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The Porn Addict's Wife

This podcast is for LDS women with a spouse addicted to pornography. I am Jolene Winn and I am an active member of the LDS faith, a certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, and the wife of a wonderful man who was once addicted to pornography. I am now on a mission to go find other women who are in the same situation. Women who are struggling to address emotions and thoughts they've never had to face. Women who want to understand their situation, who want to love their husband like they used to, who want to be free from living a life that revolves around their husband's addiction. This is all for you. Join me as I share tools and thoughts that you can apply to help you move forward in your life and begin to truly live again.

Episodes

Episode 250: Thoughts You Think About Yourself

The thoughts you think about yourself MATTER. And today I'm diving into why AND the 3 main ways that we subconsciously keep ourselves in a negative thought loop. Let's change that right now. Click here to join the waitlist for the next Porn Free Marriage couples course enrollment! Ready to work with me one on one? C lick here for full details and to sign up today!...

Mar 10, 202517 minEp. 250

Episode 249: The 4 Lies Keeping You Stuck In Your Husband's Pornography Problem

If you're feeling stuck, it's not your fault. You've been lied to. And those lies are what are keeping you stuck in the betrayal and pain of your husband's pornography problem. But, you don't have to stay there. And, today, I'm going to identify what those lies are, how they're keeping you stuck, and what you can do about it! Click here to get full access to the FREE replay of this webinar!...

Mar 03, 202551 minEp. 249

Episode 248: Ignorance V Naivete

Are you worried about trusting or believing your husband because you did that in the past and you were naive? This is for you! Today I'm talking about the difference between naivete and ignorance and why they are so important to recognize and distinguish! Did you miss this round of the Porn Free Marriage Couples Course? Don't worry! Click here to sign up for the waitlist to be the first to know when the next round begins! Ready to create the transformation you're looking for and STOP feeling so ...

Feb 24, 202515 minEp. 248

Episode 247: If You Want Him To Reassure You That What You Think Is Correct

Do you want to just make SURE that where you are is where you THINK you are? That what you believe is actually correct? If you find yourself wanting to check his phone or ask him just to have him reassure you that where you are is where you think you are, this is for you! Ready to move forward and have a Porn Free Marriage? Click here to get full details and sign up for the couples course that is now live! This course will run from the week of February 24-April 4 and you can find full details on...

Feb 17, 202520 minEp. 247

Episode 246: How To Have A Porn Free Marriage

Want to know how to have a porn free marriage? This is it. I'm sharing the outline for the brand new Porn Free Marriage Couples Course that is launching this Friday, February 14! This is a 6 week, interactive course with live group coaching calls that is designed to not only help you prevent pornography from entering your home again but also help you become free from the affects of pornography! Click here to join the waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment in this course opens on Februa...

Feb 10, 202522 minEp. 246

Episode 245: His Pornography Addiction Isn't About You (Or Sex)

This week is a replay of my MOST downloaded episode of all time. And it's one of the most important because it breaks down the lie that your husband's pornography problem has anything to do with you OR your sexual relationship. If you've listened to it before, it's time to refresh! Want help breaking up with the lie that porn is about you or your sex life? Sign up for next week's "Sex and Intimacy" Master Class! joining gives you access to all 4 days of live coaching and content plus lifetime ac...

Feb 03, 202521 minEp. 245

Episode 244: Sex And Intimacy

Jolene Winn discusses the distinct differences between sex and intimacy in relationships. She emphasizes that sex can occur without intimacy, and intimacy without sex is also possible, offering strategies to foster both. The episode encourages listeners to examine their thoughts and feelings to consciously create the relationships they desire, and promotes an upcoming masterclass.

Jan 27, 202517 minEp. 244

Episode 243: Reconciling Who He Is With Who He Used To Be

Do you think things like "I used to think of my husband as..... but now I only see him as...". This is for you. When we have two versions of our spouse, it can cause A LOT of unnecesary negative emotion and keep us stuck. Today I'm going to discuss what reconciling is, why it's so important, and what the biggest problems are with keeping two versions of your husband in your mind. Click here to join my email lis t and be the first to know when you can sign up for February's "Sex and Intimacy" Mas...

Jan 20, 202522 minEp. 243

Episode 242: If You're Struggling With Judgement

Do you want to have more compassion for your spouse but you're struggling with that? Maybe you don't like that you are judging him-especially if he's trying to change...This is for you. I'm diving into why we do this, why it's not a problem, and how to work through it.

Jan 13, 202512 minEp. 242

Episode 241: Enabling

Are you worried that you are enabling the behavior of someone in your life? Maybe you think you are enabling your husband in his pornography addiction or a child in their behvior? Today I'm diving into what enabling truly is, why we do it, and when it's not a bad thing! Stay up to date on all the latest by joining my email list! Head to my website a nd sign up and I'll send tools and tips right to you!

Jan 06, 202513 minEp. 241

Episode 240: Emotional Habits

Just like physical habits like reading a book or scrolling your phone, we also have emotional habits. Today I'm diving into what those are, what they look like and why it's so important to start becoming aware of what those habits are in your life. If you're ready to take control and chance some emotional habits in your life, come join me at next week's "A Year For You" Master Class! This will be January 6-9 @ 12pm est and is just $99 when you use the code "email50" at checkout. Click here for f...

Dec 30, 202423 minEp. 240

Episode 238: The Truth

How do you move on when you don't have the full Truth? And, is there such a thing? Today I'm diving into all of it and showing you that YES! You can! Not interested in repeating this year in 2025? Click here to save your seat at my brand new master class called "A Year For You". In this class held Jan6-9 I'm going to teach you how to change from the inside out so that you stop living the same year over and over again! Use code "email50" for $50 off when you register! Don't miss out on the chance...

Dec 16, 202420 minEp. 238

Episode 237: How To Set Boundaries WIth Family During the Holidays

Or any other time of year...:) It can be difficult to set boundaries...especially with the ones we love most. So, in this episode I'm going to walk you through 6 simple steps to help you set boundaries so that you can actually enjoy your holiday season! Want to submit a topic for the podcast? Simply message me on IG @jolenewinncoaching! Shoot me a direct message and I'll do an episode for you!

Dec 09, 202417 minEp. 237

Bonus: Private Coaching Offer 2025

I transformed this year in a way I didn't even think was possible. And as I looked at what created that transformation, I wanted to offer the same opportunity to you. This year I am opening up 3 private coaching spots for those who are 100% committed to going after what you've previously believed is impossible...it isn't. That version of you is waiting. And I can help you get there. Click here for full 1-1 coaching details and to sign up for a free consultation call today. Offer expires Jan 1st ...

Dec 05, 202410 min

Episode 236: Why The Past Still Hurts

Why does that thing still hurt when it happened 18 years ago? Why does it still feel so fresh? Today I'm diving into the relationship between healing and time...and why it's the best news I could ever give you! Don't miss out on the limited time chance to coach with me one on one! I am opening 3 private coaching spots for 2025 and if you know you want one, click here to schedule a FREE consultation call with me today! If you are ready to make this the best year yet and join at the LOWEST PRICE e...

Dec 02, 202420 minEp. 236

Episode 235: Gratitude & Disappointment

Do you find it hard to feel gratitiude when your husband is still struggling with porn? Or maybe he's getting better but you are disappointed that YOU'RE not? This week I'm sharing a personal (and very recent) disappointing experience and what I've learned through it. If you're ready to take this to the next level and start transforming your life, I want to invite you to join my coaching program. With a new lower pricing option and a limited time private coaching offer, there has never been a be...

Nov 25, 202417 minEp. 235

Episode 234: How To Feel More Attractive

How do you feel more attractive? Does it come from your spouse? What if he's watching porn? How are you supposed to feel more attractive if you can't change what he's doing? If you want to feel more attractive, this episode is for you! I'm diving into what creates attractiveness and leading you through an exercise that will help you identify why you don't feel attractive so that you can then change it! Want to dive into this on a deeper level with my help? Come join us for this week's Attraction...

Nov 18, 202421 minEp. 234

Episode 233: Attraction

What is attraction? And, what do you do when you are no longer attracted to your spouse beacuse he's watching porn? Or how do you navigate your relationship when he's attracted to other women? Today I'm diving into the 6 most common lies we believe about attraction and why they are keeping you stuck where you are. Don't skip this one ladies! Ready to take this and apply it in your life with personal help from me? Come join me at next week's brand new Attraction Master Class. November 18-21 @ 12p...

Nov 11, 202424 minEp. 233

Episode 232: Toxic People

Do you have someone in your life that is toxic? Or maybe it's not a person, but a situation? This episode is for you! We are talking all about what makes a person toxic and what to do! Come join me for this month's brand new Attraction Master Class! This will be taught live inside my coaching program but I'm opening spots for you to join for the entire week plus get access to all the content and replays! Calls will be Monday, November 18-Thursday, November 21 @ 12pm est! Click here for full deta...

Nov 04, 202423 minEp. 232

Episode 231: Unconditional Love

Do you believe in unconditional love? Do you even know what it is? Inspired by a conversation with my husband, today I'm diving into how I think about unconditional love and how I believe it connects us to God. This is a deep one that I know you'll enjoy!

Oct 28, 202415 minEp. 231

Episode 230: Why You Feel Overwhelmed

Do you feel overwhelmed sometimes? Maybe it's because you're not losing weight. Or because your kids aren't listening. Or perhaps it's because of all the responsibility you are juggling. Today I'm going to dive into WHAT overwhelm is AND what creates it so that you can finally start to change that pattern so you can ENJOY the life you have! Click here to join my FREE live class "How To Stop Feeling Overwhelmed By Your Beautiful Life" this Wednesday, October 23 @ 12pm est!...

Oct 21, 202427 minEp. 230

Episode 229: Emotional Rest

Do you ever feel like you need a rest? A break from all the worry, overwhelm, and whatever is making you emotionally drained? This episode is for you. I'm talking about why this is so important to do, and how to do it the RIGHT way so that it's ACTUALLy restful. Come join me for next week's live event! "How To Stop Feeling Overwhelmed By Your Beautiful Life". October 23 @ 12pm est. Click here to save your seat!

Oct 14, 202428 minEp. 229

Episode 228: When You Feel Discouraged

Do you know that the opposite of courage isn't fear? It's discouragement. And that's what today's episode is all about. What discouragement is, why it's there, and how to work past it so that you don't get stuck IN it. I'm sharing personal examples today and walking you through my journey. Whatever is making you feel discouraged right now, this is for you.

Oct 07, 202431 minEp. 228

Episode 227: New Beginnings (And It's Time to Buy New Underwear)

DON'T SKIP THIS ONE! I have an announcment at the end that you won't want to miss! I'm renaming the podcast (among other things) and this will tell you all about it! Sometimes, ladies, we resist change. And we don't do the things we should...like buy ourselves new underwear because we are putting everyone else first. BUT I want to share that change can be amazing. This episode includes 9 lessons I learned at the in person retreat with my coach last week and how that's affecting you. Let's go. Cl...

Sep 30, 202438 minEp. 227

Episode 226: Emotional By Products

Every emotion that we feel and take action from creates a by product that shapes our life. Today I'm diving into what emotional by products are and why they're so important to understand and recognize in ourselves. This is a must listen! Click here to get full details for my in person retreat! 7 spots left to join me for an intimate, 3 day getaway October 17-20 in Oak Island, NC!

Sep 23, 202424 minEp. 226

Episode 225: Non Negotiables

What are you UNWILLING to negotiate on? Are you sure that if he had an affair you would leave? Or the next time he relapses he has to move out? Today I'm talking about non-negotiables and what to do if you have them and why you actually DON'T need them... :) Tired of living with triggers? Sign up today for my "How To Eliminate Triggers" Masterclass! Sign up to join live September 30-October 2 and get access to all the replays and content. Get all the details and sign up here! Want to learn how t...

Sep 16, 202424 minEp. 225

Episode 224: If You're Not In The Mood

What do you do when you're not in the mood? Is there any way to GET in the mood? Today is all about that! And, trust me ladies, it's going to change everything! Listen in to discover WHY you're not in the mood, WHAT you're not in the mood for, and what to do about it! The answers are not what you think! Come join my live class on Thursday, September 12 @ 1pm est! This is a FREE call where I am going to teach you the 3 lies that you are being taught that are keeping you stuck AND what to do inste...

Sep 09, 202427 minEp. 224

Episode 223: Belief Action

Want to create the life you want? The relationship you dream about with yourself, your body, your husband? This is how you do it. Today I'm breaking down WHY you have the results you currently have in your life AND how to change it. Today. Let's go. Register today for my FREE class: "How To Break Free From Your Husband's Pornography Problem" on September 12 @ 1pm est. In this class I am going to go over the 3 biggest lies that are being taught to you and why they are keeping you stuck. Sign up t...

Sep 02, 202419 minEp. 223

Episode 222: Letting Go Of Your Story

Today I'm sharing a personal story. And how I'm letting go of it. I'm diving into what our stories are, why they are there, and what to do when they are no longer in our best interest. Come join me for my next FREE live event: How To Break Free From Your Husband's Pornography Problem! Thursday, September 12 @ 1pm EST! Click here to register! Ready to come meet me in person? Come join me at my in person, 3 day retreat at the beach! October 17-20 I am taking an intimate group to Oak Island, NC to ...

Aug 26, 202421 minEp. 222