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The Process of Healing

David Keck & Susie Spencertheprocessofhealing.com

The Process of Healing is a powerful platform dedicated to providing hope, healing, and education to individuals who have endured personal trauma. Through engaging interviews with survivors, answering listener questions, celebrity and expert guest and celebrating accomplishments that listeners have wrote in, our podcast aims to shed light on the struggles faced during and after traumatic  experiences, while fostering connection and support within our community.

We understand the profound impact that abuse and trauma can have on individuals, and our mission is to offer a safe space where survivors can find solace, inspiration, and resources to aid in their healing journey. By sharing personal stories of resilience and triumph, we aim to empower listeners and provide them with the tools they need to navigate their own healing process.

Whether you have experienced physical, emotional, or psychological abuse, or any other form of personal trauma, the The Process of Healing Podcast is here to offer guidance, understanding, and validation. We invite you to join our community and follow our Facebook page for ongoing support, inspiration, and valuable information on surviving abuse.

For further inquiries or to share your own story, please reach out to us at coaching.theprocess@gmail.com or connect with us @ https://theprocessofhealing.com/ Together, we can create a network of support and healing for survivors.

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Episodes

They BLAMED THE VICTIM: Unpacking The 'Gay Panic' Defense & Matthew Shepard's Unforgettable Fight

Send us a text WARNING: This episode discusses sensitive topics including violence and hate crimes. As Pride Month concludes, we're diving deep beyond the rainbow flags into the shocking realities of the LGBTQIA+ fight for freedom. 🚨 You think you know Pride? Think again. Join David, Susie, and special guest Jenny from @UnholierThanThouPodcast for an urgent conversation that exposes the horrifying "GAY PANIC" DEFENSE – a legal loophole that has allowed attackers to blame victims for their own b...

Jun 26, 202535 minSeason 3Ep. 201

Your Anger is Your SUPERPOWER: Unlocking Healing & Justice After Trauma!

Send us a text Sick of being told to "just let it go" after everything you've been through? 😤 This week on The Process of Healing, Susie Spencer and David Keck are flipping the script on anger! In this raw and unfiltered episode, we dive headfirst into the powerful, often misunderstood role of fury in healing from trauma. We're challenging all the societal norms that force survivors to bottle up their rage. Through personal stories of injustice and resilience, we break down the damaging stigmas...

Jun 19, 202534 minSeason 3Ep. 201

UNLEASH Your Rage: Why Survivors Are Forbidden To Be Angry (The SHOCKING Truth!)

Send us a text Ever felt intense, burning anger after trauma, only to be told to "be strong" or "just forgive"? 🤬 This week on The Process of Healing, David Keck and Susie Spencer are ripping off the societal gag order on survivor anger ! David kicks off with a raw, personal anecdote about the fury he felt after his attempted murder and rape, and the immense pressure to bury it. We expose the "Be Grateful You Survived" trap and the harmful societal and even religious bypasses that demand surviv...

Jun 12, 202532 minSeason 3Ep. 200

Honk If You're Furious! Unpacking the Psychology of Road Rage (It's Not Just Bad Drivers!)

Send us a text Ever found yourself absolutely losing it behind the wheel? 🤬 You're SO not alone! This week on The Process of Healing, we dive deep into the explosive phenomenon of road rage . Host David with Susie, a personal meltdown on the road and kicks off a raw and honest exploration: Is it really just about that slow driver, or is something deeper going on? 🤔 #roadrage #aggression #meltdown The Ryan Pyle Podcast The Ryan Pyle Podcast with Ryan Pyle is a podcast and radio show hosted by a...

Jun 05, 202548 minSeason 3Ep. 199

King of the Hill Star Murdered: The Controversial Hate Crime ALLEGATIONS Explored!

Send us a text In this episode of the 'Before-Processing' segment on the Process of Failing podcast, host David takes a respectful and intense look at the tragic death of voice actor Jonathan Joss. David delves into the complex and painful circumstances surrounding Joss's passing, including the alleged hate crime elements. The episode highlights the broader implications for the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges of proving hate-motivated crimes, and the importance of empathy and support in the fac...

Jun 05, 20258 minSeason 3Ep. 202

Anger ISN'T the Enemy: Ann Russo on Embracing Your Feelings in the Healing Process

Send us a text In this episode of 'The Process of Healing,' David converses with Ann Russo about the complex journey of trauma and recovery. David and Ann discuss various elements of trauma, including personal experiences, the influence of societal norms on emotional expression, particularly in men, and the critical importance of advocacy and authenticity in healing. Ann shares her own background, growing up in a queer household, engaging in social justice work, and eventually becoming a therapi...

May 29, 202554 minSeason 3Ep. 198

The Unaccepted "Sorry" - When "I'm Sorry" Isn't Enough

Send us a text "I'M SORRY" SECRETS REVEALED! 🤫 Ever wonder WHY some apologies heal and others fall FLAT? We dive deep into the SHOCKING psychology of a real apology – it's NOT just saying the words! Learn the surprising power of genuine remorse, the KEY to being HEARD, and the mistakes that RUIN your chances. Plus, we tackle the messy truth about forgiveness: is it ALWAYS necessary? Unlock stronger relationships and personal growth NOW! #apology #forgiveness #communication #relationships #selfg...

May 22, 202553 minSeason 3Ep. 196

Empowering Survivors: Trey's Law and the Journey to Justice part 2

Send us a text Join us for a powerful and heartfelt discussion that Jenny & Susie had on a TikTok LIVE where we delve into the significance of Trey's Law and the personal story of a survivor named Susie's. Recently featured in a video testimony for the Texas Senate, Susie shares the emotional and challenging journey of advocating for legal reform to support survivors of sexual assault. The conversation covers the impact of statute limitations, the role of NDAs in sexual assault cases, and th...

May 15, 202544 minSeason 3Ep. 197

Empowering Survivors: Trey's Law and the Journey to Justice

Send us a text Join us for a powerful and heartfelt discussion that David & Susie had on a TikTok LIVE where we delve into the significance of Trey's Law and the personal story of a survivor named Susie. Recently featured in a video testimony for the Texas Senate, Susie shares the emotional and challenging journey of advocating for legal reform to support survivors of sexual assault. The conversation covers the impact of statute limitations, the role of NDAs in sexual assault cases, and the ...

May 15, 20251 hr 22 minSeason 3Ep. 195

Breaking the Silence: Honest Talk About Suicide, Stigma & How to Offer Support

Send us a text Join David and Susie in 'The Process of Healing' as they bravely tackle the complex and heavy topic of suicide. In this heartfelt episode, they discuss personal experiences, societal stigmas, and the importance of finding light amidst the darkness. They emphasize the power of open conversations, the significance of mental health support, and present resources like suicide hotlines to help those in need. Learn how to approach the subject with empathy, break down harmful stigmas, an...

May 08, 202550 minSeason 3Ep. 194

The War Within: Why "Just Be Stronger" Doesn't Work & Real Strategies for Overcoming Depression

Send us a text In this heartfelt episode, hosts David and Susie of 'The Process of Healing' delve into the complex and often misunderstood topic of depression. Through personal anecdotes and insightful discussions, they explore the reality of living with depression, breaking down stigmas, and the importance of normalizing conversations around mental health. They share strategies for healing, emphasizing the difference between resilience and immunity, and introduce the idea of 'anchoring' as a gr...

May 01, 202557 minSeason 3Ep. 193

Hope Rose: Custody Chaos—A Mother's Unyielding Battle

Send us a text In this emotional and inspiring episode of the Process Appealing Survivor Edition, join the host as they sit down with Ms. Hope Rose. Hope shares her harrowing story of domestic abuse, her tumultuous battle in the family court system, and the profound losses she endured to protect her son. Despite overwhelming challenges, Hope's resilience shines through as she speaks on her journey of healing and her mission to raise awareness about the flaws in the family court system. This raw ...

Apr 24, 202557 minSeason 3Ep. 192

Overcoming Perceived Threats: Navigating Fear and Anxiety in Modern Society

Send us a text In this insightful episode, Susie and David discuss the concept of perceived threats and how they affect our everyday lives. They delve into how past traumas and societal influences shape our reactions to perceived dangers, often leading to unnecessary fear and anxiety. The conversation highlights how marginalized communities, including transgender individuals and the Black community, are often unfairly weaponized to instill fear. Personal anecdotes, such as David's experiences wi...

Apr 17, 202536 minSeason 3Ep. 191

Breaking the Stigma: Siamon Emery's Raw Truth About Childhood Trauma & Finding Safety

Send us a text In this powerful episode of 'The Process of Healing', Siamon Emery sits down with David to share his journey through trauma and healing. Siamon, currently residing in Costa Rica, opens up about his tumultuous childhood, being raised by drug-dependent parents, and the path that led him to become a mentor. The conversation delves into understanding trauma as a universal human experience, breaking the stigmas surrounding mental health, and the importance of reparenting oneself. Siamo...

Apr 10, 202557 minSeason 3Ep. 190

Navigating Toxic Positivity: Expert Advice on Realistic Mental Wellness & CBT w/ Judith Belmont

Send us a text In this episode, mental health expert Judith Belmont, with over 40 years of experience, joins the hosts to discuss her new book '110 CBT Tips and Tools.' The conversation delves into her professional relationship with trauma, the misconceptions surrounding mental health, and the power of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Together, they explore the importance of not comparing traumas, the value of self-compassion, and practical tips for maintaining mental wellness. Highlights als...

Apr 03, 202555 minSeason 3Ep. 189

Unlocking the Four F's: The Truth Behind Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn

Send us a text In today's episode, join hosts David and Susie as they delve into the hidden survival mechanisms - the Four Fs: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn - that may be sabotaging your life. They discuss how these responses are triggered by trauma and how understanding them can aid in the healing process. Susie also talks about her new podcast, 'Unholier Than Thou,' which explores personal experiences in religious environments and the troubled teen industry. This insightful conversation aims...

Mar 27, 202543 minSeason 3Ep. 188

The Ripple Effect: Drunk Driving

Send us a text A devastating drunk driving crash shatters lives. Hear the raw, personal story of a survivor, witness accounts of the horrific scene, and the ripple effect of trauma on a community. This episode explores resilience, grief, and the unseen scars of tragedy. #DrunkDrivingAwareness #Trauma #TrueStory #DrunkDrivingAwareness #Trauma #Resilience #TrueStory #EmotionalJourney #Community #Hope #PersonalStory #WitnessAccount #Grief #Empathy #Survivor #CarAccident #Podcast #Storytelling The R...

Mar 20, 202544 minSeason 3Ep. 187

The Southern Baptist Convention's Hidden Scandal: A 2022 Revelation

Send us a text In this episode, we discuss a significant event from 2022 involving the Southern Baptist Convention. It was revealed that the organization had been concealing numerous cases of sexual assault within the church. These incidents involved both minors and adults, and there were efforts to suppress the outcries of victims by pushing them to forgive the perpetrators, thereby avoiding proper justice. #SBCScandal #SouthernBaptistConvention #ReligiousAccountability #podcast The Ryan Pyle P...

Mar 13, 202546 minSeason 3Ep. 186

From Laughter to Loss: Nancy Vega's Son's Suicide & the Unseen Battle Against Depression

Send us a text In this heartfelt podcast episode, we welcome Nancy Vega, a brave mother sharing her deeply personal story of loss. Nancy's son, Martin, tragically took his own life, leaving an immense void in her world. Despite her unimaginable grief, Nancy has chosen a path of courage and compassion, dedicating herself to keeping her son's memory alive and raising awareness about the impact of suicide. Through their conversation, Nancy recounts Martin's joyful spirit and the subtle signs of his...

Mar 06, 20251 hrSeason 3Ep. 185

Restorative Justice vs. Revenge: The Heartbreaking Case of Tyler Clementi

Send us a text What happens when a college prank turns into a national tragedy? This episode of The Process of Healing dives deep into the heartbreaking story of Tyler Clementi, a young man whose life was tragically cut short by cyberbullying and homophobia. We're not just telling a story; we're asking tough questions about justice, accountability, and the power of empathy. Was it a prank gone wrong, or something far more sinister? We dissect the events leading to Tyler's death, examining the ro...

Feb 27, 202551 minSeason 3Ep. 184

Mini Episode: Restorative Justice vs. Revenge: The Heartbreaking Case of Tyler Clementi

Send us a text This weeks mini episode discusses the tragic story of Tyler Clementi, a young man whose life was tragically cut short by cyberbullying and homophobia. In this powerful episode, we confront the devastating consequences of hate crimes and explore the controversial concept of restorative justice. Was punishment enough, or could a different approach have changed the outcome? We unpack the shocking details of Tyler's case, from the invasive acts of his roommate to the heartbreaking mom...

Feb 25, 20253 minSeason 3Ep. 183

This Doctor's SECRET: How Your Emotions Are Causing Your Pain

Send us a text You Won't Believe This! 🤯 In this episode, I sit down with Dr. David Clark, a physician who's revolutionizing how we understand health. Get ready to be amazed as Dr. Clark reveals how unresolved trauma and stress can literally manifest as physical symptoms. #MindBodyConnection #Neuroplasticity #ChronicPain #HealingJourney #MentalHealth #Wellness We delve deep into the fascinating world of the mind-body connection, exploring how our emotions and past experiences can impact our phy...

Feb 20, 20251 hr 2 minSeason 2Ep. 183

The Butterfly Effect: How Caren Paskel Turned Tragedy into Triumph

Send us a text In this deeply moving and insightful conversation, David sits down with Caren Paskal, an author, inspirational speaker, and nonprofit leader, to discuss her personal journey with trauma and healing. Caren shares her experiences as a caregiver to her husband who battled brain cancer, and how these challenging times transformed her life. They explore the importance of self-belief, self-care, and the profound impact of grounding and play in the healing process. Caren also talks about...

Feb 13, 20251 hr 14 minSeason 2Ep. 182

The Pursuit of Closure: Is It Really Necessary?

Send us a text In the final episode of Season One of 'The Process of Healing,' our hosts take a heartfelt look back at the healing journey they've shared with their listeners. They discuss the importance of reflecting on progress, celebrating milestones, and integrating new perspectives. Through their candid conversation, they underline how closure and self-awareness play a crucial role in the healing process. The episode also includes an 'Enjoy the Ride' segment, where they answer listener ques...

Feb 10, 202549 minSeason 2Ep. 181

The SHOCKING Truth About Finding Meaning in Life

Send us a text In this episode we delve into the profound topic of "meaning-making" – the human drive to find purpose and significance in life. We explore how our brains construct meaning from our experiences, the psychological and philosophical underpinnings of this process, and how to cultivate a more meaningful existence. Discover practical strategies for overcoming the common pitfalls that hinder meaning-making, such as focusing solely on external validation or getting stuck in a rut. This e...

Jan 30, 202537 minSeason 2Ep. 180

Inner Child: A Guide to Self-Compassion

Send us a text In this enlightening episode of 'The Process of Healing Podcast,' hosts David, Susie, Becky, and Jason delve deeply into the concept of the inner child. They discuss personal journeys in therapy, explore the enduring impact of childhood traumas, and share meaningful insights on emotional healing. The conversation touches on how different ages and experiences shape our inner selves, the importance of acknowledging and nurturing those parts of us, and how parenting styles and societ...

Jan 23, 20251 hr 3 minSeason 2Ep. 179

Victoria Ellen: Painting In The Rain

Send us a text Survivor Stories are back and we have a great one for you! In this compelling episode, host David interviews Victoria Ellen, author of 'Painting in the Rain,' a memoir rooted in true crime and personal triumph. Victoria shares her journey of overcoming a marriage filled with deception, abuse, and legal battles. She discusses the horrors she and her children faced, the corrupt judicial system, and her ultimate victory in court as her own attorney. With insights into navigating trau...

Jan 16, 202549 minSeason 2Ep. 178

Jonathan Davisson: A Brother's Story of A Life Lost & A Voice Found

Send us a text In this episode, we candidly discuss the complexities of grief, healing, and the emotional weight of personal trauma. Our host announces a brief hiatus in new episodes, except for TikTok lives, reflecting on the impactful conversations and guests we've had. We delve deep into a powerful discussion with guest Jonathan Davison, touching on his brother's struggle with mental health, societal pressures, and the profound impact of loss. Jonathan shares his journey toward healing and th...

Jan 09, 202549 minSeason 2Ep. 177

The Process of Healing: TIKTOK LIVE clips

Send us a text Due to the holidays we wanted to take some time to celebrate with family and friends. This weeks episode is a collection of discussions from our TIKTIK LIVES. We discuss trauma and healing, and we have questions that come into the chat during the live that we discuss. Hope you enjoy this episode! If you are not following our social medias we would love for you to! TikTok: theprocess_podcast Facebook: The Process of Healing The Ryan Pyle Podcast The Ryan Pyle Podcast with Ryan Pyle...

Jan 02, 202536 minSeason 2Ep. 176

Trish Elaine: Finding Hope After Domestic Violence

Send us a text Have you ever wondered what it takes to transform personal trauma into a beacon of hope for others? Join us as we welcome Ms. Trish, a domestic violence survivor, who courageously shares her journey from facing disbelief and skepticism to becoming a powerful advocate on TikTok. Listen to her recount the pivotal moment when another survivor's understanding ignited her resolve to speak out and support others. This episode is filled with Ms. Trish's insights into the importance of se...

Dec 27, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 155
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