This podcast is for LDS women with a spouse addicted to pornography. I am Jolene Winn and I am an active member of the LDS faith, a certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, and the wife of a wonderful man who was once addicted to pornography.
I am now on a mission to go find other women who are in the same situation. Women who are struggling to address emotions and thoughts they've never had to face. Women who want to understand their situation, who want to love their husband like they used to, who want to be free from living a life that revolves around their husband's addiction.
This is all for you. Join me as I share tools and thoughts that you can apply to help you move forward in your life and begin to truly live again.
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This is the final episode of The Porn Addict's Wife podcast. And today I'm sharing why. I am closing my business and that means that all my courses are open for enrollment only until December 31, 2025. Use the code "HALFOFF" at checkout to get 50% off any individual course, my self-guided master course, and the couples course. Access to all material will expire on March 1, 2026. Go Forward Self-Guided Master Course: https://courses.jolenewinn.com/go-forward-sales-page Shop My Courses here: https...
Ladies, this is the one you don't want to miss-I am making a HUGE announcement! Let's go! Come join me in my monthly coaching program for just $87/month! Click here to enroll in the Go Forward Self Guided Master Course today for lifetime access for $897! I'd love it if you'd continue listening to me and learning on my new podcast "No Judgement Required"! Simply search for it in your iTunes podcast app! Be sure to hit "follow" and leave a rating and review!...
I am so excited to have Dr. Trish Leigh on the podcast today! She is a neuroscientist who has completely transitioned her career to understanding and helping those who struggle with a pornography problem. Today she's sharing what inspired her career shift, how neuroscience helps us understand pornography problems, and she's diving into her new book "Mind Over Explicit Matter". This is a powerful conversation that will help you understand your husband's pornography problem better-so that you can ...
My guest today is Victoria Sinis-an incredible woman who has a powerful inside look at the reality of OnlyFans! Victoria was once employed by an OnlyFans marketing agency and comes today to share the reality of what that industry looks like, how she dramatically changed from not believing it is wrong to converting to Christianity and fighting against it, and how Jesus has transformed her. I hope you enjoy this episode! Thank you to Victoria for her sweet testimony!
Rob joined me for today's episode! We are discussing what our present future looks like and the lessons we have learned over the last year while Rob has been full-time homeschool dad and I have been the breadwinner. If your circumstances have ever NOT looked like what you thought they would or you feel like you are taking a step back, this is for you.
Whether you are comparing yourself to what he's seen online or what you THINK he's seen online, or women in person...if you find yourself comparing and coming up short, this is for you. Today I'm diving into why we do this, what comes up for us when we do, and why it's so crucial to change! If you are ready to stop feeling this way about yourself, next week's "Love Who I Am" Masterclass is for you! Click here to save your seat today a nd let's change what you believe about yourself. Ready to cha...
If you ever feel like you're not good enough, this is for you. I am hosting a brand new "Love Who I Am" Masterclass and I want to invite you to join. Monday, April 28-Thursday, May 1 @ 12pm est daily. During this class I am going to teach you the tools you need in order to truly transform into the woman who loves herself fully -rather than just "knowing" that she "should". Click here for full details and save your spot today....
Retraining your brain takes a little bit of work-but it's like creating muscle memory. Today I'm talking about how retraining your brain works, what it feels like, and how to do it more effectively so you can get where you want to be FASTER! Tired of feeling like you're not good enough? Come join me in the brand new "Love Who I Am" Masterclass- April 27-May1! This is where I will teach you how to break out of the toxic negativity cycles in your brain, move beyond regret and shame of the past, an...
There are two main ways we feel internal opposition. Today I'm going over both and what to do when you feel both kinds. This is how you change your life! Let's go. When facing the pain of a spouse’s struggle with pornography, it can feel like your world is collapsing from the inside out. I've taken all the guesswork out and created a simple self-care checklist to help you heal yourself and give yourself the care you need. Click here and I'll send it right to you....
What are you commited to? What does commitment even mean? How do you know if you are commited to something? And how do you do it on purpose? That's what we are discussing today and it can change your life! Click here to get my FREE training video for How To Talk To Youth About Pornography! Want to know about the next couples course? Click here to get on the waitlist!...
Self pity is what I label as an indulgent emotion. But I want to discuss today why it's so important to become aware of and how it's different than pity you feel for others. Join me to learn more about it so you can start taking control of it in your life! Click here to join the waitlist to be the first to know when the next Couples Course cohort launches! If you want to have a Porn Free Marriage and want to work together with your spouse to make that happen, this is for you!...
You could be cheating on yourself and not even know it. That's what I'm talking about today. If you are not where you want to be in any area- your body, your marriage, your relationships-this episode is for you. I'm diving into why you might not be where you want to be yet and the key that will actually get you there. Let's go! Ready to stop cheating on yourself and commit to the version of you you want to become? Come join my LIFETIME access coaching program and start moving forward today. Want...
The thoughts you think about yourself MATTER. And today I'm diving into why AND the 3 main ways that we subconsciously keep ourselves in a negative thought loop. Let's change that right now. Click here to join the waitlist for the next Porn Free Marriage couples course enrollment! Ready to work with me one on one? C lick here for full details and to sign up today!...
If you're feeling stuck, it's not your fault. You've been lied to. And those lies are what are keeping you stuck in the betrayal and pain of your husband's pornography problem. But, you don't have to stay there. And, today, I'm going to identify what those lies are, how they're keeping you stuck, and what you can do about it! Click here to get full access to the FREE replay of this webinar!...
Are you worried about trusting or believing your husband because you did that in the past and you were naive? This is for you! Today I'm talking about the difference between naivete and ignorance and why they are so important to recognize and distinguish! Did you miss this round of the Porn Free Marriage Couples Course? Don't worry! Click here to sign up for the waitlist to be the first to know when the next round begins! Ready to create the transformation you're looking for and STOP feeling so ...
Do you want to just make SURE that where you are is where you THINK you are? That what you believe is actually correct? If you find yourself wanting to check his phone or ask him just to have him reassure you that where you are is where you think you are, this is for you! Ready to move forward and have a Porn Free Marriage? Click here to get full details and sign up for the couples course that is now live! This course will run from the week of February 24-April 4 and you can find full details on...
Want to know how to have a porn free marriage? This is it. I'm sharing the outline for the brand new Porn Free Marriage Couples Course that is launching this Friday, February 14! This is a 6 week, interactive course with live group coaching calls that is designed to not only help you prevent pornography from entering your home again but also help you become free from the affects of pornography! Click here to join the waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment in this course opens on Februa...
This week is a replay of my MOST downloaded episode of all time. And it's one of the most important because it breaks down the lie that your husband's pornography problem has anything to do with you OR your sexual relationship. If you've listened to it before, it's time to refresh! Want help breaking up with the lie that porn is about you or your sex life? Sign up for next week's "Sex and Intimacy" Master Class! joining gives you access to all 4 days of live coaching and content plus lifetime ac...
Jolene Winn discusses the distinct differences between sex and intimacy in relationships. She emphasizes that sex can occur without intimacy, and intimacy without sex is also possible, offering strategies to foster both. The episode encourages listeners to examine their thoughts and feelings to consciously create the relationships they desire, and promotes an upcoming masterclass.
Do you think things like "I used to think of my husband as..... but now I only see him as...". This is for you. When we have two versions of our spouse, it can cause A LOT of unnecesary negative emotion and keep us stuck. Today I'm going to discuss what reconciling is, why it's so important, and what the biggest problems are with keeping two versions of your husband in your mind. Click here to join my email lis t and be the first to know when you can sign up for February's "Sex and Intimacy" Mas...
Do you want to have more compassion for your spouse but you're struggling with that? Maybe you don't like that you are judging him-especially if he's trying to change...This is for you. I'm diving into why we do this, why it's not a problem, and how to work through it.
Are you worried that you are enabling the behavior of someone in your life? Maybe you think you are enabling your husband in his pornography addiction or a child in their behvior? Today I'm diving into what enabling truly is, why we do it, and when it's not a bad thing! Stay up to date on all the latest by joining my email list! Head to my website a nd sign up and I'll send tools and tips right to you!
Just like physical habits like reading a book or scrolling your phone, we also have emotional habits. Today I'm diving into what those are, what they look like and why it's so important to start becoming aware of what those habits are in your life. If you're ready to take control and chance some emotional habits in your life, come join me at next week's "A Year For You" Master Class! This will be January 6-9 @ 12pm est and is just $99 when you use the code "email50" at checkout. Click here for f...
Today I'm sharing the #1 tool share with my clients when they're going through something hard. If you want to know how to get through hard times, this is it.
How do you move on when you don't have the full Truth? And, is there such a thing? Today I'm diving into all of it and showing you that YES! You can! Not interested in repeating this year in 2025? Click here to save your seat at my brand new master class called "A Year For You". In this class held Jan6-9 I'm going to teach you how to change from the inside out so that you stop living the same year over and over again! Use code "email50" for $50 off when you register! Don't miss out on the chance...
Or any other time of year...:) It can be difficult to set boundaries...especially with the ones we love most. So, in this episode I'm going to walk you through 6 simple steps to help you set boundaries so that you can actually enjoy your holiday season! Want to submit a topic for the podcast? Simply message me on IG @jolenewinncoaching! Shoot me a direct message and I'll do an episode for you!
I transformed this year in a way I didn't even think was possible. And as I looked at what created that transformation, I wanted to offer the same opportunity to you. This year I am opening up 3 private coaching spots for those who are 100% committed to going after what you've previously believed is impossible...it isn't. That version of you is waiting. And I can help you get there. Click here for full 1-1 coaching details and to sign up for a free consultation call today. Offer expires Jan 1st ...
Why does that thing still hurt when it happened 18 years ago? Why does it still feel so fresh? Today I'm diving into the relationship between healing and time...and why it's the best news I could ever give you! Don't miss out on the limited time chance to coach with me one on one! I am opening 3 private coaching spots for 2025 and if you know you want one, click here to schedule a FREE consultation call with me today! If you are ready to make this the best year yet and join at the LOWEST PRICE e...
Do you find it hard to feel gratitiude when your husband is still struggling with porn? Or maybe he's getting better but you are disappointed that YOU'RE not? This week I'm sharing a personal (and very recent) disappointing experience and what I've learned through it. If you're ready to take this to the next level and start transforming your life, I want to invite you to join my coaching program. With a new lower pricing option and a limited time private coaching offer, there has never been a be...
