The Destination Is Your Destiny

We are here , you know it , sharing space and time and live and in effect , now I've told you how these podcasts come to me and I don't know how they're going to come to me . I never know when , but I know when they come , when they come in , I got to get . I got to get into the studio , I got to get into the . It's like I got to record this song .

Right now I'm kind of like the . You know , think of me , maybe like the spiritual , uh , mental Taylor Swift . I don't know . Maybe I don't know , but here's what ends up happening . Sometimes I don't record podcasts . For a couple of weeks I'll do three , four , five , six , seven at a time . It just depends on how the information is coming in .

So I haven't recorded any podcasts . I recorded a couple yesterday , but I'd gone like three weeks and had to retreat , had to retreat , I had to travel , I had to do all these things .

That is the inhale , I guess , and then sorry , that's the exhale , and then , when I record the podcast , that's the inhale , okay , so what you're all about to get right now is the culmination of a series of downloads that have been coming in for weeks . Nothing ever comes all at one time . Oh , y'all about to make me get started real quick .

Nothing happens all at once . It doesn't happen all at once , not all at once . It happens over a course of time . Not that the answer or not , that the information doesn't already exist .

It means there has to be an attunement , meaning you have to go through levels in order to hit the frequency to be able to receive the information that was encoded at that frequency . So when we go through space and time , we're not always having access to everything . You can only have access to it based on where you are .

So I have to say that because this episode , I started to think about the word destination . I've been telling you all that you got to pick the destination . You got to pick a destination . I'm starting to see how many people don't they struggle with life because they don't know where they want to go .

They struggle with life because they didn't pick where it was they were looking to get to . We think that life just happens and we're like , oh man , life sucks , or this is that ? No , it's like no , you have the opportunity to say here , it is where I want to go . We've talked about this numerous times before .

It's like when I get in a car , I don't just get in a car and just drive around aimlessly . I have to pick a destination point . I have to say here , it is where I want to go , and then I will know whether I'm moving closer or further to it .

I will know , in relation from where I am to where I'm going , whether or not I'm moving in the opposite direction or I'm actually moving towards it . So I'm sitting here thinking about the word destination , right , destination , destination . I know this is the English nerd inside of me .

Anytime there's a word that has T-I-O-N on the end of it , it's two things . One , it's a noun , right , I learned that early on . Right , it's a noun . But then , number two , it will be the result of the word that's already inside of it . So if it ends in T-I-O-N , it is the result of that word that's in front .

So the word Destination is the result of the destineer , destiny . So I started to look up the word destination , right , I started to look up the word right . So we look at the word . Sorry , the word destiny , destiny the etymology of it comes from the word destineur , which means overruling necessity , irresistible tendency of certain events to come about .

Good God , almighty , y'all better stay with me , y'all better stay with me . The Latin word destineur means to make firm or to establish . That's what the Latin etymology of is , of the word destiny . But I know the word destination is nothing more than the result of destiny , and I know that I can pick the destination .

But see , I was told and I was taught and I was programmed to think that destiny just happens . And then we use another word that we call fate , and then we think fate is just life handing you its cards and you really don't have a say in this experience , in this game that you're in , and you think that life is just happening to you . So now , guess what ?

I got to have faith , I got to have hope , I got to have all of these things that life is going to end up working out for me . So I started to look at these words . I said destination is the end point and I have the ability to choose that . And destiny , oh my goodness , wait a minute . So the destination is the result of destiny .

The destination is the result of destiny . Y'all stop playing with me real quick , please , please , please , hold on . I don't think you're picking up what I'm dropping off . Your destination is the result of your destiny , but we got programmed to think that we didn't pick our destiny . No , you didn't pick your destiny , you chose your destination .

So we did the beginning . Sorry , we acted on the end from the beginning . And so here's what this looks like . I started to look back on my life Pardon me , while I eat these grapes . I started to look back on my life and where I am , where I come from Now . I played basketball in my family .

Sorry , nobody else in my family , nobody else in my family played basketball . I'm the only one . I'm the only one , right ? Mom didn't play , dad didn't play . My dad played . He said he played JV , but I don't know . But that's what he said . All right , we'll take his word for it . My brother didn't play basketball . My mom's five foot eight .

My dad's five foot seven . I don't know how he married an older being , a taller woman , but that's I digress my brother's five foot 10 . I'm six two . I'm not a giant by any means , but in my family I am . I'm six inches taller than my dad . If my son's six inches taller than me , he's going to be six eight .

My point of this is this If you look at it on paper , I had no reason to ever play basketball as long as , as far as or at the ability that I did . I had no reason to ever play basketball as long as as far as or at the ability that I did . I had no reason to because on paper it says that is not his destiny .

But here's the deal Back when I was 10 years old in Mrs Garrett's class , we had an assignment that we had to write down what we wanted to do when we grew up . What did we want to do ? I wrote down that I was a basketball player . I swear to you on everything that I wrote I want to play basketball for a living when I grow up .

That's what I wrote down . I picked the destination . I've chose where I wanted to go in life . And then here's what ends up happening Over the course of time , the destiny is fulfilled and then , when we get to the end of it , we'll look back and say , wow , destiny , it was destiny , you were destined to do it .

You know why you were destined to do it Because you chose the destination . So I start like looking at everything in my life , in other people's life , and I'm like , oh my goodness , we over here writing our own destiny , didn't know it . We writing our own destiny . See where you are today and where you're going . I use the analogy of the car .

You pick the destination the moment that you got in the car . Everything between the starting block and when you made it to the destination is what we call destiny . So this is where the game changes . Okay , the game changes when you start to realize that you are the one . You are the one who is writing your destiny .

You are the one who is creating your destiny based on the destination . You see , you had to go to the end . This is why the imagination was so powerful . The imagination was the faculty , was the tool , it was the thing that allowed you to create where it was that you wanted to go .

And I know what a lot of you are thinking right now no , life's happening , I didn't choose this , I didn't choose that . Well , wait , hold on now . Remember what it was . You started and then you had the destination and everything in between , not all the things that you have control over .

You didn't have control of the situation , but here's what you did have control over . You had control over how you experienced them . See , when we understand that everything that happens in life is merely nothing more than to expand your self-awareness , that's the only reason why it is to expand your awareness of self .

Everything Doesn't matter if it's good , doesn't matter if it's bad . So when something happens and there's situations that happen within your destiny that you didn't have control over , that wasn't the issue , because even those things were going to help you to expand your self-awareness so you could get to the destination .

The issue is is I'm not consciously choosing how I express it , Sorry , how I experience it ? So I started to realize in my life , other people's life . We think life is just happening . We think life is just happening . The only reason why life is just happening is because you haven't chosen where you want life to go .

When you choose where the destination is , everything in between now and then is going to be your destiny . Everything in between that now and then is going to be your fate . And here's the beauty of it . My mom used to always tell me . She used to say there is no thing that is wasted . Nothing is wasted .

Nothing is wasted meaning everything that comes , everything that leaves , everything that falls out of your life . It does not matter what it is . It was all so divinely needed for you to expand your self-awareness so you could see more of your divinity in this human encasing that you call your body and that you call your life .

So once this download started to come in and I realized that the destination was the result of destiny , I started to realize why intention was so important . Good God , almighty , y'all ain't trying to hear nothing that I'm saying . Intention , you hear it . Intention I-N-T-E-N-T-I-O-N . There it is again . There it is again .

T-i-o-n means it's the result of intending , and we know what intending is it's conscious action . So to the mind that's asleep , good God , almighty , to the mind that's asleep , it thinks that all of these series of causes and effects in its own experience are random , they're coincidental .

But now , when you look back on it , a mother was just intentional with their life . They was intentional with their healing . They really said no , I'm going to work on this , I'm going to heal on this . Ain't going to be a coincidence . I'm going to get to where I'm going . How am I going to get there ?

I don't know , but I can tell you this I'm going to get there . I promise you I'll get there . Because you were intentional with your life , because I'm intentional on where the destination is , destiny has no choice but to match the intending perspective mindset . Do you see how this works ? So this is the crazy part . This is the crazy part .

This is the crazy part . This is the part that , like , blows my mind . We walk around , and you know it , you know it , I know it . We'll walk around and we really Truly Don't realize the power that we have , the power that we have , the power that we have , the power that we have , the power that you have . You have all of the power .

How could you not , how could you not , how could you not have all the power that is needed for your life ? Somebody please tell me how . I don't understand , I don't know . Somebody , please , somebody , please tell me how can you not have all the power for what is needed in your life at that point ?

Somebody , please , how is it that a bird is given wings but the bird never , ever , ever had to enroll or go into a technical school or get a certification or do any of these things for it to learn how to fly . What did it do ? What did it do ? How ? It just watched its mother .

Its mother didn't sit down and say okay , here's what we're going to do , you're going to take your wings . And they didn't have to go through a study course . Because , why ? Because animals have instinct . They have instinct . Good God Almighty , you hear what I'm saying .

Every time you hear the word I-N before a word intention , instinct , inherent , intellectual , that means you already had it inside of you . Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing I'm saying right now . So when I'm being intentional , good God almighty , when I'm being intentional , it's because I am now following the intent of the intuition .

The intuition this was your inner teacher . See , tuition . We all go to college . We pay an arm and a leg for college , right ? I just heard a song the other day . I let Carly hear it . I said listen to this lyrics of this song .

The guy said , basically he was saying that I'm going to go back to college and get $100,000 worth of debt for a job that I'll never get . And I said boy , isn't that something ? Right ? We get taught that everything is outside of us . We get taught that we don't need anything . Sorry , that we need to be . We need to have this and have that .

You already have the power , you already have the capabilities , you already have the means . The question is have you tapped to the inside ? See , the inside was the intuition . The inside is your intuition , and the intuition already knows what was intended for this experience . This is how you know without knowing . We've talked about this already .

The question is can I have the power and move the intellect out of the way so that way I can tap into the intuition ? And when I can tap into the intuition , we know that the intuition resided in the heart space . The heart space , though , whispers . It doesn't yell . The heart space only does what makes it feel good .

So now , when I follow the heart , I follow my passion , it's a little bit easier for me to be intentional . And now , because I'm intentional , I can pick a destination . And because I can pick the destination , I just grab the steering wheel of destiny and I can control it . Do you see how this works ?

So now I start to wordplay , right , it's like you start to look at all these different words . I got inspiration and I got intentional and I started to wait . Inspiration , hold on . Now , when I go to inspiration , that's inspire , inspire , inspire , spire , spire , spire , spirit Spirit .

Inspiration is of the spirit , inspiration is of the spirit , intuition is of the spirit , intention is of the spirit . It's inside of us . So now I'll go a little deeper , right ? So I looked up the word aspire . I know I'm jumping around a little bit , but you're going to stay with me here . I promise you I'll tie it all back together .

I know what spirit is right . We know what inspire means right . We know the Latin root is spire , which means to breathe , right ? So I looked up aspire . Aspire means aspire to , or inspire , or breathe , or breathe on . And we go into the spiritual side of it . It means to breathe life into something that you are reaching for , aspire .

So when you are inspired , you will then aspire meaning I breathe life into it for a favorable outcome , for an endeavor to obtain , for something to reach to .

So the reason why I'm saying this , the fact that you even have the dream , the fact that you even have the desire , the fact that you even have the dream , the fact that you even have the desire , the fact that you even have the goal , the fact that you even started to dream one day to have the inspiration to have the destination , the fact that you even

have that , lets you know that you already had the power inside aspire for something that it cannot already create . Good God , almighty , y'all ain't trying to hear nothing . I'm saying If I have the desire to be X , y and Z , that means I already had the power in me to be X , y and Z , because the spirit cannot aspire to something that is outside of itself .

Good God , almighty , y'all ain't trying to hear nothing . I'm saying right now , none of it . You know what ? I'm about to get off . I'm about to go ahead and get off because you ain't trying to hear nothing .

How in the world can I dream for something that I didn't already have the capability or the tools inside of me to dream for ? The bird sitting here says oh my goodness , if I could just fly , if I could just fly , if I could just fly . You got the wings already . Get off that branch and go fly . You see how this works . This is what we do in life .

Because we're so sensory , we always look for the outside . We'll listen to what somebody else is Do you not know that you already had the wings sitting on the side of your body ? You already had the wings sitting on side of you . But here's what we'll do . We'll look at somebody else .

We'll be like dang , I'm not flying , like how they are , you already got it . That's not the issue . The issue isn't that you don't have the wings . The issue isn't that you don't have the capability . The issue isn't that you don't have all of the tools that are needed . The issue is that you have not yet picked the destination .

And because you have not , good God almighty , because you have not consciously chosen the destination , the destiny can't start to activate and coagulate and formulate the path that's needed for it to take . You see what I'm saying . So now , this is the order . This is the order . Now I got to be able to tap into my intuition .

I got to be able to listen to my heart . But I can't listen to my heart as long as I'm living through the wounds of the head . You see what I'm saying . So something happened when I was young . I went through these situations . Mommy didn't give me the love , daddy wasn't there , daddy moved across town . I didn't get what I needed .

So now , because of that , I start to develop a distorted perspective of who I am and how I am . And now this becomes my destiny . This becomes my destiny because that was the destination that the heart was going by , because the head was unconsciously writing a story around it . So I'm living life and I'm going exactly where I chose .

The problem is I chose it unconsciously . This is why we start to see generational trauma . If we go to certain parts of a city or we go to a town and you start to see that grandmama lived there , the daughter lived there , the granddaughter lived there , we start to see this reoccurring cycle .

We start to see this reoccurring thing that's happened , that's plaguing us . Why ? Because nobody's picked a destination . And it wasn't that we weren't capable of picking the destination , it was because nobody showed us , nobody told us that the destination could be chosen . I see it all the time .

I see people who they made it to somewhere and it's like dang , how'd they make it there ? Little , did you know ? Inside that little boy's head , every single day he would pretend , meaning he was claiming before it was happening , using his imagination , the part of him that could think outside of space and time , that could think outside of what was happening .

Now .

He lived from that and he would go outside and play basketball , even though there was shootings , there was drugs , there was crime all around , there was all these things that he would go outside and pretend he was Michael Jordan , he would pretend that he was Kobe Bryant , he would pretend that he was LeBron James , and what he was doing was he was starting to

use this tool . They called this back in alchemy . They called this the first substance . This was the thing that everything was created from . He started to use his imagination to start to create a destination . And now , because he started to create a destination , this matrix , sorry , this universal field of energy , they called it the formless substance .

It started to coagulate and conspire around this destination . And then destiny was the fertilizer . That was the track that allowed this to come into fruition , and we'll say , dang , that was the track that allowed this to come into fruition and we'll say , dang , he made it out . He made it out . How did he do it ?

He didn't make it out , he just turned this thing inside out . That's what happened , when you start to realize that your life , your physical life , is nothing more than your mind and your heart turned inside out . I ain't got to worry about the physical world , as above , so below , so below , as above .

I don't got to worry about the physical world , as above , so below , so below , as above . I don't have to worry about the physical world , I got to worry about the inner world . If I worry about the inner world now , now I can start to create through the power that lives within me . So I'm going back to the words .

Know me , the Sagittarius , and me , the curious truth seeker . Right , I want to , I want to know , I want to know . What more words do we have ? Uh , this word spirerica , spirer , special spiras . You know , inspiration , spirit . You can look at a whale .

I don't know if you knew this , but the blowhole on top of a whale , that that , that hole on top of where it breathes because it breathes oxygen . It's crazy to think that we got animals that are mammals that live in water , that breathe oxygen , but they got to come up to the surface . What is that thing called Spiracle ?

That's the blowhole through which a whale breathes . Look at the word respiration . Right , your respiratory system , respiratory . You see the word spirare in there . Good God , almighty , I'm trying to hear nothing .

If the word spirit comes from the Latin root spirare , which means to breathe the breath of God , all that which is right , life , if that's what spirit means . It's the etymology of the word spirare . And then I look at the word respiration . It means re-spirare . You see the word R-E inside of it .

Re-spirare , your respiratory system , respiration , respiration is respiration . Spirit , over and over and over , this was the power of your breath . Every time that you breathe , consciously , you were breathing through the spirit , into whatever it was . So I started doing this with breathwork .

I started to write down my goals and my visions and I started to breathe into them . I would do breathwork as I'm sitting here in my mind thinking about the intended outcome already being done and I'm breathing in it and really what I'm doing is I'm breathing life into it , because breath was life . And then I started to look at the word expire .

Everyone has an expiration date . Expire means to breathe out your last breath and we start to see that inspiration and perspiration , the act of breathing through our skin . Here's my point . We know that spirit already knows what it needs , what it wants . Right , it's having this human experience . That spirit already knows what it needs , what it wants .

Right , it's having this human experience . You had the ability , through your intentions and listening to your intuition , to pick a destination . And when you pick the destination , destiny was going to do the rest , because destiny was what created the destination . You got the power . You already got it . You already got it . I don't know else how to say it .

You already got it . You even have the power to choose where it is that you want to go in life . I told you , I wrote this down . I wrote it down , even though in my life it looked like on paper . There's no reason to know how is this going to happen ? Here's what I did . I wrote it down .

But , more importantly , good God Almighty , i'mall ain't trying to hear nothing . I'm saying because some of you this is going to be triggering for you I just have to go ahead and say it . You're not going to get to the destination unless you have actions that support it . You got to have actions that support it .

I picked the destination and then it was on me to make sure that I had practices , that I had workouts , that I had a mindset , that I had a diet , that I had a sleep regimen , that I had a work ethic , that I had a level of accountability to be able to support that destination .

What I'm seeing and what I hear a lot of times is people say I want to go here , I want to experience that , I want to do this , but then , when you look at the actions that they take , the actions do not support the destination . So now guess what ends up happening ? The destiny can't kick in the way you wanted it to .

The destiny is going to take you to another action . It's going to take you to another destination . It's going to take you to another destination . So sit back and look at it . Sit back and look at your actions . Sit back and look at your actions and see am I doing what I need to do right now ?

I'm not talking about what you need to do here in two weeks . That ain't it . That ain't it . Am I doing what I need to do right now to support the destination that I want to get to ? Am I doing that ? And then here's the deal Don't you worry about tomorrow , don't you try to think about yesterday ? Am I doing everything that I can do right now ?

Right now , and I promise you this , if you fall in love , if you focus on this one step , this one step , this one step , this one step , this one step , this one step . Eventually that one step ends up walking , and that walking ends up becoming a run , and that run becomes a sprint , and that sprint then becomes a marathon .

And then here's what you're going to do . You're going to look back on life and say good God , how did I make it so far ? Yeah , I'll tell you how you made it far . You picked the destination and you created habits , you created systems that would support the destination , and life really is really pretty simple after that , really quite simple .

I just got to make sure that I stay focused , because if I ain't focused , guess what happens ? Somebody else's destination is going to become my destination . And now guess what ? That ain't going to work , because that was not your destiny . Your destiny came from your heart , from your intuition .

It came from your intuition that you trusted and listened to what depict this destination , because you went after your passion , you listened to your heart , and now that's your destiny . So here's my thing . Right , because I'm sorry , I'm chewing on these grapes . These grapes are good . You know this . You know this Deep down inside .

You know this , but you haven't given yourself permission yet . You haven't given yourself permission to go out on that limb , to go against the current . You haven't given yourself permission to say you know what . I'm going to follow my intuition for the next 90 days and see what it looks like Meaning . I'm going to follow my heart .

I'm going to follow what life lights me up . I'm going to follow what inspires me . I'm just going to do that . That doesn't mean I got to quit my job and go make money from it . That ain't what I'm saying right now .

I'm just going to give myself permission to start doing what I love to do and trust that whatever I love to do already had an end point in mind . Hence your destination . And I don't have to have the destination all figured out A lot of times . Your destination is going to be nothing more than a feeling all figured out A lot of times .

Your destination is going to be nothing more than a feeling To be starting to realize that your life , this experience , is measured by how you feel . Let's just start there . Let me just pick a feeling . Let that be the destination . We lessen somebody else . We think the destination is a monetary amount . Is that the word Monetary , a monetary amount ?

We think the destination needs to be a number under followers . We think that the destination needs to be , the business needs to be a certain . That ain't the destination . The destination was always going to be a feeling . It was going to be the result of the emotions . That's the destination . So I asked myself , why ?

Why did you write down when you were 10 years old that you wanted to be a basketball player when you grew up ? You know why I wrote it ? Because I just loved it . I just loved basketball . I loved the way it made me feel .

It didn't matter if it was raining , it didn't matter if it was cold outside , it didn't matter if it was hot , it didn't matter if my ball had air , it did not matter . I just loved it . There was no reason .

And this is what I'm trying to tell you . When you're inspired and you're living through the spirit , spirit didn't need no reason . Inspiration doesn't need a reason . Inspiration doesn't need a reason to get up out of bed . Inspiration doesn't need a reason for it to go , follow its heart . Inspiration doesn't need a reason for it to make sense .

You see what I'm saying when you are inspired . This is why people do a lot of quote , unquote , crazy things . When they're inspired , it's crazy on the front end , but when they get to the back , we say , wow , man , look what he did . That man ran all the way across the country .

That's because he was inspired , meaning he was coming from outside of space and time . It was coming from his heart . And then , because he ran across country , all these people started to get behind him . And because people got behind him , now he's got all these deals . And now he's got all these sponsorship deals . He's got all this publicity around him .

Now he has a platform . And now , because he has a platform , now what he's doing is he's giving what's the word . He's bringing awareness to what the inspiration was behind it . Maybe he had lost his daughter and that's why he was actually running , and we see this happen all the time . There's a guy who I saw on Instagram . He was doing this .

You see , he started running and running and running and they're like , why is he doing this ? Because I lost my daughter . I lost my daughter and I just I'm just going to keep running , I'm going to . This man's got like a million something . I'm going to sit here and watch him . Like how in the world ?

I said , man , look at this guy In the following that he's getting . But now , more importantly , the awareness . Good God , almighty , you know why we get , why we'd love to see when someone's living it through their inspired life . The reason why is because spirit loves to see itself . Everything was the one thing , everything was the one thing .

So that's why I get inspired when I see you're inspired , and you get inspired when you see that I'm inspired , so forth and so on . We feed off of this because we are the one thing . So , when we live through the spirit , we live through inspiration , we live through our intuition , we live through our passion .

We are following and doing what we only love to do . You know what ends up happening ? Spirit says yes , and now we aspire , meaning we breathe life into it . Now , that breath , that breath that eternal , that eternal force is breathing life into it . Now we'll look at somebody else and I'll aspire to do more , because I know I can , not because I need to .

I know I can do this . I know I can do this . Well , why I don't have a ? Why there is no ? Why I don't have a ? Why I don't have one ? I don't , there is no , why I'm telling you right now why do you do ?

I don't know , but I've given myself permission to be inspired and follow that because I Spirit was the one who was choosing the destination anyway , because Spirit wanted to experience everything . It wanted to see what it was like . Good God , almighty , please , please , please . So I know you've been through some stuff .

I know you have Everybody's been through something . Relatively . You know , it's all relative right , but please know that that was needed too . That was needed too Because those things that you went through , the journey that you've been on , that came with information and that gave you the next level of awareness and then the next level and the next level level .

This is what it just corresponded right , cause and effect , and that's led you to the awareness that you have now To be able to choose the destination that you want . So maybe that's the word of the year for me 2025 , it might be destiny .

I'm here to rewrite the destiny . I'm here to write it , write it out . I'm here to rewrite the destiny . I'm here to write it , write it out . I'm going to write this destiny . So when I get done , when you get done , when we get done , they're going to look back on life and say , dang , wow , I'm inspired . I'm inspired , I aspire to .

I aspire to do what he did Not in the way . He did it In my own way . And now you see , you were the one . You were the one who was doing it . So choose the destination , choose it , pick where you want to go . Remember not the place , the feeling . Pick the feeling first .

I want peace , I want joy , I want love , I want acceptance , I want presence , I want fulfillment . Choose something that , when you get there , you'll know that you made it because you'll feel it and then attach a physical thing to it .

You know me , I'm going to be sitting on the sideline watching , clapping my hands , cheering , saying you go , you keep going , don't you stop , don't you stop ? What do we say ? Don't stop Because you're tired , stop when you're done . You're just getting started . You know , I told you already before I'll do all I can to help . Why ? I don't know .

I don't have a reason . I just can't not . I can't not . My team thinks I'm nuts because I'm always coming up with something . I'm always trying to figure out something , some way to try and help this world and help people . Heal Really , I'm trying to really help myself , but this is why I designed heal . Get yourself signed up for heal .

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You'll see that destiny will start to fall right in line with it . So , as always , I wish you nothing but the best on the pathway to your results .