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The Positivity Xperience

Weekly podcast to help bring some relief of living with anxiety, depression, Overthiinkng and soooo many other things so many of us deal with daily. I am an alternative therapist and life coach who has struggled and still do with anxiety and overthinking. I will also teach you to love yourself
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Episodes

A Reason, A Season, or A Lifetime: Understanding Why People Enter and Exit Your Life

Are you struggling to make sense of why some relationships flourish while others fade away? In this transformative episode, we unpack the psychology and science behind the powerful idea of "a reason, a season, or a lifetime." Discover why people come and go in your life, the roles they play in your journey, and how their presence (or absence) contributes to your growth. Learn why we resist letting go, how to accept when a relationship has run its course, and actionable tools to find peace and pu...

Jan 19, 202545 minSeason 1Ep. 214

Understanding Emotional Manipulation and How to Guard Yourself Against It

Emotional manipulation is the silent thief of peace, leaving you questioning your worth, your decisions, and even your reality. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the subtle yet calculated tactics manipulators use to control and exhaust you—like guilt-tripping, gaslighting, and twisting the truth. But recognizing manipulation is only the first step. Whether it’s a toxic relationship, a manipulative coworker, or a guilt-inducing family member, we’ll arm you with tools to navigate thes...

Jan 12, 202546 minSeason 1Ep. 213

Forgive Yourself FIRST: Why It's CRITICAL for Moving Forward & Letting Go

Struggling to let go of the past? In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of self-forgiveness and why it’s the first step to true healing. We will focus on: Why self-forgiveness is essential for breaking free from guilt, shame, and regret. How unresolved self-blame keeps you stuck in toxic cycles and holds you back from growth. Harsh reality check on acceptance of forgiving yourself today—even for the mistakes you thought were unforgivable is the key to developing uncondition...

Jan 05, 202541 minSeason 1Ep. 212

5 Harsh Truths to Make 2025 Your Most Transformational Year Yet!

Are you ready to stop wishing for change and start creating transformation? In this episode, we dive headfirst into the 5 Harsh Truths that are standing between you and your most impactful, fulfilling, and transformational year yet. This isn't your typical fluffy self-help advice—it's a raw, honest breakdown of the uncomfortable realities you need to face if you're serious about growth in 2025. 1️⃣ You Can’t Fix What You Don’t Acknowledge: Discover why ignoring or sugar-coating your challenges o...

Dec 29, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 211

Breaking Free from Enmeshment: Understanding, Recognizing, and Reclaiming Yourself

Are you caught in relationships where boundaries feel non-existent, and your sense of self is tied to someone else’s emotions, decisions, or happiness? Welcome to an eye-opening episode where we dive deep into the world of enmeshment—what it is, why it happens, and how to break free. In this powerful episode, we’ll explore: The science behind enmeshment and how it affects your mental and emotional health. Clear examples of enmeshment in families, romantic relationships, and friendships. Actionab...

Dec 22, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 210

Setting Intentions That Stick and Letting Go of What Holds You Back

Ready to make 2025 your most intentional year yet? In this episode, we’ll dive into setting meaningful intentions that align with your true goals. Using proven strategies and practical tools, you’ll discover how to break free from resistance, overcome fear, and build habits that last. This isn’t just about change—it’s about transformation. Whether you’re looking to start fresh or deepen your personal growth journey, this episode will give you actionable insights to make it happen. There is a gui...

Dec 15, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 209

Why Absorbing Emotions That Aren’t Yours is Draining You—and How to Stop

Do you find yourself constantly overwhelmed by other people’s emotions, carrying their stress, anger, or sadness as if it’s your own? You’re not alone—but it’s time to stop. In this episode, we dive into the science behind emotional absorption, why we feel responsible for fixing everyone around us, and how to break free from this draining cycle. Learn actionable strategies to set boundaries, protect your energy, and reclaim your peace—because their emotions aren’t your burden to carry. Tune in f...

Dec 08, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 208

Finding Your Purpose: What It Is (and Isn’t) + How to Define It for Yourself

Struggling to find your purpose? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re breaking down what purpose truly means—and busting the myths about what it’s NOT. You’ll learn why purpose isn’t a single, magical destination and how to stop chasing perfection. We’ll explore practical ways to uncover what drives you, shift your mindset, and embrace the messy journey of growth. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or overwhelmed by societal expectations, this episode is your no-BS guide to finding clar...

Dec 01, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 207

Feelings vs. Reality: Why Your Emotions Aren’t Facts (And How to Navigate Them)

Are you letting your feelings write the story of your life? Emotions are powerful, but here’s the harsh truth: they aren’t always the truth. In this episode, we dive deep into why people confuse feelings with reality—and how that confusion can derail your decisions, relationships, and goals. Discover the science behind why we often mistake emotions for facts, the role of insecurities and biases, and how societal influences perpetuate this illusion. More importantly, learn practical, actionable s...

Nov 24, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 206

The Ego Trap: How the Desire to Be Right Keeps You Miserable

Why do we fight so hard to be "right," even when it costs us peace, relationships, and personal growth? In this episode, we dive deep into The Ego Trap—that insidious need to protect our identity at all costs—and explore how it keeps us stuck, disconnected, and, ultimately, miserable. Discover how your ego feeds off validation, blinds you to the truth, and blocks your ability to grow. We’ll break down: The psychology behind why being "right" feels so satisfying yet destructive. How clinging to e...

Nov 17, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 205

Why Chasing Happiness Is Keeping You Stuck: The Secret to True Contentment

Are you on an endless quest for happiness that leaves you feeling more unfulfilled? In this episode, we explore how chasing happiness might be the very thing keeping you from living a content and meaningful life. Learn why depending on fleeting moments of joy can lead to disappointment, loneliness and a constant need for external validation. It's time to shift focus from the chase to cultivating a deeper sense of peace and satisfaction within. Become A Patreon: www.patreon.com/thepositivityxperi...

Nov 10, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 204

Do You Fear OUTGROWING Relationships On Your Path To Self Growth?

It's common to outgrow relationships that no longer serve you, but it can be a difficult and emotional process. In this episode, we explore the signs that you may be outgrowing those relationships, and how to navigate these changes in a way that aligns with your values and goals. This episode will provide you with the guidance and insights you need to move forward. We explore the complex emotions and feelings that come with outgrowing relationships and why there is science behind it. From naviga...

Nov 03, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 203

Abandonment Hurts BUT You Can HEAL For A Peaceful Life

Are you tired of feeling the emotional pain of abandonment? Do you want to break free from the shackles of past trauma and live a peaceful life? In this episode, we explore the devastating effects of abandonment on our mental and emotional well-being, and more importantly, you can learn to fill the emptiness from abandonment. Learn how to recognize the signs of abandonment, overcome feelings of rejection and low self-worth, and cultivate a sense of self-love and self-acceptance. Take the first s...

Oct 27, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 202

What is Stoicism? Why You Need It. Ego Makes You Resist

Welcome to our deep dive into Stoicism – an ancient philosophy that offers timeless wisdom for modern living. In this episode, we explore the fundamental principles of Stoicism, its origins, and why adopting this mindset can significantly enhance your life. Discover how ego can create resistance and suffering, and learn practical techniques to cultivate resilience, self-control, and mental clarity. By understanding the core tenets of Stoicism, you can transform challenges into opportunities for ...

Oct 20, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 201

Spotting Manipulation Tactics: Overt vs. Covert (Psychological Tricks Exposed!)

In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the fascinating world of manipulation tactics, revealing the stark differences between overt and covert methods. Are you aware of the psychological tricks that people use to influence your thoughts and actions? Join me as we expose these tactics, providing you with the knowledge to recognize and defend against them in your daily life. We'll explore real-life examples, dissect the psychology behind these manipulation techniques, and equip you with practi...

Oct 13, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 200

Discovering Your Core Values WILL Change Your Life! What Are YOUR Values?

Are you ready to transform your life? In this enlightening episode, "Discovering Your Core Values WILL Change Your Life! What Are YOUR Values?", I will delve deep into the significance of understanding your core values. Your values shape your decisions, influence your relationships, and guide your path toward fulfillment. Learn how identifying your core values can lead to greater clarity, purpose, and happiness in your life. Whether you're seeking personal growth, career direction, or improved r...

Oct 06, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 199

Taking Responsibility for Other People's Insecurities Can Ruin Your Life

In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the profound impact of taking responsibility for other people's insecurities and how it can lead to personal turmoil. Are you constantly trying to manage the feelings and reactions of those around you? This behavior can drain your energy, disrupt your mental health, and ultimately ruin your life. Join me as we delve into the psychological implications of this dynamic, how it leads to resentments and when it is time to stop. Discover how to reclaim yo...

Sep 29, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 198

Why Resisting Impermanence is Keeping You Stuck in Fear and Anxiety

In this enlightening episode, we explore the profound concept of impermanence and how resisting it can lead to a life filled with fear and anxiety. Many of us struggle to accept change, holding onto moments and situations that are bound to evolve. By embracing an impermanence mindset, we can free ourselves from the shackles of worry and fear, allowing for personal growth and emotional resilience. You and everything in life is temporary. Regardless of the resistance this is a fact that you must a...

Sep 15, 202434 minSeason 1Ep. 196

How to Spot When People Project Their Issues onto You

In this insightful episode, we delve into the concept of projection and how to identify when others project their personal issues onto you and how you may be projecting onto others. Understanding this psychological phenomenon is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and emotional well-being. We’ll explore key signs that indicate someone is projecting their feelings, insecurities, or unresolved conflicts onto you. Learn effective strategies to protect yourself from negative projections an...

Sep 08, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 195

Some relationships are just surface-level - How to identify and let go

In this insightful episode, we delve into the concept of surface-level relationships and how they can impact our emotional well-being. Are you wondering if your connections are truly meaningful or just scratching the surface? Join me as we explore key signs that indicate a relationship may lack depth, and learn effective strategies for identifying and letting go of these superficial ties. Whether it's friendships, romantic relationships, or family dynamics, this episode will provide you with val...

Sep 01, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 194

Declutter Your Mind NOW for a Positive Life (It's Life-Changing!)

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the clutter in your mind? In this transformative episode, "Declutter Your Mind NOW for a Positive Life," we dive deep into effective strategies and practices to help you clear mental clutter and embrace a more positive, fulfilling life. 💭✨ Discover how a cluttered mind can impact your well-being and learn practical tips to regain control. From mindfulness techniques to powerful decluttering exercises, using the tools you need to create mental space, reduce stress,...

Aug 25, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 193

Why Emotions are YOUR Responsibility! How Self Awareness and Disorders Affect Them

In this insightful episode, we delve into the intricate world of emotions and uncover why they are ultimately YOUR responsibility. Join me as we explore what emotions are, the role they play in our lives, and how self-awareness can significantly impact our emotional regulation. Discover the connection between self-awareness and emotional health, and learn how understanding our emotions is essential for personal growth and well-being. We will also discuss how various disorders can make it more ch...

Aug 18, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 192

Acceptance & Commitment Therapy: Unlocking Control in Your Life with Radical Acceptance

In this episode, we delve into the world of Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) and how it can help you unlock control in your life through radical acceptance. We explore the importance of committing to accepting things that are out of your control in order to live a more fulfilling and purposeful life. Join us as we uncover the power of ACT and learn how it can positively impact your mental well-being and overall happiness. Become a Patreon: www.patreon.com/thepositivityxperience Need Mor...

Aug 11, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 191

What's Holding You Back from Good Habits? Establishing Patience & Discipline

In this episode, we delve into the root causes that are hindering you from developing good habits and explore the crucial elements of patience and self-discipline needed to establish lasting positive changes. Discover why quick fixes aren't sustainable and the importance of consistency in your journey towards a healthier lifestyle. If you're ready to break free from bad habits and cultivate a mindset for success, this is a must-watch! Unlock the secrets to transforming your life for the better. ...

Aug 04, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 190

One Decision Can Completely Change Your Life | How to Make It

Discover the power of making a single decision that could transform your entire life in this inspiring episode. Learn how to carefully consider why you want to make a change, research the necessary steps, and have the patience to see it through. Remember, it's never too late to reevaluate and pivot as needed. Watch now to see how one decision can lead you to a completely different and fulfilling life. Become A Patreon: www.patreon.com/thepositivityxperience.com Want More: www.thepositivityxperie...

Jul 28, 202436 minSeason 1Ep. 189

How to Spot Manipulation in Others (and Yourself) - Stay Honest

Learn how to recognize manipulation in others and within yourself with these insightful tips. Discover how to stay honest with yourself about your own manipulative behaviors and how to avoid falling prey to the manipulation of others. Listen to this episode to enhance your ability to spot manipulation tactics and maintain honesty in your interactions. Stay informed, stay honest. Remember to like, share, and subscribe for more valuable content! Become A Patreon: www.patreon.com/thepositvityxperie...

Jul 21, 202436 minSeason 1Ep. 188

Facing Your Triggers to Step Into Power and Create Empowerment [2024]

In this episode, we delve into the powerful concept of facing your triggers to step into your power and create empowerment in your life. By understanding how exposure to your triggers can lead to growth and transformation, you can break free from the chains of past trauma and embrace a sense of safety and empowerment in the present moment. Join me on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment in 2024. Become A Patreon www.patreon.com/thepositivityxperience.com Need More? www.thepositivityxpe...

Jul 14, 202448 minSeason 1Ep. 187

Detaching From Your Thoughts: Why You're Not Defined By Them

In this episode, we will explore the concept of cognitive diffusion and how it can help you detach from your thoughts. By understanding that you are not defined by your thoughts, you can learn to observe them without judgment. Focusing on your thoughts as if they are a true representation of who you are can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. Listen to this episode to discover why it's important to separate yourself from your thoughts and cultivate a healthier relationship with your mind. Sa...

Jul 07, 202441 minSeason 1Ep. 186

The Role of 5 People in Shaping Your Habits and Achievements

Discover the powerful impact that the 5 people around you can have on your habits and success journey. Learn how the attitudes, behaviors, and energy of those in your inner circle shape the way you think and act, ultimately influencing your level of success. By understanding the dynamics of this influence, you can take control of your environment and make intentional choices to surround yourself with individuals who uplift and inspire you towards achieving your goals. Join me in exploring the fa...

Jun 30, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 185

Why You Feel Obligated To Do Things And Project Expectations

In this episode, I delve into the reasons behind why you often feel obligated to do things and how these obligations can lead to projecting expectations onto others. From societal norms to early childhood influences by caregivers, I will explore the various sources of these obligations and how they can shape our behaviors. Additionally, we discuss how feelings of responsibility, especially inherited from parents, can further contribute to this cycle. Join me as we uncover the psychology behind t...

Jun 23, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 184
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