Everything Is Relative

This episode , if you stay with me here , it can change the trajectory of your life and I don't want to say this , but I'm just going to use human terms . It can be challenging , it can be difficult . Okay , understanding that everything in life is relative .

I know , I know that's hard for the ego to grasp , because the ego had developed this narrative that it was only this and it was only that . This is my trauma , this is my abuse , and it's really hard and life is really challenging and this is really . It's not . It's not at all . Someone said to me he said this healing journey is really hard .

Hard relative to what ? Hard compared to what ? So your life is harder than his ? Why are you comparing your life to his ? Because you have to live your life . You're not living his life . Are we seeing ? Okay , we're going to get real here in a minute . We're going to get real .

I'm going to say some things that's probably going to be hard , for in a minute we're going to get real . I'm going to say some things that's probably going to be hard for you to see . See , I'm using the word hard . It's going to be difficult , it's going to be challenging , but I got to hold you with this A word , this accountability .

When you start realizing that everything in your life is relative , everything , everything is relative , everything . Everything . Your favorite restaurant , your favorite food , that spouse , your marriage , your children , your money , your house , your car , when you add an adjective to it , you have just moved into the realm of relativity .

So if everything's relative , does that mean that there's no absolute ? Great question , d , I think . I mean the only thing that I have found that's universal is this thing that we call energy . Now , how energy is described , that's relative . See , when something's hard , that's because you're living in the frame of the world of duality .

And if I'm living in duality , I'm living in the ego . And if I'm living in the ego , I'm living unconsciously . If I'm living unconsciously , I'm not living as the divine spirit that's dwelling within this physical vessel of whatever the name is , so I'm actually living from a state of awareness .

The moment that I say something is hard , I'm living from a state of unawareness . When I say something is challenging , I'm living in a state of awareness . The moment that I say something is hard , I'm living from a state of unawareness .

When I say something is challenging , I'm living in a state of unawareness when I think something sucks or it's difficult , or I'm poor or I don't have enough . This is the dualistic self , also known as the ego . So when you start understanding that everything is relative , you're the one , you're the one , you're the one who's making this quote-unquote hard .

See , something's only hard when you compare it to something that's easy . Something was only challenging when you compare it to something that was not challenging . Something is only good when you're comparing it to something that's bad . Do you see how this works ? It's all relative . Man , that was hot , hot compared to what ?

Something that was colder 80 degrees is so unbelievably hot , they say . Until we look at the temperature and it's 120 out . That's a 40 degree difference . That's freezing cold . Do you see ? Everything is a sliding scale , everything is relative . So I'm not going to get into the science of it . I know Einstein with the theory of relativity .

But because everything is relative , it's really based on the eye of the observer . It's really based on the location , the frequency , the vibration of the observer . Well , who is the observer ? It was you . So nothing really is until you say that it is and understand that what it is is only relative , based on where you are .

So I hear this a lot with people . We try to argue with people based on their perspective . I look at somebody else's beliefs oh , he voted for Trump . Oh , he likes Biden . Oh , he supports Israel , he supports Palestine . Do we not realize that all of this is relative ?

So we'll get caught up in the unconscious mind and argue about who's right and who's wrong , but we don't even understand that right and wrong were relative . I know that's hard right there .

That's hard for you to grasp in it , that's hard for you to grasp , that is hard for most of us to grasp that there was no good and there was no evil , there was no right and there was no wrong . Well , yes , there is . Murder is wrong . Y'all weren't saying that when we was in Operation Iraqi Freedom .

Y'all wasn't saying that when we was in Operation Iraqi Freedom , y'all wasn't saying that . God , please look after the troops . God , please bless the troops . Well , I thought murder was wrong , because he's going to go over there and kill those insurgents . That's murder , is it not ? Well , but they attacked it . It does not matter .

You're using a projectile to take the life of someone else , is that not the same thing that's happened on the south side of Chicago at a gas station because of a gang war .

Oh , so we have a skewed perspective based off our past experiences , based off of the narrative that we tell ourselves , based off of paradigms that we fell for , but the reality of it is that it was the same doggone thing . Do you see that everything is relative ?

But we don't realize the language that we get programmed with , the language that we use daily to describe this experience is creating us to be unconscious . So when I say that math is hard , science is hard , finances is hard hard compared to what ? Compared to what ? Somebody please tell me . It's hard compared to this , but is it hard compared to that ?

People don't understand this . Morality and ethics is relative . I know I've been to 70 different countries . I've been to countries where women aren't allowed to show their face . I've been to countries where women are treated far less humanely compared to a man and guess what ? That's their laws and they all abide by it . They all live by it .

I never forget when I went to Libya I went to gosh what's the other place Starts with a T Tunisia . I'm in Djibouti , africa , I'm in all these places that the women weren't allowed to . They weren't allowed to show their faces , covering up with burkas . All you could see was their eyes . They used to tell us do not look at them , do not stare at them .

Okay , we're not . Okay , I won't look , dang , but for them that was normal . That's what they did . So this is what's sometimes challenging for us to grasp is that everything is relative . Everything was relative Everything . So I have this conversation a lot of times and this is sometimes challenging .

As a father , I'm telling my kids that you know he's not right , he's not wrong , it's not good , it's not bad , it just is . You're the one who's going to determine the perspective of how you experience , based on where you're at . Relative to where you're at , it's based on your frequency , and your frequency goes up and down .

You see , a frequency is a spectrum . There's a spectrum . There is no top and there is no bottom . It's just ever going up and down and within this column . So this is why everything was relative , because it's relative based to what your level of awareness was , your level of awareness , what your level of awareness was , your level of awareness , yours .

As my father used to say , yosin , everything is neutral , it just is . This is why animals don't have race wars . You see what I'm saying . This is why dogs don't look at the other dogs , but look at him . Got all them spots . Look at that mutt . Look at that mutt over there . Look at him , man , I'm surprised they don't keep on a chain outside .

You see , they don't have the ability to perceive . They don't have this fifth mind muscle that we call perception . They don't have the ability to perceive a situation other than what it is from its past experiences . They don't have this capability , the level that we do . But guess what we'll do Unconsciously ?

We'll take something that happened to us back when we were in fifth grade and we'll unconsciously project it onto somebody else and say look at him , he's wrong with the way he's living his life . Good God , almighty , you ain't trying to hear me .

I'm going to go ahead and go into a space that I haven't gone into , but I'm going to go into it when we sit here and look at someone who maybe gets labeled as being homosexual and we say , oh , they're wrong . Wrong compared to what ? Compared to what ? What are we saying ? Someone's wrong ?

How are you going to say someone else's life , someone else's existence is wrong Relative to what ? So this is the question . Before we judge , this is what judgment is . Judgment is unawareness , without having all of the information , before I look at someone else's life and say they're wrong and they shouldn't be living this way , how about ?

It's less about agreeing with how they live their life or what they're doing , and more about understanding them .

See , by understanding I create understanding , and when I have understanding , I have processed the information , meaning I have carried this situation and been able to extract what it was trying to teach me , instead of me sitting here and judging based off of limited information . So what's the whole point of this ? Cool Life is relative .

Now , what that means if it's relative , it's not concrete , it's not set in stone , it's based on where your level of awareness is . I think Wayne Dwyer said it best . What did he say ? When you smile at life , then life will smile back at you . You're the one . You're the one .

You're the one who's creating it based on where you're at , relatively speaking , and here's what ends up happening . I'm not speaking from the place of the ego , because there's a part of you that has no ill intent , because it operates in the highest vibration , so it won't engage in low vibrational activities .

Notice , when I say vibration , I'm just talking about the rate of motion of the energy . We know , when we have high vibrations of love and light , versus shame and guilt and anger , those are the lower vibrations . The humans may have created a word called anger , called shame . We created the language to describe the energy , but the energy is what was universal .

Energy is what's felt . Somebody asked me the other day what was the best part about playing for the Globetrotters . I said the best part about playing for the Globetrotters was I was able to see the universal language , the universal language of energy . So I could go into a place like Libya , I could go to a place where maybe Americans weren't welcomed .

I can go to a place where people didn't speak English . But there was always this one energy , this one energy that always resonated , that everyone always spoke the same . It was called a smile . A smile . It was a smile . It was that glisten in someone's eye with that light , that infinite spirit coming out . That's what was universal .

And I remember this and I am with the understanding and awareness that I'm at now and I realized , oh my goodness , this was the high vibration and when we moved into a higher state of awareness , meaning we healed past wounds and got rid of the darkness in our life and the past traumas and we created new perspective , it would change our frequency .

So now it changed our level of awareness . It would change everything on the outside , because the relativity where we were at and how we viewed it has changed . And I just realized , oh my goodness , we don't have to have moral laws in place when we know what we actually are . We don't have to have a code of ethics when we know what we are .

Do we see , morals and ethics were man-made , egoic concepts ? But what if we got back to that which we actually are ? And it was irregardless of religion . Religion had nothing to do with it . Religion had nothing to do with it .

Government had nothing to do with it , money had nothing to do with it , meaning it was universal , it was the spirit , it was the I am , it was the indwelling . And I'm not talking about religion right now , I'm not talking about spirituality , I'm talking about universal concepts , consciousness . What if we got back to that ? And that's what we identified as ?

You wouldn't need any laws now , you wouldn't need anything put in place , because everyone knew that which they are . And if I truly identified with that which I actually am , I wouldn't see separation . And now , because I don't see separation , I don't have to compare .

And now , because I don't have to compare , I don't feel like you're going to beat me or I'm going to lose in something , because I realized that there was nothing to win in the first place . Oh wait , hold on . D Is this your campaign for the 2028 election ?

Are you sitting here giving us the formula for how to get rid of war , how to get rid of racism , how to get rid of separation , how to get rid of the wound ? Wait , wait , what you mean ? You're trying to tell us and preach to us , like Jesus was trying to do for us to find the kingdom of heaven . Wait , what ?

Living from a place of oneness , from a place of non-duality . But in order to do that , you would have had to have brought awareness to the dualistic aspects of the perspective being based on the wounds and the traumas that you had experienced that lowered your awareness . Wait , what ? Wait ? Didn't we know this when we were children ?

Yeah , we knew , we knew this before the school system got a hold of us . We already knew this . So when you start understanding that everything is relative , based to where you were at , this is why you see things a little differently now than you did pre-awakening .

You know , when you watch movies , when you watch movies and they hit just a little bit different . You read a book and it just sizzles in your spirit just a little bit more . You may listen to this podcast and go back to season two or season one and be like dang , I didn't even realize he was saying this .

That's because your awareness , your frequency , has changed . So now everything relative will be relative to it . Your hand seemed like it was big when it was right up in your face , but when we zoomed out and we zoomed out and we zoomed out and we zoomed out and it kept zooming and you kept backing up , you started to see really how small it was .

So the reason why I'm saying this I'm speaking life over you . Right now , I don't care what you got going on in life , it doesn't matter what you have this situation . I don't care if you wonder how you're going to pay your bills . You're going to wonder am I even going to live to the next day ? Are my children going to be safe ?

Am I going to have a roof over my head ? Please understand that you still had the ability to zoom out and see everything in a way so that it would not bog you down . You still had that power . It was relative . It was relative . So this is why I keep telling you sometimes we have to zoom out .

Sometimes we got to stop looking at how far we have to go and look back at where we were . Sometimes I got to say , yeah , it's really hard , but you know what ? I'll take this challenge any day . Compared to where I was 10 years ago . Hmm , you know how it is when you get upset and , like dang man , I got this big old tax bill . That tax bill .

There was days where you would have prayed to have a tax bill that big . You would have done anything to be able to have a car payment . That was this much . And now here you are . You got it .

You did anything to be in a relationship , to be in a relationship of this magnitude , to be with someone who loved you and , while it hurts that maybe they've done some of that pain , you would have done anything back in the day just to be where you're at right now . Everything was relative .

So now that I know that everything's relative , it allows me to keep from getting caught up and getting wrapped up in the BS . I'm not getting wrapped up in thinking this is such a big deal . It ain't no big deal . It ain't a big deal . And I say big in air quotes . It's not a big deal . You think it's a big deal . It ain't really a big deal .

It ain't , because you know what . You know what happened . Imagine your spirit , guides , angels , right , and those on the other side . They're looking at you and saying , oh my goodness , she really thinks this is a big deal right now . Is she over here worrying about this ? Huh , hey , metatron , michael , come here , look , look , look , look at her , look at her .

Right now she thinks this is a big deal , right now that they're gossiping about her at work . Look , look , she really thinks this is a big deal . You know what she needs to do . She needs to realize what the bigger deal is , that she don't feel like she's enough and she's seeking their validation and approval .

That's why it hurts her so bad that she feels like she ain't got it . She's over here mad at work , but that's a whole nother situation . We'll leave that for later .

My point of this is this you can move towards the fears when you realize that the fears are relative . You can heal the wounds when you realize that the trauma was relative . I know this is hard sometimes for the ego to hear . You can do all of these things when you realize that it's relative . So now , my job is never to agree or disagree with you .

My job is to understand you , because I understand that you're looking at everything relative to where you are , and where you are in life is not where I am in life , because we're each having our own individual experience , and my job is not to judge you based off of the limited information that I have .

My job is to see you as you are , where you are , because how I see you and where you are will be in direct correlation to how I see myself . Imagine if we did that over in Israel . Imagine if we did this in other countries or within homes , if our job wasn't to look at our children and say how come you haven't got a job that's paying you this much ?

You better go get a second job . How come ? What if , instead , we were able to say , wow , you really enjoy what you do , you love this , and that's a gift relative to where I am , because I'm working a job for the last 40 years that I haven't enjoyed . Wow , do we see how this works ? So remind yourself that everything is relative .

The amount of money that you make is relative . The size of your house , the car you drive , whether or not you think that you're beautiful or pretty that's relative . But I tell you what's not relative and what's not absolute . Sorry , what is absolute is that what you actually are , and I don't have words to describe you .

I don't have words to describe that which I actually am . We're all the same thing . There are no words to articulate it . I can only speak from experience , from my journeys in what we call life , that which you actually are . There was no comparison , there was nothing you could compare it to . There was no words to articulate that which you actually are .

This is what we call the self Find it , know it , know it , be it . And when you embark on this journey , you'll see exactly what DG was talking about . You'll see exactly what he meant when he said he couldn't articulate it . There was no words to fully encapsulate that what you actually are and you'll know it , and maybe you'll feel it for a smidge .

Maybe you won't walk in that energy all day , but you'll feel it for a couple hours . You'll know .

And now you spend the rest of your life seeking to find that , because that's all we were doing anyway , playing this little game of what we call life , trying to find ourselves just a little bit more , just a little bit more , just to see , let me see if I can hide myself and then find it . You know how we do at Easter . Think about it .

Think about what we do with an Easter egg . We take an Easter egg and go hide it in the yard and then go find it . Who does that ? Wait , what what ? We go hide an Easter egg and then go find it . Why are you hiding it for ?

Because the adventure of looking under that trash can and going through that gazebo , you see , this is the microcosm of what we're doing . That's what we're doing . Wait , so I'm forgetting myself so I can find . Yes , yes , because look at all you get to experience , look at all of the relativity . You get to experience the duality . I get to experience it all .

I get to experience the dark and the light . This is the best thing , are you kidding me ? Best , right , the best thing in air quotes . But I get to experience it all of it . Wow , just like when you were a child . See , when you were a child , everything was for the first time . I just got to hold my godson the other day .

I told you he's a couple days old . I said everything is everything right now for you , buddy . You know , when babies get hungry newborns they start to kind of gnaw on their knuckle , their hand , because they're getting hungry . They're trying to say mama , mama , I need that thing in my mouth , I'm hungry , I'm hungry .

He only has what he's been equipped with by nature , but everything is everything . He doesn't look at it and say I'm starving , I'm starving , no , no , no . He doesn't know that . He doesn't look at it and say I'm starving , I'm starving , no , no , no . He doesn't know that he doesn't have anything to compare it to .

Yet this is literally like , probably only like a seventh or eighth meal in this life , you see . So before you say that your life is hard , because when we say something is hard , the mind processes that as being impossible . Before that we say that it's hard . Why don't we speak from universal terms , that 5D language , instead of saying it's hard ? How about ?

This is just going to require more energy . This is going to require more discipline . This is going to require more focus , that's all . Is it hard ? I don't know , comparatively speaking hard compared to who I don't know , but this requires more energy on my behalf . And now you're talking that 5D talk , instead of you saying I can't do something , can't ?

Whoa , that which you are , it doesn't know , can't . So instead of saying can't to program your mind , what if you say I haven't yet , I haven't yet ? You see what we're doing here . Good God , almighty , y'all ain't trying to hear me . This is the difference between the 3D and the 5D . The 3D says I can't . The 3D says it's hard . The 3D says it sucks .

The 5D says I haven't yet Notice the energy . When I say I haven't yet , I haven't yet , that means that there's a choice , and that was the power that you possessed . You had the power to make the choice on how you experienced it . I didn't mean to turn up on you this quick out of nowhere . But you start to see the difference . This isn't hard .

This requires more energy . This isn't . No , I can't do this . I can't what ? I just haven't done it yet . Give me some time and watch what I do . But what if it doesn't work ? Yes , I hear you young ego . But what if it does work ? Yeah , but things are going to happen .

I know there's also going to be a lot of things that move out of my way , so things don't happen as well . Do you see how this works ? Do you see the energy we talk in 5D ? Talk that 5D , not that 3D relativity . When you realize that it's relative , you've moved've moved into 5D . Now you can make a choice .

I can choose now , instead of thinking that it's concrete and it's absolute . So hear me when I say this ain't nothing hard in your life . What if you walked in that energy ? Ain't nothing ? Ain't nothing really bad in your life ? It's really not even dark . It's just dark relative to light . But that darkness is actually light compared to something darker .

What if we walked in that energy ? What if we walked in that energy ? So , even when you're weak , we don't say that I'm not weak . I'm just going through my development period right now . God , almighty , they ain't trying to hear me . You see the difference in how , now , when I'm speaking from that 5D , I'm using language to program the mind .

And remember the mind was where the ego lived . Remember the ego was nothing more than a tool that the spirit was using . So now the infant . I'm speaking from the 5D vibration and I'm programming the mind with 5D frequency .

And when we get the mind on 5D , with the spirit that was already resonated in that , do we not know that one plus two will give us three ? One plus two will give us three . The spiritual plane , the mental plane , will give us the physical plane . And this , my friends , is what we call alignment .

So you know what it is , you know what you got to do , you know what you have to do , you got to realize that everything is relative , everything , everything .

So I'm going to do this with you . We're going to start choosing on where we want to be , relative to our circumstances . So is this hard ? No , it just takes a little bit more focus , a little bit more energy . Was that bad ? No , I just haven't extracted the information yet for me to be able to see how it's helped me . Can you do this ?

It looks like you can't do it . No , I just haven't done it yet . Let me just continue to work on my tools and I'll be able to do it here . Just give me I guess , I don't know . Give me some time . Oh , you failed . No , I haven't failed yet . I'm just still learning . I'm in the process of learning how to do this , but I'm not going to quit .

Do you see the energy ? It's all relative . You make the choice , as always . Please know that you are loved . Please know that you matter . I want to meet you in person , if that's possible . We just released a retreat schedule for the first half of 2025 .

We've got some other things that worked for the second half of 2025 , but 2025 , we've released a retreat schedule . We're going to Tulum three times January , february , march . We've released the retreat schedule . We're going to Tulum three times January , february , march . I'm not saying you have to go all three times , but I know I'm here to help people heal .

I'm here to help people forgive themselves . I'm here to help people remember what they truly were before they picked up these false narratives that appeared real . Get yourself signed up for a retreat . Go to dgmindsetcom or maybe join the Conscious Community by DG Mindset .

It used to be called the Conscious Evolution Community , but people are like I didn't know you had a community . I'm like , oh my gosh , yeah , that's my bad .

I need to figure out how to make things streamlined so you guys can know that , yeah , this is me , so it's the Conscious sorry , it's the Community by DG Mindset , formerly known as the conscious evolution community . Same energy , though Same energy . You're here to help heal , create a space , to help you all to cultivate and find yourself . But keep going .

And , as always , I wish you nothing but the going and , as always , I wish you nothing but the best on the pathway to your results . You .