¶ Understanding True Sacrifice
Once you see what you actually are , that you're an infinite , limitless being , you'll see that nothing exists outside of you . I'm your host , derek Grant , and this is the Pathway to your Results Podcast . Ladies and gentlemen , welcome to the Pathway to Results podcast . It is your boy , dg .
We are here , unbelievably grateful that we get to share space and time right now . Today , I want to talk to you about something that we throw this word around a lot and we talk about it , but I don't think we really understand it in terms of energy .
We don't understand it in terms of frequency , because remember , I told you , I've told you this many times when you start understanding the language of the universe is energy , you learn how to speak energy .
Now , the conversation between you and life good God , almighty , we're about to get started the conversation between you and life becomes just a little bit more fluid . You ever been in a conversation where you didn't understand what they were saying and they didn't understand what you were saying ?
You guys were speaking from two different frequencies and it didn't work , and you said something one way and they interpreted a completely different other way . And now here you are , arguing and fighting , disagreeing over different perspectives , but it was all because you were on two different frequencies , speaking two different languages , because you were unaware .
So now , if we understand , the language of this universe is energy , it is frequency . Remember what frequency was ? Frequency is the culmination of your mental and emotional energy . When I start understanding the language of this universe , you're going to start to realize that this word that we refer to as sacrifice is a part of frequency exchange .
So when we say we have to sacrifice something , we think usually we have to give up something to go without . But that's not actually the way the language of this universe works , because if you look at this universe , this universe is constantly seeking balance . It's constantly seeking harmony . Universe is constantly seeking balance , it's constantly seeking harmony .
Right ? We say this in some terms . When we say , what do we say ? When one door closes , another one opens ? That is sacrifice . That is the way sacrifice works in terms of frequency . So when one thing of a lower energy is taken away , it is replaced then with something of a higher energy .
Good God , almighty , you ain't trying to hear nothing I'm saying right now . You might as well go ahead and turn the thing off and get off , so you don't realize that your life is a frequency that you're in which is considered new compared to the old , but you right now is the old compared to what you could be .
And in order to move into the new life , you're going to have to sacrifice . I'm going to have to give up . I'm going to have to give up the smaller I'm going to have to give up , the less aware I'm going to have to give up , the less advantageous I'm going to have to give up the lower frequency so I can have the higher frequency .
Do you see how this works ? So this is really how we create this transaction and how we move into these frequencies it's by sacrificing , it's by exchanging the old way of belief , the old way of mind , the old way of processing and reacting to things . When I exchange that , when I exchange that , I now sorry , when I'm willing to let go of that .
Now I can have the opportunity to move into the new frequency . Do we see how this works ? So , to receive your new frequency or your new reality , it simply requires you to sacrifice your current reality , meaning I'm going to have to exchange it . I can't go into this new life with this old way of mind .
I can't go into this new life with this old way of mind . I can't go into this new relationship with the old rules from the past . I can't go and expect to make new money when I still got the old money's way of thinking . Do we see how this works ? Y'all ain't trying to hear me .
So you're going to have to be willing to give up everything that was so you can have everything that you desired in your reality . And that is what we call frequency , meaning I'm letting go of the old version of me . That old version of me only worked to a point .
That old version of me doesn't work anymore for what I'm trying to do and who I'm trying to become . Does this make sense to you ? So when we start to look at it as sacrifice is nothing more , it's another way of saying exchanging , it's another word , another way of saying alchemize , transmute .
I am exchanging this old version of me for the new version of me . We do this all the time in life , but we don't do it when it comes to consciously creating our reality . And I've told you before what's the point of you having all of this information and this understanding if you are not consciously creating your reality .
So when you start to realize that life , life . Life has been trying to get you to sacrifice . It has been trying to get you to let go . You know the old saying that we say easy come , easy go . This is how we ensure that the sacrifice helps us to keep evolving .
Easy come , easy go , meaning when I can let go of the old , it's going to be easy for it to come in . The easier it is that you can let go , the easier that it will be when it comes in . The easier that it is that it comes in , the easier it was that you let go . But what we don't realize is there's going to be a giving first .
This is why they call it the law of giving and receiving . Giving and receiving , giving then receiving , giving then receiving . I might get on here , I might make an album and rap Giving then receiving . You give and then you receive . Because when you give , that means you're letting go of an old . In order to receive , you would have to receive the new .
Does this make sense ? So , when I can let go of my old way and I'm in a constant cycle of exchanging frequencies for realities and realities for frequencies , this , my friends , good
¶ Exchanging Old For New
God almighty , this , my friends , is the nature of this universe . This is the nature of it . Look at your skin cells . You don't give up the old cells when you go to bed . Look , I got a wife , I got a daughter . They're doing the . What do they call it ? Self-care , self-care you get the exfoliator and you clean your face and get all the old skin .
You don't then replace the old skin cells with the same exact skin cells . What do they do ? It comes with something a little bit more pure , a little bit something , something a little bit more new . Does this make sense ? So this is the same thing that's happened in life .
We don't get , we don't let go of something , and they get replaced with the same thing . It's going to be newer , it's going to be more evolved . But here's the thing that makes it challenging for us . It's hard for us because we got so accustomed and we became so familiar with the old . Okay , now we can start moving into beliefs .
This is why it's so hard for us to make change and make growth and evolve in a way that's sustainable , because we don't want to let go of the old . You're not willing to sacrifice the old beliefs , even though good and well . I'm about to say something that's going to trigger some people .
You know good and well that those beliefs that you have right now , they ain't working for the life that you want to live , and you know that . You know that you don't want to be in a relationship with them . You know that the relationship ain't working , but your heart had a button . You're still staying in it , ain't you ?
And then guess what you're going to do ? You're going to hop on , live . You're going to send me an email , you're going to say something and be like well , I don't , what do I do ? It's not working . Well , if you know it's working , why are you still doing it ? Because you're not willing to sacrifice me , you're not willing to exchange .
The old is why it's so important for us to let go , let go of everything that does not , does , does not serve your , your desire , reality .
So , before we start pointing fingers and complaining about this and that and this , you need to ask yourself why am I still holding on to this right now , knowing good and well it is not serving what it is that I want to live ? I must sacrifice , I must let go . This old frequency must be exchanged for a newer frequency .
And in between then , when you let go of the old and the new hasn't come in . We've talked about this before . Go back and listen to the episode . This is the liminal space . This is the space in between , when you ain't there yet , you're not quite yet a butterfly and you ain't a caterpillar anymore , and you're in this in-between stage .
This is where I'm trying to tell you where the growth begins . But first you're going to have to be okay with letting go . So if we start to think of it like if you had two cars , two cars , right , you got a red car , you got a blue car . Blue car is the desired reality . Red car is your old reality .
You can only be in one of those cars at one time . You can have all the cars you want . Look at guys NBA players , nfl players got all these cars . We can only drive one at a time . So which one are you going to drive ? Which one are you going to get in ? You're going to get in the red car or you're going to get in the blue car ?
You've been in the red car . You know the red car ain't going to get you where , been used to it and you know how that car works , meaning you know how those beliefs are . It's familiar . This is why we have a fear of the unknown . We have a fear of the unknown . Raise your hand if you have a fear of the unknown .
If you have a fear of unknown or the uncertainty , it's because you're not willing to sacrifice the old for the new . You're not willing to get out of that red car to get into the blue car . It's dark , I can't see anything . Where's the blue car ? The blue car is there . Just keep walking , just keep moving . You will get there Eventually .
You're going to bump into the car . Okay , there's the door handle . True story . My garage door wasn't opening , my garage door opener was not working . So I would get in my car in the garage when it was and I would get in the car and I'd have to , like , feel around on the car to find the handle . I knew it was there , but I couldn't find it .
I couldn't see it . Do we see how this works ? But I knew it was there . That blue car is there . That desired reality is there . That future life is there . That abundant relationship is there . The prosperity , the health , all of that is there . It's waiting for you , but you're in the dark right now . You can't see it .
And the reason why we can't see it is because we're too caught up in comparing it to the old red car . The door handles ain't in the same place . You over here looking for it in the same place as the red car , meaning you looking for it to look like the old life . It ain't going to look like the old life .
It ain't going to feel like the old life when you move into a new way of being , a new frequency , a new mental and emotional state . It ain't going to
¶ Moving Between Frequencies
be like the last Because , just like those skin cells , it does not create something that is the exact same . It's going to be what's the word ? More refined , more defined , more aware . Does this make sense to you ? So if I know that , on the front end , my job is to make sure that I trust , my job is to make sure that I have faith .
My job is to make sure that I have courage . My job is to make sure that I have clarity . And when I do that , when I can start to do that , here's what's going to end up happening . You're going to start to see that , this constant cycle of exchanging frequencies for realities and realities for frequencies it's going to be like an easy .
What do they call it ? Lazy Susan . You know , lazy Susan , where you just turn around and let me turn this and give you this , it's just going to be like a revolving door , and now you'll start to see how quickly you can transform . So if you look at the Bible , the Bible is telling you this in Matthew 13 , 12 . Form .
So if you look at the Bible , the Bible was telling you this in Matthew 13 , 12 . Remember , jesus said whoever has will be given more and they will have an abundance , and whoever does not have , even they will be taken away from , because this universe is seeking to maintain and magnify whatever frequency you're in .
So if I can keep moving and keep evolving and keep growing , then life will help me to keep evolving and keep growing . And here's what it's going to do . It's going to match you wherever you are at . But here's the work that a lot of people don't want to do . And this is where it gets difficult .
We get comfortable , we get safe , because in that stage of when you are moving from one frequency to the other , there is a lot of uncertainty . There is the unknown , because we don't know , and then we try to hold on to what we know , and that keeps us stuck . That keeps us stunted . You see what I'm saying .
So for you , for everybody here , you can hear me , you have ears and can hear me . This is , for you , what I'm trying to get you to understand , what I'm trying to get you to pick up what I'm dropping off is that at some point in your life you are going to have to sacrifice . And when I say sacrifice , it's not the human way we think of See .
Here's what we've been conditioned to believe that when I say sacrifice , I'm supposed to put myself down less and make myself less than somebody else . I'm supposed to sacrifice my happiness and my emotional and mental well-being for everybody else . That's what we believe sacrifice means . Let me go ahead and be miserable so everybody else can be happy .
That's what you probably think sacrifice means . That ain't what sacrifice means . Sacrifice just means I'm going to exchange this reality for a newer , more aligned reality . So maybe my old reality is I'm a people pleaser . Maybe my old reality is I depend on other people for validation and approval .
Maybe my old reality is I need you to like me because I don't like myself . Reality is I need you to like me because I don't like myself . But the new reality is I'm self-sufficient , I love myself , I honor myself , I see myself , I accept myself , do we see ?
And in order for you to move from that old , unworthy version to this newer , more refined version who sees just a little bit more of myself , I'm going to have to let go of it , I'm going to have to exchange it , I'm going to have to sacrifice it , and I'm here to tell you this . When you can do this , that version of you was waiting for you .
It was waiting for you . That's why I tell you manifestation is instant . Manifestation is instant . I'm teaching manifestation right now . I'm teaching you how to do this , and you look at the last four weeks of these podcasts . This is what I've been trying to teach you .
Manifestation is instant , not instant in the sense you're going to see it in your physical world . That isn't what I'm talking about . It's instant because it's the embodiment of a new frequency .
May I say that again for the people in the back , just in case you didn't understand what I'm saying , because some of us in the spiritual world , in the world of manifestation , we think that it means I manifested and I see it in my physical reality . That isn't what it is . It is the embodiment of an abstract thought .
I am embodying a frequency , and when I do that it will show itself in a physical reality . But the embodiment can happen instantly . Do you hear what I'm saying ? It can happen at a moment's notice . You can go from being down and out to now . All of a sudden I'm walking around like I'm him , instantly .
And if you can hold that consistently , you will then see that in your physical reality . And here's the paradox . We've talked about this . You ain't going to need to see it in your physical reality anymore because you were it already . And once you are it , the desire is gone . You won't even want it anymore . Nobody wants what they already have .
Shall I say that again , nobody wants what they already have . The key was to become it , to be it . But in order to be it , I got to stop being what I was . Good God , almighty , they ain't trying to hear nothing that I'm saying right now .
We over here trying to be something in the future , but you can't be nothing in the future when you still being what you was in the past . I'm over here trying to walk in abundance , but I'm still walking around with the same programs and scarcity and
¶ The Liminal Space
beliefs of the impoverished past . How in the world are you going to be that ? How in the world are you going to be abundant when you're still walking in poverty ? You can't do both now . You can't drive both cars . You might as well figure out which one you're going to get in . Am I going to get in the red one ? Am I going to stay in the red one ?
Am I going to get in the blue one ? That is your choice and this is what I'm trying to tell you . It's a choice . It's a choice . It's a choice .
So some of us I'm not saying everybody , but some of us would rather stay in that old , beat up , crusty red car than , instead of getting in this new blue one that could fly you to the moon and drive you any place , and it was smooth .
Some of us would rather stay in that old , rickety red car Because that's the car that we knew how to drive , that's the car that we've only had .
Some of us , some of us I'm not saying everybody now Some of us would rather stay in that old , beat up red car , all because it was comfortable , all because it was familiar , all because that's what I believed I was capable of . I'm here to tell you , you can get a blue car . And guess what ?
When you get that blue car , if we do it right , that blue car is going to become like a red car . When I'm in that blue car long enough , eventually there's going to be a purple car . And then , when I get used to that purple car , there's going to be a yellow car . Do you see , there's going to be a constant evolution .
There's always going to be another version of you that is waiting . And this , my friends , is what we came here to do . From my perspective of this human game , was to evolve and grow and then see how much we could evolve and grow and then see what kind of experience we could create in this physical reality .
To see could we bring this spiritual , celestial , cosmic understanding into this physical reality , to bring heaven into earth ? Do we see how this works ? So for you to do that , you will have to sacrifice Good God Almighty . Why do you think we look at the story of Jesus ? Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing . Everybody thinks , oh , he sacrificed his life for us .
Why do you think we look at the story of Jesus ? Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing . Everybody think , oh , he sacrificed his life for us . He sacrificed . Do we not understand what the word sacrifice means ? It didn't have nothing to do with death , it didn't have nothing to do with him getting up on a cross . That's what it was about .
It was about the exchange , the exchange of one frequency , of one way of being , of one level of awareness , of one vibration for another that was more aware . But see , here's the issue , here's the issue . We took it literal and we think oh , he died for my sins . He died . What the what does that even mean ? What does that even mean ? Die all the time ?
They die all the time . What does that even mean ? You got to understand the deeper meaning , the deeper meaning so that it would apply to you regardless of your belief . The sacrifice was the exchange , the exchange for a higher awareness . Why do you think he came back ? Why do you think he came back ?
He could walk through walls and they put their hands through him . It was like how's this motherfuckers translucent ? How's he walking ? Because you , when you get to a certain place and a certain level of awareness , you will see that you will transcend every law in this physical world .
You transcend man's laws , you transcend man's understanding , you transcend man's comprehension . So the reason why I'm saying that ? Because a lot of people ain't going to understand why you left your job . A lot of people ain't going to understand why you chose this path . A lot of people ain't going to understand how chose this path .
A lot of people ain't gonna understand how come you don't keep doing that , how come you still don't keep moving and moving in this place of lack . Why don't what ? Because they became familiar with that . They got so used , so used to seeing you in that old , beat-up red car .
Now , now they think there's something wrong with you because you got in a blue car and if we're not careful , we'll start to question whether or not we should have gotten the blue car . But I'm telling you that blue car was waiting for you , that new reality was waiting for you , that desired reality was waiting for you to become it .
That's all life was getting . Good God , almighty , you ain't trying to hear nothing . I'm saying right now you ain't trying to hear nothing . Life is literally looking at you , saying I'm going to show you everything , I will give you everything in this physical reality , but I need you to show me what it feels like . I need you to show me what it feels like .
Imagine that . Imagine life , god , the source , the creator , the universe . Imagine it's saying I'm going to give you , I'll show you , I will manifest anything in this physical reality , but you first need to show me what it feels like . You need to show me what it feels like so I can show you what it looks like . And this is the exchange .
But here's where we get it backwards . We expect life to show us what it looks like before we've shown life what it feels like . So now , here I am , walking around with impoverished , limiting belief , but yet I'm asking life and praying on my knees every day to God . God , please , please , show me the abundance that lives . You ain't going to get it .
You can't . You ain't speaking the language . You're going to have to speak the language . But here's the issue . A lot of us are speaking the language , but we're speaking it to the undesired reality . So we over here complaining that we don't have a job , we complain about the relationship ,
¶ Your Reality Mirrors Your Frequency
we complain we ain't got enough money . You're giving too much energy to the thing that you don't want . So this is what life says . Well , you show me how it feels not to have it . You show me how it feels to go without . So life says well , let me show you what it feels , what it looks like to not have it .
Let me show you what it looks like to go without . Do you see how this works ? And it does not care . That's the first thing we have to understand . Universe don't give a , don't care , because if you look at it , if you look at it , gravity treat everybody just the same . Fire treats everybody just the same , all of these things that are universal .
It treats everybody the same . It don't care what your credit look like .
Gravity don't care what your credit look like , it don't matter how much you weigh , it doesn't matter what you did yesterday , it don't matter whether you were morally or ethically quote unquote right , it does not give a , it does not care , it treats you just like it treats the other person . So life , life is the same way .
But what you don't realize is life is just you , your reality is just you . So before you start looking at what isn't happening , you need to start looking on the inside first , because life is just mirroring the inside .
Life has been sitting here looking at you saying , hey , hey , I'm going to give you everything , but you're going to have to be it first , and I'm only going to give you whatever you are . Let me say this again I'm only going to give you what you are . And you , over here , mad at life , you looking at life , cussing like , oh my gosh , life is so hard .
I can't believe this is happening . I'm not realizing , not realizing that life was just being you because we were too unaware . And this is what it meant to be self-aware .
He who becomes self-aware becomes a self-master , and the one who has self-mastery is the one who can start to master and consciously create his physical reality , because he realized that his physical reality was not separate from him .
So this is why , when I tell you you're going to have to sacrifice , you're going to have to let go of the old way of consciousness , the old way of awareness , in order to have the new . And it's really quite simple . And it becomes this trade and bartering of this evolutionary path that we take , of giving up the old for the new .
And now it's just a transaction , do we see ? And then here's the deal you ready All we're giving up is the old beliefs . All we're doing is giving up the old beliefs , not realizing that our life is just the culmination of whatever we believe , because whatever you believe is truth , and whatever is truth to you will be your reality .
So this is why we don't realize that we all have different realities , because we have different truths , because we have different belief systems .
But when you start to realize that you can create your beliefs however you want , so that they are conducive to the desired reality , now you don't have to walk around complaining about life and how life isn't the way you want . You just had to become aware of the beliefs that you had that did not support the life that you want .
Once I let go of them , I can now replace them . We've talked about this is why it's so hard , though it's hard to do this , and that's just a belief .
It is challenging because you were not aware of your beliefs and life is just trying to show you where all of your beliefs are , and that's what we call triggers , that's what we call hardship , that's what we call struggle and I know , I know it seems like this is this , this and this on the outside , but that ain't it . That ain't it at all .
When you start to realize that life is just trying to show you where you are creating your truths , and then here's the deal it's going to seek to create that , it's going to seek to magnify that , it's going to seek to maintain that Because , remember , it maintains balance . That's what it's seeking to do . So now life shows me whatever I thought I was .
But what I thought I was was unconscious , it was subconscious . So now , because of this , your frequency is distorting your reality to reflect your frequency . Let me go ahead and say that again for the people in the back your frequency distorts reality to reflect your frequency , both the positive and the negative .
So this is why you have to become aware of what you maintain and what you magnify . You're going to have to become aware of what beliefs am I still holding on to . You're going to have to become aware of which car I'm actually sitting in . Am I sitting in the red or am I sitting in the blue ?
All right , whether it's going to move the matrix red pill , blue pill , all right . Red car , blue car Same thing Meaning . Are you going to hold on to the old beliefs that were probably passed down , that were probably taught , that were probably ingrained , or are you going to live through the new ? Or are you going to go out and step out
¶ Creating Heaven on Earth
and not conform and not be like everybody else and not walk in this place of okay . Well , what are people going to think about me ? Who gives a what people think about you ? Who cares ? Why don't you ask yourself what do you think about yourself ? What do you think about yourself ? Ask yourself that , what do I think about me ?
And then you'll start to see , oh my goodness , oh my goodness , it really was just about me developing a belief around who it was I wanted to be . And this is life , and this is the sacrifice that we all must make . You've made sacrifices before . Now , it's about consciously doing this .
And now , because you don't have the need to conform and people , please , now you can start to blaze your own path . You can form your own beliefs . I'm gonna walk my life the way I want Frank Sinatra and his mother . I did it . Own beliefs . I'm going to walk my life the way I want to Frank Sinatra and his mother . I did it my way .
I'm going to do it my way now . I'm going to live my life the way I want to live it now . I'm going to experience my realities the way I want to experience it . So I'm not going to live by mom's perspective of me . Anymore I don't have to hold that belief no more . That was mom's belief . I ain't got to do that no more .
I can look at life and say , man , life is so good to me , everything that I do is just , it just magnifies . And I'm prosperous , and I'm this , and I'm that , I'm healthy . You can develop that belief , you .
I just had to come on here to give you some encouragement , to know that sacrifice is going to be a part of the journey , not sacrifice in the way you've probably been conditioned , but there is going to be an exchange that needs to take place . And give yourself permission to do so along this journey .
Look , I'm doing this in my own life and I'm just teaching you how to do it , how I've been doing it . And there's a feeling of liberation , of freedom , when you know that you can let go of the old that no longer serves you . That's what freedom is . I'm not bound and constrained and limited by my old beliefs anymore . That's freedom .
You can develop your belief system based on wherever you're at , whatever you need for this point of life . Give yourself permission to do so . I can't give you permission . You got to give yourself permission . Go and do it now , because this world has been waiting for you to be everything that you're truly capable of being .
I'm telling you , the world's waiting , waiting . Imagine if every person walked around free . Imagine if every person walked around with a smile on their face and they felt whole and happy . Imagine if every person did that , what this world would look like you can't even imagine , but you will when you start to do it for yourself .
And what if everybody felt what you felt that freedom , that peace , that love , the joy . Oh , my goodness , are you kidding me ? We've just created heaven on earth . That was the goal to begin with . Keep going , keep going . You know I'm here , I'm going to'm gonna be over here .
I'm gonna be over here Clapping for you , cheering you on , telling you yeah , keep going , keep going , keep on going . Don't you stop . And , as always , I wish you nothing but the best On the pathway To your results .
