My ex was way out of my league, still don't know how I go here but man her butt crack was always dirty. What did your eggs do that made him terrible in bed? That's the thread I'm going to touch today. Yeah, that's on period. Don't forget to subscribe, like, and then share. This is the few of your podcast. And before I read the messages that you guys sent to me, I'm definitely going to go through a thread. And I've already told you what made your ex terribly mad.
And this is what people had to say from ironically ex this one says my ex was way out of my league. Still don't know how I go here but man hey butt crack was always dirty. Hey damn damn for him laugh. OK OK this I said the hottest woman I ever was with I spent two nights with and never again. She basically pretended she was
a starfish and didn't move. I mean I attempted a second time after how weird the first one was and even asked her why she didn't move and she said she never bothered anyone else before. Wow so you girls how are you people doing it? You go and do like this, you go there, you gotta do like this. Who should do all the way they play OK, this one said poor hygiene seem my accident pass the wipe your ass exam. You girls, why you don't clean
your butt? And you see, the unfortunate thing for me today is that it's men behind the camera. Like I don't have any girl here. It's just me and plenty men if I just you can't clear what else? So let's teach you how to do it. Oh my God, this I'm just doing like they will move on because lights off always. Yet still would never do a doggy style because I can't see her face and I might be thinking of someone else when doing it. OK, that's crazy. But his fascination with his own cock.
It's big isn't it? I think it's big. Girls always say it's big. I'm such a nice guy and I'm clever as well. You wouldn't think someone with such a big cock would be like that. Like he would literally break off in the middle of sex to admire his own genitals and tell me how awesome he was. Do you know what I'm hearing behind? Are you gay? Hey, I am. Yes Calibis. Yes Calibi, no thanks Drive.
No interest in anything adventurous would wouldn't reciprocate me giving her oral for a significant time by using her mouth for about 30 seconds. I don't get what you're saying here. He thought his size was all he needed. Very dull. OK, let me end this one here and tell you about something and I think it's something I may be assuming, but a lot of people think when it's big or low that's very far working.
Maybe you have raised my hands. You don't know what this waters can do. Somebody take it what they you don't know you don't know. But I've heard a lot that guys with big are a lot arrogance, but they can't work with it. So don't allow that one be your problem. Have it use it well and you get good recommendations. I saw some recently they call him and the meme is like oh God.
OK let me get into the stories that you guys are giving me else our our free as I forget it. OK this one says that's love it. That's love it. Hi POV I'm a guy of 24 years and I have been dating this lady for two years and for the past two months I noticed she was doing something behind my back. I had her phone and I saw she has been texting someone else.
I confronted her and she said she did that for fun and she blocked the guy and two days later I had her phone again and she was still messaging the same person. And two days after again I met another girl and the girl treats me seriously and treats me good and supports me in anything I do but the previous girl don't do as such. But I love both of them and I want to settle down with one POV. Which one should I settle with? Do you mean do you have a brain because with yourself that you
are bringing this thing? No think about it, you have first girl that is misbehaving, you want break up. You won't break up. You are. I think 2 weeks ago I was having a conversation with Oakley and then he said something and I think that's what's happening here. Even when you're with somebody
and you still like your eggs. For men, according to Oakley, for men, even when they like someone or they like their eggs and they meet someone else that gives them attention and likes them, they would never choose one. So you that you're coming here to ask help me choose one. You're just asking for formality. You know them well, that you're going to keep both of them. I'm not the one to tell you that people change. You will keep them, You will keep the two of them.
But you come and ask me which one should you keep? I'm 21 and you may think I'm too young to allow a man to give me this booking hat but please do not let anyone get to know who I am OK? I fell in love with him on the first day on campus when he said do you know that you are beautiful looking at him in front of me and his soft words. We became friends. We kept seeing ourselves on campus until one day he took my number and never texted until two weeks for our semester to end.
I said yes to him without thinking about it and our first meet up because I loved him on vacation. He told me that he'll be busy and I was. I so decided to go for internship so I can get myself busy as not knowing he had another woman before he proposed to me and they are still there. I found out when school reopened and asked him but as usual he denied it an electoral breakup. OK. The problem here is that we are still friends and I can't get over him.
Please do not think I'm a fool, but I still love everything is what do you want me to do? Why are you friends with your ex? Why? You know you still have feelings for the guy, so why are you so friends with him? Why? See I don't know like I keep saying this whenever you think you have feelings for somebody and is not being reciprocated
right? And then it's either you guys have already booking up or you guys claim you are friends and you have feelings for each other and it's not going to work out. Give yourself space because feelings say you see the person every day you'll suffer more unless you make up your mind that I'm doing the law of detachment. I'm breaking up whiles with you or I'm breaking up whiles around you. I'm trying to detach myself whiles around you. If you are doing that, good for
you. But if you are staying there with homes that things will work again, then if it was going to work, it would have worked before. That's all I can say. But this one, come on. He has a girl. Let him be. People will insult you because she definitely saw that this guy was not serious. When you realize that he has a girlfriend, You guys broke up, and that's a good thing. But the fact that you kept him as a friend, that's going to be very disastrous. That's going to be disturbing
for you. It's not going to help you move on, and that's a problem. Do not be friends with him knowing very well that you have feelings for him. Don't I need your followers to take on this? I've been dating this guy since 2015. Throughout our dating he did not spend on me though I understand because he's a student just like me.
Even I know he's spending on his other GFS because he had always worked when he was schooling when we broke up. 2019 because I'm done with school and move back home and we came back together. 2022 English OK no we do sense once in a year 'cause he only comes home once in a year and he's working fully now since that's 20/22. He has promised to buy me a phone. He did not buy me the phone up till this moment. I recently go to his side he's using 3 phones since he refused to buy me phone.
I studied one the one he is not using like that. So I took the phone when I was going back. My UATF is yours. He's fighting with me to return the phone that he's using the phone to work in the country he's working. I I even threatened to break up with him if I return the phone. He said fine. And it's not even as if he's been giving me money. The highest he has given me is 20,000 naira.
I need advice if I should return the phone for peace to rain because I'm thinking he might collect the phone and break up. My dear, the phone does not belong to you So what you did is tiffing is stealing. Be cool. You have stolen your boyfriend's phone. One thing I can tell you is that in as much as he doesn't owe you, and I think when it comes to our boyfriends spending on us or men that we are with spending their money on us, it has become
a problem. It has become something that even as a young lady, if you speak about the fact that your boyfriend is not supporting you or is not being nice to you, it becomes a problem. You say it. No, you're a go digger. You say it. No. You like material things, you know, but I think it's something that you need to look out when
you want to be with somebody. Not that the person needs to do it for you, but if the person kind enough to be able to be nice to you, If you're not that during the time you're dating me, I bet you will never be that when you marry me. That's not an excuse because if I can be nice to you whilst I'm dating you, buy gifts for you, take you out, spend time with you, travel with you with my own money.
If I can do that for you and you tell me that you'll not do it for me until you marry me, then you don't like me. And when you marry me, you won't do it for me. When you promise me something, I know it's a promise and you can do it. In fact, promise. When you promise somebody something, you need to actually fulfill that promise. And if you don't, you become an
unreliable person. Just show people that promise people no. Or you promise people something and you don't deliver, you become unreliable. I can't rely on you. Do you get it? And So what I think your man is, is that you can't rely on your man. But he did not give you the right and the entitlement to take something that did not belong to you in the relationship. So, Janet, dear, they will definitely break up with you because you stole from them. But you've not really lost, have
you? If you think you're not happy there because he's not treating you well, you've not really lost. So, yeah, return his phone. Why? He's not yours. Note he doesn't spend on me and has and he has the money. He even tell me it's his fault for inviting me over. That is how I think he of taking his phone and he said I could have taken the second one instead.
I told him why can't he tell me why I should drop that and take this one instead, But I'm thinking he just being stingy because he promised to buy me the phone by December, which I don't believe him. Course, that is the first time she will. That's not the first time you promise me. Yeah. So I think the fact that you think you can't rely on him is a problem, first of all. But stealing the phone was not the right move. Okay please I need your advice
and your followers advice. I'm from Nigeria and I'm 28 years old and working. I met this girl who is still in secondary school. She's about to finish her final year Wasi. Then we discussed and after our discussion she told me she's a virgin and she's not ready to have sex until after her exams because of the love I had for her. I agreed since her exams will last only one month. So I agreed that we started dating. Within one month we started
dating. I bought her a new phone and started giving her cash and taking care of her needs. Within two months of dating here I have spent a lot of money which I was doing because of the love I have for her. But my problem is that she has finished her exams and she has still refused to allow me to dissipate or have sex with her. But as she continues asking me for money, money and money and I want to end a relationship but I feel like I have lost my money,
my time and everything. I have stopped giving her money, I have stopped giving her money and I'm planning on collecting the phone I bought for her because the phone is very expensive. But As for the money I have spent on her, she should go with it while I break up with her while I should continue to wait until she's ready to have sex while I continue spending. All she wants is to is for us to continue the relationship without sex while I continue
spending. But I want I want to work with me. The funny part here is that since I stopped sending her money, I have been able to save some money for myself. It's over five months now, no sex. I feel sad. Girls should be mindful of what they do outside them. This is the reason why some men are wicked on girls. And who advised you that the fact that you are spending on me, I should open my legs for you? Who told you that? Was the trajectory? Is that the right word? Safe.
Who gave you men The memo that's giving me money or spending on me is the keys to my poonani or to a girl's poonani? Who gave that memo? That is one of the things I have a problem with unless you guys discuss that I'm spending on you so that in the end I'm able to have sex with you. If you guys did not discuss that and there's a relationship people are having and she told you that I'm not ready to have
sex until I'm done with school. And after school you had a conversation with her and she says, oh, I still want to have a sexless relationship. Who said you can't dated because of that? My dear, this layer brought in front of me. If it is because of just the sex and you're living here because of that, then you didn't really love her. You don't really love her. You don't want to be with her. You just want to be able to have sex with her. And how do you think you can
have sex with her? In your head, spending money on her is what will be the release clause. But unfortunately for you, this girl giving her money to take care of her is not a release clause. If you had told me that she did not allow you sleep with her while you were doing all these things for her, but she allowed somebody else to sleep with her, I would have a problem with that because, yeah, she's cheating on you and that's not nice.
But if you're telling me that you're doing all these things for her and and the exchange you want is sex, my dear, you don't like the girl. You just want to be able to have sex with her. And at this moment, having sex with her and only having sex, maybe you're not going to be with her. You won't stay with her. So if it's your phone, you want to call her, collect it and let her move on with her life. Really.
This is, this is, this is. And you to you girls out there that you keep collecting money from men, they want to sleep with you. That's why they're giving you the money if it's in your head. I remember it was in October. I was having a conversation with somebody about something I needed to do. And I, I had, you know, raised some parts of the money and all I needed was actually a loan to be able to, you know, finish up and then pay back. And then I wasn't asking this person.
I was just having a conversation with the person. I'm like, yeah, if I could get somebody to give me the loan, like because that person is a friend. So I'm like, yeah, if I could get somebody to give me the loan to sort out this thing, I'll pay the person back. And it's like in this Ghana, in this world, at this time, nobody will known you. They would rather want to sleep with you. And and like, then they should
keep their money. And God being so good, I didn't have to open my legs for anybody to give me anything. You see, it's just crazy. Why, my dear, you brought it to the wrong place. I'm not going to accept the fact that she didn't have sex with you. So you're breaking up with a Charlie that's thinking there for me there in question, Simone. I mean some of it didn't matter, but spending on me is not a release clause. That's how we that's how we dear
POV keep me anonymous. I'm a girl of 27 years will be 28 this year. I've been in a relationship with this guy for almost five years now. We started, I'm dating and the father did not approve. He's a former MP. You see these rich people, they always detect for their children. His dad wanted him to marry from a particular family. Though it became a misunderstanding between him and the father. He encouraged me that things
would be perfectly fine soon. Fast forward in our fourth year of the relationship, he started treating me unfairly. Everything changed, All that he told me that he would do everything for us to be together was now a nightmare to me. The lady the father wanted him to marry chatted me some months some time back to offer me a billion of CD so I can stay away
from the guy. You think this is a Nigerian movie but I loved him even though I was taking care of him because his dad blocked all his accounts he created for him. When he came to gun up on all this, I did for him. I stood for us in hard times with him. As I'm typing now, I don't know what he's up to. He doesn't call me anymore, he doesn't chat me again. I'm tired of waiting for him. It's been a year.
I set my eyes on him. I heard he's having a baby with another woman, but he hasn't said anything to me. I want you to advise me on what to do right now, please. I feel heads are broken. I've lost too much on him. Thank you. It's been a whole year. You have not seen your man. You don't know what's going on in his life and you have heard he's having a chat with somebody and you're crying. Think about it. Yes, You see how I said it. I know you've invested in him,
time, money, your emotions. I think about it. You've dated somebody for years and he switches up on you. I don't know whether you had a conversation with him about the switch up. I don't know if you did something to him. You have a conversation with him to know what happened. If you haven't and he hasn't tried to open up to you and he goes to you for one year. You have heard that is having a child with someone else and you are crying. Process it.
Process it and you will see that there's no need for you to be crying. You need to put yourself together and move on. You need to put your assets together. When I say your assets, I'm talking about your mental health. I'm talking about your physical appearance. I'm talking about your emotions. These are your assets that you're wasting on somebody that does not deserve. You're investing it somewhere that it doesn't need to be invested. You've already done that
investment and it has gone bad. Collect the little you can of your emotions, your mental health, your physical look, whatever it is, put it together, reinvest it in yourself and see the results. OK, Yeah, that's what I'm going to say. And that's why I'm going to end this episode. Yeah, my studio time is up. People are coming to shoot, and so I want to leave. Thank you for watching this episode. Don't forget to subscribe, like, and then share.
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