This guy constantly disrespected you, cheated on you, broke your virginity, cheated on you again, you took a pill after a sexual encounter with the same guy had some side effects to this pill. He ghosted you and now he wants to come back, process it how I've explained it and I'll come back and explain to me what you want me to tell you, huh? What I hate in this world, Adema Thai Crowbiasi is the man that gossips with his fellow man.
If you're doing it with your baby girl or if you want to just with your baby girl, that one makes sense. So. But if you're going to gossip with your fellow man, AMA time. It is annoying, it is disgusting. News flash News flash, this man is married with two kids. Happy new year, guys. Yes, this is our very first episode for 2025. This is the POV podcast. My name is Nanny Khalifa. And how was your holidays? Tell me, tell me. I want the cheers. I want the cheers.
Yes, I want to know, 'cause mine was just, I was in the house, in the room, just thinking about the whole year and how it did not go as I want. But it was still exciting to be alive, to witness 2025. Basically what we do here if you're new is that we read threads and then confessions. The threads we pick up from X and then the confessions. You send it to my DM on TikTok, that is the POV and also you can also send to my e-mail that is the POV 897@gmail.com.
I promise this year I'm going to pay attention to my e-mail because it has become hard to me alone. It has become hard. I'll go to my EDM Instagram, Tiktok, everywhere. Yeah, that is how it doesn't come. But I am grateful to you guys because you trust me enough to handle your situations for you. So yes, I share their stories and then I also share my
opinions on these stories. Then again, people in the comments section, all my lovely, lovely, lovely viewers also share their opinions in the comments section. Yes, that's on period. Now, before I get into this particular episode threads, I mentioned last year December, that I was doing a giveaway. And on that particular video or in the video, I said the giveaway. I said tag people share. And then when the video gets a particular number, views, number of views, I will mention the
winner of the giveaway. And I mentioned that one person win money. The other person would also be on the podcast as a guest. Yes, I said three people will win, but I've forgotten the last thing the person will get. But definitely I will remember. Yeah. And as I said that I've seen that people have been tagged under the videos, but this is the problem. It hasn't gotten the views. And so until it gets the views, the winner will not be mentioned.
And so keep sharing, keep telling people about it. Let them come and watch the video. And when it gets to the views, I will. What do you call it? Mention the winner and give out the prize. Don't forget to subscribe. Very important. When your people come, let them subscribe. Let them share. OK, Yeah, Let me get into the threads that we have here now, it being the first episode for the year. The thread I picked up on was what toxic advice would you give
your younger self? What toxic advice would you give your younger self? I know people like ah, new year. Why are you going straight to toxic? I use this because I feel like when people are, I'm entering into a new year, they're like, yeah, new year, new me, I'm going to be a new person, I'm going to change, you know, that
kind of thing. Yeah. And so I'm assuming that people would sit down and give themselves some advice or talk themselves into thinking that there's something about them that, like, they need to in that change or they need to improve. So yeah, the first one says if you want to get a body, tell her you just want to be friends and watch her jump through hoops to prove you wrong. I want to understand this one. If you want to get a buddy, you
just have to be a friend. So basically buddies will turn you down probably because you don't have money to to sponsor them. But if you want to be their friend, you can quickly sleep with them as a friend. Is that what you're trying to say? That's a crazy insight. Quit arguing with people and start slashing their tires. People are going to go haywire the string 25 if he goes low. Go underground. Hey don't feel bad about cheating on her with her best
friend. She will never find out fact or bullshit about them having a boyfriend. If it's matter to them, they wouldn't be offering you pussy. Wow, go for the one with daddy shoes. Now this is stunning me. What? Fuck them my boy, all of them. The anxious. Those abortions are worth it. Keep grinding. Ignore negative people, it hurts them more. Smash the rich girl, spend your daddy's money and tell his wife. Wow go ahead and go after the man that's been trying to get
you from your man. He's cheating on you anyway. Be the villain. She's going to cheat on you sooner or later. Wow I'm hearing cheats cheats cheats. I'm seeing cheats cheats. Someone said go to the gym and test strap these hoes. No one cares about how good you treat them. Treat everyone like shit. This shit is crazy. This shit is crazy. Interesting toxic advice you'd give yourself or you will give your younger self. This is a toxic advice I would give my younger self.
Girl, be the buddy that you are because I don't think this is been a toxic advice. This is generally an advice I will give myself as a younger self. Stay confident, be the body that you are, stick with your principles, understand that people will assume that integrity is not it, but it is. That is the advice I'll give to myself. This is not toxic, this is real advice. OK, so you can take it or not, but you see the ones that I read earlier, they are all toxic
advice. Yes, they are all toxic advice. Now let's get straight into the stories for this episode. But you can also give yourself advice. Let me ask you, what advice would you give your younger self today as you're watching this video, what advice would you give your younger self? Let me know whilst I go through the stories. Do that in the comments section. Let's read the stories for this episode. Let's love it. Let's.
Love it keep my identity so let's this lady I'm in class with I was dating from level 100. She's always cheating on me but because I loved her I always forgive her. I've done everything possible to keep this girl, but she paid me back with betrayal. We weren't talking till last week. She called me to meet her somewhere and to my surprise she wanted sex from me. I refused because I didn't trust that she was genuine this time around, but I still love her.
What do I do? Love is not always enough my darling. I I. I think I've gotten too much of these stories that I have come to understand that the default response I am going to give to you is that love not always enough. Leave her. She's cheating on you. She doesn't love you. She has done it multiple times. It's not going to stop today. I don't think she respects you enough to stop cheating and so please leave there.
Let's love it, Let's love it. I'm a level 400 in the University of Education Winneba and the school has been doing something I don't understand. During our final year exams, our department did not allow those students who haven't finished paying their school fees to write their last paper. They said they can only write when they've They're done paying
for their fees. And I want to know if it's in our law book that if you haven't finished paying your fees, you can't write your exams because it's really paining me. Thank you. Now, I think this is something that has been going on for the longest time. It is not a matter of today. It has been going on for so, so, so long when I was in school and your mother was in school and you're for everybody like it's is something that is there.
And I let's, let's look at it from the school's point of view and I will come back and look at it from your point of view, from the school's point of view. They need your money to run the school. And so if you don't pay your school fees, running the school be difficult. Printing those exams questions, printing those papers, buying those papers, cleaning, you know, paying those cleaners, doing this, doing that is not possible. Paying the electricity, water is not possible.
And so they need your money to run the school, right? Exactly. Now, on the other hand, you, the students, you need to be able to pursue your education. And so not paying your school fees is not an intentional thing, except for those people that spend their school fees intentionally. For some people, it is hard to even raise the money to pay the school fees, although we actually need the education. And so it is hard. That is the point of view as a student.
It is not intentional. And so sometimes the school can cut you a slack for you to write the exams by looking at it. Both of you have to be able to do something and that is what they need to do. That is how I understand it. I'm not saying it is the right thing to do. I am just saying that I understand it from the school's point of view. Do you get it? Yeah. Let me know what people think in the comments section. Question.
Is it right or has it always been right that a school administration or a department would say that because the student has not paid their school fees, I am not letting them write the exams? And so until they pay, I don't care whether they feather their education or not, whether they are being able to complete the school or not. If they don't pay, I am not letting them enjoy what comes with pay your school fees. Let me know what you think of this in the comments section. OK, that's.
What it That's what it. Keep me anonymous. I'm a guy of 17 and I met this girl in SHS who is 2 years older than me. I'm so much into this girl and I don't know if she's also doing same. I propose to her after school and she was like she's not ready to date unless after five years. Been almost a year now and four years remaining. I'm getting kind of bored because nothing shows she's in and willing to. Whenever I bring up the topic she changes it.
Sometimes my attitude towards her change like I'm not checking up on her and also she got the vein to tell me that I can choose to leave or stay. From the look of things she could help me one way or the other. Please I need your advice. Please tag me when you post the video. Now I have two things to address here. The people that send me their stories and tell me to tag them. When? What do you call lipost? I can't tag you because I won't
remember who you are. I screenshot and crop your name out of it so that for some reasons, if it pops up on camera, I won't be found. One thing. Yeah. So I don't think you said I should keep you anonymous and I should tag you. How is this possible? I don't think I can tag you. But about your situation, when a woman tells you that I don't want, I don't want. Don't stress it.
You're getting pissed off. It's on your own accord because this girl has told you that she's not ready to date until five years. Five years is not up. So why are you bringing it up again? Why you think she's going to help you? Maybe she thinks you're not going to help her. So I don't know why you're bringing it up. I don't know why you think you're entitled to be angry over someone not wanting you. My dear, focus on yourself.
You're 17, I know at this juncture your feelings are all over the place, but focus on yourself. She doesn't want you. If it's dating you want to date. You can actually look around and find someone else, but I personally think that she has told you what she wants and you need to respect it. And I like that this girl told you what she wants. My girls, if you don't want somebody, tell them you don't want them. Don't string them along because this is how girl, you know, some
guys get used. I have told you I don't want you, but you go ahead and still linger around and think that I am going to come back and change my mind. That's crazy. That's crazy. That's love it. That's love it. I met this guy here in Canada. When he saw me he actually told me he likes me and to be honest I also like him too. So he proposed to me and I accepted his proposal and we started dating. When we started dating I opened up to him and I told him I have one son because I really want
the relationship to work. So I told him everything about me. He told me about himself and never told me. He was married and also have two kids. What? I later found out he was married and I was very mad at that point. He came and apologized to me and I accepted it because I love him. We dated like 3 months and I got pregnant and I decided to keep the pregnancy. Girl are you delusional?
I told him about it and he advised me about it and at the time I was new in the country so I didn't have any option but to get rid of the pregnancy. We agreed on that so I went and got rid of the pregnancy. After doing that he never called me and asked me about my health. They have not seen anything. He started acting weird so I told my mom and my mom called him before calling me. Mind you, my mom knows him. I'm really ashamed of writing this, especially this part but I
need to Fast forward. He came and apologized for what he did and decided to let the pain go in me and I forgot everything and started over. One day I was supposed to go for some barbecue and he wasn't with me. He asked his best friend to pick me up because his friend was also attending the BBQ. So we went I was I was with his friend, we're having fun and after the BBQ his friend dropped
me off. When we got to my house we're talking about his friend's behaviour towards me and I was talking about the pain that he puts me through. I told his friend about what happened between his friend and I, I mean the pregnancy and his friend asked me not to tell my boyfriend. We had this conversation and I told him I'm not going to tell my boyfriend because when I tell him he'll be mad at me. So after talking with his friend he advised me to be patients with him.
When his friend left my house, he went to my boyfriend's place around 2:30 AM and told my boyfriend why didn't he tell him about my pregnancy and my boyfriend called me and he was very mad at me and didn't even want me to explain. My boyfriend didn't tell me I shouldn't ask his friend about it. He asked me do I want to separate his friendship between himself and his friend.
I wanted to explain what brought the conversation up for him to understand my point but he never wanted to hear me out. I've been trying my possible best. I've been sending him messages to explain what's but he's not responding. I've been calling him from Saturday till now he hasn't answered my calls. I've been texting him to apologize.
I know what I did was wrong by telling his friend about it but I as I said I said it out of pain because he was really has really done a lot of things to me that really hurts me and I don't want to disclose much here but I'm stressed, I'm confused and it's really affecting me. I need your help. The help you need for me is not how you need to figure out. So apologize to your married boyfriend with two kids.
The help you need from me and the audience out there is, is how to get out of your head about this man. Because just so you know, news flash, news flash, this man is married with two kids in all this story. Do you know who I'm I'm I'm disappointed in your mother for agreeing. I don't know the way you said it. Your mother know knows the guy. You said my mother knows the guy. You did not know that. You did not say that My mother
knows the guy and I are dating. So I'm going to assume that the fact that she knows the guy, she knows you guys are dating. If she knows that you guys are dating and she's not advised you to walk away from that man, God. OK, My outmost respect to you and what I can tell you is to walk away from that relationship or whatever you have with that man. Then again, I don't know how US huh What I hate in this war there there may tie crow will be I say is the man that gossips
with his fellow man. If you're doing it with your baby girl or if you want to just with your baby girl, that one makes sense. So but if you're going to gossip with your fellow man every time it is annoying. It is disgusting. What the hell? Just so you know, maybe they set you up. That's another angle too. That's another thing. Maybe, maybe they set you up. Maybe they set you up just for him to let go of you because he's tired. He has used you. It's time for him to dump your
ass. Let's have. It let's have. It I've been dating this guy he supports me very well but my problem is he snores. How do I tell him? And sometimes always busy baby girl I I just learnt something recently from a book that I read. The book is called Men are from Mass women, women are from Venice. And let me tell you, it has opened my mind and my heart to a lot of things, to things that I did not think that I could know. OK, so let's go through it. Your man snores.
Snoring is part of, you know, the things that happened to human beings even in fact, snoring is normal. It has become a normal thing. You understand, it is noise. We all don't like it. But when you love somebody, you learn to accommodate some things. You can buy him that nose strip thing that, you know, people put in their nose when they snore and then it can help reduce the situation. 1-2 Have a sense now conversation with him.
OK. And this is where the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venice comes in. Sit down with him and tell him that babe, when you sleep, your snoring makes it difficult for me to sleep. That is one way you can go about it. The second way you can go about it is by writing him a love letter. That is a way you can communicate. I know people will stop chatting. And today to today, we still write letter. We still write no. This love letter helps people share their feelings without
coming off offensive from bat. Because then once you are writing how you feel about the situation, you are basically also pouring your emotions or your anger, whatever you feel out. And so after you have written the love, what you call it letter and the love letter, you write about one something that you're angry about, which is the snoring, I assume, and his busy schedule, something that you regret, something you are sorry about, and then how much you
love him. And in this case, when you write something you're sorry about, something that something you're angry about, something that you're sorry, something that you regret and how much you love him, you put him through an emotional roller coaster. And in the end, he's going to be happy because you told him how much you love him.
And I also told him the thing that you don't like about him, then it doesn't feel like you are just invalidating him or you're making him feel bad about something that he has no control about. That is one thing you can do.
The second thing you can do is also when he's sleeping, you can help him position himself well so that the snoring will not be so bad that they will piss you off to come and write a dilemma here for me. And when it comes to his busy schedule, as I said before, it's all part of conversations. You can let him know, Hey, would you please let us go here today? Hey, would you please let us spend this time together today? And that is something that you can talk to that person about.
If you can't tell your partner that, babe, your busy schedule is affecting our relationship, I don't think you need to be in that relationship in the 1st place. Yeah. So you need to be able to tell him, talk to him. That's love. It that's love it. Yeah, I'm a girl of 20 years, currently in the university. I'm in a relationship with a
very good guy. I really really care about him so much that I don't want to cheat on him and I really don't want the relationship to go bad but POV here's the issue. I want love that we go out having fun together and everything. I would chip in the money 'cause I believe love is reciprocal and I want someone who is business minded, thinks and acts on his future and this guy is not that at all. I really care about him. I tried waking up with him but he talked to me so I stopped and
we are still together. Purely the reason for the breakup for me is that I'm not feeling the relationship again and in the beginning I was having doubts but I ignored all and one thing led to the other. He dreamt about me leaving him for another guy. Two days later one of my friends in class that we started getting along already told me he really likes me and POV. He's someone I won't hesitate in dating 'cause he has other qualities that I want in a man
and since I'm a private person. I told him long ago that I was not in a relationship and I've still not told him yet. Purely this guy is willing to pamper me as how I want. So now I'm in a dilemma. I I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but I also want to be loved right? And I have a lot of issues with love 'cause my own treats me like he doesn't love me at times purely. Now I've met this new guy that he's doing his best to make me feel loved. Now my BF is starting to care
for me bit by bit. He once play playfully as if I was cheating on him but I'm not. So I told him no, I wasn't pure VI. Need advice either. To date the new guy for three months together with my boyfriend and choose one on WhatsApp. I have started already doing my best to push the new guy away. Pure V. I've done everything possible to let the new guy go but still he said he wants me. Please don't judge me but help me 'cause I don't want to be an
unfaithful partner to any guy. What did you say please? I couldn't tell him the reason I wanted to break up. I believe in this. Your old man wants to try and be a better person for you because that's what I saw here.
My guy is trying to care for me. This is conflicting because him trying can go bad and can go good, but in the sense that it would be that he would try for some time and get tired and stop good in the sense that he can go all the way and become the best partner that you would ever have.
I need you to sit down with your old partner, have a conversation, do a list of things you guys or you want to do and make sure that he also has something that he wants to do and give yourself at least three months. You see that three months that you want to did the new guy with your boyfriend. Use that three months to try and develop a better relationship with your man.
And if that after that three months things don't change, then you know that he's not going to change or nothing is going to change and you can move on. But As for the new guy, I don't think jumping onto him immediately because you think he has all the qualities you're looking for is the best. Because men, men can be very sweet in the beginning when they want you. That's the truth.
In fact, even for women to women to can be very understanding in the beginning of a relationship, but at some point we won't understand again. So it's a human thing. We can be very nice in the beginning because then it's rosy, it's sweet, all our feelings are flying around and all that. But after three months, the honeymoon is over. Now we're facing the real relationship and that's where problem sets in.
And so I'll tell you that the three months that you want to use to go and cheat on your boyfriend with the new guy, you can't use that three months to redefine the relationship you have with your man and then move on. But with this new guy, please block him if it's possible, block him. Let him know this is not by force to date. Tell him I don't want you. I've met somebody. You can even because you've not told him that you're dating before he started toasting, you
can tell him that you know what? I don't like you. I've met somebody that I like and I want to be with period. And he will leave if he's sensible, OK? Let's love it. Let's love. It I dated this guy for a few years as a side chick before his other woman went late, though he wasn't married to her at the same time before he lost her. We knew it wasn't that serious. At the same time I was chatting another man online and I had waited for two years and he still didn't make it.
I moved on with my guy because he never treated me bad and he's a cool guy. Now the man I am chatting with is planning to come and meet me because I still hope that he would still make it. I never blocked him. The issue is now the guy I'm dating now is madly in love with me from the situation and my family background. How do I leave him without hurting his feelings? Or should I just forget the man? I have been chatting for two years, 2 1/2 years for him. This is a tough decision.
Help me and keep me anonymous. You were a side chick and you got promoted to a main chick because the man lost his main chick. And whilst you were a side chick, you also talking to somebody trying to be the main chick of that person. And then now you are the main chick of the guy. And then the guy has fallen
madly in love with you. And now then the new guy that you were hoping to be a main chick with is in town or he's planning to come to town and meet you and you don't know what to do. I don't know what to do for you either and so comment section please help me out. OK? Because this is a thing. You have a substantial or let me say you have spent a substantial time with both of them. One was physical, the other was distance. Sometimes a relationship works,
other times they don't. Sometimes in person relationship works, other times they don't. So for me it is a very confusing thing. OK. And so yeah, comment section do your thing. That's love it. That's love it. My story is long, I don't know if you can read it. Call me doctor. I met a lady who was a sister to my friend. One day back from campus I saw her home when my friend is at the shop.
We end up dating a doctor Pennsylvania when I had left my friend's place to my mom's house because he wasn't comfortable. He keeps on visiting me until one day she met my mom in my absence. She introduced herself to my mother as my friend. My mother wasn't OK due to her dress and the anklette on her legs. Another day she visited me in my absence where she met my mother again and my mother suck her from the house. I came home very angry when all sisters started laughing at me.
I entered my room quietly. My mother knew I was angry so she came in trying to explain why she suck her. Though I knew my mother would only do that for a reason. That's the bad attitude of my girlfriend but I love her. We agree not coming to my place again but I will rather visit hell while knowing his brother too was not in good terms with me. So I only visit when his brother was gone to shop in the morning and left there before evening.
We did hide and seek for about a year until something happened and then they were sucked from where they stay. To cut a story short, her brother joined another friend to stay there whilst my girlfriend too stays at my room in my mom's place because at the time I was reading my master's degree and I was supposed to travel to campus. Even though my mother wasn't happy but I fought her so she agreed by force. So as a result of my girlfriend's attitude, all my sisters and my mom wasn't
talking to her. As a guy of 24 who was in love, I decided to rent an apartment and stay together with my girlfriend. Finally, I got an apartment where I met one lady who was the landlady's daughter and she was a nurse. We talked and we started dating. Though I was living together with my girlfriend in their house, I felt deep in love with the nest when we started going
out. As a matter of fact, I wasn't happy cheating but I remember the book he had my girlfriend give me some time ago and her bad attitude which she told me she can't change. The length and the breadth of the story is that my girlfriend started fighting the nest after I broke up with her and she reported to my pastor and all the people around me to apologize on their behalf but I made them know I'm done with it. So I left the rented house and
go back to my house. She kept on visiting me at night when she knew my mother was asleep. By then though the nurse know I have woken up with her until one day she saw me walking with the nurse and she approached to embarrass us. She told the nurse she has not done with me because every night she visits me at my house and she's even pregnant with me. That scene also ended when I tried to explain myself to Denise but she didn't listen.
After a month I received a wedding invitation card and it was the nurse she was getting married. I said wow life doesn't end when my ex-girlfriend also reported me to my pastor about her pregnancy. Fast forward we sat on the matter and the outcome was that once I have stayed with her I can't deny the pregnancy though
I denied but it wasn't accepted. Later on she told I have disgraced her by denying the pregnancy so she don't want anything from me and when she gives birth the child is not for me. I take it as a joke because I was sending her money every week but no visitation. She traveled to her mother's place at the voter raging after her rent was due where she started rejecting my money. I asked her why and her answer was I will not give my child to
you so I don't want your money. Several times I tried explaining to his brother about the situation but all they could say is that his sister is smart. I'm also not getting the chance to speak to her mother neither do I have the exact town she is
at the voter region. I called her today and I asked the update of the pregnancy because I knew if nothing is wrong by now she would have given birth but she's telling me all she needed from me was to go was to get her pregnant and that was why she took some drugs in order for me to get her pregnant. Now she's happy so nothing concerns her pregnancy should concern me.
Sometimes I think this is a fake pregnancy but she was in her seat month before she left and she's even show me the doctor's report as evidence. Any time I call her phone she looks happy and it keeps me confused. Whenever I remember this I judge myself and sometimes even when sent her money she sends the money back to me and she keeps on repeating her words. What should I do? First of all, doc, this is your English, dear. Nodding. Secondly, both of you made a
whole lot of mistakes. Was her bad attitude just the neck, the anklets and the short clothes or she was actually bad? And I when it comes to family, yeah. When family members don't like the person you're with, it is best you push back because you see all these drama.
If your family lied there, there wouldn't have been any need for you to move out to go and see that nest and then now start falling for the nest for her to also do you shake gay for for the pregnancy to come for her to say I I don't want you involved in the Oh God. OK, so I think you are in touch with your brother so you can know the hometown she you know she's from. So get in touch with your brother again, get to know the hometown. Go with your family. Don't go alone.
Go with your family and have a conversation about it. And if possible and if you have money, do adna and if the child is yours, you can contest for the child. I don't care why people say no or reject pregnancies knowing very well that they have slept with a girl and in the time frame of you know when she got pregnant, they slept with a girl. Like even if let me let me explain this in this sense before I get drugged.
She slept with her in June, she got pregnant and then June, July, August, September, October, November, December, January, February, she gives birth in February. And then when you calculate it nine months from the time you slept with it, and then you tell me that the pregnancy is not yours. Or even from the beginning, when she comes to tell you that the pregnancy is 3 weeks old or one month old, you can calculate it from the time you slept with it
averagely. From there, if it's not yours, you can basically let her know that, OK, this is what we're going to do. We're going to have an agreement, OK, because the relationship has gone sour, it's a possibility. We can't end up together. So this is the agreement. I'm going to take care of you and put in a clause that after you give birth, there's going to be ADNA. And if the child is not mine, you will return every penny that I've spent on your pregnancy.
If the child is yours or the child is mine, we'll continue from there. This is why I personally think DNA testing should be a mandatory thing in a hospital. The second the child drops on this earth, you do paternal and maternal DNA. So me, I think 02 paternal and maternal DNA gets a cleared and move because Charlie, this life is not a like that. That's what I think. So track down the parents or track down the brother, find out their hometown, go with your family and go and do the
necessary things. Claim the child if it's yours after DNA and then take care of the child. And of course, if the the girl is that bad because the way you're saying it, it feels like the girl is that bad. So then you focus on taking care of your child. If she won't take the money, you can contest in court and take the child from her because then she's just being petty. Do you understand? Yeah, I dated this guy for almost three years now. I met him when I was in my final
year in SHS. He also got admission to tertiary one month after we we being together. We both agreed not to have sex anytime soon since we were all students. I was a virgin by then. I caught him cheating with a lady he came to my place with claiming she's just a friend. I confronted him and he told me it's a planned thing so I shouldn't worry about that and because of the love and trust are for him I believed what he
said. I caught him one month after losing my virginity cheating on me again. This really got me. I cried for more than three hours in front of him without telling him anything. I later on got the courage to confront him and he accepted what he did. I asked for a breakup, he came with his friend apologizing so I accepted him one month later. He later told me everything that went on between him and the lady and I said it was fine since he said he's not going to repeat it
again deeply. I went to him on campus and caught him texting with same girl again. I confronted him again and he said if I don't come in the girl wouldn't leave him. So I went ahead to call the girl. Fast forward POV, we had sex one time and he told me he has released the Simon in me. I was naive about dose stuff. I was afraid to because I wasn't safe as at the time. So the next morning I bought pills for myself. Two weeks after taking the
pills, I bled straight. Four days without knowing the cause, Sick of it wasn't my time to be menstruating. So my guy was even the one who told me it's sick of the pills. I didn't menstruate one whole month so I was afraid it was pregnancy but whenever I test it was negative. The guy refused picking up my calls and stopped checking up on me. Frankly speaking, it wasn't easy. During the time I grew lean, lost my ship, the color, lost my ship and my color.
To cut it short POV he's begging for we to come back again. I'm confused. I don't know what to do because I still love him. I need your opinion, keep me anonymous. Hey Nota, this guy constantly disrespected you, cheated on you, broke your virginity, cheated on you again. You took a pill after a sexual encounter with the same guy had some side effects to this pill. He ghosted you and now he wants to come back, process it how? I've explained it and I'll come back and explain to me what you
want me to tell you. What the hell is wrong with you? I understand that you love him. I love him. I can't do without him. My dear. Love is not enough, OK? Love is not enough to allow somebody treat you like shit. That's all I'm going to say. Let's. Love it. Let's love it. Hi POV, please keep me anonymous. My husband and I have been married for five years. Within the five years I have, I haven't been able to have children. It's not as if we do not get pregnant.
I get pregnant. Sometimes I miscarry. Other times I give birth, but the baby dies in weeks. My husband's mother suggested we seek spiritual solution. It was there that the spiritualists reveal that my husband had an affair with the lady before we got married. The lady got pregnant and my husband forced her to have an abortion. Right after the abortion my husband left the lady. The lady's spirit is not at peace with my husband. Within two years of our marriage
I had 6 miscarriages. After the 4th miscarriage I got pregnant and it stayed till I gave birth and lost it within a state. So I gave birth and lost it at in a week after. Then I had my 5th and 6th miscarriage. After that, I gave birth and the baby died after three weeks after she came out, and the recent one also died five days after she came out. Hey, hey, you are emotionally strong. As for the revelation, my husband has been acting with so
much pride. He doesn't want us to go and look for the lady and apologize for what he did. I became used to the miscarriage and a nine month journey without a child. It didn't hurt anyone before my mother-in-law intervened. But I do not care anymore. He deserves what he's going through. I'm not going to divorce him. I will talk him into allowing me to have kids with someone else. They are not from him so I think I'm going to be able to keep them for myself.
He should continue his life childless. He deserves it. It's a friend's story but she's not on TikTok. Wow, this one there. You don't need opinion. You're just telling us your friend's story and it is interesting. But guys let me put this question out. Do you think the lady wanting to have a child outside their marriage makes sense based on the story? Do you think it does? Let me know what you think because damn. Damn this is crazy.
I am dating this girl and we've been together for almost nine months now. She told me that we were going to have intimacy once a year and I agree thinking it was going to change. She literally bails me every time. Just last week she promised to have an intimate session with me when she completes her menstrual
cycle. She did complete it and we agreed to do it on Tuesday but unfortunately we couldn't because she was tired and I was also tired so we changed the schedule to Thursday. On Wednesday evening this girl told me on phone that she didn't say that we're going to be intimate and she's not feeling the vibe for sex. She lost her phone last week and she came to tell me that I should help her buy a new one of which I agreed to do but I told her to wait till my salary is in.
On Thursday. I booked a nearby hotel and told her I will be waiting for her around 4:00 PM of which she agreed and came late after eating the food and drink I ordered for her. She didn't want to have sex with me so I told her so. I told her it will last just two to three minutes before she agreed. During the sex I could see her behaving like someone who is being raped so I stopped and asked her why and she told me
just do it and I've kept long. I did it anyway and right after the sex she told me when am I getting the money to buy the phone. When I was about told she had a call and it was a guy. This lady told the guy on the phone that she's in the house and washing utensils so she will call him later. I had the money to give to her but I decided to watch her small. I told her during the weekend I will give her the money.
She went out to take car and asked this lady to give me a hug before we go out in our separate ways and she ignored me and went into the car. I was very angry with her behaviour so I discussed it with one of my female friends and she told me the girl doesn't want me and I should move on. I shouldn't make mistake of giving her the money for the
phone. I was still thinking about it last night when I was talking to her and she told me tomorrow that's a day she will be scrubbing the bathroom and go to church right after church her brother's birthday so we are not going to talk and I was like even when we're going to write exams we spoke. So I got pissed off and told her
my battery is running out. So on Monday I woke up in the morning to see her text and later she called saying she's running diarrhea so she wouldn't be able to go to church. This is my question and I need advice. Should I give her the money or leave and move on? She apologized on Friday evening. I told her I don't like her rules and her attitude towards me in the relationship. I think she apologized because of the phone money. Please help me out with your
idea. I think she apologized because of the phone. She allowed the sex because of the phone because I don't think she likes you anymore Sex there. It's amazing with the right person. Sex is nice when you like the person. Sex is crazy nice when you like the person. She doesn't like you first of all, because if she was like celibate and not having sex or anything I would have said oh,
maybe because she's celibate. But the fact that she actually is, as is sexually active, but it's pulling you when it comes to having sex with you is a problem. I don't know if you have money, but maybe she actually said yes in the 1st place because she saw you had money. Maybe she didn't even like you in the 1st place at all. That's why she gave you an ultimatum that will have sex once in a year. Maybe. That's what I think. Yeah, that's what I think.
So in terms of the money, I don't think you should give her the money for the phone because I don't think she likes you and I don't think she loves you. I think she's there because of the benefits she's going to gain from you. I'm not going to tell you to give her the money because you've had sex with her because we all agree that's me. I don't believe in because I'm sleeping with you. You shall you have to do something for me or something.
No, I don't believe in that. I believe in you're my partner and you see something that I need and you want to support me. You do it at your own accord, you understand. But if it has to do with the sex, I don't think you should give it to her in the 1st place. She doesn't like you. You don't give it to her. If you're going to give it to her, you're just probably doing a charity case. That's what I think. I met this girl in March and we
started talking. All of a sudden I started catching feelings for her and she kind of fell SIM but wanted to be sure of her to ask if she was dating and she said yes but the guy likes girls low key but she provides for her and she added that he doesn't really appreciate her. One day she invited me saying she had a surprise for me but I still don't know if she was also into me that way so I went and she said we should take a stroll on our way. I tried holding her hands and she allowed.
I asked myself if she likes me too. We had a sit somewhere and we were chatting and I asked her to close her eyes and I kissed her and she didn't back and asked why I did that and I said nothing. So later I was escorting her back and we kissed again and I said I love you and she replied I love you too.
I really love this girl but I'm schooling and not working and she's aware but she agreed to date me for a reason but I don't know but anytime I ask her she's always says she likes me too and
I'm her spec. We later had a thing and this girl I'm talking about can go the extra mile to do anything to make me happy but then she keeps visiting the guy and can't stop her because they were still dating before I came into the picture and I'm jealous for me. I think because he still provides for her that's why I do only little of that. I really love this girl and she also has proven to love me and she shows jealousy as well. What do I do because I don't
want to share her. Are you ready to pay the bills? Are you ready to provide for her? Because from the look of things, she doesn't like the other guy because the other guy is a womanizer. As you said, the other guy likes girls low key. So maybe the other guy is a womanizer and so that has made a loose feelings for the other guy. But because you've given any attention and you're a shut up, stand up guy and you are not a cheat like the other guy.
She has feelings for you, but you are not a provider. You don't have the money to provide for her. That's the thing. So it's either you tell her to break up with the other guy knowing very well that you're going to assume those responsibilities, those are the other guys doing, or you break up with her and leave her, or you stay in the situation you are in. Now. These are the three things that I can give you 3 scenarios. Choose one.
Please choose the one that you think can be helpful to you. OK, Yeah, I'm going to end this episode here. Thank you guys for watching. Thank you for sharing.
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