that the guys referred to is here . Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up for early access to episodes by following the link. Captivate Support Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great pl...
Sep 10, 2022•23 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Well, it's been a while but we're back. Thanks for your patience. Sean and Liam had a quick catch up before discussing wanking in space and some ways Liam's going to try to increase load size. Find more about Liam Williams' work on his website . Use one of the links below if you'd like to support his work financially. If you'd like to join the PBA Discord server, the link is here . Thanks for listening to the Proud Bators podcast. If you'd like to support us, you can leave us a tip or sign up fo...
Aug 27, 2022•28 min•Season 3Ep. 6
